Not having luck booking a girl

[deg_dilemma]

Hey all

Just want to throw this out there in case I'm doing something wrong or if this is a common problem.

I'm trying to get bookings so I email the girls on AW to see if they are 'active' and I ask where/when they are working, and often I get a positive reply. I then proceed to call them and they don't answer.

I try at different times to call them and sometimes I text them, but no answer. I feel like I've been blacklisted (but this isn't possible so I'm just being paranoid).

This has happened a lot! And the girls are usually reviewed well on AW and often on this site too.

Just wondering if this is the norm. Or maybe the girls just have too much business and can't be arsed putting any effort in.

Does it have to be this hard to get a booking? Used to be a time that I could email the girl the day before and then call on the day to confirm... seems that these new types (esp. the foreign ones) don't have a clue.

[Rochelle]

What do your texts normally say?

[deg_dilemma]

Texts are simple like "Hi are u working today?"

IF I get a reply I might then ask "Can you tell me where you're working today?"

[Happyjose]

You’re definitely doing something wrong

You must be choosing the wrong girls in the first place, and/or there’s some issue with the messages you’re sending, in terms of content, frequency or both

[Happyjose]

Texts are simple like "Hi are u working today?"

IF I get a reply I might then ask "Can you tell me where you're working today?"

Too many vague messages I think. You should be about to tell where they’re working from their profile

Be clear, concise, and friendly. Better to say you’re looking for a 30 min incall (or whatever), and if needs be what services you are looking for

What you are sending might come across as a bit creepy. Personally I’d also avoid truncated text speak. Write your messages in normal English.

Have you read the wiki?

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[Jonestown]

Don't make vague enquiries, Tell them what time you want to come along and how long you want to stay, then ask if they can see you. If they say yes, then confirm the services you require.

[NelsonH]

Don't bother trying to pursue a booking with a girl that cannot reply in a polite and efficient manner, to any kind of enquiry. 

They are in business and handling enquires is part of the job.

If she can't do that, the rest probably won't go any better.

Just find a proper WG.

[Doc Holliday]

Texts are simple like "Hi are u working today?"

IF I get a reply I might then ask "Can you tell me where you're working today?"

I probably wouldn't reply to that sequence either?

[RandomGuy99]

I suggest a text message that reads something like:

"Are you available at <time> on <date> for a <x> hr incall/outcall?  Services I'd like are <list of services> .  My AW profile is <your AW profile ID>.  Thanks"

This gives the SP all the information she needs in one message, shows you know what and when you want and avoids the need for SMS or email tennis.  She should either come back with "yes,  please send a booking request", "no" or "no, but I can do <alternative date and time>".

It is usually a straightforward and quick process to sort out a booking.

[Beamer]

Hey all

Just want to throw this out there in case I'm doing something wrong or if this is a common problem.

I'm trying to get bookings so I email the girls on AW to see if they are 'active' and I ask where/when they are working, and often I get a positive reply. I then proceed to call them and they don't answer.

I try at different times to call them and sometimes I text them, but no answer. I feel like I've been blacklisted (but this isn't possible so I'm just being paranoid).

This has happened a lot! And the girls are usually reviewed well on AW and often on this site too.

Just wondering if this is the norm. Or maybe the girls just have too much business and can't be arsed putting any effort in.

Does it have to be this hard to get a booking? Used to be a time that I could email the girl the day before and then call on the day to confirm... seems that these new types (esp. the foreign ones) don't have a clue.

Having read some of your other posts I am seriously thinking that this is a wind up. 

[Littlefoot]

Don't make vague enquiries, Tell them what time you want to come along and how long you want to stay, then ask if they can see you. If they say yes, then confirm the services you require.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
This. 

[WASA38]

I  start by briefly complimenting them on their appearance or profile followed by an honest and rather unflattering  CV of myself. Then precise particulars of what I'm after. Not a lot of effort ;paste and copy from a master draft

 Despite my being a singularly unattractive proposition I get positive responses from about 80 - 90% .

[B4bcock]

I presume you're not witholding your number??

