do you worry about wife finding out

[crazy8]

my wife is 25 and hot, i love her to bits and really fancy her and we have good sex.........i worry that one day she will find out but i just love the excitment of meeting a wg.

is anyone else in the same position?

[socks]

I wonder if I secretly want her to after how much shit I put up with!!!

[Roland D Hay]

my wife is 25 and hot, i love her to bits and really fancy her and we have good sex.........i worry that one day she will find out but i just love the excitment of meeting a wg.

is anyone else in the same position?

No but if your wife is 25 and hot and purely in the interests of saving your marriage, I shall offer my services as 'revenge shag' if your wife finds out. 

[socks]

No but if your wife is 25 and hot and purely in the interests of saving your marriage, I shall offer my services as 'revenge shag' if your wife finds out. 

Join you and do the Eiffel tower? Only if necessary of course and only to help out a fellow punter. It would be quite a chore really

[touch.and.go]

my wife is 25 and hot, i love her to bits and really fancy her and we have good sex.........i worry that one day she will find out but i just love the excitment of meeting a wg.

is anyone else in the same position?

Ha......... I fucking wish - I can't remember the last time I had sex at home - she has no interest whatsoever. If she found out - my answer would be "what the fuck did she expect to happen?"

[Toshiba]

Ive been thinking long n hard today, if i caught something i dread the conversation with my partner and i came to the decision that ive got what i wanted out of this and that pushing my luck would end my relationship one day

Its addictive but im not hooked, so ive decided its not worth the risks , small risks thru owo but i just dont want my life crashing around me.

Bit dramatic yes, but to me i hate covered Bj and the risks of owo are not worth it, ive gad some good sex , ending with my last and best ever session, i hope now to contribute as a watcher more than a doer on here

[DaveMugabe]

Ha......... I fucking wish - I can't remember the last time I had sex at home - she has no interest whatsoever. If she found out - my answer would be "what the fuck did she expect to happen?"

I'll jump start her for you

[crazy8]

Ive been thinking long n hard today, if i caught something i dread the conversation with my partner and i came to the decision that ive got what i wanted out of this and that pushing my luck would end my relationship one day

Its addictive but im not hooked, so ive decided its not worth the risks , small risks thru owo but i just dont want my life crashing around me.

Bit dramatic yes, but to me i hate covered Bj and the risks of owo are not worth it, ive gad some good sex , ending with my last and best ever session, i hope now to contribute as a watcher more than a doer on here

im feeling the same mate, its a weird situation. i just cant help the thought that as long as no one is getting hurt why stop, it makes me feel alive and  you only live once

[socks]

im feeling the same mate, its a weird situation. i just cant help the thought that as long as no one is getting hurt why stop, it makes me feel alive and  you only live once

Fuck it mate I wouldn't care what my OH looked like, if I loved her like what it sounds like you loved yours i'd not have this secret hobby, the risks outweigh the benefits.

[Matium]

my wife is 25 and hot, i love her to bits and really fancy her and we have good sex.........i worry that one day she will find out but i just love the excitment of meeting a wg.

is anyone else in the same position?

Have you got children?

If you have and she finds out you've been seeing prostitutes, she'll retaliate by not letting you see them.

You'll have to make up your own mind if it's worth the risk.

[Rochdull lad]

I haven't got an OH; but I know that, if I had, I'd have to give up punting.  That's because I'm such a poor liar [I blush very easily] that I'd give myself away if she got a hint about what I was doing and questioned me about it.

[socks]

It's something I can't get my head around. I've no problem with anyone buying themselves sex or offering it for sale, no matter their circumstances and when I do it, it's totally nsa physical fun, which I love. But if I was 'in love' I wouldn't do it, at least not secretly - feels kind of hypocritical but hey ho.

