Seeking.com (East of England)

[Lewis]

Thanks.  I've just noticed I could have narrowed with Advanced Search.  I've actually never used that..

I just looked through the first couple of pages for subject headers having the word seeking.com in it.

[cunningman]

I just looked through the first couple of pages for subject headers having the word seeking.com in it.

There's a lot of Seeking messages.  Still, sorted now.

[Wyltk89]

I just looked at the price of sign up…£not far shy of £100 for a month!  . I appreciate it’s for a more “up end” experience but Jesus.

[cunningman]

Its not seeking but for anyone west of Bedford and on SB,  I've had fun times with:
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[kmlt420]

Hey 
Have anyone had a chance to meet this one? Thinking to arrange something 
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Watch out for them will try to scam you...
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[NightKid]

Hey 
Have anyone had a chance to meet this one? Thinking to arrange something 
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I've posted about her before but I'll leave it to the locals if they wanna tell you how to search for it since you're a net zero contributor.

[kmlt420]

found it myself thanks 

[finn5555]

found it myself thanks 

What do you want a pat on the fucking back 

[radioman33]

found it myself thanks 

That emoji should be banned,irritating

[thundercrackerxx]

I got premium on there a week ago and my god it's abysmal on there now in East Anglia. Most girls on there seem to treat it as a private onlyfans now. Straight away trying to sell pictures. The few that aren't selling pictures don't offer anything! They seem to think SA is for men to just hand over money for nothing. No one seems to want to talk and get to know each other. Actually form a sugar daddy/baby relationship. There have been the odd couple who will have sex but then it's on the level of an escort. Still no real conversation or getting to know each other. Just straight to how much and when.
From 2015-2019 I met so many nice girls on there. The girls now aren't even really all that attractive. Just average.

[NightKid]

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Has anyone else seen her since that post I made? She recently got in touch once more so I'd like some perspectives before I decide to engage again.

Thanks in advance and PM if preferred.

Reposting from the Seeking London thread.

[kmlt420]

Eventually I have.

[kmlt420]

NightKid Pm me if you want...

[NightKid]

NightKid Pm me if you want...

Because you don't have PM privileges?

[kmlt420]

Exactly.

[kmlt420]

Has anyone else seen her since that post I made? She recently got in touch once more so I'd like some perspectives before I decide to engage again.

Thanks in advance and PM if preferred.


Reposting from the Seeking London thread.

After couple of meets I can say she is unpredictable mood changes too often all she thinks about is herself and cocaine lol She threw glass of wine on a telly in my house last time and I fucked her off… not really worth it.

[NightKid]

After couple of meets I can say she is unpredictable mood changes too often all she thinks about is herself and cocaine lol She threw glass of wine on a telly in my house last time and I fucked her off… not really worth it.

Oh wow, sorry to hear she turned psycho lol but thanks for the update.

[thundercrackerxx]

I was talking to her and she said she usually charged £500 so I told her I don't go over £200. She then went down to £250 After I refused again she went down to £200 but I got bored of her by then so didn't bother. She does look quite attractive but I'm after a bit more than a straight up AW style meet from seeking at the moment. Had a couple of straight up PPM's lately and both were quite unfulfilling and felt like I'd just had a more expensive AW punt. The second one in particular who I paid £200 to only gave me 45 minutes then I had to go because her friends were supposedly coming over. Didn't even do OWO! Her friend actually is on AW. Seems she basically wants to be a straight up escort but whilst being able to see pictures of her clients first.

Otherwise most girls in this area seem to think men will just send them money instantly with barely a conversation let alone meeting. Had so many claiming they can't pay the rent, can't buy food for their kids blah blah. Yet they aren't so desperate to feed and home their kids that they'll actually meet and earn the money. Or even try to act interested in getting to know you.

[Punter910]

Guys any intel on below one.  Looks semi pro to me as was quick to arrange. a meeting , planing to see her later this week

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[Punter910]

Guys any intel on below one.  Looks semi pro to me as was quick to arrange. a meeting , planing to see her later this week

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Reposting from london seeking thread

[Steve2]

Guys any intel on below one.  Looks semi pro to me as was quick to arrange. a meeting , planing to see her later this week

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Anyone who has a flogger on her wishlist gets a  from me

[NightKid]

Anyone who has a flogger on her wishlist gets a  from me

Considering other similar things of the sort she's got on her list, it's also indicating to me that she's a dominant type as well

[Budgiesmuggler]

Any intel chaps?
Been on the site for 4 years.
Pics look great on the site but suspect could be filtered of course.

