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[Doombar]

Curious to know what average PPM is?  Most girls don't bring the subject up but I've found that of the ones I spoken to £250-£300 seems to be average when we get to that point. I've found ones for less and much more but that range does keep coming up.
What's have you guys found and what do you tend to offer initially?

On price I always make them show their hand first, and as early as possible, then try to negotiate them down from there.  £250-£300 does seem to be the most common ask.  For a short meet its a lot but if you can persuade them to do longer meets(5hrs+) or overnights its very reasonable vs escorts.

I'm always trying to find someone I can see long term(due to the effort to find someone), and want to start as I mean to continue, so won't go above 250ppm.  Others may be willing to pay £400 for a one off and the girls then think that's the norm which works against me I feel. If they reject my ppm offer I sometimes convert it to a monthly figure so they can see the long term benefit.  If the girl says she is new and doesn't know how much she wants I just quote £600 per month and see if we can work something out from there.

[southcoastpunter]

I too prefer to find a lady to become a "regular" rather than find a number of "one-offs" and have had 4 early 20's/students at £500-600pm in both Bournemouth and Southampton.

I would also agree with Doombar that £250-£300 does seem to be a common single meet asking amount - again in the Bournemouth/southampton area.

[Cunning Punt]

Curious to know what average PPM is?  Most girls don't bring the subject up but I've found that of the ones I spoken to £250-£300 seems to be average when we get to that point. I've found ones for less and much more but that range does keep coming up.

Do you mean that is generally the 1st fee they quote? Very few girls stick rigidly to their initial asking price, particularly if you come across as a nice guy and make clear you're looking for long term if the two of you click, plus are willing to travel to them. So it's just a matter of negotiating.

As others have said, try to get them to quote a fee first, which means it's easier to then offer a lower fee than you are willing to pay and, if that's not accepted,  then effectively a take-it-or-leave-it 'compromise' which is in fact not really one as such. However, it's not always possible as some girls can be quite coy and you go round in circles, so you just have to take the bull by the horns and quote the lower fee first, and see how it goes down.

[Palace123]

Do you mean that is generally the 1st fee they quote? Very few girls stick rigidly to their initial asking price, particularly if you come across as a nice guy and make clear you're looking for long term if the two of you click, plus are willing to travel to them. So it's just a matter of negotiating.

As others have said, try to get them to quote a fee first, which means it's easier to then offer a lower fee than you are willing to pay and, if that's not accepted,  then effectively a take-it-or-leave-it 'compromise' which is in fact not really one as such. However, it's not always possible as some girls can be quite coy and you go round in circles, so you just have to take the bull by the horns and quote the lower fee first, and see how it goes down.

I was talking about the price most are willing to settle for. Agree, always some leeway -  a £300 becomes £250 etc. I also agree, many, the vast majority in fact, of girls won[t show their hand first and pretend its not all about the money...then, as soon as you low-ball it they know all too well what they want haha...its a pointless game...at the end of the day they are hoping the guy will make a silly offer I suppose. I've paid £150 and £200 also and actually they were damn good shags..both now not offering anymore. Also, there's a ton on there who say yes then flake out at the 11th hour...can't recount how many have done this...more than those who have.  not a matter of price as often we hadn't even got that far. I find it infuriating though, I mean...why say yes then cancel on the day...seems like its become the norm for girls nowadays to say yes to everything, I noticed it on tinder and other sites too.

[Pussi]

Only look for girls over 23/24. Usually finished uni and in a job, living somewhere paying rent/room share. Not into any 18/19 year olds . Very flaky and most are a waste of time nowadays.

Met a few as I signed up again using a 33% discount. Got a bunch of numbers and working through them , I’d say 20/30% of those numbers will covert to meets. Everyone still looking for online still 

Met 3. One was £80 for an hour at hers, two at £150 for about 3/4 hours. Got one booked outside Cardiff  for £200 next week at hers and one more at £250 overnight in Bristol. Tbf I could’ve gone cheaper as it’s her first time and didn’t fight my offer. The overnighter wants to meet many times a month at a. allowance. The figure she quoted was quite reasonable.

