What am I doing wrong?

[Berty999]

Looking for all your advice..... New to punting. I check here for reviews and look on AW, Vivastreet etc but I am not getting any response to emails or texts? Any help would be much appreciated

[punter6199]

Welcome to the game of punting. I always recommend you read the girls profile carefully as some have specific ways they liked to be booked. Best way to book is to text a girl like this hi my name is Jack I'm new to adultwork I'm really interested in booking an incall appointment with you can you do today at 3pm thanks. She will always respond as it shows your serious because you asked for a specific time and she will definitely get back to you. If you message a girl random messages like do you do cim she will probably ignore you because she probably has 100's of these emails in her inbox.

[daviemac]

Welcome to the game of punting. I always recommend you read the girls profile carefully as some have specific ways they liked to be booked. Best way to book is to text a girl like this hi my name is Jack I'm new to adultwork I'm really interested in booking an incall appointment with you can you do today at 3pm thanks. She will always respond as it shows your serious because you asked for a specific time and she will definitely get back to you. If you message a girl random messages like do you do cim she will probably ignore you because she probably has 100's of these emails in her inbox.

Not true unfortunately mate, there's loads who don't reply to messages no matter how polite.

[berksboy]

Real ones will have a phone no showing so just call them .

[Thephoenix]

Looking for all your advice..... New to punting. I check here for reviews and look on AW, Vivastreet etc but I am not getting any response to emails or texts? Any help would be much appreciated

If you're new, why not try a parlour or Thai massage shop.
You're much more likely to get responses from them.
ps. Where's your review gone?

[CMiller]

Welcome to the game of punting. I always recommend you read the girls profile carefully as some have specific ways they liked to be booked. Best way to book is to text a girl like this hi my name is Jack I'm new to adultwork I'm really interested in booking an incall appointment with you can you do today at 3pm thanks. She will always respond as it shows your serious because you asked for a specific time and she will definitely get back to you. If you message a girl random messages like do you do cim she will probably ignore you because she probably has 100's of these emails in her inbox.

With all due respect, that is poor advice to give and set unrealistic expectations. You may have been fortunate to always get a response but paying attention to her profile and being detailed in your approach guarantees you nothing. My experience has shown that courtesy, manners and attention do not always equate to a reply as I've been ignored despite approaching politely and having read her profile at length.

The only guarantee is that your mileage may vary. With your example, Jack didn't say how long an incall booking he wanted at 3pm nor did he say what service he wanted so that could see his message being ignored.

If you point out you're new to AW, that might work to your disadvantage because some not every working girl will care to see an inexperienced punter. Some less scrupulous working girls may take advantage or a rookie punter and try to overcharge or scam him.

[Waterhouse]

Real ones will have a phone no showing so just call them .

Incorrect.  Quite a few of the good ones who advertise on AW don’t publish their number and prefer an AW mail before giving out details.

[geostorm1]

"Hi are you available at 4pm for a 30 minute incall? Would you mind telling me where in Nottingham you're based? Thanks xx"

Works most of the time for me

[Colston36]

With all due respect, that is poor advice to give and set unrealistic expectations. You may have been fortunate to always get a response but paying attention to her profile and being detailed in your approach guarantees you nothing. My experience has shown that courtesy, manners and attention do not always equate to a reply as I've been ignored despite approaching politely and having read her profile at length.

The only guarantee is that your mileage may vary. With your example, Jack didn't say how long an incall booking he wanted at 3pm nor did he say what service he wanted so that could see his message being ignored.

If you point out you're new to AW, that might work to your disadvantage because some not every working girl will care to see an inexperienced punter. Some less scrupulous working girls may take advantage or a rookie punter and try to overcharge or scam him.

I would say at least half don't reply at all - even though I point out I am very reliable, with over 150 feedback. Whores are like many other service professions: many useless drones, and not that many well-educated either.

[PaulRuff]

Incorrect.  Quite a few of the good ones who advertise on AW don’t publish their number and prefer an AW mail before giving out details.

+1.

[PaulRuff]

I would say at least half don't reply at all - even though I point out I am very reliable, with over 150 feedback. Whores are like many other service professions: many useless drones, and not that many well-educated either.

+1 to this one too.

Pre-pandemic I'd get a reply to most enquiries (say 80%), now it's closer to 50%.

[Colston36]

+1 to this one too.

Pre-pandemic I'd get a reply to most enquiries (say 80%), now it's closer to 50%.

Yes; I think the great sloth-meter in the sky has swung right up. Another of the countless benefits of Brexit plus Covid.

[Joball87]

Not infallible but a) use their preferred AW comms channel b) if AW light on then usually text/call c) read UKP reviews d) read AW reviews (although often flowered up a lot) e) use instinct f) check AW last login date - if weeks ago maybe not that active.

I have found indys more reliable than agencies and so far this year over 50 bookings (many repeats tbf) had about 3 no responses. Also I only chase them once then just move on.

Good luck.

[NelsonH]

You will do better with women aged above 28, they are more organised.

There will be some in your area, maybe not many, that have been doing it for a while.  They have reviews to show this.  They don't move about all the time.  These are more likely to reply to  AW mail.

Fixing a meeting on the day without an advertised phone number is difficult.

[Punterperson1971]

You will do better with women aged above 28, they are more organised.

Never found that true ^

[tynetunnel]

You will do better with women aged above 28, they are more organised.

Is there a gene that switches once they hit 29 and organisational skills are enabled?  Not in my own experience, age seems to me at least, irrelevant in whether I’ll get a reply or not to my enquiries

[PunterNumber69]

Write a simple clear message without getting into graphic details. 

