Fabswingers winners and losers...?

[Deepstroker]

Im not really sure if this even fits on this forum so im just putting it out there to see what others think.

Im sure we are all familiar with FS and we all have our views. I have had some limited success on there but equally, i have had plenty of pisstakers and fakes.

We all have an interest in sex whether paid for or not. A punt on FS can be just as rewarding as a paid punt or even better.

And yet there is no forum im aware of to discuss what goes on at Fab. For instance there is nowhere to discuss individual profiles and whether they are genuine or rubbish. As an example, I recently saw a couples profile in which they were advertising a meet at a local hotel and inviting males to attend. It wasnt far, i was available and so i stuck my hand up. I got a reply from the male saying they were oversubcribed blah blah blah and yet days later the same meet was up there. Taking this example ,if there was a forum for discussion, people could say,yes they are genuine,ive met them,or perhaps a dozen of us would say, yes i put my hand up and they fobbed me off as well.

Such a forum could be locked down and only open to UKP members/members meeting certain criteria,,whatever,,anyway im just throwing it out there for discussion,,i may be talking irrelevant rubbish.. Thanks all..

[surreyvisitor]

I went on a couple of dates with a girl I met on Plenty Of Fish and asked to borrow her laptop when I was at her place once.  The browser was already open and when I expanded it she had FabSwingers open!

That was a funny conversation, she basically pointed out that FabSwingers was really no different to POF and I have to agree with her.   I have never used it myself but I would imagine being a single guy on there is pretty hard work.

[lewisjones23]

There is a forum on FS 

[Stealthmode]

you’re better of on POF, im must of smashed around 90% of who ever i’ve linked on there on the first meet.

FS is full of fat munters lording over horny guys, acting like a godess,  with a list of do’s and dont’t longer than my arm.

[Sunny]

Do you still use plenty of fish stealth? Maybe I'll have more luck finding mature black women on there then AW/Vivastreet. I tried Tinder for the first time, never again luckily on Google play they give refunds within 48 hours

[Midori]

Im not really sure if this even fits on this forum so im just putting it out there to see what others think.

Im sure we are all familiar with FS and we all have our views. I have had some limited success on there but equally, i have had plenty of pisstakers and fakes.

We all have an interest in sex whether paid for or not. A punt on FS can be just as rewarding as a paid punt or even better.

And yet there is no forum im aware of to discuss what goes on at Fab. For instance there is nowhere to discuss individual profiles and whether they are genuine or rubbish. As an example, I recently saw a couples profile in which they were advertising a meet at a local hotel and inviting males to attend. It wasnt far, i was available and so i stuck my hand up. I got a reply from the male saying they were oversubcribed blah blah blah and yet days later the same meet was up there. Taking this example ,if there was a forum for discussion, people could say,yes they are genuine,ive met them,or perhaps a dozen of us would say, yes i put my hand up and they fobbed me off as well.

Such a forum could be locked down and only open to UKP members/members meeting certain criteria,,whatever,,anyway im just throwing it out there for discussion,,i may be talking irrelevant rubbish.. Thanks all..

Saying they were oversubscribed is a polite way of saying you didn't meet their criteria of what they were looking for. People (including myself in the past) use all sorts of polite excuses on Fab in order to reject people, doesn't always mean they are fake profiles or have no intention of meeting anyone. Thing  is, a woman or even a couple get crazy amounts of messages from single guys, so they can be picky or only reply to the ones that take their fancy.

[Ali Katt]

I joined up about a year ago mainly to see if there was anyone I recognised on there, escort or otherwise. The sense of self-entitlement was worse than anything I've seen, even on other dating sites - must have a dick this big, must be a body builder, must be a certain ethnicity, must earn so much a year, must be married, seriously?

I've been a member of some dating sites in the past, Match.com was great for the tests, but too much hard work, the same with PoF, fun to browse, but unless you are putting in full time job hours to make it work it's a waste of time. In all honesty it's easier to punt or even ask someone out in real life. At the end of the day if you have the time or are in some way unique such as a Chinese guy with a 10 inch cock it can probably work for you, I'm a bit on the everyman side.

[mikexxlong]

 sites where all the ugly fat heffalump boaderline  socially dysfunctional females  go to feel empowered 

[Stealthmode]

Do you still use plenty of fish stealth? Maybe I'll have more luck finding mature black women on there then AW/Vivastreet. I tried Tinder for the first time, never again luckily on Google play they give refunds within 48 hours

Still dabble, but my phone book is really healthy at the monent. POF is a good bet to find what you are looking for.