All of them happy with BB and to finish inside.

Xmas might make things a little easier who knows

[Palace123]

Only look for girls over 23/24. Usually finished uni and in a job, living somewhere paying rent/room share. Not into any 18/19 year olds . Very flaky and most are a waste of time nowadays.

Met a few as I signed up again using a 33% discount. Got a bunch of numbers and working through them , I’d say 20/30% of those numbers will covert to meets. Everyone still looking for online still 

Met 3. One was £80 for an hour at hers, two at £150 for about 3/4 hours. Got one booked outside Cardiff  for £200 next week at hers and one more at £250 overnight in Bristol. Tbf I could’ve gone cheaper as it’s her first time and didn’t fight my offer. The overnighter wants to meet many times a month at a. allowance. The figure she quoted was quite reasonable.

All of them happy with BB and to finish inside.

Xmas might make things a little easier who knows

sounds like a whole different price point over the bridge. Generally, Are you offering first or are they?  Bristol/Bath/Swindon/Reading...you'd be very hard pushed to find any half decent ones at £150...most even turn their noses up at £200 per meet but some might go there if it was often enough.

[Pussi]

sounds like a whole different price point over the bridge. Generally, Are you offering first or are they?  Bristol/Bath/Swindon/Reading...you'd be very hard pushed to find any half decent ones at £150...most even turn their noses up at £200 per meet but some might go there if it was often enough.

Wales is definitely cheaper than Bristol. Swindon is cheaper too but haven’t met anyone from there. There is a pro that works out of Gloucester but she’s £200ppm.

Yeh I offer £150/200 to everyone. If they don’t like it then I just block, delete, move onto the next one.

I’ve noticed though it’s getting harder and harder. Only time I’ve ever paid more than £200 was London.

[Danj89]

Wales is definitely cheaper than Bristol. Swindon is cheaper too but haven’t met anyone from there. There is a pro that works out of Gloucester but she’s £200ppm.

Yeh I offer £150/200 to everyone. If they don’t like it then I just block, delete, move onto the next one.

I’ve noticed though it’s getting harder and harder. Only time I’ve ever paid more than £200 was London.

Same for me in swindon as i could accomodate never did more than 150 per evening meet or 200 for an overnight (plus upto 30 quid for the train maximum if they were a bristol uni student). I dont block or delete i find they usually come crawling back between 3 days n 3 weeks later, after they might have had a good one of ppm but the guy dropped em for someone else, or they got messed around by others. I think its where my being after regular meets helps and maybe they find it more appealing.

Most i did was a 200ppm plus hotel in Basingstoke for a stunner and the only reason i did it is because she got to the bar early and got all the drinks on her app which was a first for me, all in it was 200ppm, bottle of wine to take back to the hotel plus a 60quid room.

Finding its much harder in Hampshire, along with looking at my travel costs plus hotel costs it really takes some work.

[Doombar]

I've found an SB I'm happy with at the mo but thought I'd share a little intel about others I contacted on SA recently.

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This one was super hot to trot - will literally get you straight on WA. First message said "I want 300ppm but could do it 250ppm" (?!) so may take less.  Sent photos immediately when I asked for free.  Then said "tell me when you are leaving home".  I said "not today" and she then messaged me every day the next few days saying "need a little help", "are you coming", etc.  Like an escort but don't think she is.   Can accommodate.  Has a kid so assume she does childcare.

Was tempted as she looks nice, but quite a trek to Ciren for me so didn't try her in the end.

[Doombar]

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Met this one for a Meet and Greet.  Quite liked her, but she wants 400ppm and won't go below 300.  She can't accommodate, and may be moving to London in the near future.

[Doombar]

Isabella : Bath: External Link/Members Only

Nice looking girl but as I spoke to her and she told me about her life, I was completely shocked.  As she said herself, it is quite incredible.

She shouldn't be on SA IMO (for her own sake), and I strongly recommend you don't waste time talking to her.

