Cabergoline.
I think getting the dosage right is the hardest thing.
True, but it’s damned expensive, even the generic. The dose is two a week and so understandably the effect is expected to be gradual.
Something, I don’t know if it’s been mentioned, and may or may not be the same for other people, but I find frequency has an effect. Medically this is possibly because having sex increases testosterone but I also think there’s a psych factor of “getting into the swing of it.”
When I punted in the mega cheap (and mega fun) whorehouses of South America where it was about a fiver for 20 minutes sucking and fucking, I found the first one at the start of a punting bender near exhausted my sexual interest, at least until the evening (if it was an afternoon punt). But then I’d try doing it every day for four days and just became natural :... chill out, drink a cola, shag a fanny, wipe, chill out, drink a cola, shag a fanny, wipe — repeat all night till bored.The refractory period seemed to diminish as soon as I’d spotted a fucksble prospect (the cola, or maybe a whisky if the previous one tasted bad, was an excuse to sit and eye up and get horny).
The other thing that works for me is the the muscular (tantric) control thing. I started practicing this as a teenager (you begin with belly muscles and gradually extend). Then as orgasm occurs I just clamp hard internally. Similar satisfaction (though smoother) and reduces refractory to a nominal time period. (There’s various yoga books that teach this for those interested, see mudras.) When the whores got more expensive I was very intent on getting satisfaction within a limited time-frame. So fuck a Romanian, find she just lies there motionless, ejaculate without jizz, nip up road to sauna. Occasionally did the same in a Brazil, but the whorehouses there are so plentiful and cheap and fun that I found nipping out for a light meal did the trick and saved time (though no longer so many still at a fiver).
If I’m satisfied on the first fuck, I think I need a mental break of some sort to feel aroused again. A ‘new’ prossie seems to be the biggest factor there (if she’s any good). Personally I’m not into paying a prossie to talk while I get my hard-on back. I’d rather two 30 minutes sessions with different whores than 60 minutes with one (though occasionally it does happen, and most Edinburgh shag-parlours will even allow an extension, which saves cash as well, if the prossie doesn’t have another booking).
I’ve tried zinc but not noticed much effect (again it’ll vary from person to person); but if I remember correctly the common forms like sulphate aren’t absorbed very well anyway. I am fairly convinced that
feeling great is a big help. (A side effect of exercise and good diet, which have been mentioned). So I will
imagine the whore is a wonderful and interesting person to fuck while I’m with her. Sometimes it’s nice to kid ourselves.
Hope some of that maybe helps at least one or two people ...