[MancSean]

Can't see how someone can be in love and cheat on their partner whether it's paid for or not! Part of being in love is trust and respect. Going behind someone's back is not being trustful it respectful. If it was really love it would be out in the open discussed and accepted and not done behind the "loved" ones back like a coward

[SaneOnes]

Cheating on a hot 25 year old who he loves and has great sex with. This guy is only kidding himself and is annoying the fuck out of me. People like him never get ulcers, the conscienceless pricks but yes, each to their own blah fucking blah bloo bloo blah

[GreyDave]

Read something like this before and one punters great response was ...

" I am writing a book um  luv its my other persona, its all fantasy."

Fine unless you`ve been filmed
Booked a nutter
Caught a dose

 

[smiths]

my wife is 25 and hot, i love her to bits and really fancy her and we have good sex.........i worry that one day she will find out but i just love the excitment of meeting a wg.

is anyone else in the same position?

Never been married but always been worried about my partners finding out which is why ensuring they dont is a top priority to me. I never getting complacent is the key for me.

Now you might hear from some punters thats its only a matter of time before you get caught out, that really depends how good a liar you are and if your cover story/stories are believable. Also if your wife has you under the thumb its obviously harder to get away with than if she doesnt. Personally i wouldnt let them rule me so i have always had freedom of movement using Golf as an excuse some of the time, a game i do play. My partner wouldnt know what course i was at, i play at a number and go to new ones every so often.

So in my experience the essentials are to never get complacent and have a believable cover story.

[smiths]

Can't see how someone can be in love and cheat on their partner whether it's paid for or not! Part of being in love is trust and respect. Going behind someone's back is not being trustful it respectful. If it was really love it would be out in the open discussed and accepted and not done behind the "loved" ones back like a coward

The moralist view, the point is you cant know how others think only how you see and think about this. Sure i am a selfish lying prick and have been to partners my whole adult life but that doesnt mean i dont love them.

For me now its easy, i punt just for sex and want and desire relationships for sex and crucially love. A case of wanting my cake and eating it.

[threechilliman]

Personally i wouldnt let them rule me so i have always had freedom of movement

So in my experience the essentials are to never get complacent and have a believable cover story.

Yep completely agree. Complacency is your biggest enemy and I have a number of rules that I operate to and stick to - if I can't stick to all the rules I abort the mission - simple as that. I only ever punt when there is some vagueness as to where I might be anyway, so an hour is easily lost. Cover stories are always prepared meticulously beforehand - rehearse it in your mind so it flows easily out of your mouth. Mind you, I've never had much of a problem with the BS that issues forth from my mouth!

[threechilliman]

The moralist view, the point is you cant know how others think only how you see and think about this. Sure i am a selfish lying prick and have been to partners my whole adult life but that doesnt mean i dont love them.

For me now its easy, i punt just for sex and want and desire relationships for sex and crucially love. A case of wanting my cake and eating it.

I seem to be in complete agreement with you this morning Smiths

[vorian]

Can't see how someone can be in love and cheat on their partner whether it's paid for or not! Part of being in love is trust and respect. Going behind someone's back is not being trustful it respectful. If it was really love it would be out in the open discussed and accepted and not done behind the "loved" ones back like a coward

I find it strange that you are trying to establish morale high ground on a punters forum. If you pay for sex you are no better or worse than the next bloke with his cock out and cash in his hand.

[CBPaul]

Never been married but always been worried about my partners finding out which is why ensuring they dont is a top priority to me. I never getting complacent is the key for me.

Now you might hear from some punters thats its only a matter of time before you get caught out, that really depends how good a liar you are and if your cover story/stories are believable. Also if your wife has you under the thumb its obviously harder to get away with than if she doesnt. Personally i wouldnt let them rule me so i have always had freedom of movement using Golf as an excuse some of the time, a game i do play. My partner wouldnt know what course i was at, i play at a number and go to new ones every so often.

So in my experience the essentials are to never get complacent and have a believable cover story.

Totally agree with both posts.

The concern about getting caught out is what keeps you on your toes, ensures you have excuses lined up, a reason to be out and about, use a punting phone, don't go straight home etc etc. The day complacency creeps in is when you are vulnerable to being caught.