[Cunning Punt]

I've paid £150 and £200 also and actually they were damn good shags..both now not offering anymore. Also, there's a ton on there who say yes then flake out at the 11th hour...can't recount how many have done this...more than those who have.  not a matter of price as often we hadn't even got that far. I find it infuriating though, I mean...why say yes then cancel on the day...seems like its become the norm for girls nowadays to say yes to everything, I noticed it on tinder and other sites too.

I agree expectations have gone up across southern England, and that it's harder to get a reasonable ppm. Before lockdown, 150 was my standard offer and is what I'm providing a long-term SB but I really can't see me getting a new arrangement for that in a hurry (as previously reported, I had one recently @ 150 in Swindon and it was dreadful). I'm struggling to get takers at 200, though will stick to this limit for the forseeable, particularly as a hotel plus venue-priced food/drinks are usually involved.

The high drift away/flake rate could be partly down to a girl deciding that she isn't comfortable with the initially agreed compromise rate after all or perhaps she manages to get a better off. But I think for most girls it is more than that, and they just aren't that bothered about meeting up and having sex with strangers for cash.

[Cunning Punt]

I've found an SB I'm happy with at the mo but thought I'd share a little intel about others I contacted on SA recently.

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This one was super hot to trot - will literally get you straight on WA. First message said "I want 300ppm but could do it 250ppm" (?!) so may take less.  Sent photos immediately when I asked for free.  Then said "tell me when you are leaving home".  I said "not today" and she then messaged me every day the next few days saying "need a little help", "are you coming", etc.  Like an escort but don't think she is.   Can accommodate.  Has a kid so assume she does childcare.

Was tempted as she looks nice, but quite a trek to Ciren for me so didn't try her in the end.

Thanks for the warning, but reckon she's gone?

[Palace123]

I agree expectations have gone up across southern England, and that it's harder to get a reasonable ppm. Before lockdown, 150 was my standard offer and is what I'm providing a long-term SB but I really can't see me getting a new arrangement for that in a hurry (as previously reported, I had one recently @ 150 in Swindon and it was dreadful). I'm struggling to get takers at 200, though will stick to this limit for the forseeable, particularly as a hotel plus venue-priced food/drinks are usually involved.

The high drift away/flake rate could be partly down to a girl deciding that she isn't comfortable with the initially agreed compromise rate after all or perhaps she manages to get a better off. But I think for most girls it is more than that, and they just aren't that bothered about meeting up and having sex with strangers for cash.

Agree, my theory is that there's usually a complicated backstory. Almost every time a meet one of these girls there's something going on...had some crazy stories. Coming to the realisation that the high flake rate is generally down to mental baggage etc. Let's be honest, most of them are there because they are desperate for cash. A few are there for finer things but £150 a punt isn't going to buy many £5K Gucci bags or luxury holidays.

[Cunning Punt]

Agree, my theory is that there's usually a complicated backstory. Almost every time a meet one of these girls there's something going on...had some crazy stories. Coming to the realisation that the high flake rate is generally down to mental baggage etc.

Only met a couple of those, but then I've gradually learnt to filter them out, often just by reading their profile or, failing that, picking up the signs in the initial messages.

I have also tended to avoid girls who come across as very money orientated and certainly those who seem desperate for cash. The best experiences are usually with those SBs who aren't desperate because they have sort of other income that just about keeps a roof over their head and food on the table, but just want a bit extra for clothes, nights out and other minor luxuries while at the same time also prioritising fun more than the semi-pros.

But with such slim pickings on SA now in terms of genuine SBs, I am filtering out so many girls I am struggling to find an arrangement that suits me.

[NightKid]

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Nice looking girl but as I spoke to her and she told me about her life, I was completely shocked.  As she said herself, it is quite incredible.

She shouldn't be on SA IMO (for her own sake), and I strongly recommend you don't waste time talking to her.

I've spoken to her at length during summer and she's told me some incredulous things about her life too.

Would you care to share in a PM what were the things she's told you which you found shocking perhaps?

