Addicted To Escorts

[captainavenger]

yeh it certainly did, i think it was because all the punts were brilliant and provided an excellent service and then I decided to go and see a punt where i could've jerked off but i couldnt stop myself and lost out on £50, it may seem like a small amount but to me its big as Im not rich by any means. Im still angry so hopefully I can lay off escorts for at least 2-3 months i hope.

[superchamp]

What I have become addicted to is getting home from work every evening and logging on to AW and UKP to see who's new or what/who's being discussed. So although on average I punt just 3 or 4 times a month, I'm always doing the window shopping as it were. It's got to the point where other hobbies have been forgotten because I'm spending far too much time on the fucking internet checking out prossies even if I've no intention of punting for another week or so.

[Quesadilla]

yeh it certainly did, i think it was because all the punts were brilliant and provided an excellent service and then I decided to go and see a punt where i could've jerked off but i couldnt stop myself and lost out on £50, it may seem like a small amount but to me its big as Im not rich by any means. Im still angry so hopefully I can lay off escorts for at least 2-3 months i hope.

No question once you get in the zone the little head does the thinking and (IME) there's no going back.  Still it's only £50.  Could have been a lot worse!

Good luck laying off for 2-3 months.  How long before the memory of those other brilliant punts starts to wash away this one bitter experience?  I'm starting the stopwatch now...tickticktick 

See ya soon Cap!

[captainavenger]

yeh your right, the other 4 punts were amazing and during the punt, I was loving every minute of it!
I know i probably will be back punting.... but this shit punt hopefully can lay me off a couple months.

[Quesadilla]

yeh your right, the other 4 punts were amazing and during the punt, I was loving every minute of it!
I know i probably will be back punting.... but this shit punt hopefully can lay me off a couple months.

Too late Cap, you're already thinking how awesome it was having those other girls all over you!  I give you two weeks - three max! 

[captainavenger]

maybe, depends how long i feel angry for about this shit punt, my aim is to last until April at least! ambitious

[KidCandyShop]

All I can say captain is all good addictions have you by the balls You'll be back   

[bakerted]

Went to Germany on business trip around Easter last year. Only meant to go to a strip club but somehow ended up booking a girl for an outcall. First time was so good I ended up seeing a different girl from the same agency every night of my weeks stay. Thought that would be the end of it when I got home. Approximately 50 punts in the UK now starting to think that I might be addicted.

2014 what a great fucking year 

Personally I think your ship has sailed captain. What's that they say about any port in a storm?

[grandaddybadman]

Pu$$y is not everything in life, so never love these hoes, fuck em' and go.

[captainavenger]

its been hard...i found myself on AW and on here but ive resisted the urge to call an escort....today....

[Quesadilla]

its been hard...i found myself on AW and on here but ive resisted the urge to call an escort....today....

One day at a time Cap! 

[webpunter]

Each to their own in terms of spending patterns - determined by a number of factors: income / availability of cash & opportunity.  And if OH in play. Plus how often you get to play with WG's.  Perhaps broader measures of being addicted include:

- how often you think about WG's
- how often on UKP
- ditto AW [most times both browser pages open ?]
- looking at civvies & wondering how much they would charge [i do this all the time]
- the ability to recognize AW profiles / girls moving around
- how many girlies on HL [i limit mine to 2 pages so 100]

I score badly on all of the above.  Or well - just depends on which way you look at things
Finally - can you imagine ever giving up.  Totally ? 

[captainavenger]

Im on the road to recovery, if i can stay away from escorts for more than 2 weeks, im making progress..only been day 1....

[LL]

Im on the road to recovery, if i can stay away from escorts for more than 2 weeks, im making progress..only been day 1....

Don't bother with massage either.  You might think it's like a nicorette patch to a smoker trying to quit his habit.  It's not, it'll just make you want a proper punt even more than you did before.  You gotta go all-out.  Cold turkey.   

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Im on the road to recovery, if i can stay away from escorts for more than 2 weeks, im making progress..only been day 1....

Simples!,

come to Cambridgeshire and you'll soon find that there's a lack of decent ladies to see and after a while you'll be so pissed off with "txt me bby" and the like and girls that don't do most anything they claim they'll do , and cancelled meetings , you'll find its more fun joining a monastery;)..

[cueball]

Each to their own in terms of spending patterns - determined by a number of factors: income / availability of cash & opportunity.  And if OH in play. Plus how often you get to play with WG's.  Perhaps broader measures of being addicted include:

- how often you think about WG's
- how often on UKP
- ditto AW [most times both browser pages open ?]
- looking at civvies & wondering how much they would charge [i do this all the time]
- the ability to recognize AW profiles / girls moving around
- how many girlies on HL [i limit mine to 2 pages so 100]

I score badly on all of the above.  Or well - just depends on which way you look at things
Finally - can you imagine ever giving up.  Totally ? 

