has anybody ever been rejected by a escort?

[vw]

I'm in a similar position to OP, but my body type is of the extreme skinny mode, it is not attractive in my opinion. It's not easy to talk about my body type as there isn't many of us about. But I also haven't taken the plunge because of the body image reason, and afraid what the WG may think.

Anyway, best of luck OP.

Once you take the plunge will boost you so much, go for a well reviewed escort that you fancy.  Do it in your own time, you may wake up like many with the attitude today's the day, until then research will prepare you for that !

[azrael]

And here i was thinking this thread was about wg's refusing custom, saying no once a client had stripped out of their clothes. Majority of the punters know when you see a new wg, she gives you the once over before the party commences but alas this isnt one of those threads.
My advice to OP is to be clean, smell fresh, tidy up upstairs and down stairs (shave/trim) most wg will go to town if you shaved/trimmed below. Have their money ready to hand over if offered a shower (even if you had one earlier) and you think you smell abit, take it (better service) always use the mouth wash provided. I punted a "new" wg she was hesitant about kissing after a shower i used her mouthwash and she jumped my bones so to speak.
Well thats my two bobs worth best of luck 

[Belisknor]

Agree re the last comment as even if you just showered if offered a shower take it so the girl know's your clean and that your penis is too (very important)  and the same with the mouth wash especially if your a smoker or suffer with bad breath.

[Andyisonfire]

Once you take the plunge will boost you so much, go for a well reviewed escort that you fancy.  Do it in your own time, you may wake up like many with the attitude today's the day, until then research will prepare you for that !

Thanks VTW. I'm in Coventry so eyeing up either debbie36ff or hotxxalexa as my first. But I have to get over the body image barrier as explained by OP.

I Reckon once I start, this will get addictive.

[vw]

I Reckon once I start, this will get addictive.

Once you start, will reflect in other aspects of your life to not just punting.  Best of luck.

[Silver Birch]

Never been rejected (face to face) by a wg, but I have been given limited services when they have sensed they could get away with it.

[jackthelad]

I am a larger gent. 17st and 5foot8. Also not exactly good looking. I have to say I have not been rejected for being ugly or a lard arse but I have been rejected at the door for being an ethnic. It was a little strange as it happened twice in a month. I now always ask if they see such and such a race if it doesn't say in their profile. Many say they don't see Asians but that usually mean Indian Asian where as I am Oriental Asian.

[Belisknor]

Thanks VTW. I'm in Coventry so eyeing up either debbie36ff or hotxxalexa as my first. But I have to get over the body image barrier as explained by OP.

I Reckon once I start, this will get addictive.

It so does mate I used to see escorts a couple times a year, then once every few months, now it's twice a month which can get very expensive if you live in a punting wasteland like me  VW is right it does reflect into other areas of your life, I'm far more picky than I was pre punting when asking girls out ! Once you get used to gorgeous girls who wouldn't look out of place in a porn movie it's very hard to go back to something more normal 

[speedieman]

Not turned down as such but could tell she was absolutely disgusted having me fuck her. So I done it harder :p

[Ben4454]

In my ten years of punting never have I been rejected by an escort. My money makes me look like Brad Pitt and they want to fuck me instantly. Although I have heard a story about a punter being friend zoned by a prossie within the hour and wouldn't fuck him.

[tallguy74]

Just show them the money, and say can you dig it sucka?

[Anadin]

Go for well reviewed escorts that have been around for a while. Chances are they've serviced chaps much worse than you and only care that you're clean and polite (Very important) which are enough to get you a great service.

2. Pornstars are less of a risk IMO ( You don't want your punt to have a bad attitude etc)

I don't think there's any truth to that. The only difference between pornstars and the average escort is you definitely know what they look like.

[Belisknor]

and you pay a hell of a lot more money for a porn star probably not the best for your first sexual encounter.

[squeezebox]

My experience was that keeping my balls and arse hair trimmed/fully shaved ensured very enthusiastic ball licking and deep rimming, with more than a few prossies saying that they'd have been less enthusiastic if I turned up looking like chewbacca. YMMV as with all things punting of course.

