Might be worth another trip to FYEO, perhaps, if they're not so authoritarian anymore. But Secrets is definitely top of my list, hopefully before the end of March.
Yes, that was Vanity, but personally I think some of the coverage was over-exaggerated in order for punters to fraudulently gain chargebacks unfortunately. I'm guessing this wasn't an isolated problem either, which is why Platinum Lace take you into a "payment room" with something like a bright halogen light, a camera in your face and a series of questions to answer with your drivers licence on display, if you try to go over their card payment limit. Without going too deep into the conspiratorial side, perhaps Vanity didn't have as a good a relationship with the council as Platinum Lace and Sophisticats, leading to their downfall. I may be wrong.
But yes, you could pay to have a full-nude girl grind her pussy onto your groin area, but this is not unfamiliar to quite a few places. I can think of a place up in Luton, where I took a mate for his first experience, and his girl did all of the above unrequested. It wouldn't surprise me if this also went on in the VIP rooms of the more mainstream clubs either, though I can't personally verify this yet. I think what made Vanity better was that it was more upfront, rather than the usual push for a dance, vip, champagne, then a finger or two that you get promised by the girls, in the regular places. Hopefully, Sapphire is the same.