How annoying is it being called Baby ,Sexy repeatedly!

[onedivergent]

Ok maybe it's sometimes the accent but being referred to as Baby or Sexy I find sooo
 Esp when it's over done - i.e. more than once

Fuck me.
It's like very annoying hearing it on repeat.

[Vice Admiral]

I can live with almost anything except being called "hun".

[Skeleton]

Agree, does my nut in, especially when it’s via text or email in response to a first contact and you haven’t even spoken yet

[onedivergent]

Hun .Haha yes and babe. That's what the English girls use .
The non UK types seem to go sexy and baby a lot.
As much as a foreign accent be v. sexy and added turn on some can be off putting !
Sometimes it bothers more than it should.
When speaking on phone to a girl who sounds sexy with her accent well that can be a deal breaker.
Of course it's not always those girls you get to see -if they are just a call a handler.

That leads me to how much does a girls manner on phone , how she sounds ,vibe etc,  determine you making a booking??

For me if I do speak I find it super important.
I get a lot by the vibe to the potential attitude

[Dipper]

They can call me Janice as long as they fuck me right

[Vice Admiral]

For some reason I get called "Janice" all the time.

[Malvolio]

Being called 'Daddy' is the one that gets me.

[Punterperson1971]

Being called 'Daddy' is the one that gets me.

Never been called daddy
Been called baby,babe,sweetie or hun.

[lewisjones23]

surely its “ babeeee “ as them Roms are so fond of saying 

[snaitram99]

Chinese massage girls seem to favour "dahling", as in "Dahling, you want body to body?" on turning over from front. Must be one of the first things they learn 

[OakTree]

Being called 'Daddy' is the one that gets me.

That's one I don't like.

As for the others such as babee, hun or fuckstud, I'm quite happy with.

[PepeMAGA]

I can live with almost anything except being called "hun".

fucking spot on.

[Herts_Outcaller]

They're all nice terms of endearment. Sound's like you're nitpicking.

I like it personally, I think it's good service to be nice to the client. My favourite SP calls me "cutie" Of course I know it's a sham, but that's what you pay for, it's why they call it "the Girlfriend Experience"

If they just called you something your neutral, or nothing at all, you'd say they were being too cold

[Jonestown]

Chinese massage girls seem to favour "dahling", as in "Dahling, you want body to body?" on turning over from front. Must be one of the first things they learn 

No, I think not, the first paragraph of the first page of both the Thai and Chinese first grade English primer teaches students to say: "How much do you want to pay ?

[CoverMyEyes]

Doesn't bother me in the slightest. Not as if they know my real name.

[B4bcock]

Doesn't bother me in the slightest. Not as if they know my real name.

I use my real name as I would find it more offputting to be called by a wrong name than to be called hun or babeee.

[Home Alone]

Years ago, I used to see SensualSophie External Link/Members Only - she's still only 50, I see! - who irritated the hell out of me by always calling me, "Sweety!"

Memory's a funny thing; but I'm sure she once told me something like she did it to establish a barrier between herself & clients.

[OakTree]

I use my real name as I would find it more offputting to be called by a wrong name than to be called hun or babeee.

I always introduce myself with my real first name. It’s not like they’re going to remember it anyway. I got asked three times in one meet had I come far and three times I told her where from.

[Winker121]

I always introduce myself with my real first name. It’s not like they’re going to remember it anyway. I got asked three times in one meet had I come far and three times I told her where from.

Had a regular ask me three times in a one hour appointment how I was that day. Pissed me off as it showed that I wasn't getting that much attention for the fee.

[David1970]

Being called 'Daddy' is the one that gets me.

What age are you they call you daddy?
Never had that and I am 49.

[winkywanky]

I always introduce myself with my real first name. It’s not like they’re going to remember it anyway. I got asked three times in one meet had I come far and three times I told her where from.

I think you misunderstood, she wanted to know how far off you were from cumming (ie get a move on), hence the repeated question upon your response.

[winkywanky]

Years ago, I used to see SensualSophie External Link/Members Only - she's still only 50, I see! - who irritated the hell out of me by always calling me, "Sweety!"

Memory's a funny thing; but I'm sure she once told me something like she did it to establish a barrier between herself & clients.