I have an OH who I love but don't get much sex. I see prostitutes because I want sex. Being greedy and self centered if I have the opportunity to have sex with a young, fit girl who i find attractive then bonus.  That's all it is though, no love involved and it is also why I have avoided having an affair on a couple of occasions - too much chance of getting too heavily involved.

[threechilliman]

I see WG's as there's no 'afters'. Would I have an affair? Not a fuckin' chance....

[vorian]

I see WG's as there's no 'afters'. Would I have an affair? Not a fuckin' chance....

Imho and in very simplistic terms, affairs can break up marriages, prossies can save them.

[crazy8]

Can't see how someone can be in love and cheat on their partner whether it's paid for or not! Part of being in love is trust and respect. Going behind someone's back is not being trustful it respectful. If it was really love it would be out in the open discussed and accepted and not done behind the "loved" ones back like a coward

i understand what your are saying and respect your views. however you are not in my position with my mindset so you cant understand how i feel for my wife or the rush i get from punting. its just like having a really extravagant wank to me.

i bet people with wives have no problem wanking off to porn and fantasising and everyone thinks that ok. god forbid i just man up and do it for real.

[crazy8]

Cheating on a hot 25 year old who he loves and has great sex with. This guy is only kidding himself and is annoying the fuck out of me. People like him never get ulcers, the conscienceless pricks but yes, each to their own blah fucking blah bloo bloo blah

sorry i didn't mean to annoy anyone, i cant believe you are taking this seriously enough to allow it to affect you. im not at all offended by what you just said about me, after all i dont know you and have no real care to hear the opinions of a hater.

[threechilliman]

Imho and in very simplistic terms, affairs can break up marriages, prossies can save them.

+1

[SeekingtheTruth]

have no real care to hear the opinions of a hater.

Fuck me, how old are you? hater? 

[SeekingtheTruth]

Imho and in very simplistic terms, affairs can break up marriages, prossies can save them.

Completely agree with this. Would never consider an affair as the risks of the girl getting too attached far outweigh the benefits.

[cockneybstrd]

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[vorian]

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I want that bike,  it fucking cool.

[crazy8]

hahaha yeah boooooy

[cockneybstrd]

V its Sir Franks Pet Unicorn... For all the 'Haters' who doubted he had one

[vorian]

V its Sir Franks Pet Unicorn... For all the 'Haters' who doubted he had one

I wonder if he will let me borrow it. Needs more sparkly tassels though. 

[YouOnlyLiveOnce]

How would my wife find out, and how much could she find out?

She refused to have sex with me and told me to look elsewhere (but I can't trust her to be OK with that).  So I have a number of fallback positions.

The computer system at work was down again, so I took the afternoon off.

OK, I went to meet this girl who contacted me onlline, but she stood me up.

OK, we chatted, that's all.

OK, we had sex. I'm not getting any, remember?  Sheesh.

OK, I paid for it.  It was a one-off.  Big deal.

Unless she gets access to my AW account and sees all my bookings... but that's extremely unlikely.

[yorkshire123]

Imho and in very simplistic terms, affairs can break up marriages, prossies can save them.

Ive been attempting to write my opinion in this thread all morning but was struggling to articulate why i punt but also love my wife.

Once again V you have summed perfectly 

[CBPaul]

Ive been attempting to write my opinion in this thread all morning but was struggling to articulate why i punt but also love my wife.

Once again V you have summed perfectly 

In total agreement. I was going to add more to my earlier post but V has summed it up perfectly in one sentence.

[YouOnlyLiveOnce]

...Forgot to mention my primary fallback.  "The reason you couldn't contact me at work is because I switched my mobile off in a mmeeting and then forgot to switch it on again".

So far I have used this once.

[som2083]

only do Oral with condom, message, breast relief.

Never visit possies who offer OWO, bareback, anal

I don't think she will find out because is 100% safe sex. That is what I doing now

[vorian]

only do Oral with condom, message, breast relief.

