Play the field or have a regular?

[hsl]

It always intrigues me why people have regulars. I'm new to this game (as mentioned in my other threads) but my opinion is that if I'm paying for it, then I want variety. I haven't been back to the same WG yet (and don't plan to), even though there are a few that I am more than happy to return to. There are obvious risk to this plan (bad punt, health risk etc) but can't see why I should change. Any one happy to share their experience?

[smiths]

It always intrigues me why people have regulars. I'm new to this game (as mentioned in my other threads) but my opinion is that if I'm paying for it, then I want variety. I haven't been back to the same WG yet (and don't plan to), even though there are a few that I am more than happy to return to. There are obvious risk to this plan (bad punt, health risk etc) but can't see why I should change. Any one happy to share their experience?

Having both regulars and punting with newbies to me is my ideal. A good regular gets to know how i like things and can enhance my punts. They are also a great plan B option if plan A goes tits up in my experience. However, sooner or later i will get bored and go elsewhere.

Newbie WGs to me hold an initial risk of course which a good regular doesnt, i require variety though, one of the main reasons i punt so a mixture of both suits me.

[Anadin]

I'm new to this too so I'm not all that interested in a regular right now but already I can feel myself getting tired of finding new WGs. It's only been a few months but even with the well reviewed escorts I go for I still get messed around a bit and I think I'd quite like someone reliable and nearby to see regularly.

[Toshiba]

A good regular is ideal, for many reasons.

If shes good theres no risk, and if she does all the things you want then its the perfect arrangement, by all means if you want another punt with another WG then its fine, but a good regular solves a lot of my needs, and speaking from experience they get to know the sex, you get extras, longer time, unrushed and flexible, you get an all round better service and the punt is better as you have less nerves.

But make her not too regular, and do have someone different every now n then

[ianvilla]

I tend to agree with most that smiths has said, but will add that regulars tend to be convenient for the time I have to punt. Where the ever decreasing number of "playing the field" options that come up to the minimum requirements require me to travel further and further. This in turn makes the regular much more appealing or sometimes a foolish drop in standards when "playing the field". 

[circusbizarre]

if you have a regular keep her at arms length, I prefer not to

[Silver Birch]

Sometimes when I am driving to a wg for the first time and it is an easy journey (I don't punt on my doorstep), parking is not a problem, I often think to myself, "If this girl is good, she could become a regular".

In reality, only one wg has had 3 visits, a handful have had 2 (and a couple of those punts were amazing), but then I am back to choosing from my hotlist.

I don't think a regular is for me.

[cornbeefinspector]

i like to do both, I find a reg girl knows what you want, and gets on with it, and they are more friendly and relaxed
(they worry about new clients as well)

but sometimes I want the extra excitement of a new girl, sadly they dont all work out great !!

[kenw1]

I prefer a regular as they get to know my likes which enhances my enjoyment every time I see her.

I have had over 85 punts and the ones with a regular to me are the best.

In my early years of punting I saw a girl whose profile looked good only but she just laid on the bed and pointed to her pussy and said get on with it, at the end on my time she said that she would give me a discount in future.
I did not return as even if sex was free, I cannot remember her name but it was some thing like sexycharlie or similar name.

I have had 2 plan B and they were disappointing.

[Daffodil]

I much prefer 'playing the field', but lack of options will sometimes force my hand to return to a previous conquest.

[vorian]

A mixture of the two seems best for me but I probably would lean to having regulars if I had to choose.

[Toshiba]

And where i said no risk i meant the punt being shite

[CBPaul]

Sometimes when I am driving to a wg for the first time and it is an easy journey (I don't punt on my doorstep), parking is not a problem, I often think to myself, "If this girl is good, she could become a regular".

In reality, only one wg has had 3 visits, a handful have had 2 (and a couple of those punts were amazing), but then I am back to choosing from my hotlist.

I don't think a regular is for me.

+1, you've just described exactly what I do.

[Gordo987]

Big 'if', but if I did get the right one, with the right looks, right attitude and right price, I would become a regular. Seen a (very) few that tick all these boxes over the years, but they were all 'here today gone tomorrow' and for that reason I've only seen two girls more than once, both times by accident. 

[sumertime]

It is good to have a couple of "Seen before" in hand as plan b and plan c should an arrangement fail.... A couple of times in the past when faced with a last minute disapointment I have made a quick visit to AW and picket something near... and generally ended with a poor punt!
                                       

[The President]

How is a regular less risk then a first punt? 

Edited - oops read on - see its punt not std - but I have had shit punt second/third time when first was awesome - tbh it can be how you feel too

[vorian]

How is a regular less risk then a first punt? 

