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Offline DrConners

I recently came across a WG's profile & in the Q & A she had posted this :

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Q. Will your husband watch me fuck you?    A. This is a big turn on for lots of you guys it seems ;-) My husband is available to watch by prior arrangement.

I'm pretty open minded & up for anything - well at least once I guess - but for me personally this is not "a big turn on"

A sex party? Yep I get that, I'm looking for one to participate in & don't think I'd struggle with group interaction, but banging away whilst her hubby gazes at my buttocks ? Nah!  :unknown:

I had a search on UKP but didn't unearth anything - feel free to correct me if I'm wrong.

Opinions ?


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Offline Thecunninglinguist

Do they hold cards up afterwards scoring your technical ability and artistic interpretation. Maybe they ask you before what you are going to do, obviously some manoeuvres will have a degree of difficulty, which will have to be taken into account when scoring. Maybe if you score the highest you could be Punter of the Month and have your picture on the bedhead for the month and maybe a badge  to wear?  :D

Offline nigel4498

When I was shallow callow youth I picked up a civvie girl in a pub in Lodge Road Southampton ( bet you know it DrC ). She lived just round the corner and she took me home. Snogging away on the couch, I had her tits out and she was sucking my cock when the door opens.
It was her hubby :scare:
Thought I'm in for a hiding here but no. He just wanted to watch me fuck his Mrs while he sat in an armchair and tossed himself off.
It sure takes all kinds so it's each to his own.
In answer to your query DrC. No, I wouldn't do it now.
Tried it once and didn't do anything for me.

Offline billybobsmith

I don't think I could actually put in a worthy enough performance to be honest.  Was tempted by joining a couple off AW a few years ago but I'm not sure if I would feel "less manly" especially if he whips out a 9" cock and there I am with my lowly 6 inches that doesn't quite work in various positions.
There was the option of just watching or joining in at any time.

Was watching a video someone here put a link up for the other day and the husband was letting some man fuck his wife with his 9" cock and was asked his wife how he compared size wise.  Pretty obvious from things visually and what was said that there was quite a size difference and the man may have done a better job as well.  Not sure how I would feel if I was watching someone in better shape etc. fuck my partner and bring her off in ways I never had.  But obviously some do enjoy it and either look past humiliation, get off on it, are completely unaware and just see the excitement of watching their wife getting fucked by some stud etc.



Offline NickA

No interest at all.

But in the 1990's I once had an inexperienced WG sit in the corner of a room and watch me fuck her seasoned workmate. Apologies for hijacking a thread, but has anyone else had this? The woman was a regular of mine and had broached the subject before - 'She's new, has only done massage and HJ, would you be OK with it?' It was made very clear the girl would not get involved.

I'd love to tell you she was so overcome with lust, she peeled off and joined the fun. But no, she sat in corner in a woolly jumper and jeans, repeatedly blushing, while me and her mate went to town. I found it very erotic to start with, but then a teeny bit frustrating, and it also put my regular a little bit off her stroke - as she admitted later.

Sadly, I don't recall ever seeing the girl again. As I was very keen to fuck her, knowing she'd watched me doing her friend.


Offline S.X. MacHine

Yeah.
Two years ago , started seeing a WG who was into submission and being flogged etc. After a few excellent meetings, she suggested her husband (a dom, like me) join the fun. Gave it a lot of thought, then agreed. It was clear from the start that no money would change hands; I was to be participating in their 'swinging' lifestyle.
So, prior to the first meeting, hubby emails me with all sorts of intriguing 'off the wall' suggestions of what we could do to his missus. We met at a dungeon, after a preliminary chat and drink at a hotel.
There followed two fun filled hours of perversion, leaving the wife well flogged and, after several intense orgasms, well satisfied. She was also spit roasted and DPed. The hubby and I were happy chappies.
Never having gotten naked near another guy in a sexual context, I was surprised how easy and natural it felt. No probs getting and maintaining an erection.
Our little threesome has met several times since for good times, social and sexual, and I still see the WG one to one on a paying basis.
These escapades have given me the confidence to graduate to foursomes and beyond.
Bring it on!

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Any chance of a link to the profile DrConners?


Offline mr.bluesky

Do they hold cards up afterwards scoring your technical ability and artistic interpretation. Maybe they ask you before what you are going to do, obviously some manoeuvres will have a degree of difficulty, which will have to be taken into account when scoring. Maybe if you score the highest you could be Punter of the Month and have your picture on the bedhead for the month and maybe a badge  to wear?  :D

Lol :D brilliant  :thumbsup:

Offline billybobsmith

Do they hold cards up afterwards scoring your technical ability and artistic interpretation. Maybe they ask you before what you are going to do, obviously some manoeuvres will have a degree of difficulty, which will have to be taken into account when scoring. Maybe if you score the highest you could be Punter of the Month and have your picture on the bedhead for the month and maybe a badge  to wear?  :D

Suppose it depends on what the husband / cuckold wants.  He might want the other man to position himself to see the man's cock moving in and out of his partner.  More so with filming.

