Any other disabled guys on here and your experiences

[OneManOrgy]

I'm curious as to how many of you here have a disability, and other than using the "Disabled Client" search tab on AW, do you look at other WG who don't display seeing "Disabled Clients". Or even look elsewhere.


I'm a paraplegic, since April 2012 after having spinal surgery, which initially left me with no movement or feeling from my core down.


After nearly a year of rehab I went home being able to walk roughly 20 paces with my Zimmer Frame. My mobility is getting stronger as I am now using crutches, and walking that little bit further, and the added bonus of being able to drive an adapted vehicle.


My sensory function is obviously not what it used to be. I have no problems getting an erection, funny thing is I can actually last way longer now than before.


I have had a few punts last year, but find myself having to book at least two/three hours to mainly rediscover what it takes to get me aroused, but also to get satisfaction out of the booking. Sounds crazy maybe.


I now find it more satisfying by actually taking it slowly rather than going into a full on intense session.


I find it more pleasing to me receiving slow OWO, than covered penetration, I still cum on covered penetration, but hardly get any pleasure out of it.

(I'm not suggesting that I want to do BB, NO WAY, my state of health is bad enough, I surely don't want to add to it).


I'm only able to go do incall, as having to sell up my place, which was no good to me at the time, and move back with the folks.


And out of paranoia would only go to incall apartments and not Hotels, as walking with crutches never gets you any discretion. Brothels a no go, as struggle to climb up steps


Would like to hear your thoughts and opinions on this, if your disabled and even if your able bodied too.

Thanks

[vorian]

Being disabled should be no barrier to you having a good punt, I think every prossie I have seen, also have disabled punters book with them. Of course the better one will give a good service no matter your disabilities. Practicalities would also apply with regards to access and communication.

What rough area are you looking to punt and what's the budget. Looks, age, size, services, kinks etc. The more detail you give the easier people will find to give you recommendations.

[OneManOrgy]

Being disabled should be no barrier to you having a good punt, I think every prossie I have seen, also have disabled punters book with them. Of course the better one will give a good service no matter your disabilities. Practicalities would also apply with regards to access and communication.

What rough area are you looking to punt and what's the budget. Looks, age, size, services, kinks etc. The more detail you give the easier people will find to give you recommendations.

If I  did a regular search and see a WG I like that, I should send an email to explain my condition and see what response I get.

Area wise either side of the East Lancs or M62, as I don't mind driving at all. She has to be at least 7/10 looks wise, 25-40, size 8-12, OWO, CIM, DFK, GFE package really. I don't have any kinks, but have wondered about giving anal, could help with the sensory issues.

Thanks Vorian for the reply.

[vorian]

If I  did a regular search and see a WG I like that, I should send an email to explain my condition and see what response I get.

Area wise either side of the East Lancs or M62, as I don't mind driving at all. She has to be at least 7/10 looks wise, 25-40, size 8-12, OWO, CIM, DFK, GFE package really. I don't have any kinks, but have wondered about giving anal, could help with the sensory issues.

Thanks Vorian for the reply.

No worry, that not my area I'm afraid but your requirement are broad enough so I'm sure people could make suggestions. anal might reduce the pool a bit, everything else is pretty standard GFE. I would have a look around the reviews for that region if anything interests you cross reference to AW to see if they have marked disabled, most good WG's will as standard so in some ways you will have a automatic filter. I would also communicate to them any special arrangement you need for access etc. Most prossies prefer to know in advance any requirements, no different to asking them to wear certain clothes or services. You did not mention your budget for a session, would be helpful to know what you wish to spend.

 

[OneManOrgy]

No worry, that not my area I'm afraid but your requirement are broad enough so I'm sure people could make suggestions. anal might reduce the pool a bit, everything else is pretty standard GFE. I would have a look around the reviews for that region if anything interests you cross reference to AW to see if they have marked disabled, most good WG's will as standard so in some ways you will have a automatic filter. I would also communicate to them any special arrangement you need for access etc. Most prossies prefer to know in advance any requirements, no different to asking them to wear certain clothes or services. You did not mention your budget for a session, would be helpful to know what you wish to spend.

Sorry, my bad, as an hour punt no good to me, I'd say £200-220 for 2 hours, £300-350 for 3 hours.

[vorian]

Sorry, my bad, as an hour punt no good to me, I'd say £200-220 for 2 hours, £300-350 for 3 hours.

At those prices I'm sure you will be able to find what you are after.

This link will also take you to a comprehensive guide to AW which will help improve your search skills

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=10.msg21;topicseen#msg21

[Eager Thighs]

Have you tried your luck with reverse bidding? I've never used it myself but it seems it could be a good place to explain what you're looking for and let the WG come to you.

[Pompoy123]

Have you tried your luck with reverse bidding? I've never used it myself but it seems it could be a good place to explain what you're looking for and let the WG come to you.

