Addicted To Escorts

[JV547845]

To be honest dude, you sound like you're shit at sex.  Take your time, there's no rush.

[captainavenger]

your probably right

[DG]

im still feeling so shitty even shitty then my other shit punt in January, probably wont see a punt until July now

Seems to me your hearts not in it, or you're just crap at spotting a good punt. I've been pretty lucky in the relatively short time I've been punting; only had one really bad punt and that was because I was desperate one Sunday and took the first available WG with a decent pic.

My advice would be to avoid Romanians, there are too many fakers to take a risk trying to find a genuine one. Look for an independent, local girl with some decent feedback, on here and AW. You might even find it better going for an older more experienced WG who is likely to be more considerate about your inexperience. Once you find a good punt you will be back; when you've found the type of WG that works for you, try and find some more like her. Bit to soon to be talking about regulars for you, but once you've been punting for a while, if you find a gem, worth a few visits to keep her interest, chances are the service will improve.

Just a comment on your concern about how much you've spent so far, I visited my regular girl yesterday, which took me up to £1050 on her alone since last August.

[justfornow]

if you don't want or can't date and you had two 30 min punts that were shit, stop repeating same stuff and change something.
i'll make it easy for you and plan this out:
1. save more money (100£-150£)
2. go for a well reviewed wg on ukp for 1 hour

3. profit:
1h:
5 min shower
5 min chat
10 min foreplay DFK maybe some RO
10 OWO sex and quick pop
30 min RO or more foreplay, second pop and whatever else you can manage

4. post punt bliss
5. review on ukp

rinse and repeat
Very standard punting routine that probably most of us followed at some point.

I might appear to be an asshole here but i just can't see how can you get it wrong again and again.
If you would say that you fail at dating...well, i can relate...but if you keep failing at punting whilst having access to this site i don't get it.

You should not pay money to feel shitty afterwards.
Good punt will not make you forget the bad one but it will definitely make you happy.
Best of luck mate, don't give up

[captainavenger]

yeh the problem i think i dont want to travel far for a punt, so i travel max 15-minutes. Guess all the punts are shit in my area

[captainavenger]

 From October 2014,ive spent £430 so far and counting on 6 punts , only 2 of them have been good.
got to work my ass of in March to replenish funds

[captainavenger]

Day 1 and still feeling like shit
why am i still on ukpunting/AW

when will this anger go away

[JV547845]

your probably right

I don't mean that as a diss.  It's just obvious that neither you nor your partners are getting what you or they want from your shagging.  I would suggest just not being such a selfish lover.

[justfornow]

Day 1 and still feeling like shit
why am i still on ukpunting/AW

when will this anger go away

ok man please stop feeling sorry for yourself you know what you have to do....

book well reviewed wg for an hour
put plan from my earlier post in to action and i assure you...

...the pain will not only go away, it will be replaced with post punt bliss

if that won't work punting is not for you and it is not solution to your problems

[captainavenger]

Punting for me should be once in a blue moon
yesterday was a last minute punt and obviously it was a shit one

[Trevor12]

OP, I disagree with the advice saying book an hour for your next punt. You lasted 10 minutes of a 30 min booking before popping and leaving. You need to learn to maximize those 30 minutes before thinking about longer bookings.

Compile a hotlist of girls that you find attractive that are well-reviewed (on this site) for being reliable, consistent, enthusiastic etc. Save their phone numbers, and try to find out their location. That way, when the urge hits, instead of picking a random and possible shit prossie, you have a harem of quality plan A's to chose from.

[itk]

I wouldn't say I'm addicted to punting, but I've been doing so for 20+ years, and although I punt less nowadays I'm still looking for WG's on a daily basis through this site and AW.  If I had far more disposable income and more time to myself I'd probably end up how I started with 2 or 3 punts each and every week.

[justfornow]

OP, I disagree with the advice saying book an hour for your next punt. You lasted 10 minutes of a 30 min booking before popping and leaving. You need to learn to maximize those 30 minutes before thinking about longer bookings.

Compile a hotlist of girls that you find attractive that are well-reviewed (on this site) for being reliable, consistent, enthusiastic etc. Save their phone numbers, and try to find out their location. That way, when the urge hits, instead of picking a random and possible shit prossie, you have a harem of quality plan A's to chose from.

i advised for longer booking to squeeze 2nd pop in there and to remove the pressure of maximizing the time so it's more relaxed

[walking dead]

Did you forget how to masturbate? Maybe it is just me, but rubbing one out completly cures me of dick thinking

I agree. I don't masturbate hardly anymore.  I am sure that would help me cut down a bit!

[GFRadar12]

My biggest downfall is that I never go for appointments less than an hour. I know it would save me money perhaps having cheaper 15 mins or 30 min fucks but I just like to have that extra time with a girl.