[Maverick090]

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Username; PRINCESSKXOXO based on Highworth,

I met this girl, very straightforward in terms of the scam, because she did a runner. She invented a story that we should go out for drinks first of all just to get to know each other, if she liked me and I liked her we could go back to her friends place who lived in West Swindon. However her friend did want some funds before she was prepared for us to go there.
We had agreed £250 for a PPM, however she needed to give her friend £30 to use her flat in West Swindon and we needed to collect the key from her in Shaw Ridge retail park. Once I had collected her from her meeting point which was on a very busy road, Swindon Road in Stratton, Swindon her story was very plausible as she said it’s a nightmare to park outside my house as the road is always busy to park opposite the shop it’s safer there for you?

She then jumped in my car, and we need to drive over to Shaw Ridge to collect the key from her friend as she liked me and pretty sure we get intimate with each other. She even made a slippery comment that before though we would need to go to the pharmacy to buy some essentials.
Foolishly I handed over the cash for her to give to her friend, you guessed it I was blocked, ghosted. I didn’t see the point of going back into the bowling alley where she ran off into to collect the money from her as it is a waste of time...Learning curve!
I’ve had some shit Romanian punts in my time which I’ve spent more money on but I just feel that it’s important to put it out there as a warning because I lost a small amount of money somebody may give her the 50% of the ppm amount she asked for .  I refused and said if your friend wants £30 is £30.


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[Prifessionallondinguy]

Thanks for the warning. But let’s be fair, nobody thinking clearly is ever giving her or any one else money upfront …. certainly not 50% ….. 

Never, ever pay money upfront. That’s the single most important rule isn’t it?

However you’ve saved others wasting time messaging her so there’s at least something to take from this encounter. 

I can’t even say hard luck as you don’t deserve it  you’ve just fuelled her greed and desire to do this again.  Sadly she’ll do it once to often and to the wrong person one day.
It’ll end in tears.

[Maverick090]

Yes like I said learning curve! You’re right she will do it to the wrong person one day, her friend was a group of lads and obviously they think it’s easy money because they are under the impression guys she’s meeting are married and don’t want to cause any fuss. But it will end in tears because she’ll end up meeting the wrong guy who has a crew of mates who was more than happy to give her friends and her a slap.

[Cunning Punt]

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Username; PRINCESSKXOXO based on Highworth,

I met this girl, very straightforward in terms of the scam, because she did a runner. She invented a story that we should go out for drinks first of all just to get to know each other, if she liked me and I liked her we could go back to her friends place who lived in West Swindon. However her friend did want some funds before she was prepared for us to go there.
We had agreed £250 for a PPM, however she needed to give her friend £30 to use her flat in West Swindon and we needed to collect the key from her in Shaw Ridge retail park. Once I had collected her from her meeting point which was on a very busy road, Swindon Road in Stratton, Swindon her story was very plausible as she said it’s a nightmare to park outside my house as the road is always busy to park opposite the shop it’s safer there for you?

She then jumped in my car, and we need to drive over to Shaw Ridge to collect the key from her friend as she liked me and pretty sure we get intimate with each other. She even made a slippery comment that before though we would need to go to the pharmacy to buy some essentials.
Foolishly I handed over the cash for her to give to her friend, you guessed it I was blocked, ghosted. I didn’t see the point of going back into the bowling alley where she ran off into to collect the money from her as it is a waste of time...Learning curve!
I’ve had some shit Romanian punts in my time which I’ve spent more money on but I just feel that it’s important to put it out there as a warning because I lost a small amount of money somebody may give her the 50% of the ppm amount she asked for .  I refused and said if your friend wants £30 is £30.


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[Cunning Punt]

Never, ever pay money upfront. That’s the single most important rule isn’t it?

Yep, we keep saying this repeatedly on all the SA threads but still guys pay upfront.

Aside from that lesson, making the 1st intimate in a hotel rather than at yours/a girl's place/her friend's place would be a good idea - and I certainly wouldn't be driving a girl I didn't know to any random location.

Also, her profile doesn't really inspire confidence, not just wording but I really can't take seriously a girl who sticks her tongue out in her profile pic.

[Doombar]

I've spoken to her at length during summer and she's told me some incredulous things about her life too.

Would you care to share in a PM what were the things she's told you which you found shocking perhaps?

