Should I worry

[player96]

I was looking for a massage and hr this morn, thought i found the perfect place sent a test asking how much for what I wanted. Got no reply till tonight and got a message saying bared! I was confused and replied sorry who is this. I had this long message saying I text them this morning and they reserve the right to give my details to the police and their solicitors?

Do you think this is genuine or a scare tatic?

[Tjkooker]

It's a wind up. What are they gona "report" you for.

[player96]

Asking how much a massage and hr is?

[Taggart]

No.

Just ignore, and bar their number if you use an iPhone on iOS 7.
Trying to scare you.

[player96]

Ok, i just replied saying ok sorry earlier. Will block now

[LL]

Asking how much a massage and hr is?

If the police get in touch (extremely unlikely!) just tell them it was a misunderstanding in that you had intended to text
"how much is a massage for 1 hr?" 

[myothernameis]

I was looking for a massage and hr this morn, thought i found the perfect place sent a test asking how much for what I wanted. Got no reply till tonight and got a message saying bared! I was confused and replied sorry who is this. I had this long message saying I text them this morning and they reserve the right to give my details to the police and their solicitors?

Do you think this is genuine or a scare tatic?

Where did you obtain the number, was it some where like gumtree, maybe the number wasn't genuine, so infact you were contacting someone not related tot he massage, so there fore they send you the text

[player96]

It was a genuine website. It was tantric so they do lingham etc. I think I said hand relief. Looking at site in more dtail it does say they will get me banned off the networks and take me to a claims court. :-(

[myothernameis]

I think I said hand relief.

Maybe that's the reason, think tantric and hand relief don't go together, especially if the places are legitimate, even some site I have looked at in the Glasgow area, say they will not tolerate anyone asking for sexual services, if asked you will be blocked

But there a few thai massage parlours, and its my belief you would have to visit them 3-5 time before they offer anything in a sexual way, like HR

[player96]

Disclaimer  Data Protection Act 

Confidentiality law under Data Protection Act will only apply to those abiding by the fundamental rule  of our Temple and Practices. "Do not solicit by enquiring about escort services, girls, or prostitutes when communicating with  our temple". Failure to recognise a) no soliciting rule, b) our Temple as a genuine practice, c) our practitioners as genuine skilled practitioners,  will result in us reporting this behaviour to the Police. We shall also do our best in keeping  wives, husbands, relationships and partners informed of such unflattering behaviour. Be reassured that Tantra  is not sex,  Diamond Lotus Tantra and Erotic massages are  neither sex,  sexuality, prostitution nor escort services. Respect the fact that Our Temple is not a Brothel. 


t was a mistake.  Worried I will have the police after me now

This is off their site

[vorian]

It was a genuine website. It was tantric so they do lingham etc. I think I said hand relief. Looking at site in more dtail it does say they will get me banned off the networks and take me to a claims court. :-(

This seems very odd, short answer no you are safe that cannot do anything to you, why would the police get involved,  so don't worry out of interest can you link the the Web site I would be interested to read the warning they have on the site. Love to find out how they would take you to small claims court.

[Pauluk1]

Sounds like they are a bunch of wankers.
What's the site?

[player96]

External Link/Members Only

[vorian]

Disclaimer  Data Protection Act

Confidentiality law under Data Protection Act will only apply to those abiding by the fundamental rule  of our Temple and Practices. "Do not solicit by enquiring about escort services, girls, or prostitutes when communicating with  our temple". Failure to recognise a) no soliciting rule, b) our Temple as a genuine practice, c) our practitioners as genuine skilled practitioners,  will result in us reporting this behaviour to the Police. We shall also do our best in keeping  wives, husbands, relationships and partners informed of such unflattering behaviour. Be reassured that Tantra  is not sex,  Diamond Lotus Tantra and Erotic massages are  neither sex,  sexuality, prostitution nor escort services. Respect the fact that Our Temple is not a Brothel.


t was a mistake.  Worried I will have the police after me now

This is off their site

No you won't it is utter clap trap and has no legal basis at all.  No contract has been made and no law has been broken. Please do not lose any sleep over this rubbish.

