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Offline gurds

Anyone with any experience with strip clubs/, gentlemen's clubs that do private lap dances where girl is nude?

What does the lap dance involve in these clubs, is it proper grinding where girl grinds her ass and pussy on your cock while you are clothed. Do they dry hump you non stop throughout the dance?

These type of private lap dances seem to be like 200-250 per 30 mins but can vary. Whole aim really is to cum in your pants at the end but I don't know if this is perceived well or not in these places if you are going for 30 mins or 1 hour.

I know there is a rule for lap dances in UK where you are not allowed to touch the girl but I don't know how much the girls grind on your cock in these places when doing lap dances?


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I don’t mind a bit of tease and titillation but must admit I’ve not been to a strip club since the good old days of Soho rip offs 😂

I always think watching a strip of sorts is akin to being hungry…… so you stand outside a restaurant watching people eat. 😂

Offline gurds

Having enquired more it seems like lot of strip clubs that say lap dance don't really do lap dancing where girl grinds on your crotch.

So it seems no value, maybe better to find an escort that could do a proper lapdance.

Offline myothernameis

Anyone with any experience with strip clubs/, gentlemen's clubs that do private lap dances where girl is nude?

Look through this London strip club 25 pages to read, and on the thread if you dig back a few pages, you will find a venue called Ye Olde Axe.  A very hands on pub, where you could finger, or even go down on the dancer, but sadly the local council closed the pub

Other venues where of same happened but no more, due to council interference

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=211333.0

Offline Hansolo69

Most bona fide lapdancing clubs that want to keep their licence will employ the 3 foot rule.
Girls are not usually allowed to sit on a customer, there should be no touching.

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Offline gurds

Most bona fide lapdancing clubs that want to keep their licence will employ the 3 foot rule.
Girls are not usually allowed to sit on a customer, there should be no touching.

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yh seems silly though as a proper lapdance is supposed to be when a girl grinds on your cock. Otherwise is a waste of money in my view paying for lapdance.

Offline jimbobted

I don’t mind a bit of tease and titillation but must admit I’ve not been to a strip club since the good old days of Soho rip offs 😂

I always think watching a strip of sorts is akin to being hungry…… so you stand outside a restaurant watching people eat. 😂
That's my view too. Basically pay (sometimes not insignificant sum) to basically get frustrated  :lol:. Fit girl strips off, writhes about, shoves her tits and fanny in your face. You want to fuck her but all you can do is sit on your hands  :dash:

Offline LLPunting

yh seems silly though as a proper lapdance is supposed to be when a girl grinds on your cock. Otherwise is a waste of money in my view paying for lapdance.

Look at the licensing laws, contact dancing hasn't been permitted under licenses for many years.  Enforcement has gotten progressively more strict as areas have gentrified or been targeted by activists.  Barring the few exceptions you will have to look abroad in permissive jurisdictions for such clubs for that club experience.  Otherwise as concluded above you can find a girl who will happily "waste" escort time dancing in your crotch.

Offline southcoastpunter

yh seems silly though as a proper lapdance is supposed to be when a girl grinds on your cock. Otherwise is a waste of money in my view paying for lapdance.

That's my view too. Basically pay (sometimes not insignificant sum) to basically get frustrated  :lol:. Fit girl strips off, writhes about, shoves her tits and fanny in your face. You want to fuck her but all you can do is sit on your hands  :dash:
lap dances offer less touching than a few years ago but that is regulation getting tougher and tougher. But lap dance clubs have always been very different to brothels/parlours etc although one or two did offer more than just a sexy dance. But surely, if you want a fuck (rather than a sexy dance) go see a WG.

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I walked past Stringfellows the other day and it got me thinking what a rip off these joints are.

A quick check reveals entry fee of £25 and then £20 per 3 minute dance.  That's £425/hour, or a private room for much the same. Of course, no touching and no HE. So IMO it's much better to book an escort, even if all you want her to do is dance for you while you jack off  :lol:

For those reasons, I haven't been to one of these clubs for a very long time.

Offline gurds

yh, seems torturous as well watching hot girls in a strip club naked dancing and you're not even allowed to have a wank.

Think in other countries like America there are strip clubs where they do proper lapdances until you nut. Think I will just find an escort for a lapdance at some point.

Offline Mr Sinister

I walked past Stringfellows the other day and it got me thinking what a rip off these joints are.

A quick check reveals entry fee of £25 and then £20 per 3 minute dance.  That's £425/hour, or a private room for much the same. Of course, no touching and no HE. So IMO it's much better to book an escort, even if all you want her to do is dance for you while you jack off  :lol:

For those reasons, I haven't been to one of these clubs for a very long time.