My bank account hates me, I try to limit myself to 2 a month but it never usually works out that way!! 

My cock is addicted for sure...

[captainavenger]

After two shit punts    I hope i can call it quits

[Goofy85]

I'm currently without punting for two months and I'm doing good so far.

I've had thoughts about it, but taking a step back has let me see the hobby a little differently. Looking at UK Punting and seeing the same London girls spoken about all the time, it just seems a little boring.

The London scene suddenly doesn't look as appealing for those that are not part of the very wealthy group of punters, with price increases:

Cindy now £140 previously £120, Laryssa now £150 previously £120, Hazel now £150 previously £130, LillyHart £140 previously £130, Emily Creme Brule £160 previously £150, and much lower previously say some punters who have PM'd me previously.

And the best girls constantly being booked in advance. It all seemed like too much effort to see the best girls, and too much money for quick fix gratification, and the guilt of making girls who don't care about me very rich, while I go on the slippery slope to mild addiction and being broke from this hobby. Instead I'm spending money on things that last years, and make me happy. Hell, I will now have money to go on holiday. I may return to punting, in fact I'm sure I will, but right now, I'm happy.

[jimbobwood]

I'm currently without punting for two months and I'm doing good so far.

I've had thoughts about it, but taking a step back has let me see the hobby a little differently. Looking at UK Punting and seeing the same London girls spoken about all the time, it just seems a little boring.

The London scene suddenly doesn't look as appealing for those that are not part of the very wealthy group of punters, with price increases:

Cindy now £140 previously £120, Laryssa now £150 previously £120, Hazel now £150 previously £130, LillyHart £140 previously £130, Emily Creme Brule £160 previously £150, and much lower previously say some punters who have PM'd me previously.

And the best girls constantly being booked in advance. It all seemed like too much effort to see the best girls, and too much money for quick fix gratification, and the guilt of making girls who don't care about me very rich, while I go on the slippery slope to mild addiction and being broke from this hobby. Instead I'm spending money on things that last years, and make me happy. Hell, I will now have money to go on holiday. I may return to punting, in fact I'm sure I will, but right now, I'm happy.

Good for you mate!

What are you spending your money on instead? It's important to have hobbies and keep punting under control, within budget.

[306]

is it cock rings ,blow up dolls fleshlite etc or beer and fags ?

[captainavenger]

I'm currently without punting for two months and I'm doing good so far.

I've had thoughts about it, but taking a step back has let me see the hobby a little differently. Looking at UK Punting and seeing the same London girls spoken about all the time, it just seems a little boring.

The London scene suddenly doesn't look as appealing for those that are not part of the very wealthy group of punters, with price increases:

Cindy now £140 previously £120, Laryssa now £150 previously £120, Hazel now £150 previously £130, LillyHart £140 previously £130, Emily Creme Brule £160 previously £150, and much lower previously say some punters who have PM'd me previously.

And the best girls constantly being booked in advance. It all seemed like too much effort to see the best girls, and too much money for quick fix gratification, and the guilt of making girls who don't care about me very rich, while I go on the slippery slope to mild addiction and being broke from this hobby. Instead I'm spending money on things that last years, and make me happy. Hell, I will now have money to go on holiday. I may return to punting, in fact I'm sure I will, but right now, I'm happy.

I hope to be this come April

[Sonny Crockett]

Hey fellow punters, so it all started on October 2013 where I first discovered adultwork and the escort business and decided I would try an escort as a one time thing, then November came and I was too tempted again and said that was it.
I was good until New year 2014 and said one more good punt (last one was shit) and thats that and now today, 6 days later  not even a month I see myself forking out £100 for another. Ive spent £350 on escorts so far and I want to retire for good. (Plus im pretty young under 25.
Anybody on the same boat?

Yes I'm like you!!! I would say once you do get into it and you really get into it, then the temptation becomes too much to resist and you want more of this. I did go through a period of 9 months without punting, however once I broke my celibacy, there was no turning back. I guess it is true in my case.....

Once a punter......... Always a punter!!!!!!!!!!!

[Punter_]

Mate...seriously, get a grip of yourself. I wanted to register here anyway but your post was the last straw that made me do it. I am your age and if I had the money I would be going balls deep every week. Do you like it or not? If you do continue, if you don't then stop. No big deal. I popped my cherry with a prossie in December and I have no regrets at all.

[justfornow]

Mate...seriously, get a grip of yourself. I wanted to register here anyway but your post was the last straw that made me do it. I am your age and if I had the money I would be going balls deep every week. Do you like it or not? If you do continue, if you don't then stop. No big deal. I popped my cherry with a prossie in December and I have no regrets at all.

