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Offline VitIron

Bascially, I'm a wanker - (I thought I'd get that in before someone else did)...

I enjoyed my most recent punt and it actually encouraged me to cut down and I abstained for five days before slipping back into my old habits.

The first few days of abstinence generally seem to be the hardest and then it gets easier.
A few years ago, I achieved nearly three months of no fapping which I wouldn't have thought possible.

I want to cut down and break this habit and I thought maybe a thread on here where other wankers can share their experiences and efforts might help us achieve our goals.

I'll have to start from tomorrow because I had one earlier today...

Sorry if this was too much information or if anyone thinks it's a ridiculous idea but I think it's worth a try.

Offline Ghost89

The longest I’ve gone is about a week. And that was only during the summer and it was just too hot to do anything. Other than that I just can’t do it.

Offline IAmNotFamous

It’s a great idea. Our strength comes from testosterone. So keeping it in, makes us stronger. Problem is, it needs to come out lol. But longest for me is six days. Any tips on longer appreciated. Cutting out porn is one.

Offline VitIron

Thanks for both your responses  :thumbsup:

When I've had the inclination to do something about it, I've found that the best thing to do is literally take it one day at a time and actually keep a record of how many days it's been since my last wank.

That way each day represents progress and it has made me more determined to keep going because I don't want to reset the clock and go back to zero.

Obviously, this approach has never worked indefinitely but it's certainly helped.  ;)

Offline Thephoenix

I hope you can come to a satisfactory solution.

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Bascially, I'm a wanker - (I thought I'd get that in before someone else did)...

I enjoyed my most recent punt and it actually encouraged me to cut down and I abstained for five days before slipping back into my old habits.

The first few days of abstinence generally seem to be the hardest and then it gets easier.
A few years ago, I achieved nearly three months of no fapping which I wouldn't have thought possible.

I want to cut down and break this habit and I thought maybe a thread on here where other wankers can share their experiences and efforts might help us achieve our goals.

I'll have to start from tomorrow because I had one earlier today...

Sorry if this was too much information or if anyone thinks it's a ridiculous idea but I think it's worth a try.

Wanking has saved me a bloody fortune in punting. Not to mention, that I would have made some VERY questionable punting decisions

Offline DastardlyDick

How often are you wanking so that you perceive it as a problem? There's nothing wrong with it per se, I frequently indulge when watching porn. Is it because you think it stops you punting enough? As the previous comment, it's probably saved us all a lot of money and disappointment over the years.

Offline Thephoenix

To OP....
I remember you starting another thread on masturbation a while ago, and wonder if you're just overthinking about it.

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Relax and enjoy yourself.... it's good for you! :hi:

Offline VitIron

How often are you wanking so that you perceive it as a problem? There's nothing wrong with it per se, I frequently indulge when watching porn.

I'd say once a day and more when I'm not as busy. I don't want PIED and death grip syndrome to become a factor if it isn't already.

Is it because you think it stops you punting enough? As the previous comment, it's probably saved us all a lot of money and disappointment over the years.

It isn't related to how often I punt but it may be preventing me from enjoying it more.

Offline VitIron

Day 1 successfully completed  ;)

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Offline Liverpool

Day 2 successfully completed  ;)

Wouldn't it be better Vitiron, to just let us know when you fall off the wagon? We wish you well but "day 32 successfully completed" type messages are just going to be a bit pointless.
« Last Edit: November 10, 2022, 12:19:18 am by Liverpool »

Offline VitIron

Wouldn't it be better Vitiron, to just let us know when you fall off the wagon?

No.

As I mentioned before, each day represents progress.

We wish you well but "day 32 successfully completed" type messages are just going to be a bit pointless.

If someone else on here had started this thread and I saw he was making progress, it would encourage me to do the same.

Offline VitIron

We wish you well but "day 32 successfully completed" type messages are just going to be a bit pointless.

I do see your point, though.

As the first few days are the hardest, I'll do an update of every successful day for the first week and weekly updates after that - if they are successful as well.

I'll let you know when I fall off the wagon - it's bound to happen at some point.

Offline DastardlyDick

I'll let you know when I fall off the wagon - it's bound to happen at some point.
Make sure you have a lot of tissues when/if you do! 😂😂

Offline Liverpool

I do see your point, though.

As the first few days are the hardest, I'll do an update of every successful day for the first week and weekly updates after that - if they are successful as well.

I'll let you know when I fall off the wagon - it's bound to happen at some point.

Fair enough. Good luck.  :hi:


Offline VitIron

Make sure you have a lot of tissues when/if you do! 😂😂

I certainly will!

I always cum prepared  ;)

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Offline Malvolio

Are you having sex whilst you're doing this?  It's a lot easier to stop wanking if you've got another form of release...

Offline Thephoenix

Day 99.....100...change hands. zzzzzzzzzzz

Offline VitIron

Are you having sex whilst you're doing this?

Nope.

It's a lot easier to stop wanking if you've got another form of release...

I don't doubt it.

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Offline m4rmite

The longest I've gone is about 10 days.
Being in hospital certainly helped :D

After the snip i held out for about 30 hours, when i cum i thought my bollocks were exploding :scare:

Offline VitIron

The longest I've gone is about 10 days.
Being in hospital certainly helped :D

After the snip i held out for about 30 hours, when i cum i thought my bollocks were exploding :scare:

Did you get any nasty surprises the first you came after the operation?

I had a flexible cystoscopy once and when I had my first wank after it, what came out was pink because there was blood in the cum  :vomit:

Actually, it's perfectly normal for that to happen but I didn't know it at the time and it scared the hell out of me!