Last time I went to the horns and sports bar last year they were asking for £40-60 for a dance couldn't believe it. I didn't find it vfm knowing I could go plough an equivalent WG for the same price plus get a strip tease for nothing.

Pre COVID I used love going to the axe getting a £20 dance being able to touch and rub, 6-7 years ago girls in there were wild some nights

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I walked past Stringfellows the other day and it got me thinking what a rip off these joints are.

A quick check reveals entry fee of £25 and then £20 per 3 minute dance.  That's £425/hour, or a private room for much the same. Of course, no touching and no HE. So IMO it's much better to book an escort, even if all you want her to do is dance for you while you jack off  :lol:

For those reasons, I haven't been to one of these clubs for a very long time.

Gosh who goes? I used to enjoy going to LA confidential in Ealing. Think it was a tenner entry and 10 a dance (this was 20 years ago). I used to spend around 110 Inc drinks. Was mildly amusing if you go with mates quite enjoyed the chat with the girls and then going for a dance. But much better value going to see an escort for an hour.

Mind, I am tempted to try that 23 Paul street place. But then I think why bother.

Offline jimbobted

lap dances offer less touching than a few years ago but that is regulation getting tougher and tougher. But lap dance clubs have always been very different to brothels/parlours etc although one or two did offer more than just a sexy dance. But surely, if you want a fuck (rather than a sexy dance) go see a WG.
Well yeah.
What I meant is that even if you haven't got fucking on your mind, inevitably when you go I to one of those places and a fit lass strips and gyrates for you, you're going to want to fuck her.

Offline penisilin

Based on my experience all UK strip clubs are shit! You go in and are told you can't touch, you can't use your phone, girl can't touch you and all that crap. On the flip side strip clubs in the US and other parts of Europe allow touching and more. I think it's not work going to a strip club in UK even if entry is free

Offline myothernameis

other parts of Europe allow touching and more


I have experienced this in Italy, so basically you pay in 15 min segments at €50 per 15 min.  Any touching and more is done by tipping, and depending on the level of tipping, will get you touching

So the more you tip in one go, determines what the girl will allow, and how much fun you get

Offline myothernameis

seems torturous as well watching hot girls in a strip club naked dancing and you're not even allowed to have a wank.

Club in Glasgow, Legs & Co, which was a pub, lap dancing, and also a adult cinema, and quite a combination

You could get a lap dance for £10/£20, and limited touching, but the girls would up-sell, and suggest you meet them in the cinema.  Where for the right money, you will bring you off, hand or even oral.  Sex was possible, but very expensive, and condoms available in the gents


Offline Scottychap

European clubs allow a lot lot more than UK in my experience, but depends on the country.

I’ve had some good times in UK clubs too though - not sure about this 3 foot rule thing, but there used to be places around Old Compton Street in Soho that you could get a more personal dance. I remember one stag do where we ended up in one, and I connected with one of the girls. Had a couple of dances from her, each getting a bit dirtier, with her sitting on my lap and waving her pussy two inches from my face (but no touching from me). As she was moving around on my lap, she was covertly using her hands to work out what side I was dressing on, and once she’d sussed it was making sure to keep repeatedly squeezing me though my trousers as she changed position. I commented that was torture and she suggested paying for an ‘executive dance’ but it would have to be in the booth two along as it had a broken camera. No idea if that true or not, but there was an exchange of words with the security guy, so I’m assuming they had some arrangement for a cut. Anyway, once in, the executive dance was basically the same as before, but I was allowed to touch grope her a bit (no fingering inside) - then she popped her hand down my trousers and tossed me into my boxers. Was all over in 30 seconds as I was that stimmed by that point. I remember she learnt over me as she did it so that her hair would fall like a curtain and shield what she was doing.

Basically a very expensive wank, but I view it as a different thing to paid sex. You’re paying to be entertained, have a bit of a tease and chase and made to feel a bit special over a number of hours, rather than just paying for a pump and dump

Online Gentlelovemaking

I’ve been to the following strip clubs (all visited this year so a recent report)

Horns (Shoreditch)
Griffen (Shoreditch)
Browns (Shoreditch)
Rainbow (Shoreditch)
Platinum (Lace Piccadilly)
Platinum Lace (Leicester Square)
Honeypot (Maidenhead)

Addressing your point about grinding, in the Shoreditch spots no apart from Rainbow and that’s dancer dependent.
In Honeypot and Platinum Lace again it’s dancer dependent but possible.