Happy to share details in PM.  Feel it's unfair to do so in public.

[Doombar]

Thanks for the warning, but reckon she's gone?

I'm getting profile unavailable (assume blocked me after I said not interested), but her WA is still showing a sexy profile pic. So reckon she is still available.  If you are keen to see her PM me for her number.

[Cunning Punt]

I'm getting profile unavailable (assume blocked me after I said not interested), but her WA is still showing a sexy profile pic. So reckon she is still available.  If you are keen to see her PM me for her number.

Don't think it's just you - that's my point. Her SA profile isn't showing via either my normal or dummy accounts, so she's either deactivated it or been banned as I don't tend to hide or block anyone on my dummy acc.

And thanks for the offer but bearing in mind you suggested she was rather damaged and also Bath is too far for me, I will pass.

[Palace123]

I would suggest caution on doing a review on here of someone on SA. Firstly not sure whether its allowed under UKP rules as she is not a WG or SP as such and secondly she and maybe SA could ban you if they ever found out. Don't know whether there is a ladies "beware of" list on SA but if so, you could find yourself on it.

Also a thought - in the last week i have had 2 ladies both new on SA (less than one week) tell me they are leaving as SA as its not the site they thought it was. I asked why and they said they its because have been treated very much as a WG by many guys on there and they are definitely not WG's! If you do a formal reviewe on here, you will be treating her like that. We need to do whatever we can to make sure SA does not become a second AW as some/many of the genuine ladies on there will leave.

However sharing info is a core benefit and requirement of membership here so the question is how can we best do that? No names or identifying info and perhaps by PM to those who are genuinely interested. Other ideas??

Agree with you here....best not to post individual's profiles or mention in written text a person in name, that makes it personal and could invite complications as they are not professionals (offering "services" which are entitled to be reviewed).  I spoke to one girl, she said she did a great deal google research online of the scene before joining.... when talking, she seemed to say many things that chimed with posts on this thread (but didn't mention it by name) and seemed shocked in her research how many girls guys have on the go/have seen.  I guess it's worth keeping in mind that if someone is looking to find out what guys really pay them for arrangements etc...google may direct them here at some point.

[Palace123]

Here's a list of red flags (in no particular order) for anyone new to the game.

1). Connect on what's app then ghosted immediately (fishing to personal information - pics etc, keep in mind that many professionals seek to extort money through blackmail)...of course you are not talking to the real person....best to video call first, ideally on the seeking site so you don't have to give out your own information first. I found this this cuts through a LOT of time wasters.

2). deliveroo.....Been asked twice to pay for a take away delivery before meeting - too coincidental not to be a scam.  Maybe its a basic blag, or perhaps  there is some way they can reverse trace identity etc from delivery I don't know.

3).  Pay for my taxi etc....Asking for money up front for taxi, train or anything else for that matter. A clear red flag. NO NO NO. A genuine girl won't be asking for anything up front.

4). Links to sites....malware.

5). Fake What's app profiles....check when their profile was created (there's a date usually unless it's set to be hidden). Sometimes they are less than a week old...that can happen if the person has changed their phone but more likely its a fake account which has just been created...treat with extreme care.

6). First date paid platonic... Before a sexual arrangement thereafter, some might try to ask for a paid first date...obs you will never see them or your money again.

7). Help I've been..!!! Loads of sob stories can emerge after some convo...from personal attacks, hospitalisation, family emergencies to COVID infections they come up. 

8). Do you have Instagram/FB etc?   Clearly a big AVOID...Likely Fishing for personal data with malign intent, she's not going to want you in her personal circle if she's genuine. 

[NightKid]

Happy to share details in PM.  Feel it's unfair to do so in public.

Which is why I'm asking if you could PM me dude.

