Author Topic: Eyes closed, eyes open, or not bothered? (Read 1608 times)

WARSZAWA16 · « **on:** March 12, 2021, 03:07:46 pm »

I have noticed in a couple of reviews lately that it has been mentioned that the girl has had her eyes closed during the "proceedings". I think I would find this a bit off putting and would make the whole experience a bit too impersonal and mechanical for me really.
How do others feel though? Are you really that bothered, so long as you are ultimately getting what you want?

Thephoenix · « **Reply #1 on:** March 12, 2021, 04:41:48 pm »

Can't say it particularly bothers me.....maybe so if I was paying a lot for a genuine GFI.

One of the best regular BJ's I used to enjoy was from Stephanie in North Wales.

Clients would often remark on various review sites that her oral skills were superb, but for whatever reason she always had her eyes closed.
I never thought I'd particularly want to ask her. Maybe she was concentrating, maybe she really didn't like doing it 🤔???

The prolonged sensual OWO was one of her specialities, and most of the time my eyes were closed anyway in a state of dreamy nirvana.

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That was about 20 years ago and she's still working 👍

southcoastpunter · « **Reply #2 on:** March 12, 2021, 04:51:36 pm »

I am the reverse - i like to see the lady's eyes. Good eye contact when giving a BJ is, to me, important. For the same reasons, I particularly like mish and cowgirl!

B4bcock · « **Reply #3 on:** March 12, 2021, 05:05:17 pm »

Love eye contact during mish or when receiving HE after a sensual massage. Can't beat staring into a young hottie's eyes as she slowly brings you off.

LLPunting · « **Reply #4 on:** March 12, 2021, 06:19:23 pm »

Eyes open and avoiding contact is just as off-putting. Eyes open and looking at the phone is the worst.
It's all about context just as how they say things can be off-putting or encouraging.

mr.bluesky · « **Reply #5 on:** March 13, 2021, 06:01:16 am »

Depends which part of the " proceedings " your talking about. As "doggy" is my favourite position then I wouldn't know if she has her eyes closed. I do prefer it if she's looking at me when administering oral. I used to see a regular lady ( now retired) who if I didn't cum during sex would wank me off furiously with the condom still attached and her eyes closed.

Ali Katt · « **Reply #6 on:** March 13, 2021, 03:54:42 pm »

Quote from: LLPunting on March 12, 2021, 06:19:23 pm

Eyes open and avoiding contact is just as off-putting. Eyes open and looking at the phone is the worst.
It's all about context just as how they say things can be off-putting or encouraging.

It's not so bad we can watch cat videos together on YouTube.

LLPunting · « **Reply #7 on:** March 13, 2021, 11:42:28 pm »

Quote from: Ali Katt on March 13, 2021, 03:54:42 pm

It's not so bad we can watch cat videos together on YouTube.

Beware the conditioning. You'll be embarrassing yourself talking to the neighbours.

cotton · « **Reply #8 on:** March 14, 2021, 07:34:55 am »

I prefer eyes open and just getting on with it looking nowhere in particular , id say thats the norm. For me the looking at you while sucking technique would make it too much of a whorey performance rather than just a nice relaxed experience , its ok the girl occasionally glancing at you to check your ok but i woudnt like her staring at me constantly.

GorillaWarfare · « **Reply #9 on:** March 14, 2021, 08:14:23 am »

Just whatever's natural really. I don't want a girl to act disgusted during the meet and refusing to open her eyes nor do I want her staring into my soul like some creepy sex doll.

It'll be different for different women. All I ask for in a meet is that the girls seems interested in me and my cock for the time I've paid.

Doc Holliday · « **Reply #10 on:** March 14, 2021, 10:03:49 am »

Closing eyes is a natural occurrence for many women, (and men) especially as she approaches and achieves orgasm.

badsin · « **Reply #11 on:** March 14, 2021, 10:46:51 am »

Eyes open as a rule.... I'm also the guy that always keeps the lights on as well. However if I've got a nice sub girl, I have been partial to some rigging, and I really enjoy using blindfolds on the girls for some mild sensory depravation...

Gigawang · « **Reply #12 on:** March 14, 2021, 12:03:29 pm »

Quote from: GorillaWarfare on March 14, 2021, 08:14:23 am

Just whatever's natural really. I don't want a girl to act disgusted during the meet and refusing to open her eyes nor do I want her staring into my soul like some creepy sex doll.

It'll be different for different women. All I ask for in a meet is that the girls seems interested in me and my cock for the time I've paid.

+1

LLPunting · « **Reply #13 on:** March 14, 2021, 04:13:56 pm »

Quote from: badsin on March 14, 2021, 10:46:51 am

Eyes open as a rule.... I'm also the guy that always keeps the lights on as well. However if I've got a nice sub girl, I have been partial to some rigging, and I really enjoy using blindfolds on the girls for some mild sensory depravation...

