AdultWork Enjoys List.

[smiths]

As a punter do you view a WGs enjoys list on A/W as what services she offers punters, or what she enjoys doing?

I view it that as the profile is where a WG advertises herself and although its called an enjoys list in reality its supposed to be what services a WG actually offers. Otherwise its of no use to me, i dont need to know what she enjoys but doesnt offer as its totally irrelevant. Interested in hearing others views on this?

[Jim Panzee]

I alway's thought that "Enjoy's" was just a euphemism for what activity's she will entertain.

[pleasure]

I usually view a girl's "Likes" list as nothing more than what she's pretending to offer in order to drag me in as a punter, at least until I've seen any evidence to the contrary.

[yorkshire123]

I usually use it primarily to look & see if unprotected sex is ticked as thats an instant no for me.
Secondly i look to see whats on offer for example french kissing & owo. but i always take the list with a pinch of salt until i actually meet them.

So its a whats on offer list for me.
Do i really care what see enjoys doing? not really unless she wants to pay me that is 

[threechilliman]

A vexed question this one.

It can be things she enjoys or things she's prepared to do or thing she states just to lure you in only to find she doesn't do anal or whatever, after you've parted with the cash.

Always confirm with the WG what she'll do beforehand and on arrival and before you hand over the money.

tcm

[taz973]

Yes same here I view it as a list of things she will actually do, taking into account the "at discretion" option as well of course. I know some will tick everything in the hope they get more search hits but IMO this is a useless strategy as if you are doing a like based search it is because you are specifically interested in a particular service such as Anal or Role Playing for example and when she tells you she doesn't do it she ain't getting the booking anyway. So all she is doing is wasting yours and her time.

One issue I have with the likes list is the (giving/receiving) options as there is effectively 3 options eg Rimming, Rimming giving, Rimming receiving to my mind if they tick Rimming then its both but you see a lit that has the Rimming ticked and then the Rimming Receiving  does that mean they don't give? Think AW should just leave the giving/receiving boxes on stuff like this as at first I didn't check so saw a girl with Rimming and Rimming receiving ticked but of course she didn't give rimming despite the full rimming box being ticked .

Other issue I have found is how you define some of these likes for example if they have Dom ticked they should be able to deliver a decent dom service but again seen girls whose idea of dom was basically saying "take your shirt of and fuck me now".

Overall I think it is a useful list either way as I use it to narrow down my options but since joining this site have learnt the importance of being specific with what I want from the punt before the meeting as on one occasion had emailed with a specific role play idea and when finalising the meeting the girl mentioned that she had never really done a role play before so told her she was not really what I was looking for in terms of that meet and went with a different option (booked her afterwards for a GFE which went well though!)

To be honest the first like I look for is Bareback because then I can add the profile straight to my blacklist
Then if its just a normal punt OWO is the like I check next.

[yorkshire123]

One issue I have with the likes list is the (giving/receiving) options as there is effectively 3 options eg Rimming, Rimming giving, Rimming receiving to my mind if they tick Rimming then its both but you see a lit that has the Rimming ticked and then the Rimming Receiving  does that mean they don't give? Think AW should just leave the giving/receiving boxes on stuff like this as at first I didn't check so saw a girl with Rimming and Rimming receiving ticked but of course she didn't give rimming despite the full rimming box being ticked .

Thats a fucking lot of rimming Taz 

[Gordo987]

I always check to see if what I want is there, and if it's not I don't bother going any further. If what I want (usually OWO) is there I will always ask anyway. For the record, most who 'enjoy' OWO say it's included, although some - perhaps 15% - want extra. 

[threechilliman]

Thats a fucking lot of rimming Taz 

Mind you, you can't beat a lot of rimming - both ways of course

tcm

[threechilliman]

I always check to see if what I want is there, and if it's not I don't bother going any further. If what I want (usually OWO) is there I will always ask anyway. For the record, most who 'enjoy' OWO say it's included, although some - perhaps 15% - want extra. 

A girl who wants extra for a blowjob can fuck off for me.

tcm

[pleasure]

"Enjoys" is just a fluffy term for "Offers", since it implies the girl wouldn't offer it if she didn't enjoy it. As you say, there's fuck all point having an "Enjoys" list where the girl doesn't offer some of the things in it. That's no use to me whatsoever. She might as well write a long blog post about all the pervy things she gets up to with her boyfriend, then say at the end she's only offering clients a peck on the cheek and a cheeky flash of her knickers.

