I have to say Blyton90, and no offence here, but that the way you write does come across as a little bit feminine - maybe some feminazi impressing her friends with her stealth tactics. I hope that I'm wrong here and I don't want to say how people should have to fit into certain roles and be this or that. However your voice comes across as a little bit phoney and your accusation that members can only get sex if they pay for it hints at someone with an agenda.
Still, if I'm wrong then sorry, and have a good time with whatsername.