I have had friendships with ladies of the night throughout my life.
When young I lived with one for two and half years who had been "retired" by the police. She was very interesting, highly intelligent great fun, taught me a lot about life and introduced me to some great music - but insanely jealous. I left her for a stripper.
I became very friendly more recently with one who has retired. We are still great friends, but meet rarely.
I have a business (unrelated to escorting) and sexual relationship with another, and talk most days to another who has retired with oodles of dosh. She is one of the most cultured and perceptive people I know; extremely well-read, which interests me as I write for a living.
My impression is that most on here despise or hate escorts. I find them not that different from anyone else and often more interesting than most of the business people I deal with.
I laughed out aloud reading your pathetic piece, which I think is no more than an extremely piss poor effort at trying to justify your own apparent behaviour and an even poorer attempt to gaslight other punters from saying anything critical about the prossys they've also either dated or had relationships with.
You really ought to know better, if you think that your passive aggression on this of all forums, is going to close down discussion the way you'd like it to. Its the same old pantomime. Anybody who uses prossy or who writes anything critical is either a misogynist or has some other deep seated agenda. Yet here you are, doing exactly the same things that the rest of us do, but try to effect some moral superiority over others.
You must punt in a more rarified atmosphere than most on here because of the prossys I've had some kind of relationship with, all have been either flat broke, due to huge debts or were trying to maintain an unrealistic lifestyle based on their true earning potential at the time. Pretty much all were fucked up in the head and had several issues (dont we all) but were certainly not the type of person you'd want anything long term with.
This area has been discussed many times on UKP in the past and they'll always always be an exception to the rule but I also think there are some things you can generalise on with both prossys and punters.
This line from you is a classic..
" but insanely jealous. I left her for a stripper" !!!
Well, it would appear to me that the woman had every justification to be suspicious of you in your case!
Do you know what you are? I think you're a lying, manipulative piece of shit,
The more honest approach would've been to say you enjoyed the 'free sex, which you exploited to the full but people like you cannot help themselves...you had to over egg it, by portraying these particular women as 'intellectual giants", when they were no more than flat broke like the vast majority of prossys, doing it not through some kind of active choice, but more realistically based out of desperation, due to economic need. Barely any woman makes it a personal choice to become a prossy, in my experience, other than swinger types who enjoy the extra cash.
The best advice I could give others considering it is enjoy the free sex but don't think its going to be a long term thing. Most have some kind of deep seated issue and were bat shit crazy due to it...things you probably don't want to know about that have happened, just like other women, which whilst you can be sympathetic don't need in your life.
You could never truly trust one, even if you stopped punting yourself. It may sound hypocritical as somebody who pays for their services but who would want to put a ring on the finger of somebody who's rented themselves out to any Tom, Dick or Abdul? To each their own...
Me, I just enjoyed the free sex and never pretended it would be anything more than short term.
As for you, you're exactly the type of man that some unfortunate woman would best avoid.