[Home Alone]

There is a forum on FS 

So, Deepstroker, why aren't you using that???

[surreyvisitor]

you’re better of on POF, im must of smashed around 90% of who ever i’ve linked on there on the first meet.

FS is full of fat munters lording over horny guys, acting like a godess,  with a list of do’s and dont’t longer than my arm.

That is exactly the same as my experience, the scary thing is a lot of women on POF don't care if you wear a condom or not.   It was look shooting fish in a barrel, I used to pack a bag and take it with me in the car on first dates I was that confident I would be staying over.

I used the chat room on FS a couple of times and as you say, it would be a 40 year old fat munter with men falling over her.

[youngandfun]

I was on fab for a while after someone mentioned it on here!!

Did have some luck which resulted in me getting blown /screwed multiple times around various seedy locations including by the train tracks on kirkstall road and the backallys of burly / Hyde park by a woman 20 years my senior.

Best head ever so far (yes she still had her teeth haha)


A) on the negative side too many single guys it’s hard too stand out or not get lost in all the emails they send also

B) There are some awful messes who post vag photos that 

 keep seeing adult wank providers on there also there’s a few

[Deepstroker]

There is a forum on FS 

Yes im aware of the FS forum. Im banned from posting in it but again, its hosted on their website so it wouldnt be impartial and im certain any questioning comments would soon be taken down.

The point of my posting was to suggest a kind of independent validation forum to flush out the winners from the losers and fakes. The discussions of individuals successes or otherwise have already been aired many times.

[Double009123]

On POF did you pay or just wing it and use all the free services, seems unnecessary to pay

[Bunbury]

sites where all the ugly fat heffalump boaderline  socially dysfunctional females  go to feel empowered 

Just about sums it up but having said that I did meet a Latvian girl in Portsmouth on FS.  She wanted me to buy her a special orthopaedic bed before there was any action. No chance of that.

[Mr Gothic]

Fabs is an absolute sausage fest.

Been on there for a few years now, met some ok people and some right tossers.

Easiest way to get any action on there is to hit a social event, then you get plenty of verifications, and with verifications comes proper meets.

For a sex site they can be very... Not wanting sex.
The attractive women on there are either fake accounts (so damn many of them), guys pretending to be women for wank fodder im's or actually genuine and utterly snowed in with im's.

Ive seen a fair number of service providers on there but fab tends to get rid of them soon as there's any hint of payment involved or mentioned on the profiles.
I was on good terms with one of them local to medway, met her via fab and some clubs before engaging her personally for more than she offered in the clubs, she's since moved on and no longer operates and her AW profile long since closed, which is a shame because she was a great fuck and took an arse pounding like a porn star.

But I digress..

Fabs is best summed up as: a place where the obese demand to be fucked only by the demi god bods, and Streight doesn't really exist. The forums are very elitist and the cam rooms are a bit of fun if you're bored and drunk.

[SeekingtheTruth]

you’re better of on POF, im must of smashed around 90% of who ever i’ve linked on there on the first meet.

That's how I'm finiding it as well, been a surprisingly high hit rate of sex on the first date.

So much so that I've only punted once since January.

I've set my self a challenge to fuck 7 different girls in one week, come close a couple of times and once managed 6.

[Horizontal pleasures]

Presumably it is tough if you have limited time slots and locations for meetings when you can plan steal time from a working day away from home? These may not coincide with their parties?

[emraw]

Can't even get replies on POF (and I'm quite a looker)  Tried fab on and off, have had success with two girls but both below my usual standard.  Tinder is best for me but I think that's because of my age and appearance

[Ali Katt]

Can't even get replies on POF (and I'm quite a looker)  Tried fab on and off, have had success with two girls but both below my usual standard.  Tinder is best for me but I think that's because of my age and appearance

You're a good self publicist.

[emraw]

Tongue in cheek honest 

[Ali Katt]

Tongue in cheek honest 

Looks only get you so far. The fucked up thing is I have better sex now than when I was in my twenties and teens, I would say I'm less cute, but my personality is more attractive. Looks only get you so far.

[Home Alone]

Can't even get replies on POF (and I'm quite a looker)  Tried fab on and off, have had success with two girls but both below my usual standard.  Tinder is best for me but I think that's because of my age and appearance

Posts like this always remind me of Churchill's comment about Clement Attlee, his wartime deputy, and peacetime successor as Prime Minister, "A modest man, with a lot to be modest about." 

[nervous1]

Fabs is an absolute sausage fest.

Been on there for a few years now, met some ok people and some right tossers.

Easiest way to get any action on there is to hit a social event, then you get plenty of verifications, and with verifications comes proper meets.

For a sex site they can be very... Not wanting sex.
The attractive women on there are either fake accounts (so damn many of them), guys pretending to be women for wank fodder im's or actually genuine and utterly snowed in with im's.

Ive seen a fair number of service providers on there but fab tends to get rid of them soon as there's any hint of payment involved or mentioned on the profiles.
I was on good terms with one of them local to medway, met her via fab and some clubs before engaging her personally for more than she offered in the clubs, she's since moved on and no longer operates and her AW profile long since closed, which is a shame because she was a great fuck and took an arse pounding like a porn star.

But I digress..

Fabs is best summed up as: a place where the obese demand to be fucked only by the demi god bods, and Streight doesn't really exist. The forums are very elitist and the cam rooms are a bit of fun if you're bored and drunk.

Yes, I've been on it for a couple of years but only one verification from a club which is not enough to get a meet on there.  As someone who has done everything wrong my advice would be:

- Post a few public pics without obviously giving your identity away.  Have a private face pic at the ready which is essential.  A private cock pic, but NEVER share it unless asked as many of them find it a huge turn-off.
- Put some effort into your written profile stating the most interesting things you can reveal about yourself and try and point out what you are looking for without giving the impression you will shag anything.
- Block single guys as there is a plethora of gay guys on there who will shag anything
- Be active on the forums.  If you're funny and interesting with the written word then that's a good start.  Don't moan about not getting anything ever.  You will see what I mean once on the forums.
- As stated above, getting yourself to the social meets where everyone is actually welcome would be the best way to get verifications and gain trust.  This is where the hard work really starts because you will probably spend more time talking to guys but they are swingers after all.  Just remember befriending the guys could lead to great things with the women
- Clubs are your best bet but try and avoid ones (or avoid mentioning) ones that have a rep of being borderline brothels as it's another turn-off.  Clubs are more straightforward than social meets I would imagine.  Try and get along to a good one on a Friday or Saturday which is when they are not as fussy
- You will get nothing from many of them unless you put yourself forward for a coffee meet or something similar first
- They judge you on how many verifications you get and always point out that if a guy has been on there for over a year without any then they won't entertain you.  Bin old unsuccessful profiles and start a new one if so
- You can apparently get cam verified but many of them are wise to that now

Just for anybody curious.  In short it's hard work and time consuming but I'm not as sceptical about Fab as most on here.  The above certainly makes punting more of an attractive option.  I would be willing to put in the work but made too many mistakes and need to start again.  POF and the like don't work at all for me.

[Shawnwizle]

Yes, I've been on it for a couple of years but only one verification from a club which is not enough to get a meet on there.  As someone who has done everything wrong my advice would be:

- Post a few public pics without obviously giving your identity away.  Have a private face pic at the ready which is essential.  A private cock pic, but NEVER share it unless asked as many of them find it a huge turn-off.
- Put some effort into your written profile stating the most interesting things you can reveal about yourself and try and point out what you are looking for without giving the impression you will shag anything.
- Block single guys as there is a plethora of gay guys on there who will shag anything
- Be active on the forums.  If you're funny and interesting with the written word then that's a good start.  Don't moan about not getting anything ever.  You will see what I mean once on the forums.
- As stated above, getting yourself to the social meets where everyone is actually welcome would be the best way to get verifications and gain trust.  This is where the hard work really starts because you will probably spend more time talking to guys but they are swingers after all.  Just remember befriending the guys could lead to great things with the women
- Clubs are your best bet but try and avoid ones (or avoid mentioning) ones that have a rep of being borderline brothels as it's another turn-off.  Clubs are more straightforward than social meets I would imagine.  Try and get along to a good one on a Friday or Saturday which is when they are not as fussy
- You will get nothing from many of them unless you put yourself forward for a coffee meet or something similar first
- They judge you on how many verifications you get and always point out that if a guy has been on there for over a year without any then they won't entertain you.  Bin old unsuccessful profiles and start a new one if so
- You can apparently get cam verified but many of them are wise to that now

Just for anybody curious.  In short it's hard work and time consuming but I'm not as sceptical about Fab as most on here.  The above certainly makes punting more of an attractive option.  I would be willing to put in the work but made too many mistakes and need to start again.  POF and the like don't work at all for me.

Great advice!