Unless it's the up and coming Star Wars Premiere..

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[anyfucker]

In my ten years of punting never have I been rejected by an escort. My money makes me look like Brad Pitt and they want to fuck me instantly. Although I have heard a story about a punter being friend zoned by a prossie within the hour and wouldn't fuck him.

i think there was a recent post about how handsome we all become when in front of a prossie.
As others have said, turn up clean, shaved, fresh breath, no scratchy nails, sober, with the correct money, polite and within a few minutes she will find you so handsome & irresistible she'll be fucking you and want you to come back again - well that's what i have found.
It's not really that hard - pun intended.

[SamLP]

Never been rejected before in person but had a few phone rejections due to their booking criteria. One wanted me to book her via AW. When I told her I don't have an account she started to ask very personal questions which I told her she didn't need to know so she refused to see me.

[bensonhedges20]

im extremely self conscious, not very good looking and overweight (16/half stone) 5"10. Has anybody been rejected by an escort due to being unappealing to her, or heard of this happening to anyone? or at least, could tell that she finds you repulsive but soldiered on anyway?

ive never done an escort (or anyone for that matter, still a virgin) largely due to my insecurities, if i was to get rejected that would be a huge blow to my all ready fragile confidence. For this reason, im generally interested in the plain janes or much older woman who are "past their prime" so we are at least somewhat in the same league, if that makes sense.

On the contrary. You probably would want her to do most of the work which they wont mind doing. Your more susceptible to repeat bookings if you get fluffy. They will expect you to chat more than the average guy.

All escorts care about is the green. If they do reject it will be lightly.

[greychap]

Speaking from the other side of the fence It does not matter if you are fat or skinny, short or tall, handsome or ugly as long as you are clean and smell fresh especially down there and your breath is fresh with no obvious signs of gum disease. If you are all of those you won't get turned away and if she makes it obvious straight away she isn't into you then keep your money and walk. If clean fresh and polite she should be making you feel like the most handsome man on the planet from the moment you walk in the door. No we can't fancy everyone but it should never be shown. We get paid a rather handsome amount to act as if you are the best looking man we have met and to treat you as such and any girl that doesn't is either in the wrong job or has seen you as a soft touch she can take the piss out of so its better for you to leave with your money in your pocket.

Don't think you have to book someone who you feel is in your league as you don't. Just book who you fancy.  However unless she states she specialises in seeing inexperienced or nervous guys don't tell her it is your first time (unless recommended on here by known punters) as she could well take the piss.  For your first time perhaps look on here in your area for a well reviewed girl so you are pretty well ensured a good time and can be honest about being a virgin. It's probably your safest bet

You always say the right things Dani 

[fitasfuck]

+1

You seem to have a very sensible head on your shoulders Dani.

You always say the right things Dani 

[Donnie69]

I'm pretty fat, WGs don't seem to mind.  I am quite confident about sex.  iThey all say I am easy, cos I get hard easily, and I never have a problem cumming.

WGs seem to like clients who they don't have to work hard to get stiff and to make cum.
I could cum in a few minutes if I want, but I normally last about 15-20 minutes.  Plenty of time for me.

If it's a longer booking I will often cum twice, or more.

[Owwhatanight]

You always say the right things Dani 

Good ole Nottingham/Derby Girl ......probably the most sensible Wg that comes on here 

[greychap]

Good ole Nottingham/Derby Girl ......probably the most sensible Wg that comes on here 

She been on here a long time not many have lasted that long!

[3HK]

Once got rejected because she said I had "fake notes" (I am young, tall & black) maybe she thought I was trying to pull a fast one.

I always ask if they see blacks, long going there and getting turfed at the door. Doesn't matter how tall, or fat you are, it is all about confidence and being polite (women in general). I always punt with a bottle of aftershave in my pocket, always spray myself before I knock at the door & I'm always shaven downstairs.