Good idea

[Rochdull lad]

As someone who's mobility-impaired, I always make a point of contacting a new-to-me WG with an email about the nature of my disability and how it might affect my booking, thereby giving the girl the opportunity to duck out of the booking.

None ever has.

[Cunnivorous Vagitarian]

I second that.
I'm not physically disabled (except for being an ugly mofo!!!)
But following an accident, i'm not mute.

My first couple of punts were terrible and the girls were put off by my silence. (i refuse to try to make any noises as i (am told I) sound like a baby seal being clubbed whilst it;s being buttfucked)!

Now, i email them first before making a booking, and it's worked a treat. I actually have a regular now who seems to get turned on by it! It's different every time, so i just think she likes the ""unknown" side of things! SHE even initiated a role play involving it!
That might be worth suggesting too!
Anyway....
I hope you find what you're looking for, several times over with several options!!! ANd good luck with the rehab!

[OneManOrgy]

Big thanks to you all for your advice and replies.

Think I will try emailing the WG first, see what response I get to my requirements, failing that will go down the RB route

[vorian]

Big thanks to you all for your advice and replies.

Think I will try emailing the WG first, see what response I get to my requirements, failing that will go down the RB route

I don't think your disability is any issue, the problem you have is finding a decent girl. That is no different to able bodied punters.

[latecomer]

Big thanks to you all for your advice and replies.

Think I will try emailing the WG first, see what response I get to my requirements, failing that will go down the RB route

Good luck with your search and there's some sound advice here.  I've always had the feeling that a WG who shows on her likes list that she'll see disabled clients is more likely to be sympathetic and good with all clients.

[vorian]

Good luck with your search and there's some sound advice here.  I've always had the feeling that a WG who shows on her likes list that she'll see disabled clients is more likely to be sympathetic and good with all clients.

I agree, certainly more professional imo.

[OneManOrgy]

I don't think your disability is any issue, the problem you have is finding a decent girl. That is no different to able bodied punters.

I know I said earlier that I enjoy slow OWO, but I did forget to add on my post that I do cum without knowing it while she gives me OWO, so in a way I am/feel restricted to WG that offer CIM, part of my condition I'm afraid.

[vorian]

I know I said earlier that I enjoy slow OWO, but I did forget to add on my post that I do cum without knowing it while she gives me OWO, so in a way I am/feel restricted to WG that offer CIM, part of my condition I'm afraid.

Again CIM/Swallow at the price range you are looking at is not unusual, can't see it being a big problem. Anal is the only thing that will dramatically reduce the pool of possibilities, shame you are not based in the SE, I'm sure I could find quite a few recommendations for you.

[house music dave]

Afternoon Oneman,

I am a wheelchair user with Cerebral Palsy.

I second what Rochdull lad said about emailing first, as well as telling them about your mobility issues say a few words about how they are worked around. This way the girl in question will have some of her concerns laid to rest. Thanks to things like the channel 4 doc and campaigners like Asta Philpot more and more girls are becoming aware of the needs of disabled people so it shouldn't be an issue. My only caviet is to say go with your gut. If she sounds like a bitch or dodgy on the phone don't go for it.   

Anything you want to pm me about....go for it. Price wise you are well within budget.

HMD       

[vorian]

Afternoon Oneman,

I am a wheelchair user with Cerebral Palsy.

I second what Rochdull lad said about emailing first, as well as telling them about your mobility issues say a few words about how they are worked around. This way the girl in question will have some of her concerns laid to rest. Thanks to things like the channel 4 doc and campaigners like Asta Philpot more and more girls are becoming aware of the needs of disabled people so it shouldn't be an issue. My only caviet is to say go with your gut. If she sounds like a bitch or dodgy on the phone don't go for it.   

Anything you want to pm me about....go for it. Price wise you are well within budget.

HMD     

Oneman, probably won't be able to PM yet as he only has a few posts.

[house music dave]

How many posts do you have to have then? I haven't been on UKP for a while. You are definitely UKP's man in dictionary corner      

[vorian]

How many posts do you have to have then? I haven't been on UKP for a while. You are definitely UKP's man in dictionary corner    

Don't know for sure it varies maybe 15/20 maybe less maybe more 

[Cunnivorous Vagitarian]

I forgot to add....

When you email....

Word it quite "matter of fact" as opposed to "looking for a sympathetic response"....
Don't get me wrong... i'm not for a second saying you want sympathy.... but there is a way to make sure you are in control, so to speak...
Make it known you know what you want, and what you want from them, as opposed to asking "if they mind..." etc! Believe me.... It works on many levels and they work better too, i've noticed!

Does that make sense or am i waffling?

I'm presuming that you just want to be treated "normally" (sorry, i hate that phrase but it seemed apt here!).....

Well.... normal is this.... and it is the same proforma for EVERY Punter, able-bodied or otherwise.......

You want a specific service with special attention to a particular detail!

XYZ (a "normal" bloke), wants a GFE with special attention to anal probing.....
personally, I want a great time with mutual oral, with conversation, whether it be attempted signing, lipreading or written,
You may want the PSE with concentration on slow sloppy OWO and attempts to experiment with what else works....

etc... i'm sure you catch my drift..... I'll shut up now!

