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Offline funfungoodguy

Slight revival of an older pre-covid thread. Those that have a flat they go to for work or only did outcalls and so on - had some sort of cover story - especially those that gave up a normal job to become a hooker.

But now - they can't be 'Going to the office' or going to this or that work.
It amazes me how some must have developed ways to lie to their friends and children for several years, and work out a whole secret life that the have had to adapt during Covid in the case of those (and there are numerous) that are still offering services throughout the whole Covid thing. Their children will grow up and surely be looking at whoring websites and all that, and yet off she goes every day - photos on the world wide web from which she can hopefully not be recognized...

Amazing really?

What cover stories have any of you heard that the SP uses for her friends and family?

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Slight revival of an older pre-covid thread. Those that have a flat they go to for work or only did outcalls and so on - had some sort of cover story - especially those that gave up a normal job to become a hooker.

But now - they can't be 'Going to the office' or going to this or that work.
It amazes me how some must have developed ways to lie to their friends and children for several years, and work out a whole secret life that the have had to adapt during Covid in the case of those (and there are numerous) that are still offering services throughout the whole Covid thing. Their children will grow up and surely be looking at whoring websites and all that, and yet off she goes every day - photos on the world wide web from which she can hopefully not be recognized...

Amazing really?

What cover stories have any of you heard that the SP uses for her friends and family?
Oh, i thought you were going to get the ball rolling.. :unknown:

Offline PaulRuff

One I know would say she had a shift at the hospital (she was a nurse) as a cover story for working at a hotel as her incall location.

Offline SamOmar

Slight revival of an older pre-covid thread. Those that have a flat they go to for work or only did outcalls and so on - had some sort of cover story - especially those that gave up a normal job to become a hooker.

But now - they can't be 'Going to the office' or going to this or that work.
It amazes me how some must have developed ways to lie to their friends and children for several years, and work out a whole secret life that the have had to adapt during Covid in the case of those (and there are numerous) that are still offering services throughout the whole Covid thing. Their children will grow up and surely be looking at whoring websites and all that, and yet off she goes every day - photos on the world wide web from which she can hopefully not be recognized...

Amazing really?

What cover stories have any of you heard that the SP uses for her friends and family?

It's just a risk they have to take otherwise pay a higher commission and earn less working anonymously in a brothel or parlour. Risk vs reward and that is presuming they are having to keep a secret. I have met Thai SP that openly work and their families just look the other way due to the money coming in and an upgrade in living standards. Others just say they are providing only massages. My personal opinion is that sex work is a job is a job and punting is a hobby and should be less taboo and discussed more openly. 
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Offline willie loman

an interesting point, the only girl i know that well at the moment tells her family she works in a hotel, her family pretend to believe her, for foreign girls its not that important, if your family are back in romania, they wont know what you are up to.

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What cover stories have any of you heard that the SP uses for her friends and family?
None, I don't get involved in their personal life, it has nothing to do with me. What they tell their families and friends is up to them and I wouldn't expect them to come on here and say what it was.


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None, I don't get involved in their personal life, it has nothing to do with me. What they tell their families and friends is up to them and I wouldn't expect them to come on here and say what it was.

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Offline Fac51

None, I don't get involved in their personal life, it has nothing to do with me. What they tell their families and friends is up to them and I wouldn't expect them to come on here and say what it was.

My humble opinion too  :thumbsup:

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What cover stories have any of you heard that the SP uses for her friends and family?
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Maybe similar to some of the stories that punters use 🤔

Offline Home Alone

An SP's cover story is of no interest to me, unless she's going to escort - in the Civvy meaning of the word - me to a function where she's likely to meet friends and family whom I've not told that I'm a punter.

I've posted on other threads on here of a couple of occasions when that's happened, and on both occasions, we've worked on a cover story. The interesting thing was that, on both occasions, neither of us was asked how we met!

Offline Trotter671

None, I don't get involved in their personal life, it has nothing to do with me. What they tell their families and friends is up to them and I wouldn't expect them to come on here and say what it was.

Exactly davie - none of our business - you pay your money, have your fun, that's it :thumbsup:

Offline nightbot

They can just say they got laid off. Plenty of people did.

Regardless it's not your business, and I'm sensing a very negative and derogatory vibe in the OP's post, especially with the random mention of kids growing up and looking at websites like AW. Like that's not even related, but he had to mention it for some reason.

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When I first saw this I immediately thought it was another newbie who doesn't quite get the way the site works or doesn't appreciate an escort's private life is just that, private, but no the OP's been here 9 years.   :unknown:

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I live with a friend and don't have a cover story.