I'm sure you wouldn't score highly if you got on top and came in 10 seconds! ;)

At the end of the day though, you are there to satisfy the women and the needs of the man so they will be expecting some performance and judging you on it.

Offline pecksniff

In a previous relationship, long before I met my wife, I once "shared" a girlfriend with a friend.  It was still the best sexual experience I've had to this day. 

She was a very "liberated" girl, let's call it that.  Sexually adventurous, was willing to try anything.  She'd fantasise about other girls that she worked with, sometimes whilst I was fucking her.  We'd discuss her friends and she'd get turned on thinking about us both fucking them.  She even stole a pair of her friends dirty knickers for us to sniff together whilst fucking.  She was wild! 

We talked about having threesomes, foursomes, orgies, that type of thing.  Neither of us had ever done anything like that.  We both found the idea of it a turn on.  We had the kind of relationship where we liked each other a lot, loved each other "possibly" but ultimately were physically attracted to each other and the whole relationship was built on a strong sexual basis.  She said she'd enjoy watching me fuck other women and the idea appealed immensely.  I questioned how I would feel about seeing her fuck another man, or men.  I suppose the thought of it felt very uncomfortable at first, but when I questioned why I thought like this, it was only because I didn't want her to prefer someone else to me.  We both arrived at the same conclusion really, that sex was just sex, it didn't have to be based on a deep affection for anyone else, and so the idea of having sex with others became a lot less threatening and more appealing. 

Our first time wasn't planned.  In fact, it was totally spontaneous.  A mate of mine dropped by with a bottle of wine and a card on my birthday - totally unexpected.  We invited him in and he stayed for an hour or so chatting away.  At that point neither of us were thinking anything to do with having sex.  But as the wine flowed I could tell, just from her body language, that she was feeling horny.  I just knew her well enough to spot the signs.  At one point when he was out of the room I said to her, "Are you feeling horny?"  She giggled and said, "Maybe!".  I then asked her if she was ready to try her first threesome?  She giggled and said, "Maybe" again.  I knew it was game on.  But I didn't know if he was up for it.

When she went out of the room and he came back in I said to him..."Do you think she's attractive?"  Which was a stupid question really because she was a stunner - looked very similar to Linda Lusardi if any of you remember her?  He said something like, "of course she is" and then I said, "She's always fancied a threesome with two blokes - are you up for it?"  And after his initial shock and questioning me if I was serious, he confirmed he definitely was up for it.

When she came back in I said to her, "Why don't you sit next to Steve?" and she did.  I told her that we'd been talking about her and what a good kisser she was - and I said to her, "Show Steve what a good kisser you are" - and that was it.  We were off!  They began snogging and I came up and started to unbutton her blouse.  He started fondling her tits then she went for his belt and starting unbuttoning his flies.  Within about 30 seconds all three of us were naked.  He was between her legs licking her cunt and I was now on the settee deep French kissing her.  She got up, grabbed us both by our cocks, and walked us into the bedroom. 

What followed was two or three hours of constant fucking with her.  We took it in turns at first then at one point I entered up her arse whilst his cock was up her fanny.  As we moved in and out I could feel his cock in her fanny whilst I was up her arse.  I have never had sexual thoughts about a bloke before, and I didn't then, but I must admit I found that an incredible turn on, as did she.  I mean, she was absolutely gushing all over us both and her breathing was like she was panting and breathless with excitement.  At one point she wanted us ball to ball on our backs.  We obliged, she went down and started sucking both our cocks at the same time - then, she started rubbing them together! This seemed a bit too "gay" at first to me, but then I saw my mate's face and he was almost coming straight away at the sheer perversion of it.  So, yes, I began to enjoy it and she was loving it.  I think if she'd carried on for much longer we'd both have blown our load over each other's cocks.  As it happened, we didn't, but reverted back to fucking her some more.  I enjoyed watching him fuck her and he enjoyed watching me fuck her.  There doesn't seem anything wrong or unnatural about that to me.  Cock size didn't come into it.  I'm bigger than him, in fact he was quite small, but she loved him fucking her every bit as much as she loved me fucking her.  She just loved cock and didn't mind what shape or size they were - she just wanted them.