With a new meet, I always try calling them first.  If they answer we can both sound each other out and a few well-chosen comments can prove I am a genuine punter.   If they don't answer I immediately send a text, explaining I tried calling and enquiring about availability.  The missed call followed by a text again shows serious intent.   To be fair to them, most WG's I talk to tell me they get dozens of texts each day from time wasters, schoolboys, wankers etc. so they will often err on the side of caution.

[signy]

Texts are simple like "Hi are u working today?"

A quick look at the SAAFE website will tell you that WGs (at least on that site) hate this sort of text, especially using u instead of you. Have a read of their (endless) "how not to book an escort" thread and all might be clearer.

Many of the profiles on AW even tell you what information they like to receive in an email, which is usally the sort of stuff alluded to in an earlier post. Follow the instructions.
 

[freeze44]

Word on the street is the op is blacklisted but dont let him know as will get paranoid 

[tynetunnel]

Word on the street is the op is blacklisted but dont let him know as will get paranoid 

I thought we  agreed we wouldn’t mention that? 

[OakTree]

How hard can it be? I usually book on the day by phone or text and nine times out of ten I'm knocking on the door within 2 hours.

It really isn't rocket science. I want a fuck and I've got some cash, she wants the cash and she's willing to let me fuck her. You do have to wonder how some (perhaps the OP) communicate.

[deg_dilemma]

How hard can it be? I usually book on the day by phone or text and nine times out of ten I'm knocking on the door within 2 hours.

It really isn't rocket science. I want a fuck and I've got some cash, she wants the cash and she's willing to let me fuck her. You do have to wonder how some (perhaps the OP) communicate.

Except a lot of the time they don't answer the phone!

Got the point about texts. Will try with more complete/explicit messages.

[Rochelle]

Texts are simple like "Hi are u working today?"

IF I get a reply I might then ask "Can you tell me where you're working today?"

I wouldn't respond to that. You should be much more specific than that.

[Hobbit]

Piece of advice. Girls don't like "text speech". For example don't replace "you" for "U". And don't call them babe............. in fact, never call them that.

[millbush]

Piece of advice. Girls don't like "text speech". For example don't replace "you" for "U". And don't call them babe............. in fact, never call them that.

Despite nearly all of them calling me that.

[Hobbit]

Despite nearly all of them calling me that.

I thought only the common ones did that. 

[millbush]

I thought only the common ones did that. 

 

[whoya.kiddin]

I presume you're not witholding your number??

With a new meet, I always try calling them first.  If they answer we can both sound each other out and a few well-chosen comments can prove I am a genuine punter.   If they don't answer I immediately send a text, explaining I tried calling and enquiring about availability.  The missed call followed by a text again shows serious intent.   To be fair to them, most WG's I talk to tell me they get dozens of texts each day from time wasters, schoolboys, wankers etc. so they will often err on the side of caution.

This would be my answer too. 

I also find any attempt to qualify services and fees will significantly reduce my response rate.  The OP sounds like he may be trying to book in advance which I have abandoned in favour of 2 hours notice. 

[Hungarian Lover]

With these CE/EE girls I normally text or phone them and ask "if they are working" ( given that nine times out of ten they only have basic English that's normally good enough) won't say it works every time but if I don't get a reply I just try another off my list that I normally have with me.

[charlatan44]

If you are going after well reviewed girls then chances are they are getting lots of text so don't have time nor want to get involved in idle chat like 'Are you working'. Sounds like it would take 6-7 text exchanges before they know what you would want. As others have mentioned, I'd suggest being much more specific including how long you want, any specific requests, providing a day/time that you are available....

[scutty brown]

my messages are all simple texts, on the lines of:
"Are you free at 9pm for 1 hour? Is anal/owo/toe-sucking/xxx (choose your pervertion) OK? What street / postcode?
I only use texts, virtually never AW mail as in the main its a waste of time

Around 60% will get answers that make sense. The rest will come back with something stupid like
"Yes baby"         (without giving the address)
"How long for"  (I told them that in the text)
"What time you want to come" (I told them that as well)
I never bother answering those, if they are that thick in the head they're going to be a problem

Its also interesting that Romanian girls as a rule understand the question "What street?" but not "What road?"

[conrod]

Easiest solution to the problem. Do a RB.

[Punterenas]

The first girl I ever saw, now retired, told me that all a WG wants from a client in the first instance is what you want, when you want it and how long you want it for. That advice has not let me down yet.