[myothernameis]

Sounds like they are a bunch of wankers.
What's the site?

Is this the site, google is your friend


External Link/Members Only

[player96]

Is asking how much massage and hand relief nit illegal though?

[player96]

Is this the site, google is your friend


External Link/Members Only

yes

[CBPaul]

Please say you used a punting phone.

Anyway - take you to the 'claims court' for what exactly ?
You can still wriggle out of it, say they've misunderstood, and you've got a bad back that needs relief with their healing hands  at least you haven't asked the price for owo, cim and a good hard shag.
Alternatively if they contact again reply saying asking who they are, claim your mate must have been on the wind up after a heavy night. Some shite like that, they'll never prove anything.

[player96]

No punting phone. Im so worried feel sick. 

[riker]

 

[vorian]

Is asking how much massage and hand relief nit illegal though?

What is hand relief I thought is was a type of massage. I have had a look at the site and you have nothing to worry about.  If in the unlikely event they did try anything on you could sue the arse of them. I would just read a bit more in depth before contacting anything like this again to save yourself the worry.

[player96]

 

what?

[riker]

No punting phone. Im so worried feel sick. 

Go to sleep, they are just winding you up. There is no law against asking for hand relief /massage in the UK.

[Pauluk1]

After seeing the site and reading all their mumbo jumbo.  They massage you and wank you off.
Nothing to worry about.

[player96]

What is hand relief I thought is was a type of massage. I have had a look at the site and you have nothing to worry about.  If in the unlikely event they did try anything on you could sue the arse of them. I would just read a bit more in depth before contacting anything like this again to save yourself the worry.

What could I sue for?

[player96]

After seeing the site and reading all their mumbo jumbo.  They massage you and wank you off.
Nothing to worry about.

why text me that then?

[myothernameis]

The site is very conflicting, especially when you read the details

SHAKTI VERAH owner of Tantra Massage Midlands. 

Tantra Guide, Counsellor and Master shakti offer a moment of Unconditional freedom and emotional expression.

Following her Diamond Lotus traditions in her massages the receiver are free and is very welcomed to:

* orgasm * ejaculations * welcome their erections * laugh

* cry* giggle * twitch *meditate *remain still at will.

These are characteristics of a free and unconstrained "shiva" orgasm.

Naturally this orgasm is followed by the "valley Shakti" orgasm, the orgasm of silence and stillness.

In eastern tradition there is a difference between orgasm and ejaculation. Ejaculation is a short moment whereas orgasm is a sensing a sensibility that can be present in all aspects of our life.

There is  ejaculation without orgasm. Orgasms without ejaculation. The latter is known as the "big draw". Traditionally "tantra men" grow to appreciate tantra massage and tantra touch as an opportunity for meditation and surrender, ejaculation becomes insignificant to them. 
 
Diamond Lotus protocol:

* We massage on a tantra mattress on the floor.

* Use oil for the massage.

* Erotic massage massages the entire body .

* Tantra massage does not massage the mouth, the anus, the penis, nor the vagina.

* Giver of the massage is not a receiver.

* The receiver of the massage is not a giver.

* We do not cover the body thought the massage.

* men are free to ejaculate and orgasm at will. We are not concerned with way the body respond to tantra (erotic) massage. To our traditions the body is asexual, sensual and meaningless energy. Sex is social creation we are not concerned with.

8 we are trained to massage for over 12 hours. My overall training and skills can offer 6 months long sessions. Whatever comes out of this skill and wisdom is fruit of intuition. Allow the moment its magic and purity, this here & now. This is Tantra. Expectations desires are limitations. Surrender & trust my twelve years of growth, wisdom, skill, and non- cognitive knowledge!

 
Diamond Lotus Art of Touch hold no judgement. The body is the body, to us this is final. Tantra massage is a form of meditation, Joy peace little much matter.


Respect our traditions. Do not mix our skill and traditions with escorts, sex, and promiscuity. Here to share our traditions.