You can get better cameras you know

Any recommendations on good resources to learn rigging? (No I don't want to meet more "seamen" than I'm already seeing of my own thanks!)

donnybob · « **Reply #14 on:** March 14, 2021, 04:32:31 pm »

I remember a massage meet years ago and from text messages etc it sounded a totally genuine massage but there may be more on offer to be discussed in person

the massage was superb and on the turn I was very hard, with no discussion she wrapped her hand around it then leaned in and was very close to my face, eyes wide open and she was just teasing me with her eyes, smiling and saying things like, is that good, do you like etc, until the inevitable

Since then I have always asked the masseuse to look at me with her eyes open when she does the happy ending

I wish I could remember where it was. all I can remember it was near an RAF base just north of Lincoln

Momodan38 · « **Reply #15 on:** March 14, 2021, 06:14:22 pm »

I prefer eye contact. Honestly, a good gaze from an SP can get me aroused. However, with no eye contact/eyes closed, I can usually soldier on with session without any real problems.

montycat · « **Reply #16 on:** March 14, 2021, 06:19:33 pm »

For me, good eye contact is important, and it's likely to be a big factor in whether I see the girl again.

Whiteknight · « **Reply #17 on:** March 14, 2021, 07:14:35 pm »

I found eyes closed is sexy personally.

Hate it when they are eyes open and just looking at me but then some regular escorts like to watch the in and out action, that can be sexy too.

hendrix · « **Reply #18 on:** March 14, 2021, 08:41:10 pm »

Only matters to me for facials, eyes open!

Link7 · « **Reply #19 on:** March 14, 2021, 09:06:14 pm »

Towards the end of a previous relationship, I noticed she would close her eyes during sex.

She left me for someone else.

Take from that what you will

winkywanky · « **Reply #20 on:** March 14, 2021, 09:07:20 pm »

Quote from: hendrix on March 14, 2021, 08:41:10 pm

Only matters to me for facials, eyes open!

Ooh you're a beast, it doesn't half sting! (apparently

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winkywanky · « **Reply #21 on:** March 14, 2021, 09:08:25 pm »

If the eyes are closed they're either thinking of England or thinking of someone else

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Thephoenix · « **Reply #22 on:** March 14, 2021, 10:16:33 pm »

Quote from: Whiteknight on March 14, 2021, 07:14:35 pm

I found eyes closed is sexy personally.

Hate it when they are eyes open and just looking at me but then some regular escorts like to watch the in and out action, that can be sexy too.

It depends.....

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Whiteknight · « **Reply #23 on:** March 14, 2021, 11:02:18 pm »

Quote from: Thephoenix on March 14, 2021, 10:16:33 pm

It depends.....

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mr.bluesky · « **Reply #24 on:** March 14, 2021, 11:22:21 pm »

Quote from: winkywanky on March 14, 2021, 09:08:25 pm

If the eyes are closed they're either thinking of England or thinking of someone else .

Probably money, handbags or shoes (in that order.)

Stevelondon · « **Reply #25 on:** March 15, 2021, 07:17:14 am »

Quote from: donnybob on March 14, 2021, 04:32:31 pm

I remember a massage meet years ago and from text messages etc it sounded a totally genuine massage but there may be more on offer to be discussed in person

the massage was superb and on the turn I was very hard, with no discussion she wrapped her hand around it then leaned in and was very close to my face, eyes wide open and she was just teasing me with her eyes, smiling and saying things like, is that good, do you like etc, until the inevitable

Since then I have always asked the masseuse to look at me with her eyes open when she does the happy ending

I wish I could remember where it was. all I can remember it was near an RAF base just north of Lincoln

Its something I prefer and depending on the massuese, I like the eye contact part too.

I've had a few soft kind of dom sessions in the past and love to be licking pussy with the girl making eye contact.
But then on an opposite note. I really enjoy giving oral and watching the WG's eyes glaze over and close as she cums.

shagmore · « **Reply #26 on:** March 15, 2021, 03:31:58 pm »

Eyes open, like to look right into their eyes as I am fucking them, or they are sucking me, such turn on

Munter84 · « **Reply #27 on:** March 15, 2021, 05:06:42 pm »

Agree with the majority here; eye contact is preferable as long as it's natural. Of course during the course of a session, the position you're in may not be conducive to gazing into each others eyes. But during face-to-face action, surely it's expected.

I've only once experienced an SP who felt the need to have her eyes shut during the act, it definitely came across as a bit weird and did nothing to add to the meeting.

The Owl · « **Reply #28 on:** March 20, 2021, 01:08:14 am »

I like it when an escort has her eyes open and having eye contact with me during sex. A long time back I used to shag a prostitute in the Soho Cottage. The first few times I saw her she closed her eyes. Then on the 3rd punt with her I noticed that she'd kept her eyes open and was watching us in the mirror as I mounted her. Later I had her on her back and she raised her head up to watch my cock thrusting in and out of her. Eye contact matters, although it's largely a psychological kick for me.

Malvolio · « **Reply #29 on:** March 20, 2021, 07:56:54 pm »

I do like the WG to look at me whilst sucking my cock. I've also come to find eye contact via a well-placed mirror a turn-on.

mace-window · « **Reply #30 on:** March 20, 2021, 09:42:42 pm »

For me I like it with eyes open. I love it when I can look into a WG or woman eyes when she cums or reaches orgasm while I am fucking her face to face. Though I tend to close my eyes slowly when I reach orgasm. That said if WG or woman don't like eye contact, I tend to pull her in and go deeper if I am in mish or CG position.

JimmySW · « **Reply #31 on:** March 21, 2021, 08:54:03 am »

Eyes open with eye contact can be incredibly sexy.

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Author Topic: Eyes closed, eyes open, or not bothered? (Read 1608 times)