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None, I don't get involved in their personal life, it has nothing to do with me. What they tell their families and friends is up to them and I wouldn't expect them to come on here and say what it was.

This ^^
What else would you like to know? Income? civvie job? Car? What we eat?

Offline Payyourwaymate

lol what? Why would you care? Are you a priest saving them from a life of sin? Will you save us aswell?

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Apart from anything else, you must know that plenty of people are still going to work, even in offices? And why the hell would you mention kids?

WTF is wrong with you?  :wacko:

Offline FLYING BLUE

None, I don't get involved in their personal life, it has nothing to do with me. What they tell their families and friends is up to them and I wouldn't expect them to come on here and say what it was.

Exactly this

Offline patdavies

Funny really some girls like to talk and will tell you all sorts of stuff.  Personally I like a nice chat it adds to the experience and relaxes you. 

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Funny really some girls like to talk and will tell you all sorts of stuff.  Personally I like a nice chat it adds to the experience and relaxes you.
So you want to pry into their private lives??  :thumbsdown:  Chat by all means, I do with any escort I see, general topics only though I don't want to know anything about their personal life and I do not tell them anything about mine.

Offline shyboy1

I don’t know what they tell their families but I should imagine it’s similar to the stories we make up to cover our tracks.
I do know that lockdown has hit a lot of SP’s really hard as kids have been at home and using their usual support mechanism is not allowed.
This has meant they are not able to do meets or even web caming which has put them under a lot of pressure financially, just like a lot of us.
I know one regular who works hard escorting to pay to bring up her kids and try to give them a good life, this pandemic has made things practically impossible for her to earn a living.
A bit off the original topic but just highlighting how we all have similar problems.
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Offline willie loman

i ask girls what was their best subject at school, in english  a question is merely an invitation to have a conversation, way too much anger and aggression on this thread.

Offline LLPunting

What do trolls tell their families, knowing full well that said families would react badly to it?

Offline Little Joe

Funny really some girls like to talk and will tell you all sorts of stuff.  Personally I like a nice chat it adds to the experience and relaxes you.
Seems like I might be a lone voice with you on this one. I don’t really rationalise what I talk to an escort about....I don’t consciously put what we are talking about into a personal, business or whatever related box.....it’s just conversation that goes wherever. If she doesn’t want to go down a certain path she won’t if I don’t then I won’t. What’s the big deal about lecturing on if we should ask this or that or take an interest in this or that. The working girls are well able to look after themselves.
As long as you are pleasant in your conversational style all should be good.
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Offline willie loman

Seems like I might be a lone voice with you on this one. I don’t really rationalise what I talk to an escort about....I don’t consciously put what we are talking about into a personal, business or whatever related box.....it’s just conversation that goes wherever. If she doesn’t want to go down a certain path she won’t if I don’t then I won’t. What’s the big deal about lecturing on if we should ask this or that or take an interest in this or that. The working girls are well able to look after themselves.
As long as you are pleasant in your conversational style all should be good.

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Offline Payyourwaymate

Seems like I might be a lone voice with you on this one. I don’t really rationalise what I talk to an escort about....I don’t consciously put what we are talking about into a personal, business or whatever related box.....it’s just conversation that goes wherever. If she doesn’t want to go down a certain path she won’t if I don’t then I won’t. What’s the big deal about lecturing on if we should ask this or that or take an interest in this or that. The working girls are well able to look after themselves.
As long as you are pleasant in your conversational style all should be good.

It's one thing to ask personal questions to someone you have just met but another to then get the answers to those personal questions and then judge them for their answers as OP has done in his first post, it's not blatant but it can be inferred from the words he has used. Better off not asking at all in that case, it achieves nothing to worm info from them and them turn around and indirectly shame them. I'm not one to defend WGs but his post goes past them being WGs, it's pretty close to gaslighting. What are the WGs supposed to do? It's their main form of income, should they not work? We are not saints ourselves lol.

 :vomit: :vomit: :vomit: I feel like a white knight typing that.

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this is definately up there with one of the WTF threads  :scare:

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i ask girls what was their best subject at school, in english  a question is merely an invitation to have a conversation, way too much anger and aggression on this thread.

no it’s just creepy as fuck

Offline LLPunting

It's one thing to ask personal questions to someone you have just met but another to then get the answers to those personal questions and then judge them for their answers as OP has done in his first post, it's not blatant but it can be inferred from the words he has used. Better off not asking at all in that case, it achieves nothing to worm info from them and them turn around and indirectly shame them. I'm not one to defend WGs but his post goes past them being WGs, it's pretty close to gaslighting. What are the WGs supposed to do? It's their main form of income, should they not work? We are not saints ourselves lol.

 :vomit: :vomit: :vomit: I feel like a white knight typing that.

