Do You just want to scream when random people talk about Punting.

[Neal69]

Even when fairly sensible People start talking about Prostitution in your company I just want to tell the truth how I see and experience it.

But the thing that makes me want to scream out loud is when some random twat starts spouting off about what they have done 

I Just want to call them out and ask if they have really seen a real Prostitute but of course I have to keep my council.

Thank fuck I can come on here and vent my ire.

Or Maybe I just spend too long in Pubs talking to random folk 

Obviously it happened to me tonight and all I wanted to say was that I have just spent the best part of the last hour  up to my nuts inside a hot Polish hooker and that smell you can small  is pussy juice. Now tell me what you know about Prostitutes.

Gosh I feel better now.

N

[Sonny Crockett]

I absolutely hate it myself. Just pure pretentious bragging. Like I want to know about what they get up to.

[Hydrant]

A good friend of mine is single, in his mid-60s, and happily talks about sleeping with hookers to his male friends. He'd discuss it with women too if they weren't so uptight and judgmental about it. He only ever has one girl on the go at a time, and sticks with her until she messes him about or he finally gets jaded. Each to their own.

So I don't get annoyed when he mentions it; I just get frustrated. I'd quite like to share my very different experiences with him, but he knows and likes my GF too, and though I'm sure he wouldn't dob me in, I think he'd be very disapproving, so I stay quiet. In fact I've never told a single soul in my everyday world about this major element in my life. Trust no one! One of the reasons this forum is so invaluable, of course.

[Neal69]

 In fact I've never told a single soul in my everyday world about this major element in my life. Trust no one! One of the reasons this forum is so invaluable, of course.


Yeah I think that was the source of my little rant tonight .

Thank fuck I can tell UKP

N

[Vivago]

A couple of years ago I was walking home from the pub with my son and we passed a block of upmarket flats where I had punted a couple of times in the past. For some unfathomable reason I blurted out 'prossies work there'. My son replied 'I know'. We both laughed and nothing more was said. 

I reckon that if everyone was totally honest about their punting activities, we would all get some big surprises.

[Goriatzie]

Lol Vivago great story

Being from a country where this is taken a lot differently, I'm the type of guy that as a teenager would be taken by his father.

We wouldn't go together, obviously.
But I have done, with my brothers.
And with friends.
(good friends)

And I talk freely about it all - with brothers, and (good) friends. And my father. (That's as far as it goes)

I guess I'm a bit fucked up!

[sharpshoes78]

one I did let on a bit of my life to a friend while drunk. i am so glad he cant remember   

[Steely Dan]

The worst is when they go on about prostitutes all being trafficked and forced to do it against their will.  And prostitutes are all heroin addicts. And they say things totally wrong about the law today.  And they think that the Nordic model should be brought in.  I just stay silent ... even knowing about the law (let alone suggesting many escorts choose to do it) makes me too knowledgeable for comfort.

[myothernameis]

Two sides here, on how colleagues in my work treat someone like me, now no one in my work knows I punt, but one of the other guys let it be known he punts, and he is treated differently form me

The young female staff find him creepy because of this, but were best of friends, but I also punt, but they don't know this

As for some of the guys they think, it cool that the other lad gets his end away with hookers, but some of the older guys, think he shouldn't be doing this, not a god thing to do, was what someone said

Now most of my mates know I'm single, and have never had a real girl friend, but don't think it ever crossed there minds, what does he do for sex; could easily be like my uncle, from a age of 40 he no longer had any interest in sex, seems that's kind of happening with me in my 50's starting to relax

[NelsonH]

The rule is:

Those that know, don't talk.
Those that talk, don't know.

[daveev]

Where i live loads of my mates and females know i punt, friends will come up to me asking had any new girls over, maybe had the odd female say it's not right which i then say i'm 55 and want a girl with a size 8 figure, can't pull so i pay, great fun so blah, but really all my mates want a go married and not married, so i talk open and don't give a fuck what others think, more on board than not.

[Titi]

The rule is:

Those that know, don't talk.
Those that talk, don't know.

Yep totally agree. One of the guys in my office bangs on and on about what he gets up to when his OH is away. I pretend to be fascinated and keep him going. So many inconsistencies in his tales about WGs.

[hullad]

I know a guy, unmarried, has no personality or imagination at all. He gives blow by blow accounts on his "punting exploits" and he is clearly talking bollox. His terminology is all wrong, like " they always roll my foreskin back and have a look first " dickhead.....