[Maverick090]

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This girl contacted me out of the blue, I’ve never spoken to this girl however it was on the following day after being scammed, this girl appeared on my WhatsApp and asked if I wanted to meet her on the same premise as the previous girl did a runner/scammed me. I was shocked that this girl tried the same set up as the previous girl, only yesterday! so I toyed with her with a few texts to say that is interested.
When I explained I didn’t know who she was she then said we met talked on Tinder!  I pointed out I’m not on Tinder so how the hell have you got my details anyway obviously I never met her or continue the conversation but she then left me a voicemail with exactly the same person who did a runner the previous day. So it’s out there guys as a warning do not meet this girl she is a scammer 100%

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This girl contacted me out of the blue, I’ve never spoken to this girl however it was on the following day after being scammed, this girl appeared on my WhatsApp and asked if I wanted to meet her on the same premise as the previous girl did a runner/scammed me. I was shocked that this girl tried the same set up as the previous girl, only yesterday! so I toyed with her with a few texts to say that is interested.
When I explained I didn’t know who she was she then said we met talked on Tinder!  I pointed out I’m not on Tinder so how the hell have you got my details anyway obviously I never met her or continue the conversation but she then left me a voicemail with exactly the same person who did a runner the previous day. So it’s out there guys as a warning do not meet this girl she is a scammer 100%

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I saw her profile last night and remember I've matched up with her on tinder earlier this year. She tried getting me to buy a takeaway one evening.

[joninbristol]

I saw her profile last night and remember I've matched up with her on tinder earlier this year. She tried getting me to buy a takeaway one evening.

I'd steer clear of her on looks alone. 
Seen more shaggable mannekins in shop windows.

[Palace123]

I saw her profile last night and remember I've matched up with her on tinder earlier this year. She tried getting me to buy a takeaway one evening.

Hey mate, I've had this twice on seeking. Earlier in the thread we discussed why they are doing this...since then I discovered that the data breach from Deliveroo is available on the dark web. My theory is that these scammers have access to the Deliveroo data breach and if you have not changed them and you buy and deliver a take away they can then match more of your personal information. Often, the breach breach will contain only some personal information (card info but not name address etc), so they still need more to create a full profile and use it to create purchases.

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[Palace123]

Had my best encounter so far on seeking. I cancelled after a month but kept in touch with some girls. She was expensive at £300 for an overnight but I couldn't get her pictures out of my mind and I was visiting London this weekend. Started in a bar..she arrived looking absolutely sensational..tight trousers, tight top and leather boots...chatted and smiled happily with no uncomfortable periods...after about an hour we left for my hotel room. we had had sex for hours on end...fortunately I had the foresight to bring some baby oil so things were well lubricated through-out but even so, in the end her pussy could take no more..tbf she gave a great performance, no other girl I've been with would have stayed with that pace for that amount of time. I'm not normally that rampant but couldn't keep my hands off her. Absolutely stunning, will definitely see again and a really sound personality. Said she only goes for guys she fancies so not had many SD's. I can see this becoming regular but we will definitely need to come to an arrangement on monthly allowance..£300 a time is not doable for me nor is a trip to London every week. What a pussy though..one of the nicest I've seen. I've no plans to return to seeking but on that meeting alone it has proved worthwhile. Took a while to snare an a-player but worth the effort (and it really does require quite a bit of flirting and even more patience). Shame she lives in London, the SW girls are definitely not in the same league...it like Tinder though, I find the girls in London are generally far hotter...AW is the same...not so many hot escort escorts.

[Cunning Punt]

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This girl contacted me out of the blue, I’ve never spoken to this girl however it was on the following day after being scammed, this girl appeared on my WhatsApp and asked if I wanted to meet her on the same premise as the previous girl did a runner/scammed me. I was shocked that this girl tried the same set up as the previous girl, only yesterday! so I toyed with her with a few texts to say that is interested.
When I explained I didn’t know who she was she then said we met talked on Tinder!  I pointed out I’m not on Tinder so how the hell have you got my details anyway obviously I never met her or continue the conversation but she then left me a voicemail with exactly the same person who did a runner the previous day. So it’s out there guys as a warning do not meet this girl she is a scammer 100%

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This one had sent me her number after I shared photos, so I was going to contact her on WA. Not any more. Thanks for the warning.   

The public photo on her profile is taken from a distance so not too bad but agreed, that other pic looks odd.