 Ha ha, that's brilliant, it sums me up perfect. I thought I were the only one who looks at civvies and wonder how much she'd charge

[CBPaul]

Im on the road to recovery, if i can stay away from escorts for more than 2 weeks, im making progress..only been day 1....

  You went from never punting again to lasting out until April in just over an hour, and now you're aiming for 2 weeks. TBH you're not going to give up punting so set reasonable targets, monthly budget and then work out the frequency of your punts from there.

Simples!,

come to Cambridgeshire and you'll soon find that there's a lack of decent ladies to see and after a while you'll be so pissed off with "txt me bby" and the like and girls that don't do most anything they claim they'll do , and cancelled meetings , you'll find its more fun joining a monastery;)..

This would be funny if it wasn't so true.

[CBPaul]

Each to their own in terms of spending patterns - determined by a number of factors: income / availability of cash & opportunity.  And if OH in play. Plus how often you get to play with WG's.  Perhaps broader measures of being addicted include:

- how often you think about WG's   
- how often on UKP
- ditto AW [most times both browser pages open ?]
- looking at civvies & wondering how much they would charge [i do this all the time]
- the ability to recognize AW profiles / girls moving around
- how many girlies on HL [i limit mine to 2 pages so 100]

I score badly on all of the above.  Or well - just depends on which way you look at things
Finally - can you imagine ever giving up.  Totally ? 

Shit, I score badly on this, although one has to look at AW almost daily to be able to spot the routine of the touring prossies out here in the Fens, forward planning is my defence rather than being a gash addict.

[Clank]

Better than being addicted to gambling, at least your somewhat guaranteed to get something for your money! I hate when some people say it's a waste of money that's like saying buying/eating a chocolate bar is a waste of money You pay for the experience and remember it.

[cueball]

Better than being addicted to gambling, at least your somewhat guaranteed to get something for your money!

Yes, think of it like a bandit that pays out every time, but every time you get the jackpot but you usually get at least a couple of cherries

[flybynightpm]

Is it really an addiction to escorts or just an addiction to sex? After a good session, I don't wank and are content that my urges have been satisfied... then to spoil it, I look at AW/UKP reviews , add the good ones and imagine what sexual scenario or flavour I want to try next...and hence it all starts over again...I only seem to last 3-4 days before this cycle starts...not being able to fight the urge is addiction...your boundaries/desires also seem to move fwd a pace.. I never imagined doing some of this stuff even a few weeks ago...

[ATMIV]

Each to their own in terms of spending patterns - determined by a number of factors: income / availability of cash & opportunity.  And if OH in play. Plus how often you get to play with WG's.  Perhaps broader measures of being addicted include:

- how often you think about WG's
- how often on UKP
- ditto AW [most times both browser pages open ?]
- looking at civvies & wondering how much they would charge [i do this all the time]
- the ability to recognize AW profiles / girls moving around
- how many girlies on HL [i limit mine to 2 pages so 100]

I score badly on all of the above.  Or well - just depends on which way you look at things
Finally - can you imagine ever giving up.  Totally ? 

+1

I've been punting for a number if years have foolishly suffered from EAS twice but was never addicted but over the last 12 months have fallen right in line with these comments

This I consider an addiction

Gotta have a regular hit of these sites

Even feel depressed when I need to take a break to replenish my funds for a bit

Nothing worse than reading this site and checking out new profiles knowing it won't happen for a couple if weeks

Even when the punting fund is flush with cash I can find myself dithering - should I go for the expensive one in my HL or a 2 hour fuckfest with so and so or an hour with so and so plus an hour with my regular

It is this site and the links to WG in AW that has finally got me well and truly hooked!

[Sparquin]

I doubt that this is very helpful, but if your addiction/craving etc is getting you down then just get a prescription of antidepressants such as Welbutrin or Zyban.

I guarantee it will kill your libido stone dead.

No, I didn't think you would!

[webpunter]

I thought I were the only one who looks at civvies and wonder how much she'd charge

I'm sure i started a thread on this subject - or replied to one on the same.  Can't be arsed to look back through my history etc
Think i commented on something along the lines of different scenarios:  shop assistants [tescos = cheap & cosmetic counters = much more expensive, even if the latter leave a load of make-up on the pillow when you've been hammering them from behind].  Happy days - although very infrequent civvy shag potential now & i really i can't be bothered when AW means: fit babes / cheaper overall / great fun & a dead-cert !
Have a couple of mates who do punting & when we're out of an evening then if some civvies are in a bar etc then often the convo line can be as simple as '150'.  The civvies will be mostly glammed up with full warpaint on.  Factor in alcohol & i'm sure that the pricing is a tad on the high side.  Normally we're quite close on the numbers - but now & again there is some disagreement.  Like my mate says "150" & my response is like "fuck off 100 absolute tops" or on the other hand then "200 - she's gorgeous".  And "where's the nearest cash-point ?"  I wish 

[webpunter]

Even when the punting fund is flush with cash I can find myself dithering - should I go for the expensive one in my HL or a 2 hour fuckfest with so and so or an hour with so and so plus an hour with my regular

It is this site and the links to WG in AW that has finally got me well and truly hooked!

You & me both.  Decisions - decisions.  I often feel like a cheetah on the african plains.  Not sure what prey to chase after
And BTW - we're both hooked.  And properly fucked every now & again - if we're lucky

[El Jefe]

We are men, we crave sex whether it's with a WG or a civvy.

It's in our biology to fuck anything that moves and desire new pussy.

[azrael]

Hey fellow punters, so it all started on October 2013 where I first discovered adultwork and the escort business and decided I would try an escort as a one time thing, then November came and I was too tempted again and said that was it.
I was good until New year 2014 and said one more good punt (last one was shit) and thats that and now today, 6 days later  not even a month I see myself forking out £100 for another. Ive spent £350 on escorts so far and I want to retire for good. (Plus im pretty young under 25.
Anybody on the same boat?

I started late october 2014, so far i must have blown £9k on wg's. And thanks to the lovely chaps on here my HL has 20 or so lovely lasses who i wouldnt mind getting to know. As for your age your still at college/uni your "young dumb and full of cum" so to speak go to the house partys meets some girls sow your oats. And if you like a girl on aw whose out of your league save up for her 

[captainavenger]

Lasted a week! all i can say is i am struggling hard!

[Two tone]

Each to their own in terms of spending patterns - determined by a number of factors: income / availability of cash & opportunity.  And if OH in play. Plus how often you get to play with WG's.  Perhaps broader measures of being addicted include:

- how often you think about WG's
- how often on UKP
- ditto AW [most times both browser pages open ?]
- looking at civvies & wondering how much they would charge [i do this all the time]
- the ability to recognize AW profiles / girls moving around
- how many girlies on HL [i limit mine to 2 pages so 100]

I score badly on all of the above.  Or well - just depends on which way you look at things
Finally - can you imagine ever giving up.  Totally ? 

Yep sums me up perfectly.

Always checking out this site & AW.

The civvy thing especially & yesterday, I found watching the Aussie tennis on TV I was more interested in what the lady presenter would look like nude & how much she would charge...no hope for me 

[captainavenger]

 I just realized that i staid i started punting October 2013.. that's a lie and a mistake

Started October 2014
1 Punt-£100

November 2014
1 Punt- £90

December-Busy, no punts

January 1st- 1 Punt (£50)
January 8th - 1 Punt (£90)
January 19th- 1 Punt (£50)---Shittest punt ever!

£360 in 4 months..still seems bad to me!
My record as you can see is lasting a month..still a long way to go yet!

[JamesKW]

£360 in 4 months..still seems bad to me!
My record as you can see is lasting a month..still a long way to go yet!

Everything is relative £360 is bad if you cant afford to go on at that rate and your in debt but if you were a millionaire then its peanuts.

[sticko]

I'm in a very boring meeting at work right now, and reading this thread.  I think that means I'm addicted to UKP at least...

Good hour with External Link/Members Only last night btw, review to follow.

S

[tazz]

I am in my early 20s as well and without wanting to sound conceited I am apparently a handsome guy. The problem is I also happen to be very timid verging on the awkward especially when it comes to meeting new women. That is not to say that I am completely incompetent when it comes to socializing in fact my interpersonal skills are decent. However, when it comes to chatting up women and appearing confident and self assured that is a completely different challenge all together. You see if a guy is charming and confident then he is almost set when it comes to getting the ladies even if he is not the best looking guy out there. I am not the only so called handsome guy who struggles with women there are plenty out there and it is really frustrating when people just assume that getting women must be easy because you happen to be blessed aesthetically. That is why I get my fix through escorting and by and large bar one or two experiences it has been a great but it certainly isn't helping when it comes to practicing my pick up game.