He even used a name of a street walker he had picked up, she was in the local rag for soliciting in the no go area in Hull. How did he know it was her from the court case with no piccie, I knew what her working name was and she worked a local parlour a few days a week.


I have and never will divulge my hobby to anyone, what would be the point I may hurt someone and that is never part of the plan for any of us.

[ness4]

Sometimes I wish I could go to the pub with a mate and openly discuss it. Maybe even compare notes but at the end of the day I don't want anyone to know that I do it. I do stay quiet when the wrong terms are used though or whenever someone rolls out one of the usual "degrading to women" lines

[nimrodluvsit]

Dunno if this is relevant here but my missus informed me the other day that "prostitutes don't kiss".   

[vw]

Dunno if this is relevant here but my missus informed me the other day that "prostitutes don't kiss".   

She did !   

[Nagilum]

Dunno if this is relevant here but my missus informed me the other day that "prostitutes don't kiss".   

She obviously believes pretty woman 

Also how have you missed the opportunity for a threesome!

[NelsonH]

In the 1990's mostly they didn't kiss.

[uutarn]

Most of my friends and family know i see prostitutes, i don't blurt it out or brag (TBH there's nothing to brag about cause i'm fucking broke lol), i'm just an honest guy and tell the truth whenever possible.
But i'm lucky, whereas all the people i know are very chilled and open minded so no judgement. 

[Still-alive]

The worst is when they go on about prostitutes all being trafficked and forced to do it against their will.  And prostitutes are all heroin addicts. And they say things totally wrong about the law today.  And they think that the Nordic model should be brought in.  I just stay silent ... even knowing about the law (let alone suggesting many escorts choose to do it) makes me too knowledgeable for comfort.

I think the villain in all this is the myth perpetrated by television and movies. Whenever a WG is represented in a movie or TV drama, she is almost invariably a mutilated corpse or a stick thin junkie in a short skirt huddling in some grubby back street trying to attract kerb crawlers. OK so there are girls like the second one ( and sadly sometimes like the first ) but to stereotype an entire section of society is pretty bad. Then again, its almost as bad going the other way and having the tart with the heart of gold like in Pretty Woman, an equally unrealistic movie.

[howrude]

I've never come across anyone who would openly discuss their punting experiences. I know I wouldn't. I sometimes wish I could tell others about it. But I've had a good time punting and telling others about it wont make it any better.

[Henry 1X]

I keep my punting activities to myself. Perhaps this is enforced by having once told my "friend with benefits" that I had seen escorts as well.
Result, loss of friend with benefits 

[will-ow]

The 'i know everything because ive watched pretty woman or some shite'

i have a single mate who runs his mouth a lot about his punting but i feel wierd saying anything as hes my ex's brother.....

[JamesKW]

I've never come across anyone who would openly discuss their punting experiences. I know I wouldn't. I sometimes wish I could tell others about it. But I've had a good time punting and telling others about it wont make it any better.

It will probably make it worse because if a WG you see becomes more popular prices may go up and it is difficult to book.

[HighlyMotivated]

It will probably make it worse because if a WG you see becomes more popular prices may go up and it is difficult to book.

I guess we should all stop writing Reviews then?

[vw]

I guess we should all stop writing Reviews then?

Not necessarily there will always be bad ones to write.

A punters duty is to himself first, up to him if he wants to stitch himself up, I wont review local part time girls until I get bored of them !

As for talking about punting, chat with my brother and a few good mates who also punt.

[Gordon Bennett]

I've never been one to talk about sex much so it comes naturally to me to just keep quiet about punting. I've never really understood guys who tidy their desk at end of working day and then announce to whole office they're off home to fuck the wife's brains out??? S'pose these are the ones that randomly blurt out stuff about punting too.

[Steely Dan]

It will probably make it worse because if a WG you see becomes more popular prices may go up and it is difficult to book.

It is the opposite.  If not enough guys book her she will move to a new town, or get a job in Starbucks.  Unless you can 100% support an escort, you want other guys to book her too.  Being selfish means doing the right thing and reviewing.  Being fair to this site means reviewing.  All roads lead to writing reviews.

[vw]

It is the opposite.  If not enough guys book her she will move to a new town, or get a job in Starbucks.  Unless you can 100% support an escort, you want other guys to book her too.  Being selfish means doing the right thing and reviewing.  Being fair to this site means reviewing.  All roads lead to writing reviews.

cods wallop !

Being fair to this site is identifying shit prossies not being their marketing manager !

I happy don't review many and keep them back for me and some PM mates, particularly the the part time girls.  My main duty is to me, sorry if that offends !

[Steely Dan]

cods wallop !

Being fair to this site is identifying shit prossies not being their marketing manager !

I happy don't review many and keep them back for me and some PM mates, particularly the the part time girls.  My main duty is to me, sorry if that offends !

I'm pretty much in agreement with you, just saying in my opinion it is incorrect thinking that not reviewing a girl somehow keeps her for yourself. Maybe our difference is that I think both positive and negative reviews add value. And both can be done for selfish reasons.  Anyway,  this site would be pretty depressing if we removed all the positive reviews. The good thing is, we all vote for ourselves with our pixels.

[ramrodronnie]

A good friend of mine is single, in his mid-60s, and happily talks about sleeping with hookers to his male friends. He'd discuss it with women too if they weren't so uptight and judgmental about it. He only ever has one girl on the go at a time, and sticks with her until she messes him about or he finally gets jaded. Each to their own.

So I don't get annoyed when he mentions it; I just get frustrated. I'd quite like to share my very different experiences with him, but he knows and likes my GF too, and though I'm sure he wouldn't dob me in, I think he'd be very disapproving, so I stay quiet. In fact I've never told a single soul in my everyday world about this major element in my life. Trust no one! One of the reasons this forum is so invaluable, of course.

Trust no one! One of the reasons this forum is so invaluable, of course.


Never a more true word said Hydrant.

[vw]

I'm pretty much in agreement with you, just saying in my opinion it is incorrect thinking that not reviewing a girl somehow keeps her for yourself. Maybe our difference is that I think both positive and negative reviews add value. And both can be done for selfish reasons.  Anyway,  this site would be pretty depressing if we removed all the positive reviews. The good thing is, we all vote for ourselves with our pixels.

Yes both add value, I only fee obliged to report negative though even though I do add my positives once I have got bored with her and need something new !

[ramrodronnie]

A couple of years ago I was walking home from the pub with my son and we passed a block of upmarket flats where I had punted a couple of times in the past. For some unfathomable reason I blurted out 'prossies work there'. My son replied 'I know'. We both laughed and nothing more was said. 

I reckon that if everyone was totally honest about their punting activities, we would all get some big surprises.

I reckon that if everyone was totally honest about their punting activities, we would all get some big surprises.


It does make you wonder, doesn't it  Vivago? 

[ramrodronnie]

The worst is when they go on about prostitutes all being trafficked and forced to do it against their will.  And prostitutes are all heroin addicts. And they say things totally wrong about the law today.  And they think that the Nordic model should be brought in.  I just stay silent ... even knowing about the law (let alone suggesting many escorts choose to do it) makes me too knowledgeable for comfort.

Me too Steely Dan

[Silver Birch]

I happy don't review many and keep them back for me and some PM mates, particularly the the part time girls.  My main duty is to me, sorry if that offends !

I am a right hypocrite, probably worse than the lurkers 

My current favourite seems to have slipped under the UKP radar, and until I grow bored of her, you won't be seeing a review from me.

As for random people talking about punting, there are several in my local pub. 2 go to Thailand twice a year and the general consensus is, that is the only way the dirty old men will get any sex, so it's ok. Another guy who openly punts but is less of a stereotypical sad dirty old bastard, and he gets less sympathy and I've heard opinions that he should not be taking advantage of these poor vulnerable women.

All doing the same thing, but one is judged differently because one should be able to get sex without paying. 

A few other guys might chip in the conversation, but you can tell the real punters from the fantasists. What you can't tell, is whether the ones who say nothing (me) are also punters!!!!

[GolfNut]

cods wallop !

Being fair to this site is identifying shit prossies not being their marketing manager !

I happy don't review many and keep them back for me and some PM mates, particularly the the part time girls.  My main duty is to me, sorry if that offends !

Quite a selfish attitude to take vw but hardly a surprise, we're all in it for ourselves after all, and punting is a relatively lonely experience.

However without the positives the site would fail to serve its purpose really wouldn't it? You might know who to avoid but not who is definitely worth a punt.

Site ethos:

The site serves as a platform to help punters exchange info and make more informed decisions about the purchase of sexual services.