Edited - oops read on - see its punt not std - but I have had shit punt second/third time when first was awesome - tbh it can be how you feel too

It reduces the risk not eliminates it, for example you know if the profile is accurate and the prossy looks in real life as you expected her to.

[Blacksealz]

Playing the field, punting with prossies from around the world is a major turn on as I will hardly be visiting most of these places let alone fucking their women.

[yourgent]

Sometimes when I am driving to a wg for the first time and it is an easy journey (I don't punt on my doorstep), parking is not a problem, I often think to myself, "If this girl is good, she could become a regular".

In reality, only one wg has had 3 visits, a handful have had 2 (and a couple of those punts were amazing), but then I am back to choosing from my hotlist.

I don't think a regular is for me.

Ditto for me

[willie loman]

I wonder if being in a relationship would influence your choice, not to mention how rich you were, I stick to a couple of regulars, and a new girl once a month, sort of squad rotation. A regular should in my view give you a better deal, either financially or service wise.

[dilettante]

I usually think new girls are totally amazing and plan to only see them from then on - but then little things start niggling at me like this, this, this they didn't do that they should have, plus the constant feeds of lustful content from AW and this site and the realisation that you can never REALLY have a true GFE, so in practice I've never visited the same girl more than twice apart from one I never intend to go back to again.

[Ongbak]

Last year I seen a WG 3 times and each time was better than the last. I had her down as a possible regular but I went to see her last month and she was a completely different person, no enthusiasm at all so unfortunately had to strike her off.

It might be a while until I find a regular as I like the excitement of visiting a WG for the first time so I tend to only visit them once. A few I have visited a second time but at the moment I'm currently going through what my area has to offer, but that may come to an end as after I've blacklisted the profiles that don't appeal to me I'm left with a page and a half of profiles.

[haystacks79]

Regulars only for me these days, and I was never particularly looking for variety, but a couple that I felt comfortable with, so that I could learn to relax with the idea of sex again.

In total in 2 and a bit years I've seen just 5 girls, 2 of which have become regulars that I've seen many times now. I'm comfortable with them, they seem comfortable with me, and it's been good.

Punting is a rarity for me now, for a number of reasons, so for me it's good to know that when I can manage to arrange something that there's someone that I can rely on, and don't have to worry about being messed about.

[Johny Stone]

A good regular is ideal, for many reasons.

If shes good theres no risk, and if she does all the things you want then its the perfect arrangement, by all means if you want another punt with another WG then its fine, but a good regular solves a lot of my needs, and speaking from experience they get to know the sex, you get extras, longer time, unrushed and flexible, you get an all round better service and the punt is better as you have less nerves.

But make her not too regular, and do have someone different every now n then

my thoughts exactly

[ulander]

I have three people I see "regularly", by which I mean every 4 or 5 months.  But I have been seeing them all for several years.  As others have said, they are great for a Plan B, when you've been let down at the last moment or whatever.  And sometimes you just feel like something warm, friendly and familiar.  But most of the time I crave the excitement of variety.  So you have the occasional indifferent or poor punt.  But I'm happy to pay that price for the adrenalin rush of driving to a meeting with someone I've never seen or spoken to before, knowing that in a few minutes time we're both going to be stark naked and fucking.  Can't beat it.

[willbred]

It always intrigues me why people have regulars. I'm new to this game (as mentioned in my other threads) but my opinion is that if I'm paying for it, then I want variety. I haven't been back to the same WG yet (and don't plan to), even though there are a few that I am more than happy to return to. There are obvious risk to this plan (bad punt, health risk etc) but can't see why I should change. Any one happy to share their experience?

When I myself was new to this game and indeed until relatively recently, I "played the field" never going back to the same one twice. More recently, I've enjoyed seeing a small number of regulars - we don't have to waste time checking each other out, I can enjoy a lot of different things, especially with the one. But, at the end of the day, I've still got my eyes open for a fresh experience..or potential new regular!

[magpiejon]

A good regular is ideal, for many reasons.

If shes good theres no risk, and if she does all the things you want then its the perfect arrangement, by all means if you want another punt with another WG then its fine, but a good regular solves a lot of my needs, and speaking from experience they get to know the sex, you get extras, longer time, unrushed and flexible, you get an all round better service and the punt is better as you have less nerves.

