tips and presents

[alenski]

i was just wondering if it is the convention to give tips to wgs .i saw my first girl about 3 months  ago and gave a £20 tip for asexual massage,i saw her 3 times more and always gave  £20 i think we had sex once in  7 hrs i am pretty old and never quite get full satisfacton.when i saw a new girl and gave her £20 she looked astounded and asked why but she took it for the the taxi fare.now when i see a girl i always take a small present like a box of chocs or a bottle of wine.am i just old fashioned or stupid i am 69.

[daviemac]

Hi  Alenski

It's not a thing I would do, I think I'm paying enough as it is.

You say sex once in 7 hours how long are you booking for? I only ever go for shorter bookings 1 hour max, I still have a great time with the right girl but still don't give a tip.

[Daffodil]

There is only one reason to take a present and that's if you think it will get you a better service. A bottle of wine can cost as little as £3 and the vast majority of prossies will have no idea, so sell them some of your best bullshit and convince them they're drinking vintage. That may improve your service and is money well spent.

Tipping though? Never. I believe most will think you're a mug and and prossies 'earn' far more than enough as it is.

[FLYING BLUE]

Nothing - ever!

[Bellabella]

Something as simple as a box of chocolates can really make a girls day after working so hard x

[Toshiba]

Never tipped, dont intend to

[renatus]

Don't be a mug: no gifts, no tips. You're already paying. The only 'gift' I would get is a small bottle of wine to share, in order to relax.

[CoolTiger]

Alenski, welcome to UKP.

The following threads and a poll may also give you some guidance as to what other members think.


POLL:
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=1358.msg22082#msg22082

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=7191.msg105529#msg105529

[CBPaul]

Never tipped and don't intend to do so.

Most girls will be more than happy to give a massage as part of the service, it's easy money. Unless the profile states it is an extra then you shouldn't feel that you have to pay extra for it.

I only do 30 or 60 minute bookings but if I were booking for longer I may consider taking a box of chocolates or bottle of wine - nothing too expensive and preferably on half price at Tesco so it looks more expensive than it was, I would be paying 120 an hour for her company after all !

Also don't fall for the gifts most welcome rubbish on profiles, they always make me chuckle, especially when they are under FAQ's. Does anyone actually ask 'can I bring you a present' ? 

[Horizontal pleasures]

Something as simple as a box of chocolates can really make a girls day after working so hard x

I usually take chocs or fruit. Strawberries or cherries raise a smile and a kiss. Yes we pay for a service, but it is an intimate and personal service and my policy usually lightens the atmosphere. Fruit helps in case the lady just does not want to eat junk or fattening stuff. Life can be a bowl of cherries!

[Bangers and Gash]

Something as simple as a box of chocolates can really make a girls day after working so hard x

Oh Lord.... That depends what your definition of 'hard' is.

Doing an 18 hour shift in Accident And Emergency - that's hard.
Doing a tour of Afghanistan - that's hard.
Cutting dead bodies out of mangled vehicles on the M1 - that's hard.

Massaging some dude's cock for £100 ph tax free - that's a pleasure. 

[Anadin]

Personally If I had the money I'd have no problem with the occasional little gift or a tip but I'm on an extremely tight budget so I don't.

Does anyone actually ask 'can I bring you a present' ? 

Given that there are weird blokes on Twitter and alike willing to send presents to women they'll never meet just cause they're fit, then yeah I'm pretty sure some do actually ask to bring a present.

[smiths]

i was just wondering if it is the convention to give tips to wgs .i saw my first girl about 3 months  ago and gave a £20 tip for asexual massage,i saw her 3 times more and always gave  £20 i think we had sex once in  7 hrs i am pretty old and never quite get full satisfacton.when i saw a new girl and gave her £20 she looked astounded and asked why but she took it for the the taxi fare.now when i see a girl i always take a small present like a box of chocs or a bottle of wine.am i just old fashioned or stupid i am 69.

Its entirely up to you if you wish to tip or give a WG a present, there is no convention about it though, just personal opinions.