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[Goofy85]

Nearly three months without. Still going strong.

With all my favourite girls, and the ones I was planning to see raising their prices, I no longer see any real value out there. When I say value, I mean value AND quality.

I've looked at my hotlist, and looked for girls within my price range of up to £130 per hour, and no longer feel the buzz of seeing someone who will blow me away. Literally and metaphorically. I find it more difficult to justify the cost than I did three months ago.

I've said I will probably return. But thinking of all the money I've saved from not punting is making me reluctant.

[anonyorks]

I thought I was getting addicted so took a break of a couple of weeks after a punt where I couldn't be bothered. Had another couple which were good but still a bit jaded after. Aiming to have a month off now, over two weeks in so far and feel better for it. Its helped that a WG ive seen a couple of times let slip she had a bf so that put me off. My hot list is empty bar a porn star who is £250 a hour which I'll never pay.

[captainavenger]

yer everytime i have a urge to see a WG, i have a quick wank, saves me £100 in the long run.

my last punt was 4 days ago but it was only  because this particular WG had so many good reviews and it turned out i was able to get a last min booking, but thats that, not many VFM out there these days, AW is becoming hoarded by romanians who if they had their own way will take your money and tell you to get out.

total money spent in my punting career so far (I will probably punt around August time): £530 (7 WG's), do i regret some of them, hell yes, wish i stayed at home and slept, but a few were insane and i glad i went through.

[Nobby nobbs]

Dude… it's got nothing to do with how much money you do or don't spend a month - how do i know what you earn, don't earn, debt to have or don't have?

Some replies could be right, you're probably not addicted but you are clearly worried about punting and maybe using a money conversation is an easier way to quantify the subject. It's easier to talk about money than emotions.  If money is a concern, you could open a bank account that's easy to put money in but hard to get out, direct debit money in when you get paid so that it's a pain in the ass to get punting funds, giving you time to think about whether to go thru with it or not.

The only important thing to ask yourself is 'is punting negatively impacting your life or not'. If punting has a negative impact and knowing the negative impact it has, and you are still punting, then your concerns are valid and you might want to ask yourself what stress or pain in your life you're avoiding. There's no point making deals with yourself 'this is the last one' or 'only one punt a month' - it's clear that you are going to break these deals and that will only make you feel worse. More effective to think why you're punting.

[captainavenger]

Thanks for the advice, it doesnt have a negative impact on my life, just what i alliterated before that I could use the money for something else, i like the buzz and thrill of the initiall comms with the WG, the build up to the meet and the actual session if its a good one. BUT its a few days until I personally realize i paid for meaningless sex to a WG whos just doing her job and will move onto the next client.
Im 24 and still young and really fighting to stay away from WG, but the feeling comes back and i have to see one, ive seen 7 so far and have spent £530 which i know for some people isnt that much as their are a few guys who spend that in one week, even on one meet. I was getting addicted in January and saw three then i calmed down and saw one in feb and one in march.
But the last WG was a really good one and i said to myself a few days later, now that was epic and lets end it on a high, probably wont happen but we will see.

I started in punting in October 2014 and found out AW from a pornstars twitter account (candi blows who was escorting at the time)...needless to say the only thing that will probably make me quit is if i find a girl friend again.

Having said all this, i will be extremely busy in the next few months so wont have time to punt again and maybe we will see in August.
 

[captainavenger]

^ lol to my above comment
just punted again, decent punt

thats my punt done for the month, i punt once a month now even though i said i will stop but its too good

[funkoff]

just read SAAFE that should put you off

for a bit

maybe

[Cuntminion]

Dunno I would say spending money more than you can afford, when you know you can't afford might be seed of addiction

Sounds like op has guilt complex more than anything

[red_zed]

luckily I am not addicted but I am very ocd about choosing who to visit. I am very afraid of a punt going wrong as it would require me to spend even more in quick succession.

I think one way that keeps the addiction from happening is the fact that I don't visit the same wg twice.

[TheCape]

luckily I am not addicted but I am very ocd about choosing who to visit. I am very afraid of a punt going wrong as it would require me to spend even more in quick succession.

I think one way that keeps the addiction from happening is the fact that I don't visit the same wg twice.

Isn't that hard to do if you find that rare gem though Red?

[royal_male]

This thread has been a great eye-opener for me. I can relate to some of the points that people bring up.

I only look into WG's only in order of occurence..
1) Im horny as fuck, havent had a lay in a while.
2) Im bored, i have noticed that when im busy it doesnt even cross my mind. However, when im bored, i skim through AW and the like, frequently making an appointment.
3) Feel that life is to be lived and not worry about money. I can always earn that some where else.

cheers,
hope it helps,