I was in the same boat as you and really now regret all the girls i could have screwed. Maybe you need to see a dating coach or go out with a guy who is confident. All you need to do is ask a women whose making it clear shes interested in you out.

[bitsandbobs]

It sure is, going for my 8th booking this month : )

[captainavenger]

So far so good (2 weeks) but nearly slipped up 2 days ago..

I arranged 3 punts near my local area and it looks like the addiction was coming back

so all 3 punts were Romanian (dont ask why), first one I arranged to meet up at 5pm on Saturday, got there and she was in her PJs!, im thinking wtf! i said are you going to change? she says, no I am comfortable!
me: straight out of the door

2nd visit was at 6pm, block of flats and again the girl was in her PJs and also offered her other friends instead, who all looked seven, again straight down the lift and out

3rd and final visit was another Romanian and this i had high hopes for as her profile pictures seemed good, got there and thought wtf, although she was in lingerie, she looked like she got out of bed, no make up looking tired as fk, also she stated she does DFK but when I got there, she said no. Again straight walking

So although I came close to seeing another girl, a whole lotta things put me off! needless to say I slept well thatt night
Got to keeep fighting it off

[306]

Romanians are not good 99 times out of 100 sorry thats a fact !

[Siadwel]

After one expectedly bad punt (Romanian, what can I say?) and one unexpectedly bad punt, a Summer of doing other things, an Autumn of working myself almost to death, I've just had my first punt for seven months.

And I'm already planning my next one.

Punting is like the Hotel California.

You can check out, but you can never leave.

[RNinePunter]

I put 10% from the good ol' monthly salary for punting, been doing pretty good to not let me dick make the decision and only punt with regulars or girls with good reviews on here (not AW, absolute fluffland). I think of it like a pension, except I get the enjoyment at a much younger age my friend. If you are happy punting then keep doing it, of course don't get other the top and use money that you shouldn't be using (I am under 25 also) but if you are sensible you will find the punting heaven. Unfortunately I live on a crappy island with very little potential, only one every once a while a good WG comes along on tour.

[bitsandbobs]

Just back from Costa Rica where it is all above board (and I will leave tips and advice from my experiences in a couple of days time) and will be booking an outcall as soon as I've had some food to round the holiday off 

[unclesweetheart]

Yea I'm addicted. But there are worse things to be addicted to than pleasure. And, having denied myself - or been denied - proper, balls out filthy expressive sex all my life, I think before they shovel me in the earth it's more than ok to experience it - and if you have to pay, well, you have to pay. A good punting mate - who's even older than I am - said that you have to pay now to go to university: so look at the £9k (roughly the amount I've spent so far on punting) as taking an advanced degree in sex, your tutors being the sexiest girls you've ever met in your life? I'm single, so no guilt re a partner, and it's legal and I can afford it. I'll give it up when I become a fully realised spiritual being who's put the pleasures of the flesh behind me and concentrated on higher things etc etc. But right now I feel it feels fucking great.

[cueball]

But right now I feel it feels fucking great.

Ha ha, gud lad

[captainavenger]

well lasted 39 days and gave in to another shit punt (£60)

again so angry! when will i ever frikin learn to not think with my dick
fml fml

not on the road to recovery
gota start all over again

[justfornow]

well lasted 39 days and gave in to another shit punt (£60)

just stop saving for shit punts

Refrain a bit longer and go for well reviewed girl for an hour so it won't feel like a waste of time and money.
You're on a punting forum and keep paying for shit punts... how does that even work.

good luck with the next one...if you're going to be addicted to something make sure you enjoy it

[JV547845]

Sex with a partner who's into you is way way better than that you get with a shit Romanian punt. You're young man.  you know you can get sex when you want, and hopefully you learned how to show the ladies a good time.  Nothing wrong with spending your entire life punting as much as you can afford to but why not try dating, get yourself out there. 

[captainavenger]

thats my problem, going in for shit girls who are not far from my area for less time, problem with me i dont last long and im out the door in 10 mins in a half hour punt.

[JV547845]

might as well just pay £22 in soho then?

[JV547845]

You're not really making the most of your 30 mins either if you leave after 10.  Just chill out, find someone who'll kiss you, try going down on her.  If you know you only last 10 minutes then don't put a condom on until 10 minutes before the end of your time

[martell]

Did you forget how to masturbate? Maybe it is just me, but rubbing one out completly cures me of dick thinking

[captainavenger]

i was too excited today, shoulda jerked off before, went down on her and i came within 10minutes, we tried doggy but my fella went to sleep and we called it quits

[captainavenger]

im still feeling so shitty even shitty then my other shit punt in January, probably wont see a punt until July now