As for touching, I don’t touch unless asked or told to. I’ve been encouraged to touch in all clubs but this is danger dependent id never initiate it cold.

They will all sell you the VIP rooms first and as for cumming in your boxers I’ve never had or wanted that experience. I’ve never been dry humped either but imagine that’s something you could get from the right girl but perhaps you’d have to build up rapport and get a VIP room to get to that level.

I go to stop clubs for the vibe and to talk to loads of women and have a drink with them. I usually go when I’m in a relationship as it’s safe and satisfies my desire to have multiple women without engaging in anything.

If I wanted to pop an escort is definitely the best way to go.

Offline Jamesbattersea

Rainbow Sports bar in Shoreditch used to be my favourite, haven't been there for a couple of years but you used to give them a 20 quid tip and you could touch and lick. I was pissed on a work trip once and rimmed this lovely little slighty chubby Spanish girl!! The stupid things you do when you're pissed and horny ah!!!  ;)

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Rainbow Sports bar in Shoreditch used to be my favourite, haven't been there for a couple of years but you used to give them a 20 quid tip and you could touch and lick. I was pissed on a work trip once and rimmed this lovely little slighty chubby Spanish girl!! The stupid things you do when you're pissed and horny ah!!!  ;)

Some ladies say you can touch in Rainbow I do agree. It’s about £60 now for a dance there though.

Offline sammathy

Gosh who goes? I used to enjoy going to LA confidential in Ealing. Think it was a tenner entry and 10 a dance (this was 20 years ago). I used to spend around 110 Inc drinks. Was mildly amusing if you go with mates quite enjoyed the chat with the girls and then going for a dance. But much better value going to see an escort for an hour.

Mind, I am tempted to try that 23 Paul street place. But then I think why bother.

23 Paul Street's got a grand piano on the 3rd or 4th floor behind a hidden door, in a boudoir type room, if I remember correctly. Ran by a bunch of Brazilians so I suspect it's like Albermarle in that girls are otc if they like you, even though I didn't push the agenda because I'd planned in an afterparty cab driver for that night. Full price list on their website which is helpful.

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23 Paul Street's got a grand piano on the 3rd or 4th floor behind a hidden door, in a boudoir type room, if I remember correctly. Ran by a bunch of Brazilians so I suspect it's like Albermarle in that girls are otc if they like you, even though I didn't push the agenda because I'd planned in an afterparty cab driver for that night. Full price list on their website which is helpful.

I visited 23 Paul street a couple of weeks ago, great club and perhaps the most unique strip club I’ve visited.

When you say OTC can you be explicit here ?

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I visited 23 Paul street a couple of weeks ago, great club and perhaps the most unique strip club I’ve visited.

When you say OTC can you be explicit here ?

Care to share your expectations? I'm interested in knowing how much you spent.. what's the place and girls are like.  I am considered popping in for an hour or so there.

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Care to share your expectations? I'm interested in knowing how much you spent.. what's the place and girls are like.  I am considered popping in for an hour or so there.

I had 1 dance for £40 on the first floor and a second 15minute dance in one of the private rooms. Along with Stringfellows it probably has the most refined clientele.

I’ll be back for sure to see one dancer in paticular.

The ambiance and style of the club is different to any other I’ve been to, the music is relaxing and the ambiance is relaxed. The host asked me what I wanted to drink and gave me a glass of water as well (similar to a high end restaurant). Once I decided who I like the host brought her over to me and had a dance as I came down I saw another girl who was busy when I fist got in and altered the hostess to and we spoke before going to a 15min dance.

I’d note that the £40 dance was topless only and the 15min £150 dance was fully nude.

Offline sammathy

I visited 23 Paul street a couple of weeks ago, great club and perhaps the most unique strip club I’ve visited.

When you say OTC can you be explicit here ?

Yeah sure. Idk if Albermarle is still open, but it was just like a Japanese hostess bar. I was even encouraged to take girls back to my hotel for a fee, if I so wished. The same was hinted at 23 Paul Street, but less overtly. I guess it's a thing at quite a few clubs, because a girl at the Honeypot in Maidenhead gave me her number after I took her to VIP at 4am, keeping them open :D. Nothing came from that unfortunately. But I prefer the randomness of the places pedicab drivers take you with illicit substances and a line up of girls to choose from, for now.