I say this is sending mixed messages, you can get an erection, and ejaculate if you want, but were not escorts and don't offer sex????

There is a link for escorts, click on it if your dare, it wont take you to where you think it should take you, but where you end up, makes you think, omg

[vorian]

No punting phone. Im so worried feel sick. 

Right let me be clear ignore and block the number you have NOTHING to worry about no one, not the police,  not a solicitor,  not a judge, no one will be interested in the message you sent. Doesn't matter what they have written on their web site.

[player96]

I know takes you to the met police site. I am panicking alot now

[smiths]

I was looking for a massage and hr this morn, thought i found the perfect place sent a test asking how much for what I wanted. Got no reply till tonight and got a message saying bared! I was confused and replied sorry who is this. I had this long message saying I text them this morning and they reserve the right to give my details to the police and their solicitors?

Do you think this is genuine or a scare tatic?

Assuming your genuine and this actually happened you havent broken the law so even if by any chance the police did have a word with you it would be to tell you to not pester this place again. Perhaps they get loads of guys asking this and are sick of it so do all they can to scare guys off asking for sexual services. Like you some are no doubt not smart though to read what they have put properly and continue to pester them, all assuming they actually dont ever offer sexual services of course, and i have absolutely no idea whether they do or not.

[cunnyhunt]

It's a fucking troll.

he has been told to ignore several times but continues to wind up.

[vorian]

I know takes you to the met police site. I am panicking alot now

Right one more time,  it does not matter what they have or have not put on the Web site or what links they have put on it. You have done NOTHING wrong.  They do not make the law they do not enforce the law.  They can do NOTHING to you.

[player96]

Assuming your genuine and this actually happened you havent broken the law so even if by any chance the police did have a word with you it would be to tell you to not pester this place again. Perhaps they get loads of guys asking this and are sick of it so do all they can to scare guys off asking for sexual services. Like you some are no doubt not smart though to read what they have put properly and continue to pester them, all assuming they actually dont ever offer sexual services of course, and i have absolutely no idea whether they do or not.

I am genuine.  Sorry just not used to any of this

[player96]

Right one more time,  it does not matter what they have or have not put on the Web site or what links they have put on it. You have done NOTHING wrong.  They do not make the law they do not enforce the law.  They can do NOTHING to you.

thanks. So what I text isnt against the law

[cunnyhunt]

You will be late for school in the morning

[vorian]

It's a fucking troll.

he has been told to ignore several times but continues to wind up.

Yep think maybe your right, or someone who is upset and has no idea.

 Got to try to help them anyway.

So for the last time no what you text is not against the law.

[player96]

Yep think maybe your right, or someone who is scarred and has no idea.

 Got to try to help them anyway.

scarred?

[daviemac]

Asking how much a massage and hr is?

Why would you send a text asking when this is on their website -

Lingham (erotic) Massage- MEN.
Male aspect. Most men are happy to orgasm which  we have no bias against or in favour  of it. Normal and absolutely welcomed of what it is, bodily function.     

Complete with price list so all info's there.

[myothernameis]

maybe its all down to the fact they class there place as a temple, and its their religion, so for anyone to text them asking for HR, isn't on

This is taken from one of there adverts

Any one requiring for sex, sex services must be aware of the fact that Tantra Massage Midlands does regarded this as oppressive, disrespectful and unflattering remark. As a genuine Tantra Temple, Member of Warwick Chamber of Commerce, and member of O2 telecommunication liaison which works in partnership with local Warwick Police liaison office.

Peace Quiet Tantra Temple reserve the right to protect the reputation and the integrity, of our Temple, our practitioners, and our staff. We shall make all relevant data to the relevant authorities which shall act in our representation. We continue to press with network providers to block offenders number terminate their contracts and whenever possible take the more persistent ones to a small court claim. DON'T CALL IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR AN ESCORT.

Please don't call unless you are willing to respect our practices for what they are : TANTRA MASSAGE AS A SKILL OF MEDITATION.

