Had my first punt and have questions

[Clank]

I thought I would pluck up the courage and finally go to my first punt this week, being new to the whole scene and a virgin I wasn't exactly sure of the etiquette and went there rather nervous.
Anyway's the girl was great she was very friendly and put me at ease but being my first time punt it was a whole hour before I finished which I put down to beginners nerves and lack of experience haha.

The whole thing felt kind of rushed/planned though like I never got a chance to relax and take it slow so I never fully enjoyed it and I didn't really feel confident enough to say what I wanted to do so I let her take the lead with positions and stuff.

My question is do I have say everything I want to do like if I want to kiss for example or change position do I have to keep asking for that, I didn't want to try and go for it and offend her, perhaps I was behind too nice.
So in your experiences how do escorts react to you just sort of taking the lead? And any advice for me for my second time haha.

Thanks.

[Ipunter]

Some girls know you may be shy and take control and swop about, some you will need to ask... Remember you are essentially paying for use of their bodies,they will be used to it normally wont bother them.

Congrats on your first punt, will we see a review?

[Toshiba]

Take charge 

[galcom666]

Well they're not telepathic! Just say what is on your mind and what you want to do.

The answer is either yes or no. I tend to say what I want.

For instance she was DFKing me, right I want to eat your pussy, pushed her on the bed and pulled her knickers aside.

A little later right lube up your arse hole as I want to fuck it.

[Ipunter]

Well they're not telepathic! Just say what is on your mind and what you want to do.

The answer is either yes or no. I tend to say what I want.

For instance she was DFKing me, right I want to eat your pussy, pushed her on the bed and pulled her knickers aside.

A little later right lube up your arse hole as I want to fuck it.

You said what I was thinking haha

[scottbowe]

Mate - here are my personal rules (many years punting globally):

1. make time in your schedule.  if you rush, or feel pressured, whatever your nuts are saying, it will be less relaxed and more likely to be disappointing.

2. yes, tell her what you want. be cool if it's not her thing.

3. tell her how beautiful / wonderful / sexy she is. be polite and groomed. direct, simple compliments never hurt.

4. recognize it's going to be ace sometimes, and a fucking waste of time and money other times. as the yanks say, "it's a crap shoot".

good luck

[webpunter]

Mmmm - anyone thinking what i is ?

[pierrot]

Its a bit like learning to swim the more you do it the better you get.

[Wilson85]

A very helpful thread.

I'm still uncomfortable with just 'taking' what I want from a prossie, abit too submissive at the moment.

Downside is that they can end up chatting for Poland for most of the booking if I don't take the initiative.

[webpunter]

Its a bit like learning to swim the more you do it the better you get.

More like riding a bike [or WG] - once you can, you never forget !

[Ben4454]

Not taking the lead can end you up with some very mechanical punts.

I always lead in with what I want to do. I will position them in new positions, kiss them without asking and do everything I want to do. You can get some good girlfriend experiences this way.

I once visited a massage girl. She had a towel on the bed and asked me to take off my clothes and lay down. I said no you get on my lap..

In conclusion taking control of the punt will make it better for you.

[Krystyna]

Mmmm - anyone thinking what i is ?

Yeah 

[monstar]

I thought I would pluck up the courage and finally go to my first punt this week, being new to the whole scene and a virgin I wasn't exactly sure of the etiquette and went there rather nervous.
Anyway's the girl was great she was very friendly and put me at ease but being my first time punt it was a whole hour before I finished which I put down to beginners nerves and lack of experience haha.

The whole thing felt kind of rushed/planned though like I never got a chance to relax and take it slow so I never fully enjoyed it and I didn't really feel confident enough to say what I wanted to do so I let her take the lead with positions and stuff.

My question is do I have say everything I want to do like if I want to kiss for example or change position do I have to keep asking for that, I didn't want to try and go for it and offend her, perhaps I was behind too nice.
So in your experiences how do escorts react to you just sort of taking the lead? And any advice for me for my second time haha.

Thanks.

Have you considered a longer booking next time? Two hours gives you more of a chance to relax and enjoy the experience.

As others have said: take charge - some WGs (usually the bad) may take advantage of you if you don't and others (usually the good) may think you enjoy what they are currently doing as you make no effort to change it. As you have little experience taking the lead may feel strange to you but remember you don't always have to ask directly, for example if I want to introduce her mouth to 'little monstar', I lay down on my back, put my head on the pillow, adjust to get comfortable and open my legs slightly, a good WG will notice your hints and work down to the little fella. If that fails some suggestive dirty talk should do the trick but sometimes the awkward "can you suck my dick now please?" will have to do 

[webpunter]

Yeah 

Virgin on the ridiculous

[riker]

sometimes the awkward "can you suck my dick now please?" will have to do 

i was with a regular girl a couple of weeks ago who was licking my nips and working herself down, i was becoming impatient, so I said the above to her. She looked up and said, rather huffily, "yes, ok, i do KNOW!"

My bad. 

[bakerted]

My bad

???

"can you suck my dick now please?"

She was lucky to get a please if she was taking an age to get to it!

[maxxblue]

Mmmm - anyone thinking what i is ?

Yeah 

Same here. 

[myothernameis]

but sometimes the awkward "can you suck my dick now please?" will have to do 

Im the opposite, can you suck it slowly, I don't want to come yet

[James999]

it was a whole hour before I finished
The whole thing felt kind of rushed

 

[threechilliman]

I thought I would pluck up the courage and finally go to my first punt this week, being new to the whole scene and a virgin I wasn't exactly sure of the etiquette and went there rather nervous.
Anyway's the girl was great she was very friendly and put me at ease but being my first time punt it was a whole hour before I finished which I put down to beginners nerves and lack of experience haha.

The whole thing felt kind of rushed/planned though like I never got a chance to relax and take it slow so I never fully enjoyed it and I didn't really feel confident enough to say what I wanted to do so I let her take the lead with positions and stuff.

My question is do I have say everything I want to do like if I want to kiss for example or change position do I have to keep asking for that, I didn't want to try and go for it and offend her, perhaps I was behind too nice.
So in your experiences how do escorts react to you just sort of taking the lead? And any advice for me for my second time haha.

Thanks.

Generally in pre-punt comms, I'll message her with what I want her to wear and what I want to do with a rough running order and with experienced WG's this seems to work well and make the session flow as we both know what we're doing next. I always say that if I find something particularly good we might do that again. Seems to work for me.

If you read any of my reviews, you'll see they all pretty much follow the same pattern - it's what I like and I guess you need to find you're own 'running order'.

tcm