A run of bad luck or just normal?

[Candyh78]

My question is this. Am I just experiencing a run of bad luck or is this normal for everyone?

2 Months ago I decided to start seeing escorts instead of the occasional visit to a massage parlours that I did a few years ago and the swinging and dogging I did years before that. I knew it wouldn't be easy fitting it in a around wife, family and work, but I did not think it would be this difficult.

I have been lurking on adultwork for a while and sent emails enquiring about meeting a few days later to 2 WGs that logged on regularly and had reasonable reviews. Lets call them WG1 and WG2. Both immediately stopped logging on, maybe they went on holiday. Then WG1 closes her profile.

I email WG3, she replies and we arrange a meet several days later. I arrive 5 mins early and email for full address, she replies "give me 10 minutes hun." I give her 10 and email her again, and again and again. Stupidly wait 40 minutes in the end, before going home. Good job I did because I nearly got caught by the wife who came home unexpectedly early. I should have been doing DIY that afternoon not sneaking out for a shag. I email WG3 again that night and she claims to have tried to send me emails "but they obviously didn't get through". Timewaster?

WG1 shuts down her profile and WG2 finally replies after the window of opportunity for meeting has passed.

Consider trying another meet with WG3 but she has shut down her profile.

Try a gloryhole in a parlour for the first time. Great OWO but banged my head on the door when I came. Hillarious.

Email WG4 and she immediately appears to have gone on holiday.

In a swinging chatroom, arrange a hotel meet with a couple for the following night. After contriving an excuse go out and meet "some friends for drinks" to the wife, he cancels claiming a family member is ill. I was already a bit dubious about him because some of his profile details didn't match what he said in the chatroom. Since then, every time I bump into him in the chatroom, he logs off or ignores me. Timewaster?

WG3 reappears on AW but has changed her name and some of her details, lets call her WG3.1, consider contacting her again but she shuts down her profile again.

Email WG5 and arrange to attend a gangbang. I have another contrived excuse ready to go as cover for my night out, when the wife announces she is going to see her father that night. I couldn't really object without arousing suspicion. Miss the 3 girl gangbang.

Email WG6 about a meet next week. She doesn't reply this afternoon so I ring her. "Sorry darling, but I have left Manchester and moved to London."

Should I keep persevering or should I just start using parlours again?

[hillingdonpete]

Look on the bright side, you are learning patience and acquiring a sense of humour.

[Drayki]

Just fuck them all off, and find another, theres hundreds to choose from on aw, as the saying goes plenty more fish in the sea 

[Reggypunt59]

Forget emailing them. When you have and opportunity coming up shortlist 3 or 4 then Call them maybe the day before, maybe an hour or two before (plus get a cheap pay as you go ounting phone ;-) ).
Direct contact us a surer for of success in my experience.

[Gollygiant]

Book on the day is best. Find someone well reviewed with the green light on. Phone. Drive over. Fuck her. Then back home to the wife with a smile on your face. Time needed out of your day 2hrs top. Easily make an excuse up for that.  You won't always get the girl you want that day but it's better than dragging it out over weeks.

[Jas1975]

Sounds like a lot of bad luck to me.  But SPs do come and go quite frequently it seems.

[Bud$]

Forget emailing them. When you have and opportunity coming up shortlist 3 or 4 then Call them maybe the day before, maybe an hour or two before (plus get a cheap pay as you go ounting phone ;-) ).
Direct contact us a surer for of success in my experience.

Spot on - emailing girls on AW for a same day appointment's not a great idea - a few days/ a week before is alright but call her when you're intending to go, after you've got reply email. They're not attached to their emails or computers - definitely speak to the girl before you turn up. Even do that with people coming round to my house to do something like jobs or whatever. All sorts of things can go wrong with emails. don't ask me how, but they ca. Last week I had a builder call me and ask me if I was alright for him to come round to measure up for some work I'd asked him to do. He said "Didn't I get his email?" No, I didn't. He couldn't believe it. I had a row with a mate over him saying he'd sent me an email and me saying I didn't get it. I didn't get it. Why everyone assumes that emails get to their destination I wouldn't know. They don't always get there or get seen by the recipient. You have to check.

[Bud$]

I've also been told by WG's that one of the main things which annoys them is guys who send them emails and want replies and send them emails and want replies and over and over again. Same with endless texting. One or 2 emails, one or two texts is enough. Any more and they just think you're a w...er and start ignoring you.

[Sir Lance-a-lot]

Best to arrange by email a few days in advance if possible, but rely on phone or text for comms on the day.