Nope, you're just exorcising your good nature.  Agree with your take.

Offline LLPunting

no it’s just creepy as fuck

Be thankful he didn't say "i ask girls at school what is their best subject..."  Your creep-o-meter would have exploded.

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Be thankful he didn't say "i ask girls at school what is their best subject..."  Your creep-o-meter would have exploded.

ewwww now that’s another level! probably one of those who ask if you have a schoolgirl outfit. Now that gets my creep-o-meter going, something seriously wrong with that. OK I’m probably gonna get some shit for that comment oh well  :unknown: :thumbsdown:

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They can just say they got laid off. Plenty of people did.


Pun intended???  :cool:

Offline Little Joe

this is definately up there with one of the WTF threads  :scare:
Your spot on.
You can talk about smashing the girls back door in, fucking her fucking hard, shooting your jizz down her throat but fuck me, the liberal brigade get their knickers in twist if you ask her a question about her changed routine during Covid.

It’s fuckin white knight madness gone mad  :dash: :dash: :dash:

Oops, nearly forgot.....IMHO
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Offline willie loman

no it’s just creepy as fuck

i dont just ask working girls that, its something people like talking about, as ive mentioned before some of us are curious about our fellow humans, though not it seems yourself,, rude arse that you are.

Offline willie loman

Be thankful he didn't say "i ask girls at school what is their best subject..."  Your creep-o-meter would have exploded.

thats an extremely short post by your standards, you are making progress.

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Your spot on.
You can talk about smashing the girls back door in, fucking her fucking hard, shooting your jizz down her throat but fuck me, the liberal brigade get their knickers in twist if you ask her a question about her changed routine during Covid.

It’s fuckin white knight madness gone mad  :dash: :dash: :dash:

Oops, nearly forgot.....IMHO
Who are you saying are white knights.

If you read the subject title of this thread it is asking what escorts tell their families, is is not about them telling punters what their change of routine is.

 

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I'd have thought - don't know, that most of their partners know full well they are WG


Offline Little Joe

Who are you saying are white knights.

If you read the subject title of this thread it is asking what escorts tell their families, is is not about them telling punters what their change of routine is.

I’m assuming your post is as a bog standard member and not as a moderator so...

Well, there is almost a self confessed white knighting on the thread which will do for a starter. And telling their families a different story is, in a sense changing a routine.....it is changing the  routine of what they tell them.

It as actually IMO, turned into being about what it seems you can or can’t ask an SP about their private life. That’s up to the punter and it’s up to the SP if she wants to divulge that information. Can’t see why so many are getting excited about it.
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I’m assuming your post is as a bog standard member and not as a moderator so...

Well, there is almost a self confessed white knighting on the thread which will do for a starter. And telling their families a different story is, changing a routine.....the routine of what they tell them.

It as actually IMO, turned into being about what it seems you can or can’t ask an SP about their private life. That’s up to the punter and it’s up to the SP if she wants to divulge that information. Can’t see why so many are getting excited about it.
You're the one that seems to be a bit excited and going crazy over something so simple.
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Offline Little Joe

You're the one that seems to be a bit excited and going crazy over something so simple.
:wacko:

Excited....err no, that happens when I have my dick in an SP’s mouth 🤪

its between you and me what we talk about during a punt isn’t it.
If I ask you something you don’t like, think its intrusive, insulting maybe, wouldn’t you just tell me.

If thread is followed correctly my OP was in reply to specific comment about communication/chat and that is the context of my comments.....see post 23
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I’m assuming your post is as a bog standard member and not as a moderator so...
You assume wrong. As a moderator I am asking you who this - "It’s fuckin white knight madness gone mad" - is aimed at.

You have, shall we say, an 'unusual' attitude to the forum.

Offline Little Joe

You assume wrong. As a moderator I am asking you who this - "It’s fuckin white knight madness gone mad" - is aimed at.

You have, shall we say, an 'unusual' attitude to the forum.

Ok, I can’t win. I’ve posted a not particularly controversial post and finished it with a statement emphasising its my opinion, not fact but an opinion.

Not sure what my unusual attitudeis, I am certainly more polite than a lot of established members from whom guys like me take a steer.

How many accusations of white knighting go uncensored/unquestioned. In my opinion, and of a poster above, a tongue-in-cheek  reference to White Knighting is not the most harmful of comments for hardened UKP members.

I’m not going to argue with you Davie, as I say I can’t win and you can’t be seen to lose. You see, I can’t tell if your post was that of a mod. as I cannot differentiate the line between you carrying out your commendable Moderating work and you being an honourable member. Maybe you could explain how that can more clearly be identified for me.....Maybe a ban does that but I sincerely hope not.... this is not intended to be a suicide note but a genuine legit response.