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Yeah sure. Idk if Albermarle is still open, but it was just like a Japanese hostess bar. I was even encouraged to take girls back to my hotel for a fee, if I so wished. The same was hinted at 23 Paul Street, but less overtly. I guess it's a thing at quite a few clubs, because a girl at the Honeypot in Maidenhead gave me her number after I took her to VIP at 4am, keeping them open :D. Nothing came from that unfortunately. But I prefer the randomness of the places pedicab drivers take you with illicit substances and a line up of girls to choose from, for now.

I did take one strippers number at 23 Paul Street and she said it’s allowed there. I haven’t messaged her yet for OTC but commended her skills and said I’d message her when I want to revisit to ensure she’s there. Based on this I’d imagine OTC is available if the stripper likes you.

I’d also I believe that is possible with perhaps 50% of strippers you frequent who like you but you have to get there number in a covert way.

I have been to Secrets Hammersmith last week and they have a no phone on the floor policy so it’s not possible there but others you can if you’re subtle with it.

Online Gentlelovemaking

I’ve been to the following strip clubs (all visited this year so a recent report)

Horns (Shoreditch)
Griffen (Shoreditch)
Browns (Shoreditch)
Rainbow (Shoreditch)
Platinum (Lace Piccadilly)
Platinum Lace (Leicester Square)
Honeypot (Maidenhead)

Addressing your point about grinding, in the Shoreditch spots no apart from Rainbow and that’s dancer dependent.
In Honeypot and Platinum Lace again it’s dancer dependent but possible.

As for touching, I don’t touch unless asked or told to. I’ve been encouraged to touch in all clubs but this is danger dependent id never initiate it cold.

They will all sell you the VIP rooms first and as for cumming in your boxers I’ve never had or wanted that experience. I’ve never been dry humped either but imagine that’s something you could get from the right girl but perhaps you’d have to build up rapport and get a VIP room to get to that level.

I go to stop clubs for the vibe and to talk to loads of women and have a drink with them. I usually go when I’m in a relationship as it’s safe and satisfies my desire to have multiple women without engaging in anything.

If I wanted to pop an escort is definitely the best way to go.

I’m adding the following strip clubs to the list as I’ve visited them since writing the above
For Your Eyes Only (New Old Street)
Secrets (Hammersmith)
Majingos (LimeHouse)
Whites (Near Aldgate)
Metropolis (Near Cambridge Heath station)
Stringfellows ( near Leicester square)
23 Paul Street (Shoreditch/Old Street)

Any questions about theses establishments ask away.
« Last Edit: March 09, 2025, 11:50:02 am by Gentlelovemaking »

Offline Chanon

Of course, there's always 'the place' in Dalston.  No limits on touching (with fingers OR with cock).
It's a mystery where it is, and how to get access to it. But it does exist, and for the regulars they like to keep it a little secret so that Old Bill don't feel obliged to attend and close it all down.

However, there are sufficient hints in this website, and via google, that should enable anyone motivated enough to discover its pleasures. That's how I found my way there and why I keep on returning.

Enjoy!

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Yeah sure. Idk if Albermarle is still open, but it was just like a Japanese hostess bar. I was even encouraged to take girls back to my hotel for a fee, if I so wished. The same was hinted at 23 Paul Street, but less overtly. I guess it's a thing at quite a few clubs, because a girl at the Honeypot in Maidenhead gave me her number after I took her to VIP at 4am, keeping them open :D. Nothing came from that unfortunately. But I prefer the randomness of the places pedicab drivers take you with illicit substances and a line up of girls to choose from, for now.
Might be best if you keep your druggie habits to yourself mate, it's against the rules on here.

Offline sammathy

I did take one strippers number at 23 Paul Street and she said it’s allowed there. I haven’t messaged her yet for OTC but commended her skills and said I’d message her when I want to revisit to ensure she’s there. Based on this I’d imagine OTC is available if the stripper likes you.

I’d also I believe that is possible with perhaps 50% of strippers you frequent who like you but you have to get there number in a covert way.

I have been to Secrets Hammersmith last week and they have a no phone on the floor policy so it’s not possible there but others you can if you’re subtle with it.

I've never been to Secrets before, but it sounds a lot like FYEO, in regards to the mobile phone policy. The usual phone out to contactless pay for the drinks could work a treat there if the girl you're with is on the ball :yahoo: Have you been to the new rebrand Sapphire, on Carlisle Street? If it's anything like how Vanity was, then OP will be in for a treat.

@daviemac Apologies, won't happen again!
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I've never been to Secrets before, but it sounds a lot like FYEO, in regards to the mobile phone policy. The usual phone out to contactless pay for the drinks could work a treat there if the girl you're with is on the ball :yahoo: Have you been to the new rebrand Sapphire, on Carlisle Street? If it's anything like how Vanity was, then OP will be in for a treat.

