External Link/Members OnlyI had seen Holly a few times previously and everything had been fine, communication, service etc was all good.
I contacted her for a repeat booking and all was scheduled as usual until a couple of days after making the booking I received a txt message out of the blue saying she’d just had a huge vets bill and then the clutch on her car had failed. She asked if we could either bring the booking forward (it was scheduled for a Saturday night as weekdays aren’t good for me) or if I could pay all or part of the fee in advance.
As until this point everything about her seemed genuine from past meets I agreed to transfer half of the fee in advance and then pay the remainder at the booking. She provided her bank details and I transferred over £200.
I sent a message on aw as normal on the Saturday morning to confirm all was good, which went unread (and still is) and it wasn’t until under 3 hours before the booking time that I received a text saying her dog was being put to sleep in the morning and if she could reschedule. I replied (although expecting this to be a total lie) that a reschedule would be ok, and then heard nothing else.
I sent a message on aw on the Monday night asking if the upcoming Saturday would be ok for the reschedule date and that still remains unread. I sent a txt on the Wednesday asking about the reschedule. Received no response until midmorning on Thursday when I received a very short message saying her battery was low and she’d txt that night. Nothing further was received that day, no surprise there.
I then sent another message on Friday morning saying I assumed the reschedule wasn’t going to happen and that I expect there was no chance she’d refund the money. I finally got some replied on Saturday morning basically saying she had gone off to Suffolk to be with family but would be back on Monday as she was back to work at the air ambulance. I gave her a further benefit of the doubt and replied with some dates that would be ok for the reschedule. No response at all.
I sent another txt on Monday to say that as not hearing anything else back from her that I no longer want to reschedule and asked if she would refund the money or if I’d lost it as originally expected. She replied back finally with loads more excuses etc and promised I wouldn’t lose a penny and I’d be repaid by Friday. Again, no more contact from her until I txt again this morning to say I wasn’t surprised that her saying I’d get the money back by Friday was a lie. Get a response within minutes saying to give her a break as she only went back to work yesterday, followed by another txt saying “Put it this way – assume u have lost it – then when u do get it you will be pleasantly surprised”
I know I’ve lost the money, and I know it was my own fault for trusting her – from previous meetings she didn’t seem the type to be a thief and a liar. I’m not expecting to get it back and have written off the cash as my own stupidity.
Also, when I saw her in the past, and when I made the final booking which didn’t happen, none of the bareback videos or photos in her private gallery were there.