[Cunning Punt]

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Mia, 21, Gloucester/Cheltenham.

Timewaster.

Chatting with her for a few days, agree ppm for intimate meet and arrange a brief standalone M&G. Then a few hours before the M&G she asks if she is going to be paid. 

When I say no, only intimate meets, she seems fine with this but asks to put the meeting time back with no reason/excuse and doesn't give a revised time. She doesn't bother to read, let alone respond to my follow-up messages asking her for a new time.

Finally a few days later, she gets back to me to apologise for letting me down, saying her cat was stolen and she was very upset, which out of the lame excuses I've heard over the years is certainly a first. 

I expressed sympathy, though realised the reality, but needless to say she did not read or respond to this or another message, which proved her story was bollocks.

[Cunning Punt]

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Looks reasonable on private pics but refuses to give out her number, claiming bad experience previously. Insists on going to kik which is a red flag for me as the few who I've come across who do are usually escorts or picture sellers or just timewasters.

[southcoastpunter]

if anyone likes petite (really petite!) maybe have a look at:

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She is a very nice young lady in mid Wiltshire. (She is very arty and she has done her her pics more for their artisic value rather than to show her off at her best). 

[Maverick090]

I thought I should highlight this dreamer to you all and not waste a Sunday evening on W.A.

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For the record her previous arrangement did not see her for the first 3/4 meet? But sent her gifts and left them on the doorstep? Really, ….on top of that he forwarded £1500 on a monthly basis and saw her 2/3 times a month and they did not have sex all the time. This girl is clearly in fantasy world someone who is still reading Jackie magazine and thinks that we believe the BS she spouts.  I cannot believe that any guy is in a provincial town in Wiltshire would enter in such a ridiculous arrangement compared to what’s on offer . I genuinely believe this girl is a dreamer a complete and utter time waster.

[Cunning Punt]

That's your inbox.

[Maverick090]

I thought I should highlight this dreamer to you all and not waste a Sunday evening on


For the record her previous arrangement did not see her for the first 3/4 meet? But sent her gifts and left them on the doorstep? Really, ….on top of that he forwarded £1500 on a monthly basis and saw her 2/3 times a month and they did not have sex all the time. This girl is clearly in fantasy world someone who is still reading Jackie magazine and thinks that we believe the BS she spouts.  I cannot believe that any guy is in a provincial town in Wiltshire would enter in such a ridiculous arrangement compared to what’s on offer . I genuinely believe this girl is a dreamer a complete and utter time waster.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

That’s a copy of what you just posted. 

[BN99]

Hi Maveric
Thanks for the info, could you paste the link to the timewasters profile please.  I dont believe her story for a second either.

[Maverick090]

External Link/Members Only

[joninbristol]

Thanks !  Looks like her profile's been deactivated. 

[extraa]

Only look for girls over 23/24. Usually finished uni and in a job, living somewhere paying rent/room share. Not into any 18/19 year olds . Very flaky and most are a waste of time nowadays.

Met a few as I signed up again using a 33% discount. Got a bunch of numbers and working through them , I’d say 20/30% of those numbers will covert to meets. Everyone still looking for online still 

Met 3. One was £80 for an hour at hers, two at £150 for about 3/4 hours. Got one booked outside Cardiff  for £200 next week at hers and one more at £250 overnight in Bristol. Tbf I could’ve gone cheaper as it’s her first time and didn’t fight my offer. The overnighter wants to meet many times a month at a. allowance. The figure she quoted was quite reasonable.

All of them happy with BB and to finish inside.

Xmas might make things a little easier who knows

Seem to be doing a lot better than me in Wales  Based here currently and look as far as over the bridge but not had a lot of luck on either side. Managed one meet from Wales this time around (a few previously) but most girls either only want online or expect £1000 as that's what they had before (apparently). Are you normally upfront with your messages (within SA guidelines)? I normally mention what I'm looking for with a friends with benefits type of arrangement which ultimately highlights what I'm looking for but perhaps I'm doing it wrong. It's had a hit and miss success rate.