Miss Amore
42, Essex
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Thanks in advance

Budgie

[updownandaround]

Any intel chaps?
Been on the site for 4 years.
Pics look great on the site but suspect could be filtered of course.

Miss Amore
42, Essex
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Thanks in advance

Budgie

Yes, I have met her.

There's no way she is 42 however and she's a bit more crinkly in real life. Hot to trot and a decent shag.

[thundercrackerxx]

Guys any intel on below one.  Looks semi pro to me as was quick to arrange. a meeting , planing to see her later this week

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Did you ever meet her? How did it go?

[Monty_81]

Yes, I have met her.

There's no way she is 42 however and she's a bit more crinkly in real life. Hot to trot and a decent shag.

If she’s Ongar based then she’s definitely a pro, have seen her on AW, where she comes and goes.

[peiyee]

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Beware of this one. She’s a scammer. Ex-stripper, tatts  on one arm. Fixed her teeth, think they are bolt on boobs.

Small girl, has child, sexy bod. Saw her a couple of times, first social - we had dinner, then second meet was sex. Sexy as she was I didn’t totally enjoy it, she seemed to regress into her stripper/lap dancer mode 😂. Her sex talk was all lap dancer ‘you want it, you gonna give another 100?’ 😂 which I found amusing and odd. We had a long session…thought it was kinda mechanical …so I thought I’d see her again and it might be better.

Next supposed meet: She scammed me later for advance and never turned up. I know who she is, where she works. She’s not clever had privacy, also think she does not care. Had a text exchange later with her, and I think she’s not totally right up there. Weird view of the world.

[Graphics789]

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Beware of this one. She’s a scammer. Ex-stripper, tatts  on one arm. Fixed her teeth, think they are bolt on boobs.

Small girl, has child, sexy bod. Saw her a couple of times, first social - we had dinner, then second meet was sex. Sexy as she was I didn’t totally enjoy it, she seemed to regress into her stripper/lap dancer mode 😂. Her sex talk was all lap dancer ‘you want it, you gonna give another 100?’ 😂 which I found amusing and odd. We had a long session…thought it was kinda mechanical …so I thought I’d see her again and it might be better.

Next supposed meet: She scammed me later for advance and never turned up. I know who she is, where she works. She’s not clever had privacy, also think she does not care. Had a text exchange later with her, and I think she’s not totally right up there. Weird view of the world.

Why did you give her an advance when it has been stated, numerous, countless times NEVER TO PAY UPFRONT.

Only people who should give advances are record labels to their signed artist; at least in this scenario they control the artist’s musical career.

[peiyee]

Oh scuse me and fark me up the arse I didn’t know anyone needed to check this site and get’s permission to pay for a fuck 

[finn5555]

Oh scuse me and fark me up the arse I didn’t know anyone needed to check this site and get’s permission to pay for a fuck 

What people are saying is you shouldn't pay up front as you are prone to being scammed still you have learnt the hard way I guess 

[Budgiesmuggler]

Any intel on this lady?
Seems genuine....no talk of PPM in whatsapp discussion so perhaps just wants wining and dining.

Louisa270
37, Essex
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Thanks in advance

[finn5555]

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Anyone know about this one she’s on AW as well External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

[updownandaround]

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Anyone know about this one she’s on AW as well External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

I've seen her photos and she's not a looker but those tits...

[updownandaround]

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Anyone know about this one she’s on AW as well External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

I've interviewed her, she's a total bampot.

[finn5555]

I've interviewed her, she's a total bampot.

In what way I’m curious now 😂

[updownandaround]

In what way I’m curious now 😂

She's your typical sex worker pretending not to be a sex worker, she clearly dislikes men and hates that she was to depend on them to make ends meet. I think she may be bipolar, in 15 minutes she had two extreme mood swings.

[finn5555]

She's your typical sex worker pretending not to be a sex worker, she clearly dislikes men and hates that she was to depend on them to make ends meet. I think she may be bipolar, in 15 minutes she had two extreme mood swings.

Fucking hell 😳 did you meet face to face? She has messaged me via seeking not normally my type but curiosity and all that

[updownandaround]

Fucking hell 😳 did you meet face to face? She has messaged me via seeking not normally my type but curiosity and all that

No, it was via video call, I always do that. She's also very insecure which I think drives a lot of her behaviour. Visually her only redeeming feature are those hige tits.