I think the whole thing only came to a halt because he was married and had to get back home for not too late a time, or there'd have been questions to answer.   It was the most amazing experience.  We did try a repeat of it a few weeks later - but it was nowhere near as good - probably because it was planned and therefore a bit "contrived" which took the spontaneity out of it. 

I appreciate it is each to their own in terms of sexual tastes, but I was inspired to tell you about my experience, because it's not as some of you have said, a case of "sitting back and watching some blokes buttocks going up and down", it's far, far more than that.  It's to let yourself go completely and pleasure each other to a degree that isn't possible with just two people.

I highly recommend it. :thumbsup:
« Last Edit: January 28, 2018, 08:55:02 am by pecksniff »

Offline McSwell

I nearly experienced this in a parlour some years ago.

I'd  just gone through to the room when the receptionist came back and said there was a punter asking if he could come in and watch and he was offering to pay for my punt (£50).
I was a bit unnerved at first then thought ok go for it.

I had my shower and waited but when the girl came in she said  she'd turned him down. Apparently he'd been there before and other girls had told her  that he wanks himself off while he watches and he was a bit creepy.
 She didnt fancy it and reckoned in that case it should be like a MMF punt so he should pay £50 extra to her regardless of what he had arranged with me,  so it didn't happen.

I don't know if I could do it if it was pre-planned, I guess if you were blindfolded you wouldn't know but I'd be concerned who was actually  sucking my cock  :scare:

Offline Marmalade

In a previous relationship, long before I met my wife, I once "shared" a girlfriend with a friend.  It was still the best sexual experience I've had to this day. 

With all respect for sharing your experience, you are talking about swinging. This is a punting board, When a prostitute offers this service it's sometimes called a 'cuckold' experience. Others having mentioned a 'sharing' as part of a paid relationship, and having done that, and having been active on the swinging scene, I have to point out that they are completely different, and that you appear to be on the wrong board.

Offline S.X. MacHine

Yes, Marmalade, you are correct, strictly speaking.
But It was really good read!
 :rolleyes:

Offline myothernameis

I nearly experienced this in a parlour some years ago.

In a parlour many years ago, I was waiting to see my girl, who was busy with another punter, and while waiting another punter joined me in the lounge, with his girl, and with no cabins free, we just all talked away

But the girl had other plans, placing her hands under her clients towel began to play with him, and soon the towel was discarded on the floor, so I was more of a voyeur.  As I began to play with my self, I was ushered by the girl to sit next to her, she now had 2 cocks in her hand, and was loving all the attention she was getting.  The girl I was waiting was now free, and we headed to the cabin, and we got down to business, found out later on the other guy, ended up fucking the girl on the couch, in front of 2 other guys

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Thanks Nigel.

I read a section on her profile about "Reverse cuckolding" can't imagine many takers for that. Paying just to watch a couple have sex offers no appeal to me.


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Thanks Nigel.

I read a section on her profile about "Reverse cuckolding" can't imagine many takers for that. Paying just to watch a couple have sex offers no appeal to me.

One of my real like punting mates pays for that as that is his physical limit.

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One of my real like punting mates pays for that as that is his physical limit.

Fair enough if that's his choice and preference but for me it doesn't sound like good value for money.

Offline billybobsmith

Thanks Nigel.

I read a section on her profile about "Reverse cuckolding" can't imagine many takers for that. Paying just to watch a couple have sex offers no appeal to me.

The voyeuristic aspect appeals to me.  As long as it's natural and not fake porn style acting or OTT, I would happily watch.
Sure I prefer to watch the girl alone or get on with just her, but there's something different about watching others.  Perhaps seeing how others do it, the turn on of seeing her getting pleasure or something else.  Not 100% sure.

Offline Bogof60

Yes, Marmalade, you are correct, strictly speaking.
But It was really good read!
 :rolleyes:
Agree
Yes it has been a good erotic read  :thumbsup:
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Offline Clitheroelad

As a single chap many years ago I had a go at swinging. Arranged to meet a couple and rrnt back to tbeir gaff. He obviously got off watching his missus being banged by a complete stranger. His doe eyed wife seemed to be happy taking instructions and to be fair sge was a bit of ok skirt although when he started talking about his bi tendancies I decided I'd bitten off more than I could chew, especially as I got the inpression he'd been slavering over my arse more than his wife's. Needless to say I make a hasty retreat and didnt answer any of his emails asking if I'd like to meet them again.
« Last Edit: January 29, 2018, 12:20:49 pm by Clitheroelad »

Offline JamesKW

I have watched plenty of men with WGs at parties whilst I wait my turn and likewise have been watched by plenty.Whilst some men are going through every position in the book,my thoughts are not what great lovemakers they are,but stop hogging the girl I want my go.When it is my go there have been plenty that have tried to hurry me up by standing over me in an intimidating manor,I have grown a thick skin to this and will often take longer, in this case.Normally I try not to hog too much as I know everyone has paid their money.
« Last Edit: January 29, 2018, 01:06:50 pm by JamesKW »

Offline shagmore

I have had a meet where husband as present, was great pounding away at his wife as he looked on. He appeared to like it, and once I came over her after pulling the jonny off, he liked her clean.

