Overnight etiquette?

[glasscentre2]

I will soon be booking a lady for an overnight outcall at my hotel. I've not done this before, so I wanted to ask - what is the accepted etiquette of do's and don'ts with such a booking?

[Bangers and Gash]

so I wanted to ask - what is the accepted etiquette of do's and don'ts with such a booking?

If you really must do an overnighter, only do it with a pro$$ie you've shagged before.

I think most gentlemans would agree that overnighters are a complete waste of money as you're paying a hoe to sleep (and snore, fart) half the night. But it's your money... 

[Sparquin]

If you really must do an overnighter, only do it with a pro$$ie you've shagged before.

I think most gentlemans would agree that overnighters are a complete waste of money as you're paying a hoe to sleep (and snore, fart) half the night. But it's your money... 

I agree with the sentiment. However I am also paying her to put up with my snoring and farting.

[smiths]

I will soon be booking a lady for an overnight outcall at my hotel. I've not done this before, so I wanted to ask - what is the accepted etiquette of do's and don'ts with such a booking?

Good advice from Bangers and Gash and I add VERY clearly agree with the WG what your expecting, for example do you want to fuck all night, in my view this really is essential, it avoids "misunderstandings" assuming the WG isn't a liar.

And use this site to locate good WGs.

[Bangers and Gash]

However I am also paying her to put up with my snoring and farting.

  She can always fan herself with a wad of your notes. 

I've done a couple of overnighters  and they're akin to throwing money onto a roaring fire - which is the reason why pro$$ies absolutely love doing them. Money for nothing, as the record goes..

[Bangers and Gash]

Congratulations on posting 100 reviews, Mr smiths. 

[Redhead Lover]

Yep, the definition of earn money while you sleep.

[Captain Caveman]

I've done overnights and I don't consider them a waste of money (obviously)

I am not paying for someone else to sleep - I am paying to sleep with someone else, there's a difference.

I agree you should only do it with someone you already know and already have several punts under your belt with. You're also be in a better position to negotiate on her regular overnight rates - I got anything from 33% to over 50% off.

Make sure you are both clear in advance on:

1) the length of time you are booking and start and finish times
2) how you'll spend the non-shagging time (going out for drinks, meal, strip club or staying in with a DVD, takeaway, Scrabble - whatever floats yer boat)
3) what you expect in terms of number of shagging sessions
4) this may sound silly but what she'll wear when she's asleep (ideally nothing or something flimsy that will allow your hands to stray into her pussy when you're spooning! Not some passion-killer or anything impenetrable)

I would pretty much expect morning sex to be included in an overnight - ideally followed by hopping into the shower together before having breakfast in bed.

Like anything in life, a bit of advanced planning pays dividends.

Have fun!

[Ben4454]

I assume you would be the one who is providing the refreshments and food unless the prossie is bringing a work lunch with her.

[cueball]

I assume you would be the one who is providing the refreshments and food unless the prossie is bringing a work lunch with her.

Ha ha, yes, she'll need to bring her flask and butties

[RNinePunter]

Has anyone ever had a good experience in terms of VFM with overnight? seems very rare... half the time she is probably on her phone or sleeping?

[Ben4454]

In my opinion overnights are not much value for money. You're better off having a working girl turn up intermittently throughout the night. For one overnight of £800 you can get on average 6 punts.

10am - Working girl one turns up and shags your brains out. 1 hour.
3pm - Working girl 2 turns up and shags your brains out.
10pm - Working girl 3 turns up and shags your brains out while having a drink. 2 hour
12pm - Working girl 4 turns up and you have a threesome. 1 hour
10AM - Working girl 5 turns up and shags your brains out for breakfast.

In this scenario you have cut out all of the fluffy unnecessary activities and maximized your punting time and plus given yourself some time to yourself.

[KennyMilkshake]

Okay, here are the essentials of a good overnight booking.

You think about what type of escort you want, and plan in detail what you want from the booking.

It all depends on if you will be going out to a theatre/Film, or just have a good mean and a drink back at hotel.

then you work out what sex you want!, how often, and from when till when, and you tell escorts what you will pay for that.