Never visit possies who offer OWO, bareback, anal

I don't think she will find out because is 100% safe sex. That is what I doing now

No sex is 100% safe, punting is about risk vs reward. If you want zero risk don't punt and don't get your reward.

[SeekingtheTruth]

only do Oral with condom, message, breast relief.

Never visit possies who offer OWO, bareback, anal

I don't think she will find out because is 100% safe sex. That is what I doing now

No such thing as 100% safe sex I'm afraid.

Yes you have minimalised the risks but they are still there.

[CBPaul]

only do Oral with condom, message, breast relief.

Never visit possies who offer OWO, bareback, anal

I don't think she will find out because is 100% safe sex. That is what I doing now

You may have minimized the risks of catching something horrible but it still leaves the reasons for being where you shouldn't be wide open.

[touch.and.go]

You may have minimized the risks of catching something horrible but it still leaves the reasons for being where you shouldn't be wide open.

You have removed a lot of the STI risk but you have also removed ALL the fun.

[CBPaul]

You have removed a lot of the STI risk but you have also removed ALL the fun.

Yes, there is that too. Good point.

[smiths]

Totally agree with both posts.

The concern about getting caught out is what keeps you on your toes, ensures you have excuses lined up, a reason to be out and about, use a punting phone, don't go straight home etc etc. The day complacency creeps in is when you are vulnerable to being caught.

I have an OH who I love but don't get much sex. I see prostitutes because I want sex. Being greedy and self centered if I have the opportunity to have sex with a young, fit girl who i find attractive then bonus.  That's all it is though, no love involved and it is also why I have avoided having an affair on a couple of occasions - too much chance of getting too heavily involved.

It was in fact when i did have an affair that i came the closest to blowing my world apart, she was a classic bunny boiler, never ever again. Punting is a breeze in comparison.

[smiths]

only do Oral with condom, message, breast relief.

Never visit possies who offer OWO, bareback, anal

I don't think she will find out because is 100% safe sex. That is what I doing now

No such thing as 100% safe sex with other people and especially with complete or virtual strangers. Its all about what risks your prepared to take. If this suits you good for you, no fun for me though, i wouldnt even get a hard-on from OW, a wank is more fun.

[Daffodil]

Can't see how someone can be in love and cheat on their partner whether it's paid for or not! Part of being in love is trust and respect. Going behind someone's back is not being trustful it respectful. If it was really love it would be out in the open discussed and accepted and not done behind the "loved" ones back like a coward

You sound like Mills and Boon aka retarded.

You also sound like a woman based on this post. And no reviews 

So you're saying that those of us who are married/ in loving relationships are "cowards"? You're a fucking idiot 

[Daffodil]

No sex is 100% safe, punting is about risk vs reward. If you want zero risk don't punt and don't get your reward.

Maybe not 100%, but pretty fucking close.

I'd say there's more chance of the sun not rising tomorrow than this guy getting caught out through sexual disease.

That said there are many ways we can get caught out. I do oral without (not every time I might add) and never bareback, but I think it's far more likely I'll get caught out through my punting phone, using adultwork, saying I'm in place A when I'm in B, etc. Even using this forum! 

[oohisay]

only do Oral with condom, message, breast relief.

Never visit possies who offer OWO, bareback, anal

I don't think she will find out because is 100% safe sex. That is what I doing now

I'm generally the same, although I have been known to deviate on the odd occasion.
Also, thoroughly enjoy dfk & RO, so the sti risks are still there. These days, I usually stick to the one wg, 8 times & counting.

[Daffodil]

You have removed a lot of the STI risk but you have also removed ALL the fun.

ALL the fun for you, but your opinion isn't the same as every other punter 

I have no interest in kissing, but to other punters it is an essential.

I have no interest in reverse oral, but to other punters it is an essential.

He has essentially removed all of the STI risk and, for him, it's still fun. Good luck to him 

[robs one]

this is one subject that goes around and around in my head after every punt. I am much the same as others in that I'm not sure what would happen if I gave my wife a std, I think I would be more upset than she would!
still the value of a good punt seems, at present, to out weigh the risk