Offline Graucho

I tried a party in London a few years ago for the experience but don't think I'd do it again. Whist I'm not overly bothered about others watching the overriding memory was of some old guy wanking in my peripheral vision whilst I was getting a blowjob. Didn't put me off my stroke but for some reason it's ingrained in my memory !


Offline S.X. MacHine

Oddly, my fave WG has asked if I'd be prepared to allow a civvy female friend of hers  watch us engage in our usual BDSM antics; bondage, blindfolding, flogging etc. usual stuff.
The request came from the friend who has not indulged in BDSM, but is seriously enough interested to want to observe.
Of course, I'm thinking threesome, potentially. I'm well up for it.
Time will tell...

Offline shagmore

Oddly, my fave WG has asked if I'd be prepared to allow a civvy female friend of hers  watch us engage in our usual BDSM antics; bondage, blindfolding, flogging etc. usual stuff.
The request came from the friend who has not indulged in BDSM, but is seriously enough interested to want to observe.
Of course, I'm thinking threesome, potentially. I'm well up for it.
Time will tell...

I hope you said yes... Lucky bastard

Offline Georgedaviesok

At that infamous parlour in Bolton we don't talk about around 7 years ago I had a strange scenario. I had just seen a lady whose name I forget who was quite famous there and we was in the top room. As I dressed afterwards and her putting her lingerie back on we went down the stairs and on the next floor there was a guy fucking full pelt on the bed with the door wide open. At that precise moment the maid shouted up to the girl that I had just seen to wait and said wait there. Great timing. So I'm standing there watching this guy who was big fella fucking this skinny 20 year old, he turns round a smiles at me. The girl I had just seen looked at me and said do you like that groping my already hardening cock before unzipping me and started wanking me. Unfortunately we then got the call to go downstairs, I asked when down downstairs could I see the same girl again but she had a booking so I left feeling very horny and very frustrated! So much so that I popped over too see Celeste at TJs and had a two girl (with Jordan if I remember rightly)!
And TJs, many a story to tell of threesomes, foursomes and general naughtyness never really repeated at Sheridans.

Offline catweazle

Very many years ago l used to go to a place called Willow (it was in an old office block, surrounded by accountants and solicitors and the like, very near to Minshull Street courts in Manchester (if any of the older punters recall Willow))

You would go in  the door off the corridor into a reception area and there was a second room beyond it. Sometimes the single girl who worked there (her names escapes me) would have a receptionist (who if memory serves was a mature lady very earthy and up front ("hope your balls are full, she's ready for buckets of spunk")) but on this day there was no receptionist.

As i went in, the girl was in a full blown argument. She was arguing with a tall, gangly spotty faced fella. She broke off the row and showed me through to the massage room and then left to resume the argument. I couldn't tell what it was all about, just her angry voice and his, sort of whiny and pleading sounding.

After a few minutes the noise subsided. She came back into the room. She said this guy had appeared and wanted to book in to see her. She had refused for a  couple of reasons - he had said he was 18 (and had proved it with some ID) and she didnt see under 35s and secondly he had demanded BB (which she didnt do).

The discussion had swung around after her refusal and he had then asked if he could watch her with another customer. He would pay for the "other" punter and for himself - so essentially a double fee for her. More to shut him up than anything else she had agreed to ask me.

I was much younger then, exceedingly horny and the exhibitionist aspect appealed so l said yes- he could watch but no joining in and no touching.

So in he came. He stood near the massage table watching everything closely. She put on a bit of a show for him, and whipped off the condom so l could cum over her face.

Afterwards, he thanked us both, very politely, and quietly left.

That was certainly a one off for me!