Sleep time is down to what you pay, I usually agree that a good 7 hours sleep is okay, so the escort is going to be able to take bookings for the next day, so the price I normally offer is £400, and that's from 7pm till about 11 am.

And that usually allows for plenty of time for sexual pleasure allowing for the meal and drinks time.

[Punting Valley]

so the price I normally offer is £400, and that's from 7pm till about 11 am.

How do you negotiate £400 for 16 hours?  Most of the girls seem to state their overnight rate on AW to be between £700-£1000 and that is only for 12 hours.

[berksboy]

How do you negotiate £400 for 16 hours?  Most of the girls seem to state their overnight rate on AW to be between £700-£1000 and that is only for 12 hours.

     Easy ! you ask them but only after you have seen them a good few times before . Get it right and a overnight can work out very good on the ££ per shag front.

     

[hendrix]

As somebody who does overnights frequently:

Rule number 1: NEVER with a prossie you've not had at least a couple of hours with before. It can work, but way too risky.
Rule number 2: There is no "etiquette" it's your money, you set the agenda and find a girl that will deliver.

They're only a waste of money "pay a prossie to sleep" etc..if YOU decide to play it that way. I think most people assume an overnight means dinner, drinks, a few shags in the hotel and then sleep. Of course, it can be that and each to their own .. But why should it be only that ? Use your imagination!   

[MeesterNeek]

     Easy ! you ask them but only after you have seen them a good few times before . Get it right and a overnight can work out very good on the ££ per shag front.

   

Completely agree with this approach - overnights are my preference usually 12hours of which 7 hours is "play time"  - this works out at less than £100'a hour with a good number of pops spread over the the time. The morning one is a particular highlight. 

[bensonhedges20]

As somebody who does overnights frequently:

Rule number 1: NEVER with a prossie you've not had at least a couple of hours with before. It can work, but way too risky.
Rule number 2: There is no "etiquette" it's your money, you set the agenda and find a girl that will deliver.

They're only a waste of money "pay a prossie to sleep" etc..if YOU decide to play it that way. I think most people assume an overnight means dinner, drinks, a few shags in the hotel and then sleep. Of course, it can be that and each to their own .. But why should it be only that ? Use your imagination!   

That's not entirely correct^^^

However be careful. Ensure you agree upfront and not after the girl has turned up.

Some girls value sleep. Others can sleep just 4 hours.
If a girl says she will sleep and you can wake her up to fuck her the chances of that are slim to none.

As for the price - 500-800 will get you a fair number of reverse bids.

Some pressies work early and will say that they need some sl eep. As do you.

I usually do this:
Meet up and round 1, dinner out at a restaurant, round 2, movie round 3. Sleep and round 4 in morning and round 5 before they leave.

Each round lasts around 30-60 minutes and usually they sleep from 4am till 9am.

One last thing:
You don't necessarily have to see the person before an overnight. There's plenty of working girls doing overnights on Aw at half the overnight rate who will do what I described above. I have had around 10 overnights in the last 2 years all with no prior meets

Request the services you like and ask her to bring toys etc. Make sure you let her know the duration from start to.finish

All taxi costs during that duration are paid for by the client, you pay for food and ddrinks too.

This format has worked for me and if it's first time meet request face pictures. Anyone not disclosing I would avoid.

[bensonhedges20]

I will soon be booking a lady for an overnight outcall at my hotel. I've not done this before, so I wanted to ask - what is the accepted etiquette of do's and don'ts with such a booking?

Also when meeting - let them know if your hotel has keyed lifts. Means you may need to collect them outside or in lobby.

[west8]

I assume you would be the one who is providing the refreshments and food unless the prossie is bringing a work lunch with her.

Yes - in the form of protein-rich cumshakes.

[NIK]

I will soon be booking a lady for an overnight outcall at my hotel. I've not done this before, so I wanted to ask - what is the accepted etiquette of do's and don'ts with such a booking?

I can give you an easy do and don't - don't! 

[NelsonH]

+1

i am usually bored with them after an hour or so.

