Comparison of hotel with WG and with OH

[RedKettle]

Due to circumstances beyond my control I had to book the same hotel for a visit with the OH that I had previously used on a business trip and had had a great session with a WG.

I started the trip wondering if I should have a conscience about this, but decided as a regular shagger of WGs the conscience part now was somewhat irrelevant.

Now my OH and I had a great trip, no sex on offer ( ) but we had quality time, good conversation, nice meal out and took in the sights. Very enjoyable.

Thinking back to my previous trip it was mainly alone, although that itself was Ok - I am comfortable in my own company and it can be good to get away from normal life.  In addition there was a hour with a fit young bird playing with a hot body and having sex.

So an interesting question for me is which one was the best experience? The clear winner would be the stay with the OH if sex had been on offer. That would be fantastic so far as I was concerned.

However comparing as they are it is a more difficult question. I am left with the conclusion that I will continue to have my cake and eat it, having both experiences is a win win    so long as I keep the security tight and do not get caught.

No doubt for much of the population I am just a bastard, especially the MNs.

[Turtle Z]

For much of the population everyone on here is a bastard RK, but particularly for those wives who turned off the sex tap and think their OH's should just suck it up!

[Trial By Fire]

Now had you been allocated the same room that would have been interesting.

[cunningpunt]

Dunno if this was a chain hotel or more boutique but I would have been worried that some overeager employee would have decided to give me the personal greeting when, of course, I had "never" been there before.

Maybe I shouldn't worry. There is one place I used in London who have seen me check in with 3 20ish yo young ladies now and I did get a funny look from the lady on the front desk the 3rd time but she was too professional to say anything. Maybe she wanted some of the action - I'll ask her next time

[RedKettle]

Dunno if this was a chain hotel or more boutique but I would have been worried that some overeager employee would have decided to give me the personal greeting when, of course, I had "never" been there before.

Maybe I shouldn't worry. There is one place I used in London who have seen me check in with 3 20ish yo young ladies now and I did get a funny look from the lady on the front desk the 3rd time but she was too professional to say anything. Maybe she wanted some of the action - I'll ask her next time

They never saw me with the WG, she came up to the room.

[RedKettle]

Now had you been allocated the same room that would have been interesting.

I booked a better room for the WG

[Weezle]

I booked a better room for the WG

You classy mofo.

[Clarkey]

I empathise RK, totally.

What can most of us say, what a dilemma

Hot sex every now and then or the security of everyday "real " life.  That is the question.

I've had both, 2nd marriage now.

Within a year the 2nd wife was saying she "was hoping it would be down to every fortnight by now" FFS

After 36 years carnal experience of the female species, i think i have pretty much sussed them by now, and SEX isn't high up on the agenda for long trust me, unless that is there is an income to maintain.  I have recently learnt my current wife fucked a rich guy senseless for a year before me hoping to be the bearer of his public school bound kids, enough said. Funnily enough with the middle income me anal and CIM is not on the menu, funny that. It's now repulsive, but stragely enough was ok with him

They all have their price sadly

[Jeff_withpetersen]

Personally in some respects I think my own situation - staying in a sexless relationship because everything else is pretty good and paying WGS for the other bit - is  more lose/lose than win/win, but maybe I'm just a glass half empty guy lol. I do sometimes rage with a mix of jealousy/depression at guys who get it even once a week - I'd be having to fork out nearly 4 grand a year for that.

[TomR]

I booked a better room for the WG

Absolute classic that!

[standardpostage]

If our wives, let us do to them, what working girls , let us do to them, then maybe ! there would be no need for men to visit massage parlours etc. Then again, men like variety, so even if you could have as much sex as you wanted at home, we would still stray, now and again ?  Bit like having steak and chips every day for dinner, now and again you feel like caviar and champagne or pie and peas.

[myothernameis]

Now had you been allocated the same room that would have been interesting.

Even more, if one of the receptionist had recognized you, and commented on your booking from last week 

[RedKettle]

If our wives, let us do to them, what working girls , let us do to them, then maybe ! there would be no need for men to visit massage parlours etc. Then again, men like variety, so even if you could have as much sex as you wanted at home, we would still stray, now and again ?  Bit like having steak and chips every day for dinner, now and again you feel like caviar and champagne or pie and peas.

Having started using WGs I doubt I would stop even if the OH became a tart in the bedroom, as you say the variety is the thing. However if she had stayed a tart in bed (she was up for it when we got together) I honestly do not think I would ever have started seeing them. Even if it was only once every couple of weeks.

[RedKettle]

Even more, if one of the receptionist had recognized you, and commented on your booking from last week 

I always have a reason for a hotel booking so that would not be a problem. The same with out calls to WGs, I always have a reason to be in that area.

[king tarzan]

I like shagging in hotels...
The nice bedroom ones...
Means nothing to me otherwise if the beautiful women were not there..

[MilleMiglia]

I empathise RK, totally.