I have the opposite problem, I normally get the "you are so sexy" crap while they stroke my six pac and arms, I've turned up a few times and they have been unable to mask their delight, for this reason I have decided to take a break as my last few punts have been a little bit too real, they have been happy to see me which is good but then I think to myself, why am I paying.

[squeezebox]

Once got rejected because she said I had "fake notes" (I am young, tall & black) maybe she thought I was trying to pull a fast one.

I always ask if they see blacks, long going there and getting turfed at the door. Doesn't matter how tall, or fat you are, it is all about confidence and being polite (women in general). I always punt with a bottle of aftershave in my pocket, always spray myself before I knock at the door & I'm always shaven downstairs.

I have the opposite problem, I normally get the "you are so sexy" crap while they stroke my six pac and arms, I've turned up a few times and they have been unable to mask their delight, for this reason I have decided to take a break as my last few punts have been a little bit too real, they have been happy to see me which is good but then I think to myself, why am I paying.

There are many women that have a fantasy about trying out black cock. If you're buff with a six pack, plenty of civvies will try you out.

I think you probably punt for variety and trying out different experiences.

[d_d]

I'm in a similar position to OP, but my body type is of the extreme skinny mode, it is not attractive in my opinion. It's not easy to talk about my body type as there isn't many of us about. But I also haven't taken the plunge because of the body image reason, and afraid what the WG may think.

Hi mate, I was in the same boat as you! I browsed this forum for a few months whilst mulling things over and finally took the plunge earlier this year. I've only seen 2 WGs so far but both times have been great fun. I'm 6ft tall and under 10st so although I look like I've recently escaped a concentration camp it was never an issue with the girls I've seen. It's worth remembering that due to her work she will be more aware than most that people come in all sorts of different shapes and sizes.

I'm also horribly self-conscious but as others have said, spending an hour or whatever with a girl who is way out of your league works wonders. Both my experiences have involved me nervously walking up to the venue but skipping back down the street on my way out 

To be slightly off-topic - this is pretty much exactly why I started using AW in the first place: looking like I belong in a Tim Burton animation and only being in long relationships has left me with zero confidence. I'm only two punts in but I plan to stick with it as it has definitely helped with my confidence and I'm sure it will continue to do so. You should go see one of those two girls you have your eye on... I'm sure you will enjoy it. You'll be nervous at first but it won't last for long.

[HoneyJar]

Thanks for all the replies lads/lass's. For my first, (whenever that will be) i'll try to see a wg who has plenty of feedback so perhaps i can feel better knowing they've possibly have had clients who where a bit more of a beef goblin than i. Being polite, clean, well shaven (at least down below  ) wont be a problem, but it will probably be more than obvious i'll be a nervous wreck, and probably awkward. Im generally quite socially awkward in real life anyway.

Do wg's have preferences about facial hair? im guessing the less the better. I'll never go clean shaven though as i look aweful without facial hair and would probably be mistaken for a 15 year old as i'd have to much of a babyface (and not a cute one). That would be more than acceptable grounds to get rejected at the door, i should hope.

[Cuntminion]

Im fat and ugly, not been turned away yet 

[Owwhatanight]

Im fat and ugly, not been turned away yet 

Because you show her your Wad 

Loads a money 

[sticko]

No matter how unattractive you think you are, if you are clean and polite you will be preferable to some of the blokes an experienced prossie will have met, so stop worrying, find someone you fancy then ask on here if anyone knows about her.

Very true. Overweight but polite and clean (and trimmed) is infinitely better than dirty and pushy / rude / unpleasant.  Experienced hookers have seen loads of fat blokes; you won't faze them in the slightest.

[Belisknor]

Some girls like a beard mate as its all the fashion nowadays so don't go worrying about it and don't put off  booking one of those girls or your talk yourself out of it. Good luck.