[44Remington]

Only done one overnight before. Ended up eating pizza (which she insisted on paying for), singing and smoking weed all night, it was bloody fantastic.

So my experience of it won't really shed any light on the normal etiquette surrounding this sort of situation. But I would say that you shouldn't really do this sort of thing with a non-regular, after all you do end up spending a huge amount of money and 8-12 hours with them.

[carefree]

Not for me either.

Nobody pays me to sleep so i'll be fucked if i'm paying someone else to.

I'd rather pay for 2 or 3 different fit tarts to come to my room during the night, an hour each, than pay much more just for one, and once ive blown my load inside her I certainly dont want her lying next to me all night as i fart, scratch, burp and snore.

Nah, once ive shot my beans i couldnt be less interested.

Best of luck though

[Flunt]

Good timing on the thread. My view on overnights are 50/50, I have done two one good and one regrettable. For both it was the only time I've met them. I accept the argument that paying a pro$$ie to sleep sounds a little dumb but if you can get a good rate then you're paying for three punts and getting three pops. This time of year by the time you've turned up for an incall, warmed your hands and other bits half the time is gone, whereas with an overnight you have plenty of time to relax, enjoy round one, do whatever you want to do before round two, etc.

My advice would be to make sure you keep your strength up. The second one I had suggested a takeaway but never got round to it. Communication pre-booking is key as others have said, discussing eating, drinking, smoking and other basic functions are as important as the sexual activities, they are also a lot easier.

This brings me to my problem and a tag along to the thread. I have had three pro$$ies agree a rate for an overnight but on each occasion I have mentioned the sex part and what at discretion actually means I've been blown out. The first one was fine about it and it was a good night. The second was a bit last minute, I discovered during the booking she a veggie and enjoyed eating crisps and chocolate. I ended up in bed starving hungry with a hard on and she wasn't up for a shag. She had CIM (at discretion) on her profile and when I asked for it in the morning it was a very definite "No!"

How do you ask about services and suggest an itinerary for the night without sounding like a perv or time waster?

[sublimetoridiculous]

How do you ask about services and suggest an itinerary for the night without sounding like a perv or time waster?

Just ask, there is nothing pervy or time wasting about ensuring you will get what you are paying for. If they cannot understand that, then you probably don't want to see them.

That said, you cannot go into every detail. You can apply MoSCoW (Must, Should, Could, Would) principles like in Project Management. Decide what's on your Must list and make sure you are going to get at least that.

[Dani]

The best way is to explain you want an overnight but don't want any misunderstandings so wish to set out what you would like to happen in advance
Then write down what you want with rough timings.  I don't mean 9-10pm foreplay 10-10.30 sex etc.  I mean more  of

7-9ish mean and a drink then back to room
playtime for an hour or two. have a rest then play again
sleep from around 2am -6am
playtime
breakfast then play again

or however you see it going.  If you are putting sleep in there then ask for a reduction as some charge the same for sleep as for playing all night which is not really fair.  If you are going for around 6 hours of play all together offer her the 6hour rate

[squeezebox]

     Easy ! you ask them but only after you have seen them a good few times before . Get it right and a overnight can work out very good on the ££ per shag front.

   

My reg last year agreed to an overnight  for £300. I bought dinner and drinks from 8pm, had breakfast and left around 10am next morning. So total cost was £350 all in, excellent VFM. (advertised at £1000)

Filthy sex after dinner, she woke me in the night for more sex and before breakfast another seriously hot fuck.

She had already had bookings during the day, so my booking was the icing on the cake for her and I got sloppy thirds/fourths, but I wasn't complaining.

I wouldn't do another overnight though, and haven't been offered one since, that's cool as I prefer to stick to early morning sessions and spend the day in an afterglow of hot sex. 

[bensonhedges20]

Usually if you have an itinerary you will get a reply saying perfect, sounds like fun or I can only do such and such.

Everytime I have sent an itinerary or directed someone to a reverse booking if have gotten a good ratio of replies to messages sent.