@daviemac Apologies, won't happen again!

I had no issues using my phone at FYEO, Secrets is the only one I’ve been to where the security came to me and said put your phone away inside the club. The others just don’t want you filming buy you can use your phone otherwise.


I haven’t been to Sapphire yet, I plan to go to Sophisicats in Soho and Katz in Basildon so will add it to the list.

Wasn’t Vanity the club that had numerous complaints where customers said they were being robbed and it was reported in the news somewhat akin to the movie Hustlers?

Offline sammathy

Might be worth another trip to FYEO, perhaps, if they're not so authoritarian anymore. But Secrets is definitely top of my list, hopefully before the end of March.

Yes, that was Vanity, but personally I think some of the coverage was over-exaggerated in order for punters to fraudulently gain chargebacks unfortunately. I'm guessing this wasn't an isolated problem either, which is why Platinum Lace take you into a "payment room" with something like a bright halogen light, a camera in your face and a series of questions to answer with your drivers licence on display, if you try to go over their card payment limit. Without going too deep into the conspiratorial side, perhaps Vanity didn't have as a good a relationship with the council as Platinum Lace and Sophisticats, leading to their downfall. I may be wrong.

But yes, you could pay to have a full-nude girl grind her pussy onto your groin area, but this is not unfamiliar to quite a few places. I can think of a place up in Luton, where I took a mate for his first experience, and his girl did all of the above unrequested. It wouldn't surprise me if this also went on in the VIP rooms of the more mainstream clubs either, though I can't personally verify this yet. I think what made Vanity better was that it was more upfront, rather than the usual push for a dance, vip, champagne, then a finger or two that you get promised by the girls, in the regular places. Hopefully, Sapphire is the same.

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FYEO is currently being refurbished so the full club isn’t in use. Still enough to have fun but it’s very quiet in there. The outside currently has scaffolding which perhaps makes it less viable for random walk ins.

As for the private rooms, I’d always say punters should be mindful that it’s a sales tactic and they will always start selling you the VIP room. I’ve been in there and would say firmly you won’t be getting any real action in there (Axe was perhaps the only known place it could be done and we all know how that ended).

Some clubs allow more touching than others and some women encourage it in some clubs but don’t let strippers sell you the dream of a wild ride in there.

Online Gentlelovemaking

Of course, there's always 'the place' in Dalston.  No limits on touching (with fingers OR with cock).
It's a mystery where it is, and how to get access to it. But it does exist, and for the regulars they like to keep it a little secret so that Old Bill don't feel obliged to attend and close it all down.

However, there are sufficient hints in this website, and via google, that should enable anyone motivated enough to discover its pleasures. That's how I found my way there and why I keep on returning.

Enjoy!

Can anyone give me hints tips on finding the Dalston place?

Offline jimbocrosser


But yes, you could pay to have a full-nude girl grind her pussy onto your groin area, but this is not unfamiliar to quite a few places. I can think of a place up in Luton, where I took a mate for his first experience, and his girl did all of the above unrequested.

Is this place in Luton still open? Might be worth a trip even to Luton for that kind of dance  :lol:

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I visited Sophisticats soho yesterday
£25 entry and I didn’t have to pay for a table and was given a front row seat. I was dressed to the 9’s so probably looked like I’d spend loads but only got 2 dances for £60 each. The dances were on the floor and not in a stable or room. I thought this wasn’t the best and the lack of privacy made it pointless but I still had a second dance.

They had 2 girls at a time dancing which I liked and thought was unique. This club has the most black/mixed dancers I’d seen and will have to say they were good looking

I reckon I won’t go back purely because you have to go to the VIP to get a private dance but having said that the women are good looking but as with all strippers if you dont instantly politely decline them they get annoyed they say with you so you buy them a drink and leave a tip (they still attempt to shame you for being broke but that’s part of the sell).


Offline knownassteve

They're not IN London (but are easily reached on the c2c), but Katz, and Mac's Bar in Basildon are hidden gems. Mac's Bar had the "Ye Olde Axe" feel about when I went... Honestly the closest I've had to the Axe since it closed.

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They're not IN London (but are easily reached on the c2c), but Katz, and Mac's Bar in Basildon are hidden gems. Mac's Bar had the "Ye Olde Axe" feel about when I went... Honestly the closest I've had to the Axe since it closed.

Katz is on my radar but getting C2C back to London at 2am in the morning doesn’t seem realistic