[tommyh]

Do wg's have preferences about facial hair? im guessing the less the better. I'll never go clean shaven though as i look aweful without facial hair and would probably be mistaken for a 15 year old as i'd have to much of a babyface (and not a cute one). That would be more than acceptable grounds to get rejected at the door, i should hope.

like you i prefer a bit of stubble but would always shave before punts. i'm not as confident clean shaven though and the last couple of times i've gone with a couple of days growth. it made no difference to the girls at all, i expected maybe not as much kissing but they still went for it.

[Hank Moody]

To the OP, I understand your apprehension but do some research, ask on here about WGs in your area that are easy to chat to and genuinely warm and friendly and take the bull by the horns. I used to be full of confidence in my younger days (and up to my neck in gash at university) but one seriously damaging relationship later and my confidence was completely shot to bits. After a long period of avoiding intimate contact with the opposite sex (for fear of rejection) I took the plunge and made a booking. Best thing I ever did. It's not going to help me with my anxiety over getting back into a relationship but it has done my confidence a world of good.

Don't be afraid to explain that you are nervous and why and if you booked the right girl I am sure you will have a great time. Even if you get 'first night stage fright' and don't manage to do the deed these girls really know what they are doing (in most cases!) and will still manage to send you away a much happier chap  Once the nerves start to go you'll wonder what all the fuss was about but do take note of the advice on here about protocol (personal hygiene, fresh breath etc) and it will go a long way towards ensuring a great time.

We're rooting for you! 

[Belisknor]

Was speaking to a escort earlier in a booking whether she gets many virgins ( you in mind ) she said all the time and has no problems what so ever seeing inexperienced clients so don't worry.

[MrBlackDude]

I've been turned away because of my colour (where it wasn't specified as an issue) twice that I can recall, otherwise I have received unenthusiastic service when it became apparent they found me unattractive. There isn't really much that can be done.

PS. Forget the obligatory, self-indulgent digs about "confidence".

[Sonny Crockett]

I have been rejected by escorts, not in person, but in a silent manner, where when I wanted to arrange another meet with them, they messed me about with lies.

[Scoobydoobydoo]

Hi.

My first post. I don't post because I havn't punted for over 20 years but when I found this site I just had to have a look and stayed just out of interest. I'm amazed how much punting has changed over the years. Back then kissing, OWO, RO etc was unheard of. GFE?? Bloody 'ell who woulda thunk it? All my punting was done in Germany and Holland and what you guys call a ''pump and dump'' was sort of the norm regardless of what was advertised, the duration, or price. Anyway the topic brought back some memories which I thought I'd share. Feel free to laugh. I still do.

My first punt was in a German brothel in Paderborn. They were called Clubs back then in the 80's, probably still are. I was 18 and a virgin. An Italian hooker in a German brothel sounds exotic to me still, but it didn't end well. Basicaly while I was pumping her, her cat jumped onto the bed and she reached over for something to feed it. I wasn't impressed so i shoved the cat off the bed. Ms Petrochelli went nuts and threw me out. I had to get dressed in a dark corridor with the Jooby still hangin off my knob. I didn't tell my 3 mates who were waiting for me downstairs in the bar area. They all punted with the same Italian after me and seemed to get on OK.

On another occassion, again in a German ''Club'', I got chucked out for...basicaly being a tight arse. The deal in these clubs was 150 DM / £50 in real money, for a shag and etiquette was to buy the WG a drink first at the bar. That cost 30 DM / £!0 which was usually something called Picollo. It was a little bottle of something like Babycham if anybody remembers that. Anyway on this occassion, me being pissed, I had enough dough left for a shag but couldn't afford the WG's drink. When I refused to buy the drink I was tossed out onto the street by...lets call him Fritz. Mighta been Helmut or Wolfgang. A mate just happened to be walking past just I was landing in the strasse, who after hearing the story burst out laughing and said ''Fuckin Hell Scooby you're the only cunt I know who can't get a shag in a whore house''. Memories eh?

Great Forum and I've enjoyed the banter. 