[mattylondon]

"Enjoys" is just a fluffy term for "Offers", since it implies the girl wouldn't offer it if she didn't enjoy it.

Pretty much sums up my thinking, where it applies to a woman who has the 'escort' box ticked.

I usually view a girl's "Likes" list as nothing more than what she's pretending to offer in order to drag me in as a punter, at least until I've seen any evidence to the contrary.

Probably the cautious and correct approach to take with a site, that whilst convenient, is replete with fake profiles and prossie liars.

[smiths]

"Enjoys" is just a fluffy term for "Offers", since it implies the girl wouldn't offer it if she didn't enjoy it. As you say, there's fuck all point having an "Enjoys" list where the girl doesn't offer some of the things in it. That's no use to me whatsoever. She might as well write a long blog post about all the pervy things she gets up to with her boyfriend, then say at the end she's only offering clients a peck on the cheek and a cheeky flash of her knickers.

Absolutely how i see it.

[taz973]

Thats a fucking lot of rimming Taz 

Yes actually used the paste option quite a bit there as got sick off typing it but not receiving it

[willbred]

Tend to always look if I'm thinking of booking. BB? if so, move on...OWO? DFK? whatever I fancy. But accept "enjoys" list only there to reel me in.

[Dani]

I never understood the enjoys list as it should be called services on offer list.  That way there is not getting confused at all.
I like a lot of things on that list in my private life but would not offer them in my working life.
I am sure they had a dislikes list at one stage as well which was handy as it stopped people asking for services not on my likes list in the hope that I would say yes.  At least with a dislikes list you know there is no point in asking.

It should be just a list of services with a yes and no box next to them so you tick what you do offer and what you don't so there is no wiggle room for girls to say Oh I didn't know that was ticked or Yes I like it in my private life or Yes I like it but just don't have the sex machine or am not pregnant or not lactating.

A likes list is quite confusing when you first join as if like many of us we assume it means what we like sexually, the same as our interview questions about movies or books etc.  Its only after a few calls you start to realise it is not a likes list but a menu of services

[smiths]

I never understood the enjoys list as it should be called services on offer list.  That way there is not getting confused at all.
I like a lot of things on that list in my private life but would not offer them in my working life.
I am sure they had a dislikes list at one stage as well which was handy as it stopped people asking for services not on my likes list in the hope that I would say yes.  At least with a dislikes list you know there is no point in asking.

It should be just a list of services with a yes and no box next to them so you tick what you do offer and what you don't so there is no wiggle room for girls to say Oh I didn't know that was ticked or Yes I like it in my private life or Yes I like it but just don't have the sex machine or am not pregnant or not lactating.

A likes list is quite confusing when you first join as if like many of us we assume it means what we like sexually, the same as our interview questions about movies or books etc.  Its only after a few calls you start to realise it is not a likes list but a menu of services

But didnt you think i am advertising for punters so the list has to be relevant to what services i offer rather than enjoy?

[Dani]

Nope.  I was so naïve I didn't even think about it but I did list the services I offer on my actual profile.  After filling in the interview bit about what flowers I like and who is my favourite actor and where I lost my virginity I just thought it was an add on to that.  It was only after a couple of calls and me actually looking at my profile page that I realised my mistake.
I know plenty of others who have done the same thing as when you join you go through the whole interview bit first so just carry on from there as it was the old style of profile update that I used which was very different to the newer version so the likes list came next after the interview part.

Most of us when we start this job have no idea about the sex industry and know nothing about prossie profiles and how they work and just bumble along making mistakes until we finally get it right.  Hell I didn't even know you could advertise online and thought it was illegal until a friend put me straight and pointed out AW to me

[taz973]

But didnt you think i am advertising for punters so the list has to be relevant to what services i offer rather than enjoy?

I spoke to one oriental girl who said when she first started she wasn't even sure what most of it meant so she ticked everything including BB, it was another girl on the site who sorted it out. Told her if I'd seen her profile when she first listed she would have been straight in the blacklist.

The "at discretion" one is something that can cause issues as I understand it a legitimate girl would use it if a client was unhygienic but can also be used as a bait tactic by the unprofessional ones, so again another grey area within the likes list.

Agree with Dani in that calling it services offered would solve some issues but there would still be those who lie and use it to tempt punters and although AW field reports do have a section "were all service offered delivered" (or something to that effect) its hard to fill in because how many of those likes is an average punter going to get through, again the OWO, Anal and CIM would probably be the main ones

[pleasure]

AW field reports do have a section "were all service offered delivered" (or something to that effect)

An interesting experiment to try, if anyone were ever to put together a decent competitor site to AW, would be to have tick boxes to say if a girl you saw refused you a service that was on her "Likes" list. Although you'd need to filter out the odd guy who was refused a service because of a lack of hygiene or respect, it would soon become apparent which services were really on offer by a particular girl, and which she was just using to bait in unsuspecting punters, and refusing once she'd got them in the room.

