Does Punting affect SEX more than Porn?

[penisilin]

I'm having issues with the misses. These days I'm not interested in having sex with her and she's not finding it funny. Since I punt around once in three months and watch porn at least once in two weeks, I'm wondering which one contributes more to my lack of sex interest with the misses.

Or perhaps is it age? I'm 40, she's 35 and we've been together for 4 years now.

Or is it because she's pregnant - 7 months. I heard most men are turned off when the bump is bigger. I've been struggling with this lack of interest a few weeks before she became pregnant.

We used to have sex almost 2-3 times weekly but now it's  like once a month since she got  pregnant. Meanwhile porn/masturbation is on the increase - 2 times a week. Punting is still once in three months due to cost but I keep fantasising on AW every day. If I could afford it, I may have been punting more frequently I guess.

Any thoughts or, advice? Please share if you can, thanks.

[BobTB]

I think the forum needs a picture of the missus before we can truly offer any constructive advice   

[LLPunting]

Why are you asking us to tell you your mental state?

When you look at your wife do you feel great attraction to her?  Do you baulk at the bulk of her?  Do you want the baby?
Are you petrified of being a father?  Have you had a serious, open-hearted, calm discussion with her about your desires for one another during the pregnancy?
When she's feeling horny and expressing it are you repulsed?

Don't ask us, we have  no clue about your emotional response to your situation?  It's no point being "honest" with us when you can't be honest with yourself.

Have you had sincere chats with your mates who are fathers?

[hungrypunt]

Excess porn and masturbation DOES diminish the brains need to have sex or get aroused. Not just sex but many things.
Doesnt seem excessive to me what your doing though. Is she a heffer ? do you still fancy her ? does she still want your cock. Is it your baby ?
If I was you Id just tie her up and fuck her how you want it and she likes it, and explore some other avenues, spice it up.

[penisilin]

Why are you asking us to tell you your mental state?

When you look at your wife do you feel great attraction to her?  Do you baulk at the bulk of her?  Do you want the baby?
Are you petrified of being a father?  Have you had a serious, open-hearted, calm discussion with her about your desires for one another during the pregnancy?
When she's feeling horny and expressing it are you repulsed?

Don't ask us, we have  no clue about your emotional response to your situation?  It's no point being "honest" with us when you can't be honest with yourself.

Have you had sincere chats with your mates who are fathers?

You don't need to take it personal mate! Your response appears harsh!

[luv2tung]

My Mrs is and always has been sex on legs. She is gorgeous and lots of guys fancy her.

However, I wank and watch porn most days and punt periodically. Many years ago I punted weekly.

I don’t have any issues gettting hard at home or punting. They both give me different levels of satisfaction.

[penisilin]

My Mrs is and always has been sex on legs. She is gorgeous and lots of guys fancy her.

However, I wank and watch porn most days and punt periodically. Many years ago I punted weekly.

I don’t have any issues gettting hard at home or punting. They both give me different levels of satisfaction.

I can relate to this. I guess it's pregnancy then. Many thanks! 

[penisilin]

Excess porn and masturbation DOES diminish the brains need to have sex or get aroused. Not just sex but many things.
Doesnt seem excessive to me what your doing though. Is she a heffer ? do you still fancy her ? does she still want your cock. Is it your baby ?
If I was you Id just tie her up and fuck her how you want it and she likes it, and explore some other avenues, spice it up.

Like 50 shades, lol!

[Plan R]

I think just having the knowledge that you can stick your cock in an endless supply of mid twenties hotties, anytime you've got the money.. is bound to affect desire for one woman.
How could it not ?
Limitless options are bad for stability in just about any field of human endeavor
 

[Analist]

You used to punt weekly, now it's down to once every three months. Meanwhile, you used to fuck the wife several times a week, now that she's pregnant it's once a month.
Not rocket science to figure out what the problem is. Your wife is still keen, you're presumably the one responsible for her condition, why can't you face sex with her anymore? And if full penetrative sex isn't arousing, there are other options. Watch some porn with pregnant females and get some inspiration.

[penisilin]

Good advice, thanks. Perhaps I can watch pregnant porn that may help me. I can have the best of both worlds!

[pythondan]

In my experience you should enjoy it whilst it is on offer from your wife. Once the sprog arrives you will be lucky if she is up for it once a month.

I could relate if you had a punt booked and wanted to "keep your powder dry" for the meeting but, as long as you find your wife attractive (and if you do not why the hell are you with her?) you should service her when she wants especially whilst up the duff.

She is probably thinking that you no longer fancy her and, even if that is the case, it is not a good thing to let her know that - she will make you suffer for it in the long run.

If she is getting quite large then spoons is going to be one of the few comfortable positions. You can fantasise as much as you want about AW girls in that position - got to be better than wanking!

[notcalledchris]

You telling us you have a hotty at home who wants servicing and you cant be arsed to do the job yourself. I'm happy to volunteer.  Just saying.