[HoneyJar]

 ''Fuckin Hell Scooby you're the only cunt I know who can't get a shag in a whore house''. Memories eh?

my sides are in space   

[Cuntminion]

My first punt was in a German brothel in Paderborn. They were called Clubs back then in the 80's, probably still are. I was 18 and a virgin. An Italian hooker in a German brothel sounds exotic to me still, but it didn't end well. Basicaly while I was pumping her, her cat jumped onto the bed and she reached over for something to feed it. I wasn't impressed so i shoved the cat off the bed. Ms Petrochelli went nuts and threw me out.

Your evil pure evil

That would of been best punt ever for me, I would of stopped fucking shoved working girl off bed , put boxers on , played with cat

[fitasfuck]

A case of kitty trumping the pussy?! 

Your evil pure evil

That would of been best punt ever for me, I would of stopped fucking shoved working girl off bed , put boxers on , played with cat

[lkiu6433]

You'll be fine of course because by its very nature generally (generally!) prostitutes are used to dealing with men who would otherwise have trouble getting regular or easy sex out in the civvie world. As it goes, a large proportion of these men tend to be ugly or overweight (and to a lesser extent love shy, extremely awkward, high inhibition or somewhere on the aspergers or autism spectrum). Therefore, as long as she is somewhat experianced you shouldn't be anything unusual to her and as long as she's good at her job you'll probably end up recieving a good service.

However, let's not live in a fairy make believe world. If you are very good looking, tall, have a nice body, nice dick you better believe you'll recieve a better service (as long as you're reasonably polite/considerate) Prostitutes are still human and still instictively respond favourably to these cues despite anything else they may say.

[tdh]

We all have some issues that we worry about whether that be weight, size of our manhood or how long we can last. Having had a WG make excuses not to provide services from her enjoy list and  despite agreeing to provide them on the phone I now make a point of asking specific questions about the type of blokes they will see before I rock up. Yes they are human after all and some will have preferences as to who they will entertain. I don't have any problem with that as long as they are honest about it and don't waste my time. 

[vw]

However, let's not live in a fairy make believe world. If you are very good looking, tall, have a nice body, nice dick you better believe you'll recieve a better service (as long as you're reasonably polite/considerate) Prostitutes are still human and still instictively respond favourably to these cues despite anything else they may say.

Have you been good looking and ugly so you can compare, thought not, I call bullshit !

[Aspen]

It's par for the course really that some WGs won't find at least some punters physically attractive. However, back in the day I often used to parlour punt with a friend who had a face a mother would struggle with and he was never turned down. He was however very polite, respectful and clean. That goes a long way

Of course it does. But I've had occasions when I've made a booking, driven to the stated street waiting for the house number and then been told the booking is off. No doubt not liking the look of me. I am very average looking, not overweight, but I was told I was too old once by a girl that was 20 years younger. Some of them can be very choosy, and the funny thing is they are not always pictures of beauty themselves. Only once have I been rejected once I got in the door, and that was by a girl who was trying to get the money off me for doing nothing and I didn't play that game.

[mikexxlong]

I’ve never been rejected by a WG

But once in my very early days of punting while i was still a little nervous etc., but on this one punt for some reason the nerves hit me real bad when I was in the room with her while sorting out the paper work etc., this showed in my body language, I started to go all red & sweaty, my voice went all quiet and crackly, hands started to shake a little, in short I was a gibbering wreck

The WG obviously picked up on this and affected her approach towards me, the smile started to disappear the lustful look in her eyes started to fade and developed a look of concern

After handing over the punting tokens she disappeared out the room as per usual, and did not come back for what seemed ages much longer than they usually do

When she came back I apologised about my nervousness etc., she said oh that’s ok don’t worry etc.

While we was getting on with the punt, I could tell she was not comfortable & reserved in her performance and really she just wanted it over & done with

Which was a real shame ,as up until I turned into a nervous wreck, she looked like she was going to eat me alive ,very friendly, giving me a little grope etc. she had a cracking figure & looks; a real sexy stunner as well, I reckon it would have been at great punt 


I think to be rejected by a WG you would have to, have horrifically bad personal hygiene / suffering from an obvious STI or she doesn’t feel safe around the punter

[Diehard]

Bigger than you mate and never been rejected, you have no fear there, your money is as good as anyone else's. 

