Delayed Orgasm - Follow on from other threads

[WelshClipper]

It is time I contributed more to this forum so here goes:

I read up a lot and it seems the medical industry has come up with the following reasons for delayed orgasm:

1 Too much masturbation and too rigourous
2 Too much watching more and more extreme porn
3 Too much unhealthy eating high sugar or fat diet
4 Too much weight unhealthy couch potato lifestyle
5 Too much age as the libido and testosterone levels slide
6 Too much thinking about it.

I am  pretty normal guy maybe slightly older, maybe masturbate every other day, maybe a few extra pounds, maybe likes the odd pint and packet of crisps, the porn I watch consists of girls taking their clothes off. But nothing extreme.

So my view is a lot of this delayed orgasm is becoming overexcited or simply overthinking rather than relaxing and just enjoying the ride.

What do you guys think. Are we creating our own issues and just overthinking.....

[vw]

It is time I contributed more to this forum so here goes:

I read up a lot and it seems the medical industry has come up with the following reasons for delayed orgasm:

1 Too much masturbation and too rigourous
2 Too much watching more and more extreme porn
3 Too much unhealthy eating high sugar or fat diet
4 Too much weight unhealthy couch potato lifestyle
5 Too much age as the libido and testosterone levels slide
6 Too much thinking about it.

I am  pretty normal guy maybe slightly older, maybe masturbate every other day, maybe a few extra pounds, maybe likes the odd pint and packet of crisps, the porn I watch consists of girls taking their clothes off. But nothing extreme.

So my view is a lot of this delayed orgasm is becoming overexcited or simply overthinking rather than relaxing and just enjoying the ride.

What do you guys think. Are we creating our own issues and just overthinking.....

think is a compination of most of what you mention.

I know mine cured its self from a combination of wank ban and stopping planning punts, anything with a build up 'I had problems shooting the seed.

I had a 4 hours with a very good reg no jizz recently, went and saw a moody Romani 2 days later having a good old wank in between and managed to pop twice in 30 min with her !

The prossie tricks to make you cum quicker that all the popular girls don't do any more serves the quick spirters but stitches up the slow to cum guys.

My blanket ban now on porn and wanking and planning, seems to serve me well !

[WelshClipper]

The prossie tricks to make you cum quicker that all the popular girls don't do any more serves the quick spirters but stitches up the slow to cum guys.

My blanket ban now on porn and wanking and planning, seems to serve me well !

I am about one level down from this. 90% drop in porn. 70% drop in wank. Last punt seemed to go OK. I think there is also a lot of value in just not overthinking and she brought me to the point of no return relatively easily. This is what I am trying to get my mind to do.   

[vw]

I am about one level down from this. 90% drop in porn. 70% drop in wank. Last punt seemed to go OK. I think there is also a lot of value in just not overthinking and she brought me to the point of no return relatively easily. This is what I am trying to get my mind to do.   

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Reading reviews or forum posts in the run up to meeting people may also cause over thinking.

[Swansea lad]

Not really had any serious issues but have cut out the majority of porn and only sort myself out if desperate as opposed to daily now.

One thing I noticed, I stopped watching porn and found myself looking at women on online dating sites, I must have been looking for a substitute!

[Marmalade]

OP: I would like to know what medical literature you've found that supports those ideas.

[punther]

Yeah I think porn and jacking off are major contributors

I haven't ejaculated to porn for 11 days now and to be honest it feels great. Don't feel dirty and de-masculinated as I did when I watched porn

I've also found during periods of abstinence from porn or wanking I find it a lot easier to both maintain an erection and orgasm when with a woman things I struggled with at times when I choked the bishop too much watching Alexis Texas compilations 

[Nagilum]

Not sure about the masturbation.  That encourages a quicker orgasm as opposed to a longer one.

[punther]

Not sure about the masturbation.  That encourages a quicker orgasm as opposed to a longer one.