But make her not too regular, and do have someone different every now n then

 Agree entirely, the one I see buys outfits and toys at my request and all at her expense. We have quite a menu of things that we do so no two punts are the same and I regularly have two hour punts and cannot fit it all in. I still see other girls in-between but even some of these are girls i have seen before, I find it very tedious now searching through AW for a new girl. The first punt with the regular was good but I've had better, what caught my attention was her attitude and her eagerness to please. The second time she had remembered things from the first and it just progressed from there getting better and better.

[vorian]

Agree entirely, the one I see buys outfits and toys at my request and all at her expense. We have quite a menu of things that we do so no two punts are the same and I regularly have two hour punts and cannot fit it all in. I still see other girls in-between but even some of these are girls i have seen before, I find it very tedious now searching through AW for a new girl. The first punt with the regular was good but I've had better, what caught my attention was her attitude and her eagerness to please. The second time she had remembered things from the first and it just progressed from there getting better and better.

That is pretty much my current situation,  however I am also very aware that she could disappear tomorrow never to return. So I will also always be interviewing new WG's for future reference. Never put all your eggs in one basket.

[Toshiba]

A regular doesnt become boring because its a punt, they do everything you want out of sex because thats why you go back, great sex is addictive.

I get the thrill of new, i really do but having a regular is a great comfort, but it must be kept as a punt and never get involved in their or your life

[pierrot]

Back in the pre internet days of newsagents windows and shitty little liner ads in your local rag if you found a good one you tended to stick, well at least I did, the net arrived along with pics, reviews and all we have today, now I only see a girl once or twice then move on.

[blackburnian]

For many years I never saw the same girl twice,loved the variety,had a fair few crappy punts as a result too.
Now I've changed my approach for three main reasons, the lack of interesting new girls on AW , a desire for every punt to be as good as the best ones I've had and a lack of punting opportunities meaning a good regular who can fit you in at short notice is handy  .
That said finding a good regular who is willing to change something on every other punt so you don't get bored is tricky, many girls also get complacent or too familiar.

Blackburnian

[mattylondon]

Sometimes when I am driving to a wg for the first time and it is an easy journey (I don't punt on my doorstep), parking is not a problem, I often think to myself, "If this girl is good, she could become a regular".

In reality, only one wg has had 3 visits, a handful have had 2 (and a couple of those punts were amazing), but then I am back to choosing from my hotlist.

I don't think a regular is for me.

I concur too. That tends to be my modus too. I tend to revisit no more than 2 -3 times. 

[Rochdull lad]

I think my OCD [or something similar] may be responsible for my punting routine, which is more or less as follows:

[e.g.] Jan; April; July; October:  See Regular A.
[e.g.] Feb; May; August; Nov:   See Regular B.
[e.g.] March; June; Sept; Dec:  "Audition" someone new from AW, in case either of the Regulars retires or, for whatever reason, no longer ticks all the right boxes.

[the_exile]

I have three people I see "regularly", by which I mean every 4 or 5 months.  But I have been seeing them all for several years.  As others have said, they are great for a Plan B, when you've been let down at the last moment or whatever.  And sometimes you just feel like something warm, friendly and familiar.  But most of the time I crave the excitement of variety.  So you have the occasional indifferent or poor punt.  But I'm happy to pay that price for the adrenalin rush of driving to a meeting with someone I've never seen or spoken to before, knowing that in a few minutes time we're both going to be stark naked and fucking.  Can't beat it.

I used to see 3 girls regularly - at least one of them every month - when I punted more, and it was great - friendly girls, fun meetings, good sex. Punt rarely now, tend to go to the same place so might see a girl who's worked there before but sometimes it'll be someone new. I think this works out OK if you are fairly experienced & "know the score". Agreed, it can be very exciting when you don't know the girl, maybe haven't even seen her before - until you go up the stairs!

[hsl]

I do see the benefit of having a regular... but the nearest good punt (in my limited experience) is about 50 min drive. Nothing local (yet). I guess it's a matter of finding the right one. Then there's a matter of attachment (emotionally?)... hmm. Not sure. It is a paid service, but I guess being human, when you have been back enough you will build up some kind of feelings for the WG. That's a big danger for me. I'm only doing this because I'm not getting much at home (if any).

[overhead]

Regular whenever possible for me.

I find looking for a new girl a real ordeal these days. Takes months sometimes because most of them are so bad in one respect or another.

[Garden69]

The adrenalin rush of meeting a girl for the first time is great but on balance if you can find a regular you can avoid many disappointments. A bit of both works for me !

[hsl]

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=24251.0

After my terrible experience with a supposedly good WG today, I am in desperate need of a regular in Nottingham!

[Bootleg]

I am a fan of regulars but decent ones are hard to come by. I have only had two in 15 years of punting. I saw one for 6 years and the other for 3. I thought I had found another recently but after a great first meet she rushed me on the second. I gave her another chance but got the impression that she just wanted me to cum asap so struck off the list. Not sure why girls do this as if she had maintained her standards from the first meeting I would have probably seen her once a month which would have netted her £1000 per annum for six hours work - daft cow 

[Freddie55]

 Im in the mixed camp. I prefer to have 1 or 2 regulars; who I can meet at short notice. But every 6 months or so, i play the field. To check out the newbies, especially ebony girls.
 Im always out for a new regular. Eg, Ive been seeing Laura for 3 yrs. But during the last few months she has put on lots of weight - about 2/3 stone and its around her tum! Its harder to fuck but she gives a great blowjob. So next week Im trying out 3 new gals on AW. Also my favourite, Lizzie, emigrated to the States in Oct.
 A regular can be good for easy bookings, extra time and even discounts! The negative is the sex can be stale and comfy like with the missus! So a new young girl in sexy lingerie can get the juices flowing.
  Freddie.

[Horizontal pleasures]

I much prefer 'playing the field', but lack of options will sometimes force my hand to return to a previous conquest.

+1
also geography and opportunity take me back to a regular, especially if I have her phone number.

[tazz]

If you find a women that satisfies you in every way and is always happy to see you id keep seeing her. Only problem ive found is you may fall in love with her and want her as your partner. Also shes often not going to be available when you want her and you end up seeing another wg.

[Daffodil]

If you find a women that satisfies you in every way and is always happy to see you id keep seeing her. Only problem ive found is you may fall in love with her and want her as your partner. Also shes often not going to be available when you want her and you end up seeing another wg.

It's a bit naive to think she is always happy to see you. At most, she is always happy to see your money.

I fear, tazz, that you are one of these punters who see punting as more than you should. It isn't dating and you sure as hell shouldn't be falling in love with these women.

[Horizontal pleasures]

It's a bit naive to think she is always happy to see you. At most, she is always happy to see your money.

I fear, tazz, that you are one of these punters who see punting as more than you should. It isn't dating and you sure as hell shouldn't be falling in love with these women.

no but they can become friends even within the commercial nature of the meeting. As it happens Rochdull lad and I both became friendly with a lovely lady so we know it can be done. It would exaggerate to call her regular as she was not very nearby. But it would not exaggerate to call to call her a friend.

[GrumpyoldGit]

no but they can become friends even within the commercial nature of the meeting. As it happens Rochdull lad and I both became friendly with a lovely lady so we know it can be done. It would exaggerate to call her regular as she was not very nearby. But it would not exaggerate to call to call her a friend.

I totally agree with HP.

I too have become very good friends with my regular.
We very often meet for a chat or coffee. Yes I do pay for the punting side, but always get extra time and a great atmosphere.
I quite often just give her lift, and have a good chin wag along the way.

[Rochdull lad]

The WG HP refers to is now retired; but she and I are still in e-mail contact and when she's over her chemotherapy, I intend going to the nearest city to where she lives so I can take her out for a meal to celebrate that.

I'm in the same position as GrumpyoldGit with regards to one of my Regulars.  We meet from time to time purely [ ] for a "social meeting", catching up as two friends would do, and splitting the lunch bill.

I know such conduct would appal some posters on here but I think it just goes to show how disparate a group we are.

[Ben4454]

If I wanted a regular i'd get a girlfriend.

I like the adventure of having a new woman whenever I want without no strings or attachments being the main reason why I punt.

[Horizontal pleasures]

I like the adventure of having a new woman whenever I want without no strings or attachments being the main reason why I punt.

I go for the best of both worlds.

[SirFrank]

Sometimes when I am driving to a wg for the first time and it is an easy journey (I don't punt on my doorstep), parking is not a problem, I often think to myself, "If this girl is good, she could become a regular".

In reality, only one wg has had 3 visits, a handful have had 2 (and a couple of those punts were amazing), but then I am back to choosing from my hotlist.

I don't think a regular is for me.

Yeah that's me too. I'm a bit like a kid in a sweet shop. I want to try everything if you know what I mean

[Urban_G]

Nothing wrong with having both.

I think variety is quite important, but whether it's a well recommended girl or you're 'TOFTT' you never know if you will click and you may end up having a few bad punts on the trot.

Having regulars has produced the better punting experiences for myself. Firstly, they can be short lived, so best grab those great punts while you can. Secondly, if you have a regular tucked away somewhere, and you have a bad experience testing the market, you know can 'redeem' that by visiting your regular.