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Ok, I can’t win. I’ve posted a not particularly controversial post and finished it with a statement emphasising its my opinion, not fact but an opinion.

Not sure what my unusual attitudeis, I am certainly more polite than a lot of established members from whom guys like me take a steer.

How many accusations of white knighting go uncensored/unquestioned. In my opinion, and of a poster above, a tongue-in-cheek  reference to White Knighting is not the most harmful of comments for hardened UKP members.

I’m not going to argue with you Davie, as I say I can’t win and you can’t be seen to lose. You see, I can’t tell if your post was that of a mod. as I cannot differentiate the line between you carrying out your commendable Moderating work and you being an honourable member. Maybe you could explain how that can more clearly be identified for me.....Maybe a ban does that but I sincerely hope not.... this is not intended to be a suicide note but a genuine legit response.
You seem to be missing the point, it doesn't matter what you talk to an escort about or what you ask, though I have to say, speaking as a member, prying into their private lives is creepy, the OP of this thread asked for members to post those things they had been told by escorts and publishing private conversations is out of order.

There's a thread about how a SP would know who you are on here, repeating personal information she has told you is another way of the finding this out.

BTW your post that I deleted was empty when it was deleted except for A.

I have to say looking at your post history you seem more familiar with the forum than one would expect from your 4 weeks of membership. You do remind me of someone, though I'm not sure who, yet.

 

Offline LLPunting

i dont just ask working girls that, its something people like talking about, as ive mentioned before some of us are curious about our fellow humans, though not it seems yourself,, rude arse that you are.

Yes, it's definitely a notable common ask to:

"Hello [Mother-in-law/boss/fellow commuter/barista/boss' wife/electrician/gas person/best friend's wife/dog walker]..."

Offline LLPunting

thats an extremely short post by your standards, you are making progress.

I've been practicing.

I'll be premature soon.

Limp I've already done, many a time.

Offline LLPunting

Excited....err no, that happens when I have my dick in an SP’s mouth 🤪

its between you and me what we talk about during a punt isn’t it.
If I ask you something you don’t like, think its intrusive, insulting maybe, wouldn’t you just tell me.

If thread is followed correctly my OP was in reply to specific comment about communication/chat and that is the context of my comments.....see post 23

So you are contradicting yourself and acknowledging that personal details revealed by an SP are meant to be considered private to some degree or another.  E.g. if she has kids as opposed to she adopted her kids but they don't know to what lies she might tell her kids when she's away from them having sex with strangers for money to feed, clothe, educate and entertain them.

We here are all dishonourable cads to one degree or another, at least those who review or comment about encounters they've had, but there's a great difference between harmless cads putting a thumb up or down for a lady and there are malevolent/contemptuous cunts.

Offline willie loman

Yes, it's definitely a notable common ask to:

"Hello [Mother-in-law/boss/fellow commuter/barista/boss' wife/electrician/gas person/best friend's wife/dog walker]..."


somehow the fact that you dont know how to do small talk doesnt really come as a surprise.

Offline Little Joe

So you are contradicting yourself and acknowledging that personal details revealed by an SP are meant to be considered private to some degree or another.  E.g. if she has kids as opposed to she adopted her kids but they don't know to what lies she might tell her kids when she's away from them having sex with strangers for money to feed, clothe, educate and entertain them.

We here are all dishonourable cads to one degree or another, at least those who review or comment about encounters they've had, but there's a great difference between harmless cads putting a thumb up or down for a lady and there are malevolent/contemptuous cunts.
Not quite sure what you last para is supposed to mean but look, the OP has never mentioned a name, never suggested you should mention a name and I’m sure no one would mention a name. So what is discussed between SP and Punter in a personal sense should and as far as I can see does remain confidential.

I’m closing my involvement on this thread with this comment......I am just of the opinion that what you ask an SP is up to you and if you ask the wrong thing you get a good slap......that’s all.
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Offline willie loman

So you are contradicting yourself and acknowledging that personal details revealed by an SP are meant to be considered private to some degree or another.  E.g. if she has kids as opposed to she adopted her kids but they don't know to what lies she might tell her kids when she's away from them having sex with strangers for money to feed, clothe, educate and entertain them.

We here are all dishonourable cads to one degree or another, at least those who review or comment about encounters they've had, but there's a great difference between harmless cads putting a thumb up or down for a lady and there are malevolent/contemptuous cunts.

thats you back to form, indecipherable pretentious drivel , you are so up your own arse

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somehow the fact that you dont know how to do small talk doesnt really come as a surprise.

Indeed because asking someone what they studied at school is masterful.