I have tipped very good regulars after they have offered me very good service on ocassion, i wouldnt tip otherwise BUT i have had many WGs ask me for a tip, i am always happy to oblige by saying to them my tip is never ask me for a tip as that will ensure you wont get one off me.

[Bellabella]

Oh Lord.... That depends what your definition of 'hard' is.

Doing an 18 hour shift in Accident And Emergency - that's hard.
Doing a tour of Afghanistan - that's hard.
Cutting dead bodies out of mangled vehicles on the M1 - that's hard.

Massaging some dude's cock for £100 ph tax free - that's a pleasure. 

I usually work my chosen career for 10 hours then go home and work 4-6 hours escorting, so at the end of the day I can say I work hard yes. X

[Jimmyredcab]

Prostitutes already earn a higher hourly rate than a brain surgeon, there is absolutely no need to tip.   

I have sometimes bought a cheap bottle of wine for a regular, that is as far as I would go.   

[Rochdull lad]

Although I'm fluffier than many on here, the only time I've ever given a WG what you might call a tip was about 6 years ago when I saw an Indie who charged less than what was then my "going rate" [£150 ph] for bookings in those days when I was still working.  She gave a really good service so I gave her what I would usually have paid.  I told her I'd usually have paid that much for a session and that her rates seemed low for the area for the service that I'd enjoyed.

Next time I looked on AW, she'd no more than upped her hourly rate to £180!!  That must have induced "dusty phone syndrome" because within weeks, she'd dropped her price to £150.

I make a point of getting a little gift at Christmas for each of my Regulars, though.

[Jason]

Sometimes a bottle of white wine or champagne (up to £50) which btw I will open during the session/overnight. Also sometimes I round the fee like if overnight was £590 I will give £600.

Other gifts for enjoying my time?

Here is a good one:
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=21806.msg324569#msg324569
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=22044.msg327621#msg327621

And here is an even better one:
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=19713.0

A review and/or recommendation are by far the best gifts you can give to a good prossie. Tipping £10 or £20 are peanuts for them. The biggest mistake punters and especially newbies make is thinking that prossies are poor. They are not. In fact prossies are having a much greater income than most of the clients they meet and ALL TAX FREE.

[alenski]

i have to agree with most people that tipping is a waste of time and money  but giving a small present to a regular  makes both parties feel happier whats £5 when you are paying £120 for the hour.i  would like to know what you think of of my first experience with a escort i met this girl for a1 hour incall then three 2 hour outcalls giving a £20 tip everytime.we just talked most of the time she laughed a lot and was so easy to talk to .she complained about  having nothing to do while waiting  for clients  so decided to buy her a new nexus 7 tablet to watch movies you tube etc,she said she did not have  a hd tv so on her last visit  i gave her my old 46 inch panasonic h.d. plasma about 3years old and in perfect working order.then she just vanished without a word or farewell .to say i was emotionly devastated is a understatement.i would be very interested in bellabella point of view on this girls behaviour.thanks for reading its so good to get something off your chest which has bothered  me for so long.

[Jason]

i have to agree with most people that tipping is a waste of time and money  but giving a small present to a regular  makes both parties feel happier whats £5 when you are paying £120 for the hour.i  would like to know what you think of of my first experience with a escort i met this girl for a1 hour incall then three 2 hour outcalls giving a £20 tip everytime.we just talked most of the time she laughed a lot and was so easy to talk to .she complained about  having nothing to do while waiting  for clients  so decided to buy her a new nexus 7 tablet to watch movies you tube etc,she said she did not have  a hd tv so on her last visit  i gave her my old 46 inch panasonic h.d. plasma about 3years old and in perfect working order.then she just vanished without a word or farewell .to say i was emotionly devastated is a understatement.i would be very interested in bellabella point of view on this girls behaviour.thanks for reading its so good to get something off your chest which has bothered  me for so long.

Sorry alenski to tell you but this prossie took full advantage of your fluffiness. 