[Maverick090]

You need to woo them a bit more than just saying NSA, if you start off by saying you’ve had previous arrangements and the first couple meetings started on £200 for £250 PPM then we moved her monthly allowance just to get to know each other that tactic seemed to put them at ease. You’ve got to open them up sorry about the pun it’s seriously time-consuming and you have to weed out the time wasters and individuals think they’re worth a kings ransom.

[Palace123]

Seem to be doing a lot better than me in Wales  Based here currently and look as far as over the bridge but not had a lot of luck on either side. Managed one meet from Wales this time around (a few previously) but most girls either only want online or expect £1000 as that's what they had before (apparently). Are you normally upfront with your messages (within SA guidelines)? I normally mention what I'm looking for with a friends with benefits type of arrangement which ultimately highlights what I'm looking for but perhaps I'm doing it wrong. It's had a hit and miss success rate.

Agree with Maverick here...don't be led by what they want...throw down the gauntlet early and let them know what you've had. In my experience, they all say they have £1-2K per month (1K is on the low side over this side of the bridge) and they all say they've had "a couple" in the past. I doubt the legitimacy of  tbh. Also firmly agree its a dating game as much as anything... to butter them up, keep the contact going and above all appear like a decent human being who is not driven by sex (I know the irony of it all  )...face pictures on profile increase opportunities exponentially - of course that doesn't suit everyone but I heard many times from girls that they want to see the person before replying to messages. I guess if I were in their shoes it that would be a no brainier.  I try to move the conversation to what's app when it starts encroaching on arrangement terms.  You're probably not doing it wrong...it is hit and miss...but money also talks on there..I found the average ppm with a good looking girls was £250-300. You can probably drive the value down more but then they invariably don't show up. 

[southcoastpunter]

External Link/Members Only   (profile name of Lavieestbelle, Bournemouth. )

wants £250 for a M&G coffee and chat!!

[Maverick090]

I can actually beat that, mines £800  unfortunately I deleted/blocked her profile link before I should of posted her time wasting profile on here!

[Cunning Punt]

Seem to be doing a lot better than me in Wales  Based here currently and look as far as over the bridge but not had a lot of luck on either side. Managed one meet from Wales this time around (a few previously) but most girls either only want online or expect £1000 as that's what they had before (apparently). Are you normally upfront with your messages (within SA guidelines)? I normally mention what I'm looking for with a friends with benefits type of arrangement which ultimately highlights what I'm looking for but perhaps I'm doing it wrong. It's had a hit and miss success rate.

You're asking the same question on multiple threads. This info is all in the threads already. 

[extraa]

Agree with Maverick here...don't be led by what they want...throw down the gauntlet early and let them know what you've had. In my experience, they all say they have £1-2K per month (1K is on the low side over this side of the bridge) and they all say they've had "a couple" in the past. I doubt the legitimacy of  tbh. Also firmly agree its a dating game as much as anything... to butter them up, keep the contact going and above all appear like a decent human being who is not driven by sex (I know the irony of it all  )...face pictures on profile increase opportunities exponentially - of course that doesn't suit everyone but I heard many times from girls that they want to see the person before replying to messages. I guess if I were in their shoes it that would be a no brainier.  I try to move the conversation to what's app when it starts encroaching on arrangement terms.  You're probably not doing it wrong...it is hit and miss...but money also talks on there..I found the average ppm with a good looking girls was £250-300. You can probably drive the value down more but then they invariably don't show up.

Cheers for that. Yeah I managed one who wanted £500 down to £200 by stating what I normally pay and she accepted so I certainly know they're trying their luck  I suppose I'm just doubting my current method as I have literally messaged 100's and I know it's a numbers game but my hit rate has waned massively so perhaps being so upfront isn't best who knows. I have a photo without face as my main, but I do share private photos. I literally put in my profile that I'm more than happy to share when I know there's a conversation there but the amount of girls I get just ignore my opening message and just request my private photos without even replying. Just not worth my time or effort.

@cunning, yeah sorry, I thought that's what regional threads were for. Not everyone posts on the main. The exact type of messages people send is vague and not on the threads here with any example message openings so I was just trying to get a better understanding.