[vorian]

I forgot to add....

When you email....

Word it quite "matter of fact" as opposed to "looking for a sympathetic response"....
Don't get me wrong... i'm not for a second saying you want sympathy.... but there is a way to make sure you are in control, so to speak...
Make it known you know what you want, and what you want from them, as opposed to asking "if they mind..." etc! Believe me.... It works on many levels and they work better too, i've noticed!

Does that make sense or am i waffling?

I'm presuming that you just want to be treated "normally" (sorry, i hate that phrase but it seemed apt here!).....

Well.... normal is this.... and it is the same proforma for EVERY Punter, able-bodied or otherwise.......

You want a specific service with special attention to a particular detail!

XYZ (a "normal" bloke), wants a GFE with special attention to anal probing.....
personally, I want a great time with mutual oral, with conversation, whether it be attempted signing, lipreading or written,
You may want the PSE with concentration on slow sloppy OWO and attempts to experiment with what else works....

etc... i'm sure you catch my drift..... I'll shut up now!

I think you put it very well 

[sarahjayneleeds]

You may find this site useful External Link/Members Only

It specialises in bringing disabled people and sex workers who enjoy working with people with a range of disabilities together.

[OneManOrgy]

I forgot to add....

When you email....

Word it quite "matter of fact" as opposed to "looking for a sympathetic response"....
Don't get me wrong... i'm not for a second saying you want sympathy.... but there is a way to make sure you are in control, so to speak...
Make it known you know what you want, and what you want from them, as opposed to asking "if they mind..." etc! Believe me.... It works on many levels and they work better too, i've noticed!

Does that make sense or am i waffling?




I'm presuming that you just want to be treated "normally" (sorry, i hate that phrase but it seemed apt here!).....

Well.... normal is this.... and it is the same proforma for EVERY Punter, able-bodied or otherwise.......

You want a specific service with special attention to a particular detail!

XYZ (a "normal" bloke), wants a GFE with special attention to anal probing.....
personally, I want a great time with mutual oral, with conversation, whether it be attempted signing, lipreading or written,
You may want the PSE with concentration on slow sloppy OWO and attempts to experiment with what else works....

etc... i'm sure you catch my drift..... I'll shut up now!

I get what you are saying, I'd go straight into what I want rather than asking "are you happy with this", at least that way I get a "yes" or "no" answer which I would prefer, it saves pissing about going back and forth.

And no, you're not waffling on, it's all good advice, and appreciated, thank you

[OneManOrgy]

Afternoon Oneman,

I am a wheelchair user with Cerebral Palsy.

I second what Rochdull lad said about emailing first, as well as telling them about your mobility issues say a few words about how they are worked around. This way the girl in question will have some of her concerns laid to rest. Thanks to things like the channel 4 doc and campaigners like Asta Philpot more and more girls are becoming aware of the needs of disabled people so it shouldn't be an issue. My only caviet is to say go with your gut. If she sounds like a bitch or dodgy on the phone don't go for it.   

Anything you want to pm me about....go for it. Price wise you are well within budget.

HMD     

Thanks HMD

[OneManOrgy]

You may find this site useful External Link/Members Only

It specialises in bringing disabled people and sex workers who enjoy working with people with a range of disabilities together.

I came across this site last year, not really that many profiles in my area, and I think most of them are on AW anyway.

[OneManOrgy]

Well after a couple of months since this post I have made a 2 hour booking for this Thursday, with a WG who ticks nearly all the boxes, with a view to discuss the possibility of anal at the time of the booking.

I sent her an email to her about my situation, she promptly replied that it is no problem.

I've taken on board your opinions and links to posts, as well as doing specific topic searches to help make my decision on this WG and will submit a report hopefully by the weekend.

[Rochdull lad]

Well after a couple of months since this post I have made a 2 hour booking for this Thursday, with a WG who ticks nearly all the boxes, with a view to discuss the possibility of anal at the time of the booking.

I sent her an email to her about my situation, she promptly replied that it is no problem.

I've taken on board your opinions and links to posts, as well as doing specific topic searches to help make my decision on this WG and will submit a report hopefully by the weekend.

Good for you, OMO.  Bloody hell [he commented, respectfully! ] getting anal in, too!!  Hope it goes/went well for you.

Fwiw, I don't think we need a specific "Disabled Punters" feature on here but there are enough of us to make occasional discussions like this useful.

[vorian]

Well after a couple of months since this post I have made a 2 hour booking for this Thursday, with a WG who ticks nearly all the boxes, with a view to discuss the possibility of anal at the time of the booking.

I sent her an email to her about my situation, she promptly replied that it is no problem.

I've taken on board your opinions and links to posts, as well as doing specific topic searches to help make my decision on this WG and will submit a report hopefully by the weekend.

Good luck with your punt,  would be good to have a review to help the next punter out.