I usually work my chosen career for 10 hours then go home and work 4-6 hours escorting, so at the end of the day I can say I work hard yes. X

If you want to moan about your “hard” working rate better stick to SAAFE. As you have a career job as you say it your greed for plenty of money that makes you escorting.

[MidlandsEscortxo]

The amount of money a gent pays is more than enough for me so I never expect gifts from someone, if someone brings one along then thats lovely but never expected

[Tjkooker]

FFs don't give them chocolates unless their anorexic. The girls have a hard enough time lying about their dress size without you fattening them up. Take a tub of slim fast.

[Bellabella]

i have to agree with most people that tipping is a waste of time and money  but giving a small present to a regular  makes both parties feel happier whats £5 when you are paying £120 for the hour.i  would like to know what you think of of my first experience with a escort i met this girl for a1 hour incall then three 2 hour outcalls giving a £20 tip everytime.we just talked most of the time she laughed a lot and was so easy to talk to .she complained about  having nothing to do while waiting  for clients  so decided to buy her a new nexus 7 tablet to watch movies you tube etc,she said she did not have  a hd tv so on her last visit  i gave her my old 46 inch panasonic h.d. plasma about 3years old and in perfect working order.then she just vanished without a word or farewell .to say i was emotionly devastated is a understatement.i would be very interested in bellabella point of view on this girls behaviour.thanks for reading its so good to get something off your chest which has bothered  me for so long.

I honestly feel for you, I have a regular who I now have a great friendship with, I only ever see him when I'm working, he always pays double or gives massive tips, I have never asked for it or even hinted. When I got home from my regular job before Christmas there was gifts for me outside my door and an envelope full of money too. I am so grateful for his generosity and he knows that. I am in regular contact with him when I am not escorting and I have told him I won't be working from February onwards as I've chosen to up my game in my chosen career and don't feel the need to be a wg anymore. He fully respects my decision and is so happy I've told him. I don't know why she wouldn't have told you, she may have changed names or phone numbers but nothing should have stopped her from sending a simple message to you. I don't know how the other girls feel about working but i would hate to hurt anybody's feelings after they've been so good to me. If I was you I'd learn from your mistakes and choose not to treat girls in the same way in he future. Did she ever have you anything in return gift wise? I've bought my client a gift for Christmas as I felt like he deserved it after all of his generosity x

[Bellabella]

If you want to moan about your “hard” working rate better stick to SAAFE. As you have a career job as you say it your greed for plenty of money that makes you escorting.

I've never complained, I love my lifestyle right now, I simply work escorting so I can live in an apartment that I could never normally afford. When I get tired I take time off, I haven't worked for 3 weeks over Christmas to recharge my batteries. X

[Rochdull lad]

Oh dear, alenski; you make me feel positively neanderthal!!  I do hope you treat that episode as a learning experience.

[PuntingPete]

I've only ever given a regular some small gifts (chocolates), she always seemed really grateful & she never rushed me out of the door so I felt it was worth it.

Once a girl text me when I was on my way & asked me to pick her up a bottle of Rose. I stopped at her corner shop & it cost me £4.99, when I paid her at the end of the punt she deducted £10 'for the wine' 

[Bangers and Gash]

I've never complained, I love my lifestyle right now, I simply work escorting so I can live in an apartment that I could never normally afford. When I get tired I take time off, I haven't worked for 3 weeks over Christmas to recharge my batteries. X

Thanks, I'll definitely sleep better tonight for knowing that.

Here's my present, from me to you.

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[CoolTiger]

I generally tend to tip WGs, usually £20, but only if I've had a good, above average service. Unfortunately, for past few years, I have been given loads of good leads on here and in emails from other punters such that on most occassions I've ended up tipping.

Also, I generally tend to take a bottle of of her choice of wine, or even vodka (WKD Blue once) which can be a good ice-breaker, especially for the first meets.

