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Author Topic: Seeking Arrangements (SA) or Secret Benefits (SB)?  (Read 18452 times)

Offline Jason1971

Jason-glad to hear you have had success-may I ask what area you operate in as I think that may have a bearing ?

Well I based in Coventry at the moment, which is where girls I have met are from as well, very little travel has been involved

Offline ScouserRod

Thanks for this-hope it continues well for you.
I am tempted I must admit-good idea to join for a month and get a few contacts which you can see at your leisure !

Offline Spencer Fobby

Thanks for this-hope it continues well for you.
I am tempted I must admit-good idea to join for a month and get a few contacts which you can see at your leisure !
Yeah, it doesn’t actually work like that. These girls generally have a short life span as sugar babies. And they don’t fill up their days fucking for cash. It’s more like dating to most of them and you have to strike while the iron is hot. A month later and they won’t be interested in fucking at your leisure.
Not the same mindset as adultwork.
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Offline InMefan

Well I based in Coventry at the moment, which is where girls I have met are from as well, very little travel has been involved

I'm from Coventry too, I wonder if we have met the same girls  :lol:

Offline James

Well I based in Coventry at the moment, which is where girls I have met are from as well, very little travel has been involved

Well i had no luck finding anyone in cov near to me. 4 pages of recently online girls came up and not a single good response
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Offline ScouserRod

James-hope you don't mind me asking-but what is your age range ? I would think that this could possibly influence how many replies you get ??

Offline Jason1971

I'm from Coventry too, I wonder if we have met the same girls  :lol:

Sadly I am unable to disclose who they are on here.

Offline James

James-hope you don't mind me asking-but what is your age range ? I would think that this could possibly influence how many replies you get ??
Im 30 and im generally searching 19 to 28
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Mallow841

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I don’t do munters and I’ve had some marvellous success on SA. I’m no blagard either.

Since I first joined SA in 2015, I’ve rarely punted with a FS/AW SP. Before that I was a weekly punter but SA has been a goldmine of horny, fit young women so I no longer feel the need to punt. Yes I drive a nice car and wear decent clothes but I’m not rich and as a balding, slightly overweight 50-something the sight of women 30 years younger than me choking on my cock will live with me until I’m in my dotage.

Consider a couple of things before you dismiss SA. Some young women do prefer older guys, they like the perceived wisdom and lack of drama that comes with it. Also, and I’ve heard this from many sources, young guys are so hung up on porn that they are so self centred and selfish sexually. Get a twenty something into bed and take time to show her attention and turn her on then she will be putty in your hands.

I agree that Seeking isn’t as good as it was, the media put paid to that. However if your approach it with the right mindset it’s a rich seam of available pussy that would otherwise be out of reach. I’ve fucked more women in their twenties in the last 4 years than I did when I was that age!

These girls aren’t going to say
“I prefer the younger guys” to an older guy are they?
And they aren’t going to say “I prefer the older guys” to a younger guy either.

They will say what they think the guy wants to hear.
Not every young guy is hung up on porn and no every older guy is gonna be good in bed.
I’ve heard some of the experiences from the women I’ve met and some of them are fucking hilarious.

Won’t go into detail but one was about a guy in his 60s who had only had sex with two women and didn’t have a clue what to do and only knew one position. I wonder what these girls are telling their other Meets about me if they’re that free with the info.

SA now is nothing compared to 2014/2015 times, back then it was much easier to get what you wanted for a good amount. Now the women on there are more knowledgable in regards to “sugar dating” thanks to the media and SB influencers on Twitter they are asking for much more £££ for less work.
« Last Edit: September 30, 2019, 04:07:38 pm by Mallow841 »

Mallow841

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Yeah, it doesn’t actually work like that. These girls generally have a short life span as sugar babies. And they don’t fill up their days fucking for cash. It’s more like dating to most of them and you have to strike while the iron is hot. A month later and they won’t be interested in fucking at your leisure.
Not the same mindset as adultwork.