You sound less of a ttimewaster if you send an itinerary and saves you playing email ping pong.

Provide an itinerary as clear as possible

Starts 8pm. Go for dinner at 9pm. Etc

[Flunt]

Just ask, there is nothing pervy or time wasting about ensuring you will get what you are paying for. If they cannot understand that, then you probably don't want to see them.

That said, you cannot go into every detail. You can apply MoSCoW (Must, Should, Could, Would) principles like in Project Management. Decide what's on your Must list and make sure you are going to get at least that.

The trouble is I'm beginning  to think I couldn't score in a brothel! Two of them had a list of "at discretion" next to all the enjoys. I said the FK and OWO were essentials amongst other things and she replied that she wasn't a robot and got stroppy, unfortunate as she looked nice. As you say it is probably better to discover they're not on the menu before you meet up. 

[KennyMilkshake]

You need to make it clear in your enquiry, there will be so may hours of uninterrupted sleep, and a meal and a drink (possably name the restaurant and find out what she drinks) so that she is comfortable and at ease.
Then describe your sexual needs that you would like her to take care of.

Its not a binding contract, or something that is set in stone, but if she knows what is expected from the outset, then she knows what is expected of her and should comply.

Make sure you are in no way saying you expect her to be your sexual object all the other hours, as smoke and down time to relax are required, maybe say you want DFK, oral, and cim in Morning as well as penetrative sex, and at the first punt, and would like some dfk and oral late on in the evening before going to sleep.

Though word it whats best for you, and what you want, its easier for the escort as well so they know what pleases you and what is expected....any escort worth her salt will want you to walk away happy and consider a re-booking.

[nikmeister]

i had to create an account to write about my overnight experience and what i did before the booking,
i found a wg whose asking rate was £800, now i had never met her before this meeting,

i called her and told her what i wanted in a brief few sentences i.e. overnight booking on sunday etc.

She then replied back by text asking me to email her what i wanted from her in terms of clothing and fantasies.
Then she called me back and said if i do overnight booking, she will pay for the hotel (i was out of country so hadn't found one yet).
after a few email and phone calls over the next few hours i tried my luck and asked her i will book the room (costing around £200 pn as it was a penthouse suite and i do not like sleeping in anything less than 4*) but her fee will be £600, and she surprisingly agreed,

i sent her emails of some outfits i wanted her to wear and infact she went out and bought a few, and also allowed me to do a few things that were not on her enjoys list i.e. being filmed, CIM, swallow.

Now it may seem £600 + £200 is the same amount no difference, but i had struck up an agreement with her for 10pm to check out time of 2pm, thats 16 hours for £800 so around £50 per hour. out of which we only slept for around 5/6 hours. now obviously we didnt have sex for the remaining hours, those were all sorts of things from watching a movie to breakfast in bed, taking a shit long bath together etc.

I was fortunate to get this wg because she was not busy and had no other appointments 3 days before and after mine so i didnt get sloppy seconds.

Overall i think it comes down to your bargaining skills and communications, you need to make it clear that you are in the driving seat as to what happens during the overnight and not her.

[oring123]

Best to alway have 30 min or 60 min booking before you book for over nite as it may just not work out very good on a first meeting !

[serialpunter65]

I've just done a deal for a week's holiday in the US for £1.5K. Okay, I pay for the flights and the hotel etc. but if I was married I would do that anyway. If you do the arithmetic it's £9 an hour - who else has booked a prossie for (almost) "living wage"? 

[pking_paul]

I have to agree that seeing a WG for the first time for an overnighter is a bit dodgy and down to luck if it works out.

Its a long time if you don't fancy her 100 per cent 

[Acerimmer]

Make sure you are both on the same page, agree a start and finish time, and talk to her about what you expect from the evening, if you want to be up all night shagging then make sure she isn't expecting to be asleep by 11pm. And let her know you want a morning fuck before she goes, you may think this should be happening, she probably just want to go home.

And only do an overnight with a woman you have met before.

[oring123]

I have had different start and finish times quoted
All a overnight  but some take the piss beware
7pm to 7am
11pm to 5am