Masturbation without orgasm prior to a punt will near enough ensure you orgasm during the punt as you will have a full tank and be on edge

but masturbation to orgasm prior to a punt i think sometimes makes it harder to orgasm even if its 24 hours before( for me anyways)

[pewpewpew]

Every other day? In my glory days i would wank 5+ times a day. Easily 7 or 8 times on a day off.

But i am a delayed ejaculator so I've cut back to once per day, 2 or 3 on a day off. Also cut down on porn. Still watch it sometimes when i wank and it has to be quite extreme for me to not waste my time but have deleted my porn library and felt immediately better.

[Nagilum]

Masturbation without orgasm prior to a punt will near enough ensure you orgasm during the punt as you will have a full tank and be on edge

but masturbation to orgasm prior to a punt i think sometimes makes it harder to orgasm even if its 24 hours before( for me anyways)

Agreed. 

I thought we was talking in general about finding it hard to orgasm.

[Cunning Punt]

Delayed orgasms?
You lucky bastards!

On the other hand, if some of us had a wank on the day of a punt, we'd struggle to get it 'up' at all on the punt. Catch 22.

[WelshClipper]

OP: I would like to know what medical literature you've found that supports those ideas.

You are right to be skeptical and I will give you a truthful answer. I have read a lot and like most I turn to the internet. Your classic google search. The two sites that seem to be the most reliable are the NHS and the Mayo clinic. But I looked at many sites and sifted out the quack ideas.

Tbh the reasons I have quoted are the ones that come up time and time again. So I went by the theory of where there is smoke there is fire. If every site says porn desensitises the male response to normal sex then there must be some truth in it. If most sites say there is something psychological then again there must be some truth. Not very scientific but I am grappling with this issue and am looking for answers.....

[WelshClipper]

Masturbation without orgasm prior to a punt will near enough ensure you orgasm during the punt as you will have a full tank and be on edge

but masturbation to orgasm prior to a punt i think sometimes makes it harder to orgasm even if its 24 hours before( for me anyways)

Now this sounds interesting. So to be very blunt, if you edge in the hour or so before a punt but dont orgasm, are you saying in the punt you are fit to bursting to orgasm quickly?

[WelshClipper]

Agreed. 

I thought we was talking in general about finding it hard to orgasm.

No, more easy to orgasm with porn and  wank, not so easy in a punt. .....

[WelshClipper]

Delayed orgasms?
You lucky bastards!

On the other hand, if some of us had a wank on the day of a punt, we'd struggle to get it 'up' at all on the punt. Catch 22.

I appreciate your catch 22. Be careful what you wish for. If I could cum in the first15 minutes of a punt I woukd be very happy.... spend the remaining 45 mins building to a possible 2nd

[maxxblue]

You are right to be skeptical and I will give you a truthful answer. I have read a lot and like most I turn to the internet. Your classic google search. The two sites that seem to be the most reliable are the NHS and the Mayo clinic. But I looked at many sites and sifted out the quack ideas.

Tbh the reasons I have quoted are the ones that come up time and time again. So I went by the theory of where there is smoke there is fire. If every site says porn desensitises the male response to normal sex then there must be some truth in it. If most sites say there is something psychological then again there must be some truth. Not very scientific but I am grappling with this issue and am looking for answers.....

So in essence, what you are admitting is that the 'medical industry' hasn't come up with the reasons for delayed orgasm, but you have?

[WelshClipper]

So in essence, what you are admitting is that the 'medical industry' hasn't come up with the reasons for delayed orgasm, but you have?

No,  I have not come up with the reasons.

The medical industry has not come up with the reasons.

Online medical websites have come up with theories and I have presented them here to see what people think.

Maybe its all bollocks, hope it is. 

[Marmalade]

So no medical literature (in studies presenting evidence) just a vague glance at what some site that might be vaguely connected with the NHS told you about cumming wanking and putting hairs on your hand
 

[WelshClipper]

So no medical literature (in studies presenting evidence) just a vague glance at what some site that might be vaguely connected with the NHS told you about cumming wanking and putting hairs on your hand
 

Pretty much. 

But it is a real issue for me that affects my punting life. I was looking for some feedback which I have got and there are a couple of things I am going to try.

Thanks to all