And then three months later they turn up with a new profile looking for more cash.
Seen it too many times

Offline dmitrybulgakov

Good Morning

I was on SB in the year 2018, and few months of 2019. 9 out of 10 girls who I  contacted, or contacted me were scammers or pros.
Something to bear in mind. Seriously considering to join SA and take the plunge.

Cheers

Offline luv2kiss54

Sorry if its been covered but haven't got time to trawl through all previous pages. Is there a way of paying on SA without using a credit/debit card to maintain privacy. I recall someone mentione Google Play store vouchers but cant see that as a payment option on the site. Any current advice appreciated,

Offline _Rust_

Sorry if its been covered but haven't got time to trawl through all previous pages. Is there a way of paying on SA without using a credit/debit card to maintain privacy. I recall someone mentione Google Play store vouchers but cant see that as a payment option on the site. Any current advice appreciated,

If you set up google play with paypal as your payment method and download the SA app (not available on the apple store) you can join via the app and keep getting billed through google play. You can still sign in via browser afterwards with no issues.

I got 7 days for £22.99, decent offer if you want to gather some contacts in a short space of time.

Offline PeachyAssFan

Rust. Thanks for the info regarding joining SA using the app via google play funded by PayPal. 
 Is it possible to to just buy google play gift cards to fund the google pay account rather than PayPal.   :hi:
« Last Edit: November 22, 2019, 11:14:13 pm by PeachyAssFan »

Offline James

Rust. Thanks for the info regarding joining SA using the app via google play funded by PayPal. 
 Is it possible to to just buy google play gift cards to fund the google pay account rather than PayPal.   :hi:

yes whssmiths sells them, you can also buy them via paypal. and send to any email address. this is what i did
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Offline Aakash11

Hi

If i pay for the membership using my bank account, how does this transaction appear on my bank statement? Is it something obscure or pretty obvious?

Cheers

Offline dmitrybulgakov

I’ve had a go with SA an there is some serious talent on there but it’s not cheap and like Beamer said it’s a lot of hassle so of those girls are delusional and there demands are insane.

+100

Offline BrumTallGuy

Stick to aw unless you are
A) rich
B) a muscle bound stud
C) a porn star
D) an unbelievable mix of long stayer and a or b or c

Offline James

Stick to aw unless you are
A) rich
B) a muscle bound stud
C) a porn star
D) an unbelievable mix of long stayer and a or b or c

Too right, i have had two unsuccessful stints on seeking,
The stunners will only go for really rich men or really attractive men(Like Tinder really,)
Average girls will choose most people, but if you want average date and sex will be free.
It requires time and patience which i dont have.
The idea of shagging a stunner seems appealing when in fact its much harder to get that stunner. just find a stunner on aw. And people say they pay 200 ish for a good couple of hours of sex. they dont say of any add ons, foods drinks, gifts.

so this could be 250 300 ish
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Offline dmitrybulgakov

What I personally like in SA is that people can authenticate their own identify via other social media channels. Assuming they those profiles are genuine on the social media in first place!.

Or you can use your college or Uni ID to register as well.

Good facility on SA. As a man, I will not do it,but expect a girl to do it.

Offline Spencer Fobby

Good facility on SA. As a man, I will not do it,but expect a girl to do it.
Why?  Do you think she shouldn't value her privacy to the same degree you do?
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Offline tynetunnel

Good facility on SA. As a man, I will not do it,but expect a girl to do it.
I recommend putting that on your profile  :hi:

Offline dmitrybulgakov

I recommend putting that on your profile  :hi:

I did not think. I apologise. Fair point chaps.

Offline blubandy

I had success with SA, but I get success with Tinder. The best way to view it is a mix of adultwork and online dating, if you aren't able to pull any women using online dating (or didn't want too) you won't get on well with SA.