Offline pecksniff

In a parlour many years ago, I was waiting to see my girl, who was busy with another punter, and while waiting another punter joined me in the lounge, with his girl, and with no cabins free, we just all talked away

But the girl had other plans, placing her hands under her clients towel began to play with him, and soon the towel was discarded on the floor, so I was more of a voyeur.  As I began to play with my self, I was ushered by the girl to sit next to her, she now had 2 cocks in her hand, and was loving all the attention she was getting.  The girl I was waiting was now free, and we headed to the cabin, and we got down to business, found out later on the other guy, ended up fucking the girl on the couch, in front of 2 other guys


Sofa so good! :)

Offline LastManCumings

Miscellaneous observers and exhibitionists are quite common in FKK's. WG's give BJ/HJ in the kino and if you want to be an observer, you can easily sit discreetly and watch. Few years ago there were WG's who were exhibitionists, so you could sit in the kino and watch a WG being drilled by a punter on the couch or even the waiting area if it was a busy night and punters wanted to get started on the action before they get the room.

Obviously it's all punters, WG's and staff at FKK's; so there are no cuckolding enthusiasts there who want their partners to get rogered by strangers they fancy. That usually happens in swingers clubs too, but I haven't really ventured out to those, so cannot say what that's like.

Offline dave_59

Not really that much different to meeting a MF couple which ive done and is fun.
Taking turns, spit roasting all add to a meet.


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the Boyfriend / Husband / Pimp probably wants to keep an eye on things and make sure she doesn't do extras and pocket the money   :music:

Offline pecksniff

With all respect for sharing your experience, you are talking about swinging. This is a punting board, When a prostitute offers this service it's sometimes called a 'cuckold' experience. Others having mentioned a 'sharing' as part of a paid relationship, and having done that, and having been active on the swinging scene, I have to point out that they are completely different, and that you appear to be on the wrong board.
 

I may be a newbie on here, but I'm old enough to know that, in life, whenever someone starts a sentence with,  "With all due respect" it usually means the opposite. 

I was responding to the point in the OP about it not being an appealing thing to watch another bloke screwing - yes they were referring to "on a punt" - and the situation I described was not "on a punt" - but neither was it "swinging" either.  Not in my book.  I've never taken part in organised swopping of partners - no interest in that at all.  No, what I described was a perfectly spontaneous situation, the likes of which occur very rarely I think.  I'm lucky it's happened to me three or four times - MFM and FFM.  I used the experience to give my viewpoint that it can be a huge turn on to watch another bloke screwing - and join in with that.  It doesn't have to be a situation as described by the OP.  That's all.

So, I'm not in the wrong place - but your comments are.  My advice - get a job as a moderator somewhere and become a messageboard policeman perhaps?  It will give you lots of job satisfaction. ;)


Offline DrConners

 

I may be a newbie on here, but I'm old enough to know that, in life, whenever someone starts a sentence with,  "With all due respect" it usually means the opposite. 

I was responding to the point in the OP about it not being an appealing thing to watch another bloke screwing - yes they were referring to "on a punt" - and the situation I described was not "on a punt" - but neither was it "swinging" either.  Not in my book.  I've never taken part in organised swopping of partners - no interest in that at all.  No, what I described was a perfectly spontaneous situation, the likes of which occur very rarely I think.  I'm lucky it's happened to me three or four times - MFM and FFM.  I used the experience to give my viewpoint that it can be a huge turn on to watch another bloke screwing - and join in with that.  It doesn't have to be a situation as described by the OP.  That's all.

So, I'm not in the wrong place - but your comments are.  My advice - get a job as a moderator somewhere and become a messageboard policeman perhaps?  It will give you lots of job satisfaction. ;)

Calm down! I started the thread with a genuine interest in hearing views from fellow UKP members regarding their personal views on the subject of being observed by a husband, boyfriends or miscellaneous - maybe including voyeurism (which is a different thing I think - that's spying on people fucking).

All the contributions so far have been relevant in some way I think so it's interesting to hear a variety of descriptions of situations & experiences not to mention opinions.

Keep them coming if you feel happy to share  :hi:


Offline Marmalade

So, I'm not in the wrong place - but your comments are.  My advice - get a job as a moderator somewhere and become a messageboard policeman perhaps?  It will give you lots of job satisfaction. ;)

Well sad fucking you as you’ve yet to find how the board works. Read the rules. Stop being such a fucking fluffy blanket.

Offline myothernameis

So, I'm not in the wrong place - but your comments are.  My advice - get a job as a moderator somewhere and become a messageboard policeman perhaps?  It will give you lots of job satisfaction. ;)

I dont think your going to last long here, just how long is up to your self, one week, two weeks, 1 month, continue this way, and its goodbye from pecksniff

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Not punting as such but in my younger days both me and a now ex gf enjoyed been watched whilst having sex. A very kinky experience to see a guy in the same room watching and wanking as you have sex. We invariably organised meets with well vetted strangers to perform in front of. I would certainly be willing/wanting to do again and the experiences rate as the best sexual experiences.