Morning gents, apologies for wading onto the Northern side of the forum. I know some people do not like outsiders
Anth, we have had discussions in the past on the other site and it really is up to the admin whether he decides to keep the ban or not. After reading your post I however would like to note the following;
1. By your own admission, you tried to prevent a punter from writing a negative review about a WG you clearly have EAS for which goes against the ethos of this forum. One wonders how many times you have done this to be honest.
2. You appear to not know the difference between punting and dating. You do not pay to fuck your friends or pay for the privilege of having them around you.
3. You have provided evidence of the conversations you have had to prove your side of the story but have provided no evidence to back up the claim that madison outed anyone.
4. Considering the way madison reacted on the other site to a WG outing a punter and outing her own situation, one has to wonder if you are being honest with this accusation because if this WG was this evil outing monster with a threatening boyfriend, you still maintained a relationship with her over the years.
5. You were so close to this WG who is on the blacklist who you say has outed people and had her boyfriend threaten you that you were able to confide in her of your white knighting activities. Not sure about other people but that strikes me as very odd. I certainly would not be close to a WG who outs people.
6. On the other site, you went into meltdown over Vicky for moving somewhere else without telling you and your other good buddy belle dedicated a thread to defend your rant. The agency owner had to call you to order which was embarrassing to see to be honest.
7. The quadruple booking claim you made was done by the agency but you blame the WG for it which is odd. Especially as you continue to White Knight agencies on the other site.
8. Drama seems to follow you around because you are not suited to this game. You do not have the temperament to be a punter to be honest and I think you need to reassess your approach or pack it in and find a girlfriend
9. Stop getting involved in the personal lives of these women, it really is none of your business and you will only get burned.
10. You clearly have EAS for Vicky because trying to convince a punter to not write a negative based on his experience is just wrong. That's not what this place is about and it immediately makes one wary about your reviews, both negatives and positives as you have shown you can be very easily manipulated.
Have a word with yourself, reset and think about what you are in this game for. Sounds to me you are in it for the wrong reasons.
If these women you protect from the evil knights of the North wanted more from you, you would not be paying them for their time.
Think about that for a second.
Peace
I think AnthG has just got out of his depth. He's tried to be helpful to a Wg he has EAS for, but in doing this has compromised himself into a friendship with Maddison with whom there is no love lost. Why he's continued to be in contact with her I don't know. And first chance Maddison gets to drop AnthG in it shes on to Admin. And this must have been her first contribution to the site as all her posts relate to this thread. Shes been here on UKP for what 2 months and AnthG almost from the start. To ban him is a big deal and I don't really want to see him go. Sorting the wheat from the chaff is very difficult as who can say what, when theres a breakdown in communication as we have here. There is no evidence that M has outed any one, which is a big accusation to make. I'm not on UKE so Belgarion has added some other info that I can't make a judgement on. But it doesn't read in Anthg's favour..
This is a punters forum and Maddison has shit stirred and quite possibly set him up for this fall. Maddison should be banned.
AnthG hasn't helped himself should get warning. This whole event will have taken a significant toll on him I am sure. I agree with Belgarion he should take some time out and reflect on the fact he got too involved. EAS can do this to any one.
Best of luck AnthG.