What can most of us say, what a dilemma

Hot sex every now and then or the security of everyday "real " life.  That is the question.

I've had both, 2nd marriage now.

Within a year the 2nd wife was saying she "was hoping it would be down to every fortnight by now" FFS

After 36 years carnal experience of the female species, i think i have pretty much sussed them by now, and SEX isn't high up on the agenda for long trust me, unless that is there is an income to maintain.  I have recently learnt my current wife fucked a rich guy senseless for a year before me hoping to be the bearer of his public school bound kids, enough said. Funnily enough with the middle income me anal and CIM is not on the menu, funny that. It's now repulsive, but stragely enough was ok with him

They all have their price sadly

I feel your pain. I take it divorce is a non starter from the financial point of view?

[Plan R]

2nd marriage now.
Within a year the 2nd wife was saying she "was hoping it would be down to every fortnight by now" FFS

After 36 years carnal experience of the female species, i think i have pretty much sussed them by now, and SEX isn't high up on the agenda for long trust me, unless that is there is an income to maintain.  I have recently learnt my current wife fucked a rich guy senseless for a year before me hoping to be the bearer of his public school bound kids, enough said. Funnily enough with the middle income me anal and CIM is not on the menu, funny that. It's now repulsive, but stragely enough was ok with him

They all have their price sadly

Rational Male is a blog about how women operate. Long old articles though..
Hope I don't offend by posting a link to an article about 'born again prudes' here, but your comment reminded me of a piece about women switching off sex when they get a ring on their finger..
External Link/Members Only    I've not met a sane one yet 

[webpunter]

IMO there is a simple answer - do both
Though with hookers the meter runs up on an extended booking.  I'm happy with a few hours then once she's fucked off get some room service tucker / drinks & watch some footy or a movie.  Possibly tug one out mentally reviewing the best moments of the encounter before off to sleep.  There's the option of lining something up for the morning 

[RedKettle]

IMO there is a simple answer - do both
Though with hookers the meter runs up on an extended booking.  I'm happy with a few hours then once she's fucked off get some room service tucker / drinks & watch some footy or a movie.  Possibly tug one out mentally reviewing the best moments of the encounter before off to sleep.  There's the option of lining something up for the morning 

Yes I am with you there. Sometimes it works out well, escort, she fucks off, food service and a decent film or sports. Or down to the bar.

[webpunter]

This is where you need some viagra to hand - in the unlikely event that there are some civvy opportunities

Or down to the bar

[JV547845]

I hope your OH was OK.  What are fucking hotel breaks for if not to enjoy quaity time with each other - how's your love life otherwise?

[BlueRock]

Hotel break, meals or shows are surely normally an overture to sex with the OH. I used to get the "I respond to romance" I did the lot but the returns on my investment got less and less until I was down to single figures a year even with these gestures so I just stopped the lot. I'd get the "you never take me out" and "I'm not here just for sex" speeches. I calmly said I'm not a wallet or a dog with unconditional love I'm a man and I want a shag. In a fit of temper I was told to fuck off and use my hand or see a hooker.....I did both.

[webpunter]

In a fit of temper I was told to fuck off and use my hand or see a hooker.....I did both.

I probably wouldn't use the excuse 'you told me to' on the latter 

[BlueRock]

Haha, I doubt she'd of cared just a born again prude. I would of been cheating on the hookers if I had actually had sex with her think it got to a ratio of 1:15 the 1 being sex with my OH and 15 with WGs!

[thor555]

Great metric  1:15  think mines 1:20 and that at a push.
Last time was at spa break, it was like a "if i have to shag you then have a go" to be honest was just gonna roll over and go to sleep; thought id would be a waste so went for it.

So now im down to once a year if im lucky!

[RedKettle]

Great metric  1:15  think mines 1:20 and that at a push.
Last time was at spa break, it was like a "if i have to shag you then have a go" to be honest was just gonna roll over and go to sleep; thought id would be a waste so went for it.

So now im down to once a year if im lucky!

1:30

[webpunter]

I've always fancied taking a hooker on a spa break.  Just an overnight - would run out of stuff to talk about after that.  And too much.  They have a massage / beauty session in the afternoon.  And see if they 'give it the beans' come bed time [about 30 mins after they return from the spa  ]
A few years ago i suggested this to an AW burd.  At a very pukka venue not too far from her 'residence'.  Usually 1,000-1,200 for overnight.  I negotiated 600 for lunchtime arrival - her in the spa for various treatments [i'm picking up the whole tab].  Then late afternoon / early evening sex.  Then dinner, some more sex & sleep.  BJ in morning & she's outta the place.  She responded that she would like to do it - virtually a day off [in her eyes].  I then compared the thought of 1,250+ all-in which equated to lots of 1hr sessions with other burds.  And dismissed the idea.  Dummkopf 

Last time was at spa break, it was like a "if i have to shag you then have a go" to be honest was just gonna roll over and go to sleep; thought id would be a waste so went for it.