[alenski]

i feel i have learnt from the experience by having three regulars the the emotional dependence of seeing the same girl every week is much lessened and its always nice to have variety in your life is it not

[Dani]

i have to agree with most people that tipping is a waste of time and money  but giving a small present to a regular  makes both parties feel happier whats £5 when you are paying £120 for the hour.i  would like to know what you think of of my first experience with a escort i met this girl for a1 hour incall then three 2 hour outcalls giving a £20 tip everytime.we just talked most of the time she laughed a lot and was so easy to talk to .she complained about  having nothing to do while waiting  for clients  so decided to buy her a new nexus 7 tablet to watch movies you tube etc,she said she did not have  a hd tv so on her last visit  i gave her my old 46 inch panasonic h.d. plasma about 3years old and in perfect working order.then she just vanished without a word or farewell .to say i was emotionly devastated is a understatement.i would be very interested in bellabella point of view on this girls behaviour.thanks for reading its so good to get something off your chest which has bothered  me for so long.

I could do with a new sofa ta the work flat!!!!!!!!!

Seriously though you had seen her 4 times and only had sex once so she wasted your time with chatting and took you for a fol and then because she gets bored you bought her a Nexus 7 and gave her a TV.  She could afford to pay for them herself if she actually worked during bookings so most clients would come back.  She totally saw you coming I am afraid and it is an awful thing to have to say but quite a large percentage of girls in this business will happily take a man for all she can get.
If you had known her really well over a period of years and had become good friends who often text or email each other and you knew everything about her life then maybe as a xmas present but if she is fit and healthy she would not need you to pay for anything as she could easily see 6-8 clients a day IF she did not take the piss out of them by chatting the whole time

If you want to give a gift then something small like chocolates or a bathbomb or even lypsyls make a great cheap gift that decent girls would appreciate.
M favourite all time gift was a client printed off loads of sexually funny pictures for me and I have three hung in my hallway all the time and alternate the weekly.  Cost him nothing apart from paper and brings me and clients so much fun and something to break the ice.
Same guy also downloaded all of Andre Reiu's CDs for me.  Another gift I totally adore.  again cost little to nothing but something I listen to everyday.

The best gifs need not cost anything but maybe something she has mentioned she likes.  The thought will get you a much better reception than the price

[Daffodil]

i have to agree with most people that tipping is a waste of time and money  but giving a small present to a regular  makes both parties feel happier whats £5 when you are paying £120 for the hour.i  would like to know what you think of of my first experience with a escort i met this girl for a1 hour incall then three 2 hour outcalls giving a £20 tip everytime.we just talked most of the time she laughed a lot and was so easy to talk to .she complained about  having nothing to do while waiting  for clients  so decided to buy her a new nexus 7 tablet to watch movies you tube etc,she said she did not have  a hd tv so on her last visit  i gave her my old 46 inch panasonic h.d. plasma about 3years old and in perfect working order.then she just vanished without a word or farewell .to say i was emotionly devastated is a understatement.i would be very interested in bellabella point of view on this girls behaviour.thanks for reading its so good to get something off your chest which has bothered  me for so long.

Apologies for being blunt, but you sound like a fool to me and I'd suggest punting is not for you 

[berksboy]

    The only tip i ever give a WG is dont do class A shit !

[alenski]

thanks for the advice dani i never spend more than a £5 for a present these days.i have just ordered  a black forest gateax  and a french apple cake from a swiss master baker for my friday girl who loves to bake .cost £5.08. i think i am  just a incurable romantic.the bath balls are a excellent suggestion which i would not have thought of so thanks again

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[alenski]

Apologies for being blunt, but you sound like a fool to me and I'd suggest punting is not for you 

                           remember  this was my very first punt i was totally green but i have had some great experiences since and expect many more

[dilettante]

No need to justify yourself, alenski, and welcome to the forum, happy punting!

[vorian]

Tips no I think the financial exchange should be set prior to the punt. WG should put 100% effort in at all times as part of her customer service, muddies the waters if she thinks that by trying harder she might get more.

Gifts, why not with a regular, in many countries around the world the exchange of small gifts as part of business transactions is considered good manners. As long as the gift is small and had some thought put into it, yes why not.