Offline m4rmite

Did you get any nasty surprises the first you came after the operation?

I had a flexible cystoscopy once and when I had my first wank after it, what came out was pink because there was blood in the cum  :vomit:

Actually, it's perfectly normal for that to happen but I didn't know it at the time and it scared the hell out of me!
Not blood wise but tried a bit of diy and my 1 ball blew up in size.
Took it easy for 2 weeks and all was good.

Also knocked one out a few days after a hernia op.
Hurt like hell as i came but kinda liked it.  :blush:

Offline B4bcock

Did you get any nasty surprises the first you came after the operation?

I had a flexible cystoscopy once and when I had my first wank after it, what came out was pink because there was blood in the cum  :vomit:

I had a prostate biopsy and orgasms were like rivers of blood for about a week.

Offline mills_and_bhuna

I had a prostate biopsy and orgasms were like rivers of blood for about a week.
With you there.
I had a vasectomy years ago and the same thing.

Offline willie loman

i havent had a wank for about 40 years, any one else like this?

Offline Crunchie

i havent had a wank for about 40 years, any one else like this?

seriously? Fuckin' hell! My balls would simply explode or my testosterone levels would kill me!  At 60+ I still don't remember going more that 3 days without knocking one out.

Offline willie loman

seriously? Fuckin' hell! My balls would simply explode or my testosterone levels would kill me!  At 60+ I still don't remember going more that 3 days without knocking one out.


you can have interesting dreams if you dont wank, nowadays i visit hookers at least twice a week so am sorted.

Offline DastardlyDick

i havent had a wank for about 40 years, any one else like this?
Not me, but you've set the bar high for the OP! 😂

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Offline VitIron

Week 1 successfully completed  :yahoo:

Offline VitIron

I fell off the wagon on day 9.

Reset the clock, tomorrow is day 1  :thumbsup:

Offline VitIron

Updates will be after each successful week or when I fall off the wagon  :thumbsup:

Offline IAmNotFamous

I fell off the wagon on day 9.

Reset the clock, tomorrow is day 1  :thumbsup:

What happened and what could you learn from that. 9 days is inspiring.

Aiming for five before my next punt. Friday might be a challenge as there may be boredom time lol

Offline RAJEC

I’m 4 days in and stopped mid wank last night. Will try and build up to a week and then unload on/in an sp hopefully  :yahoo:

Offline VitIron

What happened and what could you learn from that.

A porn video that I'd ordered finally arrived - that's what happened!  :lol:

I've had two wanks to it today because day 1 doesn't start until tomorrow but there won't be any more wanking today.

Looking ahead, I don't have anything else ordered so that's one less excuse for next time.

9 days is inspiring.

Thank you! :thumbsup:

Aiming for five before my next punt. Friday might be a challenge as there may be boredom time lol

Good luck!

What day are you on now?

Offline VitIron

I’m 4 days in and stopped mid wank last night. Will try and build up to a week and then unload on/in an sp hopefully  :yahoo:

Well done! Particularly for stopping yourself mid-wank, that takes willpower.

I hope you didn't give yourself blue balls!

Offline HomerC

Wanking has saved me a bloody fortune in punting. Not to mention, that I would have made some VERY questionable punting decisions

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Offline RAJEC

Well done! Particularly for stopping yourself mid-wank, that takes willpower.

I hope you didn't give yourself blue balls!

I had one eye on a possible punt which didn’t materialise today, so it was worth taking the risk for a better potential blow out.

May have to hold it in until Friday now. I feel sorry for whoever gets this load  :D

Offline IAmNotFamous

A porn video that I'd ordered finally arrived - that's what happened!  :lol:

I've had two wanks to it today because day 1 doesn't start until tomorrow but there won't be any more wanking today.

Looking ahead, I don't have anything else ordered so that's one less excuse for next time.

Thank you! :thumbsup:

Good luck!

What day are you on now?

I’m on day two lol.

The thing is I do work out so I need an outlet for All these extra testosterone that is made.

But determined to save my load for the weekend. I could make do with one day’s worth but like Rajec want to give an extra load lol

Offline VitIron

I’m on day two lol.

You're two days ahead of me!

The thing is I do work out so I need an outlet for All these extra testosterone that is made.

That's interesting because I work out as well but, if anything, it has the opposite effect one me.

I often wank because I'm bored and because working out also relieves boredom, it reduces the urge to wank.

Offline IAmNotFamous

Just need some clarification on this.

A relapse is when we find ourselves DIY’ing, right?

Seeing a SP doesn’t count right?

Offline VitIron

Just need some clarification on this.

A relapse is when we find ourselves DIY’ing, right?

Seeing a SP doesn’t count right?

Some people say that complete abstinence from any form of orgasm is necessary.

I don't agree.

Sexual interaction isn't the problem.

Porn and wanking is the problem and that's what needs to be addressed.

Offline IAmNotFamous

Some people say that complete abstinence from any form of orgasm is necessary.

I don't agree.

Sexual interaction isn't the problem.

Porn and wanking is the problem and that's what needs to be addressed.

I agree with this definition.

If I wanted to abstain, I’d join the UK Priest forum lol

Offline VitIron

I agree with this definition.

If I wanted to abstain, I’d join the UK Priest forum lol

That might be more sordid than anything you'd find on this forum!

Offline m4rmite

I agree with this definition.

If I wanted to abstain, I’d join the UK Priest forum lol
I heard they need all the members they can get as internet access in prison is limited :scare: