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Online Firefox

Can you post reviews of girls met through Seeking Arrangement on UK Punting? .  I have heard it is not allowed but would like to share experiences and information. 

Offline Fast and Bulbous

The site rules state: 'General discussion is allowed but any discussion of specific SA profiles (i.e. good or bad experiences) is only allowed in the topic dedicated to the SeekingArrangements.com site.'

Online Firefox

The site rules state: 'General discussion is allowed but any discussion of specific SA profiles (i.e. good or bad experiences) is only allowed in the topic dedicated to the SeekingArrangements.com site.'

How do you access the topic seekingarrangements.com site.  Is there a link? 

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Offline Bobbins1973

Is it really worth it for a month and what's costs v punting generally
Tried it but profiles looked suspicious to lure you in but I may be wrong ?

Offline livlad

My experience from when I joined for a month I met up with 2 girls and each one was brilliant. It can be hard work though as lots of girls will be messaging you through the day alot will be pic sellers, cam girls, time wasters, flakes etc. Also alot of girls won't be able to host so theres the cost of getting a day room on top. Will re join one day but it does need alot of commitment on your part

Offline hungrypunt


Online Firefox

My experience from when I joined for a month I met up with 2 girls and each one was brilliant. It can be hard work though as lots of girls will be messaging you through the day alot will be pic sellers, cam girls, time wasters, flakes etc. Also alot of girls won't be able to host so theres the cost of getting a day room on top. Will re join one day but it does need alot of commitment on your part

Yup, that’s my experience too.  I was on for 5 months but left because it was too addictive.  You get bombarded with messages from beautiful, intelligent, young women telling you how handsome you are, how you are just perfect for them and they would love to meet you.  Meetings feel much more a real date than with an escort and tend to last most of the evening not just an hour.    It’s hard to resist.

 I met 6 girls in Leeds/Manchester.   5 great and 1 who was lovely but started pestering for money afterwards.  I have now “settled down” with a regular arrangement and ended my membership ( for the time being).   But the expected donations are high.  The expectation is that you are rich and can afford to spend a lot on your sugar babes.   In Leeds it was from £150  - £300, In Manchester £200- £500.  Obviously, the youngest and best looking expect the highest donation.

There is a genuine mix of girls on there, some looking for marriage or to be someone’s full time mistress in exchange for a monthly allowance,  some who will provide intimacy if they like you and want to meet socially first, some who are just straight escorts (and also appear on AW), some who want to send you photos and do on line stuff and some who are trying to scam you by asking for money in advance to prove they can trust you. 

It’s a great experience but very addictive and bloody expensive.   For anyone wanting to try it it’s worth remembering it’s not an escort site and some of the girls  will get offended if you assume they are offering sex.  In my experience about a third will be interested in money for sex, about a third will want to meet socially first and about a third are looking for a serious relationship with someone rich either as a full time mistress or even a wife.

I hope Admin allow this post because although SA is not an escort site, there are plenty of punters who might consider it as an alternative. 

Offline Bustydusty

Yup, that’s my experience too.  I was on for 5 months but left because it was too addictive.  You get bombarded with messages from beautiful, intelligent, young women telling you how handsome you are, how you are just perfect for them and they would love to meet you.  Meetings feel much more a real date than with an escort and tend to last most of the evening not just an hour.    It’s hard to resist.

 I met 6 girls in Leeds/Manchester.   5 great and 1 who was lovely but started pestering for money afterwards.  I have now “settled down” with a regular arrangement and ended my membership ( for the time being).   But the expected donations are high.  The expectation is that you are rich and can afford to spend a lot on your sugar babes.   In Leeds it was from £150  - £300, In Manchester £200- £500.  Obviously, the youngest and best looking expect the highest donation.

There is a genuine mix of girls on there, some looking for marriage or to be someone’s full time mistress in exchange for a monthly allowance,  some who will provide intimacy if they like you and want to meet socially first, some who are just straight escorts (and also appear on AW), some who want to send you photos and do on line stuff and some who are trying to scam you by asking for money in advance to prove they can trust you. 

It’s a great experience but very addictive and bloody expensive.   For anyone wanting to try it it’s worth remembering it’s not an escort site and some of the girls  will get offended if you assume they are offering sex.  In my experience about a third will be interested in money for sex, about a third will want to meet socially first and about a third are looking for a serious relationship with someone rich either as a full time mistress or even a wife.

I hope Admin allow this post because although SA is not an escort site, there are plenty of punters who might consider it as an alternative.

Thanks for the info - the figures u give for Manchester and Leeds - is that per meeting per month or what?

Online Firefox

It varies so widely and I can only speak of my own experiences.  I pay £150 - £200 for each meet.  Even if I had agreed £150 initially it is common for the younger, best looking to text me on the way to the meet asking if I would be able to increase it £200.  There was always some excuse.  I also used to pay their travel expenses to and from the hotel.  You do get sucked into their world where you’re their sugar daddy and they really want to be your little sugar baby and will do anything you want if you invest in them.  It’s very beguiling and easy to get tempted into playing the role of being a sugar daddy.  Some asked for £500 or more but these were very beautiful, classy super model types who would tell stories of how their last Sugar Daddy would take them to the New York or Paris for the weekend.  I didn’t take it any further with these ones but it’s tempting if you have cash to spare.  Some girls really know how to play rich but stupid older men (like me, I suppose).  I give my regular girl £200 per meet, usually twice a month.  I know this is too much but she’s young, beautiful, entertaining, gives me great pleasure and makes me feel like I’m really special to her.  She says she sees no-one else apart from me ( maybe true, maybe not). If you’re thinking of dabbling in SA just be aware it’s not the same as regular punting but it depends who you find.

Offline Bustydusty

It varies so widely and I can only speak of my own experiences.  I pay £150 - £200 for each meet.  Even if I had agreed £150 initially it is common for the younger, best looking to text me on the way to the meet asking if I would be able to increase it £200.  There was always some excuse.  I also used to pay their travel expenses to and from the hotel.  You do get sucked into their world where you’re their sugar daddy and they really want to be your little sugar baby and will do anything you want if you invest in them.  It’s very beguiling and easy to get tempted into playing the role of being a sugar daddy.  Some asked for £500 or more but these were very beautiful, classy super model types who would tell stories of how their last Sugar Daddy would take them to the New York or Paris for the weekend.  I didn’t take it any further with these ones but it’s tempting if you have cash to spare.  Some girls really know how to play rich but stupid older men (like me, I suppose).  I give my regular girl £200 per meet, usually twice a month.  I know this is too much but she’s young, beautiful, entertaining, gives me great pleasure and makes me feel like I’m really special to her.  She says she sees no-one else apart from me ( maybe true, maybe not). If you’re thinking of dabbling in SA just be aware it’s not the same as regular punting but it depends who you find.

Thanks again - don’t think it’s for me as I’m only 50% rich,older man :lol:
Very interesting tho I’d never even heard of sa til recently

Offline sir wanksalot

Very interesting tho I’d never even heard of sa til recently

Likewise-never heard of it.

They do this in Europe too but the girls advertise themselves as "seeking sponsors".

Offline Fast and Bulbous

...she’s young, beautiful, entertaining, gives me great pleasure and makes me feel like I’m really special to her...If you’re thinking of dabbling in SA just be aware it’s not the same as regular punting but it depends who you find.

Yes, one potential advantage of SA is that sex can be much more spontaneous, genuine and less scripted than with an escort. It can be an entirely different 'vibe' than being with an escort. However, it's important to maintain boundaries and to remember that an SA woman also is seeing you because of the size of your wallet and not only because of how handsome and successful you are :sarcastic:

Offline Ahalfa Carling

has anyone here tried / had any success with External Link/Members Only at all?

Online Firefox

Yes, one potential advantage of SA is that sex can be much more spontaneous, genuine and less scripted than with an escort. It can be an entirely different 'vibe' than being with an escort. However, it's important to maintain boundaries and to remember that an SA woman also is seeing you because of the size of your wallet and not only because of how handsome and successful you are :sarcastic:

Spot on, Mr Bulbous.  Emotional attachment syndrome is an ever present danger.  But you’re right it’s still about paying for sex even if it’s dressed up as a relationship or a secret affair!

Offline jimmytick

Yes, had 4 different girls from there;

No:1 fat chick with daddy issues, gave her £30 for a bj in my car

No:2 18 year old scouse girl, £80 for 2 hrs in a liverpool hotel, anal included

No:3 23 year old mother, saw her weekly for £85 a time, did anything I wanted from anal mouth fucking.

No:4 19 year old student from wrexham, £25 bj in car


It’s hard work, have to message and have conversations with 20 girls at a time to find one decent girl. Some expect the world are look for £500 a night. Some think you will pay for their company with no sex.

Offline Bustydusty

Yes, had 4 different girls from there;

No:1 fat chick with daddy issues, gave her £30 for a bj in my car

No:2 18 year old scouse girl, £80 for 2 hrs in a liverpool hotel, anal included

No:3 23 year old mother, saw her weekly for £85 a time, did anything I wanted from anal mouth fucking.

No:4 19 year old student from wrexham, £25 bj in car


It’s hard work, have to message and have conversations with 20 girls at a time to find one decent girl. Some expect the world are look for £500 a night. Some think you will pay for their company with no sex.

2 and 3 sound great

Offline smit1234

Yup, that’s my experience too.  I was on for 5 months but left because it was too addictive.  You get bombarded with messages from beautiful, intelligent, young women telling you how handsome you are, how you are just perfect for them and they would love to meet you.  Meetings feel much more a real date than with an escort and tend to last most of the evening not just an hour.    It’s hard to resist.

 I met 6 girls in Leeds/Manchester.   5 great and 1 who was lovely but started pestering for money afterwards.  I have now “settled down” with a regular arrangement and ended my membership ( for the time being).   But the expected donations are high.  The expectation is that you are rich and can afford to spend a lot on your sugar babes.   In Leeds it was from £150  - £300, In Manchester £200- £500.  Obviously, the youngest and best looking expect the highest donation.

There is a genuine mix of girls on there, some looking for marriage or to be someone’s full time mistress in exchange for a monthly allowance,  some who will provide intimacy if they like you and want to meet socially first, some who are just straight escorts (and also appear on AW), some who want to send you photos and do on line stuff and some who are trying to scam you by asking for money in advance to prove they can trust you. 

It’s a great experience but very addictive and bloody expensive.   For anyone wanting to try it it’s worth remembering it’s not an escort site and some of the girls  will get offended if you assume they are offering sex.  In my experience about a third will be interested in money for sex, about a third will want to meet socially first and about a third are looking for a serious relationship with someone rich either as a full time mistress or even a wife.

I hope Admin allow this post because although SA is not an escort site, there are plenty of punters who might consider it as an alternative.
Jesus, my eyes are watering just reading that!!!

Offline Bobbins1973

Any restrictions to amount of messages ? Suppose you can join for a month and then get as many contact details as possible in th 1st couple of weeks

It is expensive for a month but if offers like above come in then it pays for itself if travelling around the country

Offline jimmytick

Any restrictions to amount of messages ? Suppose you can join for a month and then get as many contact details as possible in th 1st couple of weeks

It is expensive for a month but if offers like above come in then it pays for itself if travelling around the country

Yes max messages per day, it’s a fair amount though, can send unlimited to one person but maximum amount of new contacts etc

Offline Access

I’ve had some amazing times from SA. A young scouse girl who begged for anal every time (she was like a grade a film star looks wise) through to sexy single and married MILFs. The problem is, they get demanding and clingy as they’re almost a relationship to some of them. Where as escorts are transactional.

Offline Bustydusty

Sounds like these young scouse girls love it up the arse - send a few over to Manchester will you

Offline yorkieyorkie

I’ve had some amazing times from SA. A young scouse girl who begged for anal every time (she was like a grade a film star looks wise) through to sexy single and married MILFs. The problem is, they get demanding and clingy as they’re almost a relationship to some of them. Where as escorts are transactional.

Is there anyway you could PM her details lol

Offline Bustydusty

Is there anyway you could PM her details lol

**** off I want the young one  :yahoo:

Offline Rack Admirer

This SA business could be another reason why the scene is currently devoid of young totty (particularly parlours). It sounds expensive and a lot of hassle to me, though. It appears that some people above have got a lot out of it, and it's something new and different... so I may dip my toe in.

Offline Rack Admirer

I’ve had some amazing times from SA. A young scouse girl who begged for anal every time (she was like a grade a film star looks wise) through to sexy single and married MILFs. The problem is, they get demanding and clingy as they’re almost a relationship to some of them. Where as escorts are transactional.

Wonder if she was the same girl jimmytick had  :unknown:

Offline leo_26

Dont you need to look like a male model to have any luck with dating sites? Cos this website sounds like a dating/hookup site to me

Offline sir wanksalot

Dont you need to look like a male model to have any luck with dating sites? Cos this website sounds like a dating/hookup site to me

I think the women on this site lower their percentage points for us men as long as you have a healthy bank balance so in that sense it is not like another dating site.

Offline Anglophillie

Totally agree, looks are not important, im in my early sixties and no oil painting and Ive managed to arrange three long term arrangements over time with good looking girls in their early twenties.

Be dependable, have a decent attitude and pay the allowance each meeting and youre good to go.

Granted its time consuming sorting through the scammers and timewasters but its well worth it.

Offline Durch69

Yes, had 4 different girls from there;

No:1 fat chick with daddy issues, gave her £30 for a bj in my car

No:2 18 year old scouse girl, £80 for 2 hrs in a liverpool hotel, anal included

No:3 23 year old mother, saw her weekly for £85 a time, did anything I wanted from anal mouth fucking.

No:4 19 year old student from wrexham, £25 bj in car


It’s hard work, have to message and have conversations with 20 girls at a time to find one decent girl. Some expect the world are look for £500 a night. Some think you will pay for their company with no sex

Tell them to get over to Manchester lol

Offline titton

When I met up with Sweet Katie, she told me that she had previously been a member on SA. She said that she had had a few enjoyable meetings with some nice blokes. She was 21 at the time I met her and she knew the score and she delivered the GFE and sex as expected as well as making her date feel like the only man in the world regardless of his age or looks simply because she understood what worked and generated repeat business for her. She did the same for when I met her latterly on AW.

She said that she left that site and decided to become an escort because she was starting to get her dates falling in love with her and becoming clingy. So it obviously works both ways.

She was a student at the time and her motivation was purely financial which she was honest and transparent enough about one a later occasion when we talked. The difference between her and many of the other girls, certainly escorts and judging by this thread some of the SA girls, is that Katie bothered to make an effort and to deliver from her side of the "contract".
In the end she preferred the singular unit transaction of being an escort.

It's a shame she didn't stick around long.

I hadn't heard of SA or the other one, is it Sugar Daddies or something, before Katie told me about it. I had a quick look on the site at then time and considered having a dabble but decided against. This thread has rekindled the interest a little though.

Offline Qwerty

Yeah you can certainly end up with some delightful amateur young girls, but as previous posters have said, it's a lot of work - you really need to have the time.

It's free to join for girls, and there are lots of them who kind of like the idea but don't follow through, or end up dropping you for someone who will give them silly money.

So you will have a _lot_ of conversations, only a tiny number of which will lead to meetings.

Offline hungrypunt

Ive had all sorts of meets on SA, some have turned into friends with benefits, and plenty are still firends, some were weirdos, some just wanted some spiced up sex, some wanted just nice dates dinners etc and some tried to rip me off  :wacko: (got into the odd scrape with scouse mafia ha ha). Overall Id say if you have time and money, do it.

It has changed lots over the years, becoming more and more hard work and more girls who really should just make the jump and become Wgs which blurs the lines a bit but Im telling you, there is everything available on there, its a roller coaster.

Offline Qwerty

HP I don't think your experience is typical - to judge by the SA thread, you and TPreston seem to have been buried in pussy week in week out, most of the rest of us nothing like as busy

Offline hungrypunt

HP I don't think your experience is typical - to judge by the SA thread, you and TPreston seem to have been buried in pussy week in week out, most of the rest of us nothing like as busy

Ive not been as active on there for probably 4 months, as I stated its gone to the dogs for me, not as many real Girls, and loads of flakey bullshitters, scammers etc.
Go back 4 years, it was great and as Ive referenced before one poster about 3 years ago said " this SA site will descend into a minefield of scammers etc" and he was right.
Yeah Ive seen your posts on there, and tbf, I didnt have looooads each month/week as I liked true Sbs , and tended to get more regs and see them lots. NOW as for TP....ha ha, well, he defo has half the country in his phone "verified" and not for one minute do I doubt any of it as i have seen proof and been involved in other things with him and others off the site, so if your post above insinuates otherwise, I will say dont bother.

Offline Access

I had a few regulars. One actually wanted to stop the arrangement and be my
Girlfriend. She was troubled though so I ended up being just a friend and got her off the site. You do have to be careful. I had a girl from Manchester who used to be a millionaire, but had a few bad decisions and ended up losing everything. I doubted it at first but she showed me proof. Her ex basically screwed her over. So lots of “damaged” women.

Offline Qwerty

Ive not been as active on there for probably 4 months, as I stated its gone to the dogs for me, not as many real Girls, and loads of flakey bullshitters, scammers etc.
Go back 4 years, it was great and as Ive referenced before one poster about 3 years ago said " this SA site will descend into a minefield of scammers etc" and he was right.
Yeah Ive seen your posts on there, and tbf, I didnt have looooads each month/week as I liked true Sbs , and tended to get more regs and see them lots. NOW as for TP....ha ha, well, he defo has half the country in his phone "verified" and not for one minute do I doubt any of it as i have seen proof and been involved in other things with him and others off the site, so if your post above insinuates otherwise, I will say dont bother.

No, not trying to insinuate anything! Big respect to both of you, just saying your and his experience aren't typical.

Offline hungrypunt

No, not trying to insinuate anything! Big respect to both of you, just saying your and his experience aren't typical.
I cant vouch for others but Im in good contact with at least 6 or 8 that I consider to be "prolific" and tbh qwerty, I know some other guys are doing as I did, and holding back posting some info due to "grassing moles" dishing info to SA/Girls/other guys. SO I think carefully about what I talk about. Admin did a good job of catching up with certain suspected arseholes, but Im very wary.
I had a few regulars. One actually wanted to stop the arrangement and be my
Girlfriend. She was troubled though so I ended up being just a friend and got her off the site. You do have to be careful.

100% agreed,
 those of you who seen and responded to my post about my dilema of one of the pregnant girls, well I decided not to in the end :(
Ups and downs of SA

Offline Qwerty

I cant vouch for others but Im in good contact with at least 6 or 8 that I consider to be "prolific" and tbh qwerty, I know some other guys are doing as I did, and holding back posting some info due to "grassing moles" dishing info to SA/Girls/other guys. SO I think carefully about what I talk about. Admin did a good job of catching up with certain suspected arseholes, but Im very wary.

Yup, of course there are others, and I'm likewise cautious about posting specific details on account of moles/grasses/white knights. But I expect the proportion of non-posters is the same throughout the range, which seems to be from prolific, to, in some cases, not getting any at all. And to judge by the general posts in the thread, you are definitely at the prolific end of the spectrum! I'd imagine I'm more typical, in that I'm getting some amazing meets, but not anything like as often as you and TP.

Online Firefox

Yup, that’s my experience too.  I was on for 5 months but left because it was too addictive.  You get bombarded with messages from beautiful, intelligent, young women telling you how handsome you are, how you are just perfect for them and they would love to meet you.  Meetings feel much more a real date than with an escort and tend to last most of the evening not just an hour.    It’s hard to resist.

 I met 6 girls in Leeds/Manchester.   5 great and 1 who was lovely but started pestering for money afterwards.  I have now “settled down” with a regular arrangement and ended my membership ( for the time being).   But the expected donations are high.  The expectation is that you are rich and can afford to spend a lot on your sugar babes.   In Leeds it was from £150  - £300, In Manchester £200- £500.  Obviously, the youngest and best looking expect the highest donation.

There is a genuine mix of girls on there, some looking for marriage or to be someone’s full time mistress in exchange for a monthly allowance,  some who will provide intimacy if they like you and want to meet socially first, some who are just straight escorts (and also appear on AW), some who want to send you photos and do on line stuff and some who are trying to scam you by asking for money in advance to prove they can trust you. 

It’s a great experience but very addictive and bloody expensive.   For anyone wanting to try it it’s worth remembering it’s not an escort site and some of the girls  will get offended if you assume they are offering sex.  In my experience about a third will be interested in money for sex, about a third will want to meet socially first and about a third are looking for a serious relationship with someone rich either as a full time mistress or even a wife.

I hope Admin allow this post because although SA is not an escort site, there are plenty of punters who might consider it as an alternative.

I want to add this now 2 years later.  I have had a lovely 2 years of an exclusive arrangement with a great girl.  We are now “secret lovers”, with regular “meets” and a real connection. We’ve even managed to fit in a threesome in!  SA worked for me, I haven’t been with an escort since and although I’ve made around £6000 on donations over the years - worth every penny!

Offline DavidBanner

Sounds great if you can navigate the pitfalls and make it work. I'm tempted because from what I've read on UKP this seems like a better fit for me than punting. I've not had a punt that truly gave me the kind of experience I'm looking for since around 2012, they're clearly very rare. But the descriptions on UKP by people who've used SA successfully seem much more my kind of encounter. Seems I'd just need to master the skills of navigating the scammers and timewasters and overpriced gold-diggers, and find the needles in the haystack. That's if the site is still as good as it used to be......

Offline leedsfella

I have met 2 girls from SA and my experience has been ok.

1 was with a 32yr old single mum from Manc who was really nice and friendly and gave me one of the best bj's of my life and at £150 (she stayed 3hrs) would have happily seen her again but wont do as I like curvaceous ladies and dont get me wrong, shes a curvy girl but not fat fat but she had the biggest arse I've ever seen, not sure if it was natural or not but it was massive and unfortunately stops me seeing her again.

2 was a 25yr who prefers older guys (I'm 43) and she actually lives very local to me but we met in a hotel 35mins drive away. Once again a really nice n friendly girl who had made an effort, looked hot and was clearly horny so had a great time for nearly 3hrs but at £200 for her plus the hotel room makes it a bit steep but will defo be worth treating myself now and again.

So my opinion is there are quiet a few deluded princesses on there but you can defo find odd gem or two

Offline totaln

Never paid more tha £120. i usually offer £100 for a couple of hours. Thats long enough for me.

Offline hungrypunt

I want to add this now 2 years later.  I have had a lovely 2 years of an exclusive arrangement with a great girl.  We are now “secret lovers”, with regular “meets” and a real connection. We’ve even managed to fit in a threesome in!  SA worked for me, I haven’t been with an escort since and although I’ve made around £6000 on donations over the years - worth every penny!
Sounds similar to me mate, but I did have a few on the go at one time aswell as her but not for ages, but this one now text me the other day and said its been 1300 days :) We see each other almost every day one way or another, and we text every morning and every night. It has got close to EAS on her behalf a couple of times, which is a rick when you take someones V and care for them,, but we've always spotted and sorted it.

Shes a diamond, truely and we get on great, shes 26 years younger than me, shes done well out of me, and Ive done well out of her. Only for her age, I would defo have moved her in by now, but at this age difference you have to look after them and think about their future/feelings.

Offline leedsfella

As an update it's got comical since.
1) 1 chick turned into a jealous/possessive nutter before even meeting her so needless to say I never did meet her
2) Student from Liverpool complaining how skint she was wanted £300 for a date and if we "clicked" the price for a leg over could be discussed.....deluded

Online chrishornx

Never paid more tha £120. i usually offer £100 for a couple of hours. Thats long enough for me.

well bully for you Perhaps you could enlighten us as to where you get 2 hours for £100 - do some bloody reviews instead of leeching

Offline tesla

well bully for you Perhaps you could enlighten us as to where you get 2 hours for £100 - do some bloody reviews instead of leeching

if you read his only review (from 2016) he is a self confessed lurker and leecher

Online chrishornx

if you read his only review (from 2016) he is a self confessed lurker and leecher

yep noticed that and he will probably come out with the usual 'leeches crap' about having 'nothing extra to contribute' or 'the girl has been well reviewed already'

these leeches should be chucked off site

Offline nightbot

Isn't he talking about seeking? Since this is a seeking thread. Can't really review them openly in any case.

Online chrishornx

Isn't he talking about seeking? Since this is a seeking thread. Can't really review them openly in any case.

equally the OP shouldn't come on here opening up a thread asking for info when he never makes a contribution by reviewing

'give a bit, take a bit' is how it works