As for civvy stuff imagine you will over compensate an be to nice in life and be told that you are to nice, end up with loads of female friends and end up in the friend zone lots.  By all means be nice but keep a cheeky or mysterious side.

I have no female friends despite being nice, cheeky and mysterious?

[vw]

I have no female friends despite being nice, cheeky and mysterious?

Sell you some !  Actually take them !

[Diehard]

im extremely self conscious, not very good looking and overweight (16/half stone) 5"10. Has anybody been rejected by an escort due to being unappealing to her, or heard of this happening to anyone? or at least, could tell that she finds you repulsive but soldiered on anyway?

ive never done an escort (or anyone for that matter, still a virgin) largely due to my insecurities, if i was to get rejected that would be a huge blow to my all ready fragile confidence. For this reason, im generally interested in the plain janes or much older woman who are "past their prime" so we are at least somewhat in the same league, if that makes sense.

Hookers are not girls out on the town or tinderettes. I can't get a single match on tinder, has to be a world record that so clearly I'm an ugly fucker but never had a hooker turn me away.

As soon as they see crisp shiny new notes in your hand, you become their Brad Pitt until the alarm goes off saying time is up!

All you need to do is be polite, be hygienic I.e showered, use some mouthwash beforehand, and avoid Romanians and check this site to see if there are reviews on a girl you thinking of seeing and you will be fine and will have a good time.

You will probably find after fucking a few hookers, your confidence improves as when you talk to girls in civvie land, if your balls are drained and aching after a hard session, you won't be just thinking about wanting to fuck her and will therefore probably be more relaxed and act yourself and u may find a lot of attractive women find that natural relaxed side of you very attractive.

Just don't get addicted to punting, work out what you can afford. Try to set a limit to how many you see a month.

[mikexxlong]

I’ve never been rejected by a WG

But once in my very early days of punting while i was still a little nervous etc., but on this one punt for some reason the nerves hit me real bad when I was in the room with her while sorting out the paper work etc., this showed in my body language, I started to go all red & sweaty, my voice went all quiet and crackly, hands started to shake a little, in short I was a gibbering wreck

The WG obviously picked up on this and affected her approach towards me, the smile started to disappear the lustful look in her eyes started to fade and developed a look of concern

After handing over the punting tokens she disappeared out the room as per usual, and did not come back for what seemed ages much longer than they usually do

When she came back I apologised about my nervousness etc., she said oh that’s ok don’t worry etc.

While we was getting on with the punt, I could tell she was not comfortable & reserved in her performance and really she just wanted it over & done with

Which was a real shame ,as up until I turned into a nervous wreck, she looked like she was going to eat me alive ,very friendly, giving me a little grope etc. she had a cracking figure & looks; a real sexy stunner as well, I reckon it would have been at great punt 


I think to be rejected by a WG you would have to, have horrifically bad personal hygiene / suffering from an obvious STI or she doesn’t feel safe around the punter

Or of course she has very definite dislikes that she can’t deal with so prefers not to see those particular customers!

[Diehard]

I have been rejected by escorts, not in person, but in a silent manner, where when I wanted to arrange another meet with them, they messed me about with lies.

I've had this but it isn't rejection due to looks, it's simply because they were made to earn their money instead of getting away for half the booking chatting about bollocks and some shite massage.

[Diehard]

Of course it does. But I've had occasions when I've made a booking, driven to the stated street waiting for the house number and then been told the booking is off. No doubt not liking the look of me. I am very average looking, not overweight, but I was told I was too old once by a girl that was 20 years younger. Some of them can be very choosy, and the funny thing is they are not always pictures of beauty themselves. Only once have I been rejected once I got in the door, and that was by a girl who was trying to get the money off me for doing nothing and I didn't play that game.

You don't want to be seeing girls who are keeping a watch for you as you walk up. Stay out of sight until you get their house number.