What about WG's giving gifts to punters, I have had presents on my birthday and Christmas from regulars before. Again nothing big just thoughtful. A good WG will always be thinking of new ways to impress her regulars with her customer service skills.

[vorian]

i have to agree with most people that tipping is a waste of time and money  but giving a small present to a regular  makes both parties feel happier whats £5 when you are paying £120 for the hour.i  would like to know what you think of of my first experience with a escort i met this girl for a1 hour incall then three 2 hour outcalls giving a £20 tip everytime.we just talked most of the time she laughed a lot and was so easy to talk to .she complained about  having nothing to do while waiting  for clients  so decided to buy her a new nexus 7 tablet to watch movies you tube etc,she said she did not have  a hd tv so on her last visit  i gave her my old 46 inch panasonic h.d. plasma about 3years old and in perfect working order.then she just vanished without a word or farewell .to say i was emotionly devastated is a understatement.i would be very interested in bellabella point of view on this girls behaviour.thanks for reading its so good to get something off your chest which has bothered  me for so long.

We are all human and we all make mistakes you were misguided in your actions but we all were new to punting once and dealing with prossies is not a class they teach at school. What you have done is the right thing by joining UKP as advice is available for new and old.

Just remember punting should be if it is done with the right WG a business transaction no more, no less. You should expect to be treated like a valued customer at all times. If you went into your local garage and had good service, would you give them a present or a tip, probably not. The best they should expect is for you to enjoy the service, return again and tell your friends about the good customer service you received. That's what punting should be in my opinion.

[DaveMugabe]

thanks for the advice dani i never spend more than a £5 for a present these days.i have just ordered  a black forest gateax  and a french apple cake from a swiss master baker for my friday girl who loves to bake .cost £5.08. i think i am  just a incurable romantic.the bath balls are a excellent suggestion which i would not have thought of so thanks again

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I am guessing you pay them also!!

How romantic!!

[Jayjay]

Alenski - I am sure the other members on here will help put your mind straight, but don't waste your hard earned money doing crap like that! She just wants money and that's it! She couldn't give a damn about you.

Like others have mentioned they get paid incredibly well. The only reason to add to that would be if you thought it was in your own interest.

[wristjob]

Something as simple as a box of chocolates can really make a girls day after working so hard x

Wow I had to laugh. After earning £500+ for a days work I would not give a toss about a box of chocs.

i've never tipped a girl cash and I'd find it hard to do so. You might give your bin men a fiver for a year of emptying your shite but on a £100 service anything less than a tenner looks tighter than nothing really. On 2 occasions I've taken a bottle of wine on a repeat visit - but I don't repeat many girls so that's approval in itself and was to girls I felt were exceptional.

Box of chocs feels wrong. Some guys seem to get that a bit confused and this is the sort of thing that leads to that confusion. On repeat visits girls might think they have you wrapped round their finger and start getting complacent with their service - this could lead to that too.

[vorian]

Wow I had to laugh. After earning £500+ for a days work I would not give a toss about a box of chocs.

i've never tipped a girl cash and I'd find it hard to do so. You might give your bin men a fiver for a year of emptying your shite but on a £100 service anything less than a tenner looks tighter than nothing really. On 2 occasions I've taken a bottle of wine on a repeat visit - but I don't repeat many girls so that's approval in itself and was to girls I felt were exceptional.

Box of chocs feels wrong. Some guys seem to get that a bit confused and this is the sort of thing that leads to that confusion. On repeat visits girls might think they have you wrapped round their finger and start getting complacent with their service - this could lead to that too.

Your right punters some times delude themselves or forget that punting is exchanging money for sex it's a business transaction and at best all you can expect is a good working relationship with  a prossie.  The Op in his defence was new to punting he made a mistake and hopefully by doing the right thing and joining this forum will means his punts get better and better for him. It is a shame he did not join before he had an experience of a bad WG.

[alenski]

Alenski - I am sure the other members on here will help put your mind straight, but don't waste your hard earned money doing crap like that! She just wants money and that's it! She couldn't give a damn about you.