[finn5555]

No, it was via video call, I always do that. She's also very insecure which I think drives a lot of her behaviour. Visually her only redeeming feature are those hige tits.

And they are huge indeed.
did she discuss money and what her expectations were?

[updownandaround]

And they are huge indeed.
did she discuss money and what her expectations were?

I rarely discuss money and am never the first to bring it up, she's not a looker so there will be no money on the table for her! She is however super keen.

[finn5555]

I rarely discuss money and am never the first to bring it up, she's not a looker so there will be no money on the table for her! She is however super keen.

OK cheers

[Monty_81]

Any intel on this lady?
Seems genuine....no talk of PPM in whatsapp discussion so perhaps just wants wining and dining.

Louisa270
37, Essex
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Thanks in advance

Did you get anywhere with this one? I sampled it a few weeks ago, great in the sack, but everything afterwards gave me definite pro vibes.

[Budgiesmuggler]

did you pay for PPM or was it just a wine and dine....?
conversation on WA has stagnated so debating whether or not to re-engage....

[Monty_81]

PPM which included dinner & drinks, but she was quite regimented on time vs. Ppm amount paid and wanted more for longer rather than a total cost all in, which is what I prefer, this put me off.

[Budgiesmuggler]

OK...happy to buy her dinner and drinks but not going to pay for her time on top.

[your_toy]

I have only ever met anyone via SA or secret benefits, although 2 of the  girls were also on AW. Those 2 professionals who are also on AW cut to the chase quickly.  Otherwise, I would say SA is a bit like “Tinder, but with cash”.  Scammers a-plenty and some just looking to sell nudes, rather than meet.   Agree serious time needs to be invested, and I don’t use it that much. Secret Benefits has a different (cheaper, IMO) £ structure, but is not as big or busy as SA.  I’m more sugar daddy than punter, so I’m looking for a regular fuck I want to go back to lots, rather than clock up body count. Just my preference. £ is pricier to give to the girls. Paid between £200 to fuck at her house or paid hotel costs (no overnights)  on top of the £200.   If you are pushed for time and want guaranteed strike rate, then my guess is AW is much better.

So what is secret benefits like for finding someone
I have fancied doing this and the girls look pretty but what’s it like to actually meet someone and what’s the average fee they charge

[Alonsy]

So what is secret benefits like for finding someone
I have fancied doing this and the girls look pretty but what’s it like to actually meet someone and what’s the average fee they charge

I’ve been on SB. I find it hard work. It’s harder than SA to get women to chat on there. Always seems a lot of women online but I’ve read others saying that they show people online when they aren’t? Not sure how true that is. Also you pay per message starter or to see private pics as you have credits rather paying for a month to access all women.

[JazzyC]

So what is secret benefits like for finding someone
I have fancied doing this and the girls look pretty but what’s it like to actually meet someone and what’s the average fee they charge

Roughly £80 gets you 200 credits.  10 credits to unlock messaging with someone.  Plus they'll try and get you to unlock "Private" pics for another 10, and other random bits of their profile.  I just stick with viewing a girls Verification video with you can see on their open profile, to get an idea of what they're really like.
I get the feeling girls get to send their first message for free.  I'd say I get 1 message most days.  Those that I reply to rarely get back to me.  Making me think they scoff at then having to unlock messaging themselves.
My most recent conversation wanted £250 per meet, just for dinner.  Nothing else on the table.

[Alonsy]

Roughly £80 gets you 200 credits.  10 credits to unlock messaging with someone.  Plus they'll try and get you to unlock "Private" pics for another 10, and other random bits of their profile.  I just stick with viewing a girls Verification video with you can see on their open profile, to get an idea of what they're really like.
I get the feeling girls get to send their first message for free.  I'd say I get 1 message most days.  Those that I reply to rarely get back to me.  Making me think they scoff at then having to unlock messaging themselves.
My most recent conversation wanted £250 per meet, just for dinner.  Nothing else on the table.

I thought girls had to pay but I am chatting to one on WA and she said she doesn’t?

[mrsid]

I've been on SB for a few years and had a varying amount of success in the region. As other have said it is easy to burn through the credits as opening a message is 10 credits, private pics, message boosts, etc. Plus they do this really annoying thing of sending a request to view private pics with every message you send.

My MO is to chat first and see if there is a connection, before looking at the private pics.

There are decent genuine girls on SB, but there are also a lot of the pic sellers, online only brigade.