I'm usually on Seeking but I would like to find sugarbabies outside of this site, on dating apps (Tinder, Bumble, Hinge...).
Why?
I'm wondering what's the best strategy. I'm wondering what I should put inside my profile/pictures,
Well if you are insistent I'd suggest that you are honest in your profile. Maybe detail that you are after a sexual relationship with a younger woman, you aren't expecting or offering exclusivity and you want to share the benefits of your maturity and bank account.
I'm afraid of a ban.
Well, yes. You are potentially seeking to approach folks that are not putting themselves forward for what you propose and are on a platform that probably doesn't approve of such things.
If you are still insistent I think you need to be very careful about who you "like" or message. Just because you are online rather than in person doesn't give you a free pass.
Who is doing it?
I dunno, but I'd guess creeps and weirdos.