Like others have mentioned they get paid incredibly well. The only reason to add to that would be if you thought it was in your own interest.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             actually i have just had a punt with a girl quite the opposite i booked from 3 to 4 got lost my own fault arrived at  3 30 she  let  me stay till  4 50 and did not check my envelope the whole time just left on the table.dont tar everyone with the same brush

[vorian]

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             actually i have just had a punt with a girl quite the opposite i booked from 3 to 4 got lost my own fault arrived at  3 30 she  let  me stay till  4 50 and did not check my envelope the whole time just left on the table.dont tar everyone with the same brush

Interesting seems she was focused on giving good customer service. Would be great to see a review I'm always looking for "Good" WG's.

[alenski]

check out sophie  gateshead quayside  puntersuk/reviews/north east,  9-1-14

[Jayjay]

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             actually i have just had a punt with a girl quite the opposite i booked from 3 to 4 got lost my own fault arrived at  3 30 she  let  me stay till  4 50 and did not check my envelope the whole time just left on the table.dont tar everyone with the same brush

I don't think she fukd you and let you stay out of the kindness of her heart... If she had another punt lined up after you there was no chance! I think you may be a little deluded. She offers a service that you pay damn good money for. She may go above her call of duty, but that's because you are paying damn good money for that service!

You should be a lot more wiser considering your age.

[vorian]

check out sophie  gateshead quayside  puntersuk/reviews/north east,  9-1-14

Thank you for your review below is the link

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topis=22243.0

I am glad you enjoyed this punt and I hope you have many more in the future.

[Strawberry]

Alenski

You need to remind yourself this is a business transaction, one with nice boundaries which serve to protect both parties. Some punters will buy presents thinking they'll result in a better service, or favours as a leverage point. For me this doesn't work the best present is a return visit, or someone just not pushing any boundaries - simply enjoying the booking for what it is and my fee is more than enough to allow me to buy anything else that I need.

Some guys like to bring a present and they are always gratefully accepted, chocolates and champagne are mostly wasted on me but they are considered a treat by many.

Someone once brought me some luxury chamomile tea bags which were great, others have included a jar of home made honey, a scented candle and a signed first edition book which could by the nature of the author be quite collectible in the future. It's not a competition and prossies usually aren't looking for a white knight, or if they are then you need to be careful with yourself.

Regards the lady who didn't check the envelope she might well have spent the whole booking thinking "I hope he's put the correct money in there". I've checked envelope afterwards and during at the insistence of the client and found it to be £10 or £20 less, sometimes it's a genuine mistake, sometimes a wangle for a discount however forewarned you can decide what to do about it and afterwards there's nothing you can do. A prossie's job is to make you feel relaxed however she's does that because you are paying her and not for any other reason.

[punk]

why are you guy's buying presents or leaving tips?  i really dont understand

[Mara]

why are you guy's buying presents or leaving tips?  i really dont understand

I really don't understand and I am a WG

The best gift you can bring along is to be on time, clean and polite and don't treat her like a piece of cheap (well, in this case expensive) meat.

A good service has to be included in her fee, if she would only provide a good service in return of expensive gifts on top of her fee she is not a good provider. No matter how cute she looks.

I personally would feel quite uncomfortable if a client rolls on with a nexus tablet or any other expensive stuff.

Having said that, I think it's great what HP is doing, I love cherries, so much that I had to change the avatar on my profile 

[punk]

I really don't understand and I am a WG

The best gift you can bring along is to be on time, clean and polite and don't treat her like a piece of cheap (well, in this case expensive) meat.

A good service has to be included in her fee, if she would only provide a good service in return of expensive gifts on top of her fee she is not a good provider. No matter how cute she looks.

I personally would feel quite uncomfortable if a client rolls on with a nexus tablet or any other expensive stuff.

Having said that, I think it's great what HP is doing, I love cherries, so much that I had to change the avatar on my profile 

total agree, i thought it was only me, fruit is ok, but tablets, etc.dont treat the woman as a lump of crap and vice versa

[Jerboa]

A tip?..........Yeah never eat yellow snow.