[taz973]

Trying to think if I have ever been refused a service that was on a likes list, don't think I have so far although once booked a girl who for some reason I was convinced did CIM turns out she didn't and hadn't listed it either, could have been a sticky situation, literally

[pleasure]

I've been refused services that were advertised on a Likes list on several occasions. Sometimes the girl comes up with some excuse (albeit usually a pretty poor one), and sometimes she just refuses as though it's fine that she's just blatantly lied on her profile. Sometimes I get the impression it's because she doesn't like me particularly, other times I get the feeling the service isn't on offer to anyone.

I guess I only have myself to blame, since I often take a chance on girls with no reviews or feedback, in the hope of finding the odd gem that nobody else has yet come across (literally or figuratively).

[taz973]

I guess I only have myself to blame, since I often take a chance on girls with no reviews or feedback, in the hope of finding the odd gem that nobody else has yet come across (literally or figuratively).

Had one of my best punts from a girl who had only been on AW for a week before I saw her, she was very naive in some respects but so enthusiastic and fit, but I do tend to play it very very safe more often than not

[pleasure]

Had one of my best punts from a girl who had only been on AW for a week before I saw her, she was very naive in some respects but so enthusiastic and fit, but I do tend to play it very very safe more often than not

That's the kind of experience I really look for in punting. For that reason, I rarely play it safe, and I put up with a lot of crappy punts because of it. But somehow the good ones make it all worthwhile!

[taz973]

Just checked the likes list of the girl I am seeing tonight and she doesn't do CIM but does do Swallow, so not sure how I get that service will have to ask maybe I have to cum in my hand and then throw it in spiderman style

[Jimmyredcab]

I alway's thought that "Enjoy's" was just a euphemism for what activity's she will entertain.

You are correct.   

Pro$$ies enjoy very little about their work, most do as little as they can get away with.     

[TonyJC]

View it as a list of services on offer, or what she's willing to do for money.

Find "at discretion" particularly unhelpful. How do you tell if it is really on offer or not (without asking).

Unlike some on here I don't mind it if there's an extra charge (e.g. for OWO or CIM etc), at least you know it's going to be available.

[mattylondon]

You are correct.   

Pro$$ies enjoy very little about their work, most do as little as they can get away with.     

On that I'm inclined to agree. 

[itk]

I usually use it primarily to look & see if unprotected sex is ticked as thats an instant no for me.
Secondly i look to see whats on offer for example french kissing & owo. but i always take the list with a pinch of salt until i actually meet them.

So its a whats on offer list for me.
Do i really care what see enjoys doing? not really unless she wants to pay me that is 

Exactly the same for me. Unprotected sex is an instant no go, and DFK and OWO have to be there. Phone call is then a way to confirm what I'm after

[caramelceleste]

Hey, been lurking a bit since I started as a WG recently and thought I'd add my two cents. 

I think when I joined I did take it to mean "enjoys" in the literal sense of the word, naive and all. That said it's pretty obvious that anything you indicate you like, you might be asked for. So I only put down things I actually enjoy and would do with punters. I did wonder if being truthful would affect the response to my profile but figured it would result in the kind of people I would want to see.

I do think changing it to "offers" would be more appropriate, but guess it doesn't sound as appealing and it probably wouldn't prevent those people ticking all the options just to broaden their potential customer base.

Someone mentioned the "at discretion" options sometimes cause issues - I think we should have to elaborate on what and why that discretion is if we've decided to tick it rather than leave it off. Could give you a bit more of a realistic idea of whether you could actually get the service...

[Gordo987]

If I want it and its not on the enjoys list I don't bother asking, and if I want it and it is on the enjoys list, I ask just to be sure.

I don't understand the 'at discretion' either, unless it means if she still fancies doing 'it' (OWO or whatever) after she's met the punter 

[Jim Panzee]

I don't understand the 'at discretion' either, unless it means if she still fancies doing 'it' (OWO or whatever) after she's met the punter 

I take that to mean that it's on account of 1/ Your personal Hygiene (with regards to OWO) and 2/ regarding Anal if you have a cock like a babies arm holding an apple.

[Gordo987]

probably ...