This is a very good point, no-one close to or intimate with you would dream of ever calling you 'sweety'.

It's being 'nice' but establishing distance.

The term 'baby' is actually something you might say to someone close while in the act (at least for me anyway, corny as hell  ). I guess this can grate with the inherent lack of insincerity with a WG.

[Adoniron]

I can live with almost anything except being called "hun".

+1

[redally]

I like being called ga - ga because my dick is down to their tonsils. https://www.ukpunting.com/Smileys/kolobok/biggrin.gif

[Xtro]

Are we talking about what we're called by the checkout girls in Tesco?   

Yes, it is annoying.

Even the repetition of the word baby in this song is annoying (The Finest - SOS Band)  - External Link/Members Only

[winkywanky]

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[tesla]

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[Drayki]

It’s ok when they call you a dirty cunt :lol:or a filthy fucker 

But not baby or sweetie 

[mr.bluesky]

Chinese and Thai girls seem to like to use it a lot when trying to make you cum quickly. It does my head in 

[Xtro]

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I actually like this song. It's really (n)ice (n)ice ..... (dare I say it?)

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[Herts_Outcaller]

WinkyWanky - you may be onto something when you say it's being nice, but establishing distance.

I always introduce myself by text by my name, then again when we meet in person. Yet they never call me by my name.

This may be because either they know some punters use fake names and don't want to call us that, and have had experience of punters being surprised at being called the fake name, or this may be, as you said, just establishing distance while keeping up the pretence

[winkywanky]

WinkyWanky - you may be onto something when you say it's being nice, but establishing distance.

I always introduce myself by text by my name, then again when we meet in person. Yet I am never called by my name by a girl, almost ever.

This may be because either they know some punters use fake names and don't want to call us that, and have had experience of punters being surprised at being called the fake name, or this may be, as you said, just establishing distance while keeping up the pretence

You're quite right, I have never, ever been called by my (or even a) name by a WG.

There were actually two exceptions, in both cases I and the WG got a little too close/involved, but luckily both situations ended without too much emotional mess.

And I guess those are the two exceptions that prove the point.

When the WG uses your name (whether she thinks it's your real name or not), you have ceased to be merely a 'John' and have become a real person. That's a no-no in the world of punting.

[Rochelle]

You're quite right, I have never, ever been called by my (or even a) name by a WG.

There were actually two exceptions, in both cases I and the WG got a little too close/involved, but luckily both situations ended without too much emotional mess.

And I guess those are the two exceptions that prove the point.

When the WG uses your name (whether she thinks it's your real name or not), you have ceased to be merely a 'John' and have become a real person. That's a no-no in the world of punting.

I use names all the time. Whether it's real or not, it's just a name.

[freeze44]

I use names all the time. Whether it's real or not, it's just a name.

Agree it's just a name and those who have regulars will use a name so can text for a booking rather than use aw etc.

Don't mind baby, hun or anything really as to me it's all about attitude 

[formulajuan1]

Thankfully it seems to have gone out of fashion, but even more annoying than being referred to as ”Hun” was when girls with regional accents suddenly became Cockneys and used the term "Darlin." Here in Devon "Lovely" is also a fairly common greeting. I've also always used my real first name when Punting, I've no reason to pretend otherwise.

[Rochelle]

Agree it's just a name and those who have regulars will use a name so can text for a booking rather than use aw etc.

Don't mind baby, hun or anything really as to me it's all about attitude 

Indeed, no big deal. 

[Strawberry]

 

I use names all the time. Whether it's real or not, it's just a name.

Same here.

[Happylad]

"Hun" and "Sweetie" always resulted in no more visits from me.  My very first regular told me I was her "lovely old darling" and although I was only 78 at the time, and not very flattered, I rather liked it - we lasted for 4 months before it was time to move on.

[bigboy]

I like it specially being called to "fuck me baby"

[pewpewpew]

Most annoying when it's preceded by "You cum yet baby" and "hurry up baby".

[MissWolf]

Agree, does my nut in, especially when it’s via text or email in response to a first contact and you haven’t even spoken yet

The problem is 90% of guys don't put a name of any kind on the first message or text so we reply with some form of endearment.