Just say:

- when you'd like to meet

- how long you'd like to meet for - from the SP's profile

- where you'd like to meet (incall - at her place, outcall - at a venue you'll provide. Note: if you have no feedback it is unlikely a SP is going to be happy doing an outcall as a first booking with you)

- what you are going to pay - this shows you've read the rates listed on her profile

- what services listed in the SP's likes list you would like to receive on the booking

- provide any other information the SP has asked for from potential clients as part of a booking enquiry.  This shows you've read the SP's profile and taken note of any boundaries or limits they may have

- patiently wait for a reply. Don't expect an instant reply as the SP may be busy with their life away from escorting. Give it a few days. If you hear nothing, then try another SP. 

Remember that SPs often get 100s text messages and maybe 10s of booking enquiry messages a day. It can sometimes take a while to work through them and some SPs choose not to, so if they have been offline for a few days or weeks they may ignore all the messages sitting in their inbox and wait for new ones to appear.

[Lamnguin]

Not infallible but a) use their preferred AW comms channel b) if AW light on then usually text/call c) read UKP reviews d) read AW reviews (although often flowered up a lot) e) use instinct f) check AW last login date - if weeks ago maybe not that active.

I have found indys more reliable than agencies and so far this year over 50 bookings (many repeats tbf) had about 3 no responses. Also I only chase them once then just move on.

Good luck.

This is very much worth checking. Personally I don't bother contacting anyone who hasn't been active in the last week (there is an AW filter for this).

As far as indies over agencies, it probably depends on where you are. The agencies in the Northeast are generally very reliable.

[JustaPunter]

I just read their profile and stick to the info given to book, if they have such info there.

I just send a polite message asking if they are available when I want to book, I usually book for the next day or ask if I am trying to schedule something for a few days away I ask if they are going to be around.

The only SP that has routinely blanked me is Ebony Elia/Elaine.

As that was after she blew me out I won’t be trying to book again.

Her choice at the end of the day.

[WelshClipper]

I have made bookings every which way.
I have also been ignored every which way.

Don’t let it get you down, its the state of play especially nowadays with covid, brexit etc

But some poor desperate sod of an escort will see you .... eventually 

[GingerNuts]

I have made bookings every which way.
I have also been ignored every which way.

Don’t let it get you down, its the state of play especially nowadays with covid, brexit etc

But some poor desperate sod of an escort will see you .... eventually 

Just what everyone is looking for

[Atrueyorkie]

It’s a game of casting your net and seeing what you can catch. Half the time especially with emails you can get ignored. Emails in my experience have been the worst and to be fair I don’t expect half the WG to be monitoring emails while getting ploughed during a session.

My best experience is dropping a text. Don’t be vague, try and say a particular time and preferably you’ll be asking for the same day. Calling is a bit 50/50 again try when calling say your looking to book at this time and it’s keeping it to a yes or no situation if they’re free then.

Try and avoid setting post dates as most WG’s change like the wind especially in advance, it’s like you’ll be setting yourself up. Same day is best approach imo.

[CMiller]

Try and avoid setting post dates as most WG’s change like the wind especially in advance, it’s like you’ll be setting yourself up. Same day is best approach imo.

The caveat of that advice is to check the profile fully. Some escorts say they don't do same day bookings so you risk alienating them by asking for one when they specify not doing it.

[lamboman]

I think phone or text has been more beneficial for me athough i understand as a 1st timer you might be uncomfortable with that.
However there is no accounting for WGs lack of organisational skills,I texted one in Swindon this week to get a reply "I'm not in Swindon" then another curt one saying she wasn't available today.
She had her green light on and was listed as in Swindon.

[southern punter]

+1 to this one too.

Pre-pandemic I'd get a reply to most enquiries (say 80%), now it's closer to 50%.

Maybe 5% for me with a feedback-less AW account as presumably OP has too.  I suggest OP gives up and finds a parlour TBH

[mradventures]

im fairly sure quite a few never even check there aw emails 

[the_patient_wolf]

If you are serious, do a little research as suggested in this thread, and then pickup the phone. Maybe you get through. Maybe you don't. If you do, speak confidently and clearly about the time you want.

Remember she is also vetting you. She'll text you the postcode. And then you will getting laid later that day. Easy as that. And we'll await your review.

[cueball]

All this good advice and tips, but, I notice the op has not posted on the thread he started.


Tut tut, this isn't trip advisor and we're not here to wipe your arse.

If a grown man cannot put a coherent email/text/phone call together then being ignored might be more to do with you than them.

Yes, we all get ignored but most do reply.... Choose wisely, it all depends on who you're messaging!

[Berty999]

Apologies for the lack of response but have been in hospital. Much appreciated for all the good tips and methods. Thank you again. I will give feedback from my experiences:)

[punter6199]

Apologies for the lack of response but have been in hospital. Much appreciated for all the good tips and methods. Thank you again. I will give feedback from my experiences:)

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[Brian Stone]

I am so grateful for this thread. I am new to this and, like the OP, I too don't get replies. Four tries in two weeks and no responses at all. I used email and text. Nothing. Having said that, I was using Vivastreet and I have read enough here to know that may well have been a mistake.

Actually, I was thinking it was a mistake to have been trying with Viva with the moment I was introduced to AW by people on this group. The reason is, 80% of Viva's girls look like supermodels...and their prices are on average, about £100 per hour *less* than AW. That mades no sense...there *had* to be something wrong...

In another post I will tell my experience of Viva and the things I think I have learnt.

Brian 

[Aji81]

Not sure if you’ve used multiple usernames on AW? I think SPs can see that info and are unlikely to respond to someone using multiple aliases.