[smiths]

What is hand relief I thought is was a type of massage. I have had a look at the site and you have nothing to worry about.  If in the unlikely event they did try anything on you could sue the arse of them. I would just read a bit more in depth before contacting anything like this again to save yourself the worry.

Hand Relief is being wanked off. In some cases a woman or place who just advertise they offer a massage will offer Hand Relief or a Happy Ending as its known to some guys. The woman who offers it is then a prostitute whether she or the guy think they are or not as she has of course offered a sexual service for cash. And if the place has more than 1 WG working out of it at any time its a brothel. Of course i am not saying thats the case with place the OP has mentioned.

There is some delusion that goes on with some of these WGs and some of their punters in that they both believe Hand Relief or a Happy Ending isnt prostitution or the guy a punter or that he is cheating on his partner. I used to read post after post about it on Pnet when they had a dedicated massage board.

[myothernameis]

Asking how much a massage and hr is?

Why would you send a text asking when this is on their website -

hr....I thought that meant hour, so when the op sent the message, what was he referring when he sent the message,.....how much is a massage, and hr is

If he meant hour, maybe this place has mistaken his message as being hand relief

when I write hour, I always use the shortened version hr

[Pauluk1]

Whether the OP is genuine or not, it's great advertising for the site.
Not sure the Coventry & Warwickshire Chamber of Commerce would approve of what is effectively a brothel quoting them on their site would think though.

[daviemac]

hr....I thought that meant hour, so when the op sent the message, what was he referring when he sent the message,.....how much is a massage, and hr is

If he meant hour, maybe this place has mistaken his message as being hand relief

when I write hour, I always use the shortened version hr

My question was why did the OP feel the need to txt asking the price for massage and hr when the site tells you during massage you get hr and it has a price list. All he had to do was read it then txt for appointment or did he think their price list was wrong.

[Strawberry]

why text me that then?

To get you to stop texting them.

[Daffodil]

Whether the OP is genuine or not, it's great advertising for the site.
Not sure the Coventry & Warwickshire Chamber of Commerce would approve of what is effectively a brothel quoting them on their site would think though.

I'm not sure it is, they're coming across as total twats. Hopefully most would avoid.

[Dani]

Why would the Met be interested in anyone in the Midlands asking for sexual services.  It would fall under the local police to investigate not the Met so they are rather uninformed on this matter even if it were illegal to ask.
FFS they don't even have the sense to link to their local station or even the county division of where they are.

OP.  don't worry, I could put on my site that all people who enquire for a booking and don't show up will be reported to the police for soliciting and be sued for a cancellation fee.  It doesn't mean it would be true as A, it is not illegal to ask if someone offers sexual services and B, One cant take an immoral contract to court which anything regarding paid for sex is classed as

[vorian]

Why would the Met be interested in anyone in the Midlands asking for sexual services.  It would fall under the local police to investigate not the Met so they are rather uninformed on this matter even if it were illegal to ask.
FFS they don't even have the sense to link to their local station or even the county division of where they are.

OP.  don't worry, I could put on my site that all people who enquire for a booking and don't show up will be reported to the police for soliciting and be sued for a cancellation fee.  It doesn't mean it would be true as A, it is not illegal to ask if someone offers sexual services and B, One cant take an immoral contract to court which anything regarding paid for sex is classed as

That's what I said, you just put it better than me Dani.  I've got a feeling the thread was a wind up but still got to help if you can afterall.

[player96]

Hi guys.

it wasnt a wind up.  I was very frightened but I guess I shouldnt be.

r

[vorian]

Hi guys.

it wasnt a wind up.  I was very frightened but I guess I shouldnt be.

r

Well I'm glad you asked for advice and help.  Conclusion seems to be you have nothing to worry about but for your own peace of mind read the website fully before you text in the future. Good punting.

[player96]

Well I'm glad you asked for advice and help.  Conclusion seems to be you have nothing to worry about but for your own peace of mind read the website fully before you text in the future. Good punting.

I think that is me done before I started.