[Dime]

I was talking about a punt I'd arranged with one of my work colleagues in a bar. He didn't fully understand what I meant, evident when he said "so what's this a dating website?" I could see the publican serving behind the bar grinning. The penny eventually dropped for my colleague when he said "oh good luck to you,I'm bot gonna judge you". The publican then said "don't bring her in her here or tell her about this place, I don't like that kinda thing, it's seedy and a lot of them are run by pimps, I mean who the fuck does that?" I felt like saying well thousands of girls on AW for a start. 

[vw]

Quite a selfish attitude to take vw but hardly a surprise, we're all in it for ourselves after all, and punting is a relatively lonely experience.

However without the positives the site would fail to serve its purpose really wouldn't it? You might know who to avoid but not who is definitely worth a punt.

Site ethos:

vsite serves as a platform to help punters exchange info and make more informed decisions about the purchase of sexual services.

You are quite right about the ethos, but the one percent contribbutors serve the 99% and sometimes the 1% hold the good stuff back, tough shit I say.

And white knighting is much more selfish before you shove ethos down my throat !

What can you do about it ?  Lots do it ! And some never review and some I know even hide the negatives !

My current favourite seems to have slipped under the UKP radar, and until I grow bored of her, you won't be seeing a review from me.

Quite right, is she part time ?  IMHO its pointless sharing those ones, made that mistake twice, wont make that 3 times !

As you say once i have had my fill will share !

[GolfNut]

You are quite right about the ethos, but the one percent contribbutors serve the 99% and sometimes the 1% hold the good stuff back, tough shit I say.

And white knighting is much more selfish before you shove ethos down my throat !

What can you do about it ?  Lots do it ! And some never review and some I know even hide the negatives !

All understood and agreed vw but if everyone took that approach where would this site be? Nowhere near as useful or successful as it is IMO. Would you really bother with a site that only had negative reviews, I know I wouldn't?

You're perfectly entitled not to post reviews as is everyone, but when I signed up, I did so to give something back to the community that has helped me have some very memorable punts.

I also agree that White knighting is equally destructive, but I'm not sure what you're trying to insinuate??

[justfornow]

When guys that know nothing about punting start talking about it it's usually some stereotypical shit like wgs are forced junkies and whatnot.
That seems to be caused by media and just lack of experience.

When girls talk about punting they say "it's disgusting" and that "wgs are just bags of STDs" or "who would've have gone for a wg".
I might be projecting my own thoughts on them but it often seems to me that contempt for wgs from women comes from a place of insecurity.
The ones spreading the hate usually have nothing to offer apart from pussy so are afraid of better VFM:D.

If all that taboo would be dropped people would talk less shit about punting and see wgs for people they are.
People range from god fearing Muslims to smack taking junkies and everything else in between and around.

But in the end I get frustrated to hearing some of this shit. Got to keep my mouth shut though. Best to show same ignorance as everyone else.

[vw]

All understood and agreed vw but if everyone took that approach where would this site be? Nowhere near as useful or successful as it is IMO. Would you really bother with a site that only had negative reviews, I know I wouldn't?

You're perfectly entitled not to post reviews as is everyone, but when I signed up, I did so to give something back to the community that has helped me have some very memorable punts.

Yes you can see from my reviews many positives, unfortunate negatives but also many missing, but nowhere near as many missing as the lurkers.

I keep the part time cream, not withhold reviews like your insinuating (Going back and forth)    just some very good ones have long delays.

the negative hiders are the worst, 2 types ones to keep the piece and the she did it to me brigade ! 

[GolfNut]

Yes you can see from my reviews many positives, unfortunate negatives but also many missing, but nowhere near as many missing as the lurkers.

I keep the part time cream, not withhold reviews like your insinuating (Going back and forth)    just some very good ones have long delays.

Well at least we agree on one thing: The leeching bloodsucking lurkers. 

And back on topic: I never discuss my private hobby with anyone other than known punters

[Neal69]

VW

Derailing my own Thread.

I am at the moment bordering on Pimping/White Knighting a certain WG in my area.

To Justify this.

There are not that many real good WG's in my punting area and this one only comes to my area irregularly.

If I can tell my fellow punters how good this girl is then she will get a good amount of bookings and keep coming back.

The danger is of course that she will get booked up solid and I will not be able to see her when I want.

Can you see my logic?

Usually I agree with your views on here but I must say that although I can see your argument about keeping good ones to yourself until you have had your fill I feel that that does not sit well with me when I live in a place where good ones are few and far between. And goes a bit against my interpretation of the ethos of this site.

If I was in a big city then I can see where you are coming from but although I know the lurkers are leeching off my reviews at least we keep the good ones in business by sharing when in a punting desert.

N