I have no attachment to names if they are used they are still just clients and don't sross my emotional line however much I enjoy the meeting, 

I have many men saved in my phone with the same name much more than is demographically or statistically normal  a name is just that a name

[Vice Admiral]

The problem is 90% of guys don't put a name of any kind on the first message or text so we reply with some form of endearment.

I have no attachment to names if they are used they are still just clients and don't sross my emotional line however much I enjoy the meeting, 

I have many men saved in my phone with the same name much more than is demographically or statistically normal  a name is just that a name

An excellent point, Miss W.

Like some others who have posted on this thread, I sign every e-mail I send an Adult Work escort with my – real – name.  (There must be thousands of men called Aloysius in the Portsmouth area, so no-one's ever going to identify me.)

I help an escort whom I've known for some years with her AW profile, and it staggers me that – as Miss W indicates – almost no punters sign off their e-mails with a name.  (Although I prefer to use my real name, an adopted punting name of course does just as well.)

Giving a name personalises the exchange, and it's a small courtesy.  Buying a girl's body isn't the same as buying a sack of spuds.

Sadly, however, I have to report that, although I sign my name, it's exceptionally rare for escorts then to use it in their replies.

What's good for the gander is good for the goose!

[Belgarion]

Hun is the most irritating followed closely by dah-ling 

[winkywanky]

Or who can forget that perennial EE favourite, gentelmens  .

[MissWolf]

An excellent point, Miss W.

Like some others who have posted on this thread, I sign every e-mail I send an Adult Work escort with my – real – name.  (There must be thousands of men called Aloysius in the Portsmouth area, so no-one's ever going to identify me.)

I help an escort whom I've known for some years with her AW profile, and it staggers me that – as Miss W indicates – almost no punters sign off their e-mails with a name.  (Although I prefer to use my real name, an adopted punting name of course does just as well.)

Giving a name personalises the exchange, and it's a small courtesy.  Buying a girl's body isn't the same as buying a sack of spuds.

Sadly, however, I have to report that, although I sign my name, it's exceptionally rare for escorts then to use it in their replies.

What's good for the gander is good for the goose!

If I'm given a name at the end of a message I'm delighted and always use it 

On first text after exchanging numbers I always ask that they put a name and or their aw used addy so I can save it and I will be aware of who is messaging, this is normally after I've met them for a first time and again at this point most men have not actually exchanged a name on greeting 

I also find demographics play a part, regional dialect can mean that luv and babe or even the dreaded hun are all used in everyday interactions with piers so are natural parts of a person's speech patterns

I use endearments all the time with my friends when texting and when speaking to them, not because I cant remember their name but just because that's me 

[workinallweek]

I use my name and have had some girls use it  . I was known as Bruce Wayne for a while after a batman joke  and Mr sunglasses after leaving some there after my 1st punt .  My friend buys his regular lingerie so is known as Mr Lingerie .

One girl guessed my name from my AW name and has shortened it to it's normal abbreviated form .

I do normally go through the do and dont bit on arrival  as in what's not available  and add no fake moans etc please ..

Mostly works for me

[Xtro]

..... Buying a girl's body isn't the same as buying a sack of spuds......

Although some do perform as such! 

[hockogrockle]

I don't worry too much what they call me. It's all totally insincere.
What does annoy me, however is women who, when you penetrate them, start sounding like a commentary on the 3.30 at Newmarket: "OhyesbabygiveittomebabyohyesyesharderharderfucknebabyohyesI'msoturnedonII'mgoingtocomeohyesyesscrewmebabyyesyes. Have you finished?"

[MassageBloke]

I remember one sweet Indian girl, many years ago whispering in my ear, towards the end of my massage, "I'd like a pussy fuck now". It sounded so sweet and innocent I naturally obliged !!

[Dipper]

I don't worry too much what they call me. It's all totally insincere.
What does annoy me, however is women who, when you penetrate them, start sounding like a commentary on the 3.30 at Newmarket: "OhyesbabygiveittomebabyohyesyesharderharderfucknebabyohyesI'msoturnedonII'mgoingtocomeohyesyesscrewmebabyyesyes. Have you finished?"