That said, the two girls I hooked up with were early twenties, and nothing like a woman you would get on adultwork. They buy into the "dream" of a sugar daddy and from my experience the women do not sleep with lots of men. No worse than your typical Tinder slut in a big city, and they will be nowhere near the numbers of a working girl.

My advice is to put decent pics up, get chatting, but ask to move to Whatsapp ASAP. If they give you their number there is a good chance of success, if they don't or they stall, delete and move on, it won't happen. Talk about logistics early, and what you can offer (say you'd love a pretty little thing to take to a nice hotel break, or I live in a 5 bed house and would like to go out for dinner and back to my house for a few drinks. Say you are happy to meet for a coffee first, this will make her feel more comfortable, and saves you the cost of dinner etc if it falls flat on your face.

To summarise:

1) treat it like dating
2) ask for number to chat on whatsapp and use this to filter wasters,  no number = delete and move on
3) sell them your 'dream' - what you want
4) propose to meet for an hour over a coffee first, it'll cost you £7 for a coffee with a pretty girl and if it goes well you know you're gaurunteed before you start buying dinners etc.

Do this, and you can have a sexy night that just isn't possible on AW. If you're above average looks do it all for free in Tinder, I've got a massive Google contact list with whatsapp numbers of tinder girls, about 500 I've the last 2 years 😅.

Peace and love
« Last Edit: November 29, 2019, 03:50:14 pm by blubandy »


Offline Bikerboy

Too right, i have had two unsuccessful stints on seeking,
The stunners will only go for really rich men or really attractive men(Like Tinder really,)
Average girls will choose most people, but if you want average date and sex will be free.
It requires time and patience which i dont have.
The idea of shagging a stunner seems appealing when in fact its much harder to get that stunner. just find a stunner on aw. And people say they pay 200 ish for a good couple of hours of sex. they dont say of any add ons, foods drinks, gifts.

so this could be 250 300 ish

Agree partly.
SA stunners don’t always go for rich/attractive tho, thats a plus point for SA, you can’t generalise and you can get lucky...It’s not easy though, I’ll agree with you there.

Offline James

this one had a good convo and was ready to meet straight to her place
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but wanted payment via paypal before meeting. Im stringing her along to get paypal details then will decline as i know 100 percent its a scam
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Offline T0pgun

Cocosmile20, Solihull

Warning time waster

Mobile 07585 657447

She arranged to meet in Birmingham last week. I arrived at the restaurant. She was a couple of minutes any on WhatsApp. I called and spoke to her outside the restaurant. She said she would be 2mins. I said I would go in and get a table. She said yes please. I will be there soon.

She did not turn up. I messaged her and she had blocked my number.

Pathetic individual. I’m posting to stop others from wasting their time .

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Offline Greenchilli

It is a well known fact that a lot of Sbs dont show up or turn up to the meeting. Some of it is due to genuine issues whilst others mostly just want to take a piss. This is where AW beats SA by miles I guess.

If she is also travelling it is recommended that you ask your sb to take a pic from within the train or (if driving ) local places close to your meeting point . This is not full proof but does throw them back and many dont comply giving you advance warning of how things might pan out.

Always have plan B and plan C in place because this is a recurring problem across SA.

Offline James

Article in bhammail today bout lots of uni students turning to seeking for fees. Watch  new money leachers will join. They are clued up these glorified escorts that call themselves suggar babie.
Was chatting to a newbie hoping for cheap rates. Shd says the standard is 350 per meet. I ask who told u that. She says we suggar babies know from disscussions and sites.
I told her get lost.
These so called leaches get so annoyed when u say no to their money demands to.
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Offline Roodboy867

I never been on SA but have been on SD off and on for several years but today someone said they only will see people if they can stay the week and charge £1k lol mind you she is attractive
lol you can book a flight to Thailand, hotel and get a different girl every night (the whole night I might add for about £50) for a week for the same price  :dash: