Can't cum much

[Citybased]

I am 60 but still fit, a non drinker and smoker...I get hardish with help when with the ladies and when wanking to porn but find it difficult to cum now especially with a women...when wanking I can cum but produce only small amounts of jizz and the intensity of the orgasm is much diminished...is this my age? Any tips to turn back time?
I sometime use the blue pill which of course gets me hard quicker and easier than if I don't but still cannot reach that point of no return even if wanking over a woman....I can cum when watching porn...physiological problem perhaps?

[daviemac]

See your doctor, it may be an enlarged prostate.

[Citybased]

Yikes.....thanks for that...Google time first me thinks

[satyromaniac]

Have you ever tried edging your orgasm?
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I always do this wether I’m wanking or fucking. It feels amazing when I finally cum and I always produce a huge load.
Also maybe try laying off the amount of wanking you do or still wank but hold back from cumming completely.
A friend of mine visits a Chinese medicine shop where he gets natural herbs that he swears have helped raise his libido, improved his erections and the amount of cum he produces. Iv yet to try it myself as I don’t feel I need too yet. 

[Citybased]

...I don't think it's a problem with enlarged prostate as I have no issues with peeing and none of the symptoms around this function...

[Waterhouse]

Yikes.....thanks for that...Google time first me thinks

I'd advise against this - there are far too many misleading articles and posts out there written and submitted by clueless hypochondriacs, and it's far too easy to 'make' your symptoms fit all manner of conditions.  By all means check out NHS.com but really you ought to talk to your GP first.  They've heard it all before and are by far are in the best position to give advice on this.

[Citybased]

Thanks for this...edging when wanking is something I like to yes it does improve results all round.
I would love to know more about the Chinese medicine herb..does anyone know the name?

Have you ever tried edging your orgasm?
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I always do this wether I’m wanking or fucking. It feels amazing when I finally cum and I always produce a huge load.
Also maybe try laying off the amount of wanking you do or still wank but hold back from cumming completely.
A friend of mine visits a Chinese medicine shop where he gets natural herbs that he swears have helped raise his libido, improved his erections and the amount of cum he produces. Iv yet to try it myself as I don’t feel I need too yet. 

[Derrick101]

And, The one piece of advice that seems to crop up on all similar threads, is, cut out the porn, and stop wanking 

Also, keep well hydrated. 

[Itsnotshy]

My bet is it's the wanking, I wank a lot, one hell of a lot and have the same problem. Called delayed ejaculation.

[Citybased]

But but but...porn and wanking are so much fun lol....

 

And, The one piece of advice that seems to crop up on all similar threads, is, cut out the porn, and stop wanking 

Also, keep well hydrated. 

[Citybased]

My bet is it's the wanking, I wank a lot, one hell of a lot and have the same problem. Called delayed ejaculation.

Is wanking twice a day too much? Although I am down to once a day at present...

[Itsnotshy]

Is wanking twice a day too much? Although I am down to once a day at present...

Probably too much at 60. But who am I to criticize I tend to edge for a couple of hours before cumming, although I usually have a couple of days off a week.
The new age verification on porn coming in soon should help, as I'll be buggered if I'll enter my card details on pornhub.

[The Owl]

Abstain from wanking. A pussy is never going to offer you the death grip your hand does.

[Thecunninglinguist]

The chances are it's just age related. I am over 70 and volume has decreased considerably over the last few years and viscosity increased. I have recently had a PSA test etc and my prostate seems reasonable for my age. If you have not been tested recently a check on your prostate is a good idea for all middle aged and older men, so l would certainly get tested. This does not include prostate attention by some fit young Thai/Chinese masseuse. That doesn't count but might make for an interesting second opinion 

[Al Reet]

I’ve had problems with diminishing volume, although everything checked out ok health-wise.

Not saying you or anyone else should definitely try this and I’d always recommend getting checked out medically first but in case it’s of interest I read somewhere about taking Lecithin supplements. I tried taking them for about a week before a meet and found it worked for me, probably doubling the volume. There didn’t seem to be any negative side effects but YMMV on both counts so proceed with caution.

[Happylad]

Where any problems concerning the prostate are concerned you should always seek proper medical advice. An enlarged prostate usually results in urinary problems, but there can be others.  However, if it is prostate, better to obtain attention while the prostate can still be treated (shelled) rather than completely removed.  Removal of the prostate usually results in complete loss of sexual ability -no erection - but if it can be shelled (i.e. the shell left in place but all the innards removed by laser) the ability to obtain/maintain an erection still survives but there is no ejaculation of either lubrication or semen.  As my young regular put it "All the fun of a fuck but no mess in the vagina".

When I was 78 I had a similar problem to the OP, accompanied by need for over-frequent peeing, and finished up having my prostate shelled.  As the nurse was removing the tube from my urethra the day after the operation I had an erection immediately, and after allowing a couple of weeks recovery time I was able to get back in the saddle (so to speak), and to my surprise I found that I was able to fuck for 3 or 4 times as long as previously before I had to orgasm - I won`t say "cum" because although I had all the contractions and spasms and pumping sensation as before there was absolutely no emission whatever.  I was still able to continue my sex life very satisfactorily until I reached 88 when first a broken hip, then cancer caused my retirement from action.

[A Decent Fist]

I'm coming up to 63 years of age and the volume of my semen (from wanking or with my GF) has slowly diminished over the years. I have to abstain for three or four days to get more than a few drops. I had a vasectomy in my late 30s – not sure if that makes any difference or not.

However, when I have a really good punt and I'm aroused to high heaven by a sweet young thing, I cum a hell of a lot more. No idea what the physical mechanism for that is, but it happens regularly.

[Happylad]

I was going to add (until I pressed the wrong key) that I noticed about 4 years ago that I was starting to get slight emissions again when I wanked, and these increased as time progressed; my doctor told me this was quite normal, and that when a prostate had been shelled it would slowly regenerate to the point where full emissions would again be possible - but a bit too late for me.

[s0whatsnew?]

I’ve had problems with diminishing volume, although everything checked out ok health-wise.

Not saying you or anyone else should definitely try this and I’d always recommend getting checked out medically first but in case it’s of interest I read somewhere about taking Lecithin supplements. I tried taking them for about a week before a meet and found it worked for me, probably doubling the volume. There didn’t seem to be any negative side effects but YMMV on both counts so proceed with caution.

I'm 70, have had peeing probs for some years, solved by the lecithin in just half a brazil nut per day.  I'd not heard, tho, about lecithin for sexual performance.  Probably unwise to up the intake of Brazils, apparently they're potentially fatal in high doses.   

[scutty brown]

Keep on wanking
just remember, your prostate won't wear out, but it sure will as hell gum up if you don't use it.
and anyway, evidence suggests that daily ejaculation reduces the risk of prostate enlargement

but the key thing is, see your GP.........prostate problems do not always cause reduced urine flow

[mr.bluesky]

It's probably down to your age. I thought it was a well known fact that the older you get the less spunk your body produces. I remember from my early punting days when I was in my twenties I could easily cum twice in a hour and have enough to fill a tablespoon now in my later years I usually manage to only cum once and now could only fill a teaspoon. Father time catches up with us all eventually. Luckily enough never had a problen getting it up though just takes a bit longer to shoot my load (which isn't a bad thing)   

[A Decent Fist]

I was still able to continue my sex life very satisfactorily until I reached 88 when first a broken hip, then cancer caused my retirement from action.

Well done for making it that far! How old are you now?

I'm curious to know if you still get the urge, even if you don't have the physical capability. And if not, is there any sense of relief in that? Kingsley Amis was famously grateful for his declining libido. At a much younger age than you (he died at 73), he said: "For 50 years it was like being chained to an idiot."

[Home Alone]

I surely can't be the only lapsed Catholic on here who attributes this problem, in part at least, to the attitude of my very old-fashioned parents, can I?

Unlike Kingsley Amis, I'd much rather be like SirJohn Betjeman who, when asked shortly before his death if he had any major regrets about his life, is said to have said, "Not enough sex!"

[B4bcock]

I surely can't be the only lapsed Catholic on here who attributes this problem, in part at least, to the attitude of my very old-fashioned parents, can I?

Unlike Kingsley Amis, I'd much rather be like SirJohn Betjeman who, when asked shortly before his death if he had any major regrets about his life, is said to have said, "Not enough sex!"

A survey of elderly people was carried out a few years ago and one of the questions was about anything they regretted not doing in their lives.    The most popular response by far from both sexes was that they wished they had enjoyed more sex when they were younger.

I don't intend to enter old age without some hot memories to remember, wishing I had punted when I had the chance and before it was too late.

[Hungarian Lover]

At 66 I'm having similar problems with a definite reduction of cum and sensation, nothing lasts for ever so I'm just facing facts that I'm wearing out. On one of my recent punts all was going well and getting near a successful conclusion when it was like someone had flicked a switch and suddenly my penis went limp, never happened before. I think personally and reading other comments on here that using a blue pill prevents the ability to cum as easily and obviously many years of wanking to porn dosen't help' plus wearing a rubber makes for a lack of sensitivity, it's been so long that I've had sex without a condom that I can't  really remember what the sensation was like! 

[Marmalade]

At 60 it would be surprising if a chap was spraying masses of spunk all over the place.

ps if it’s a common problem, assuming you are still enjoying punting with prossies, tell her in advance that you don’t always come. It’ll take the pressure off you and (if she’s any good) give her a bit of a challenge.

[Itsnotshy]

ps if it’s a common problem, assuming you are still enjoying punting with prossies, tell her in advance that you don’t always come. It’ll take the pressure off you and (if she’s any good) give her a bit of a challenge.

Good advice, it's what I do every time and the girls are cool with it and makes for a more relaxing time. Sex is about far more than just a pop shot.

[Citybased]

Wow gents thanks for the many replies and great advice....FYI today I tried edging whilst viewing xhamster videos and had a lovely two hour play before finally allowing myself to reach the point of no return, well tbh it was the sight of a chap recording himself spraying his girlfriend and another girls face after tons of lead up fun, that sent me over the edge...now there's one for my bucket list lol anyway I digress, the bottom line was an increased sensation on climax with a slight increase of quantity...it certainly didn't dribble out but equally I didn't splash my chin/chest like the old days...so edging certainly helped...now to investigate those Lecithin supplements recommended in an earlier post...when I have a session with the ladies these days I mention that I don't come quickly or indeed every time and this does help make for a more relaxed meet, in fact I tend to need to wank myself to orgasm more times than having the lady take me over the edge, regardless of if I am being sucked, wanked or fucking by the women...and don't get me started on condoms, can't remember when I last managed to cum wearing one...keeping an erection is tough enough!

[Redpunter]

Are you on any other regular medication?

[Citybased]

Are you on any other regular medication?

No, never have been

[Redpunter]

Lucky man lots of us are living on pills with all sorts of sexual related side effects hope you get sorted and back to a normal punting life.

[tynetunnel]

Good advice, it's what I do every time and the girls are cool with it and makes for a more relaxing time. Sex is about far more than just a pop shot.

Definitely true. Marmalade gives good advice, tell the WG and she’ll be understanding and/or challenged!

[Logamimo]

Now I'm in my sixties and single I don't give a toss any more so I'm going to fuck as many women of all nationalities as I can while I can still get it up. 

[Home Alone]

Now I'm in my sixties and single I don't give a toss any more I'm going to fuck as many women of all nationalities as I can while I can still get it up. 

Some of us may think that's too much information, Logamimo!! 

[Citybased]

Yes the clock is ticking for us all...but when you reach 50/60s you start to think right take the chance and have fun while you still can....my ambition is to die ideally at point of orgasm with a lovely young lady helping...we arrived that way after all, kinda.
As an update, since starting this post all your helpful comments and views have reassured me and last night and this morning I have had 3 lovely sessions with my OH, no problem with getting and keeping an erection which was good. Still didn't cum through intercourse and being stroked but that's ok .....for now lol

[Citybased]

Go for it 

Now I'm in my sixties and single I don't give a toss any more so I'm going to fuck as many women of all nationalities as I can while I can still get it up. 

[Doc Holliday]

....my ambition is to die ideally at point of orgasm with a lovely young lady helping...

Great for you maybe but spare a thought for the poor girl 

Makes for a great story at your funeral wake though "Did you hear how he went" 

[Third Man]

Tbh I can't recall a time when I ever produced loads. I'm sixty plus now, and I don't see much difference, or maybe I've just forgotten. A facial from me hardly deserves the term.

[Citybased]

Oh dear that is a shame....When I see other men's efforts online I have to say I am impressed and can remember getting close to matching that quality...although there are some fake shots on the net....usually American it seems...no surprise there lol

Tbh I can't recall a time when I ever produced loads. I'm sixty plus now, and I don't see much difference, or maybe I've just forgotten. A facial from me hardly deserves the term.

[Citybased]

Lol yes and the reply to your wake question might be 'cum again' from someone hard of hearing

Great for you maybe but spare a thought for the poor girl 

Makes for a great story at your funeral wake though "Did you hear how he went" 

[scutty brown]

Yes the clock is ticking for us all...but when you reach 50/60s you start to think right take the chance and have fun while you still can....my ambition is to die ideally at point of orgasm with a lovely young lady helping...we arrived that way after all, kinda.....................................

There's a girl in Blackpool who has had three punters die on her........I can try to find if she's still working if you're interested. She's a barebacking needle user though so could be a risk

[Citybased]

Cheers but please don't bother, two reasons...I am not for popping my clogs just yet and second you didn't really sell her to me...

There's a girl in Blackpool who has had three punters die on her........I can try to find if she's still working if you're interested. She's a barebacking needle user though so could be a risk

[scutty brown]

Cheers but please don't bother, two reasons...I am not for popping my clogs just yet and second you didn't really sell her to me...

just in case you change your mind
also known as Lexi, Lexilicious, Sexy Bare Lexi

She's been away for a while (hate to think where) but she's back at the Central Drive brothel in Blackpool

Back to her old name of Electra
Barebacking needle using junkie, with schizoid bipolar personality
FFS avoid

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[Home Alone]

She's a barebacking needle user though so could be a risk

That sounds like the understatement of the year, scutty!

[scutty brown]

That sounds like the understatement of the year, scutty!

but if you're going to die in  her bed anyway...........

[scutty brown]

just in case you change your mind
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[egamar]

Are you taking:

- Blood pressure meds?
- Statins?
- Antidepressants?

Certainly the last ones are known to have an effect on orgasm - anorgasmia; you ejeculate but the senstation is much diminished.  The (all too common at our age) BP meds can cause problems with erections and general fluid balance in the body. Stains are generally thought to be side-effect free, but nothing is for everyone.

[londonroad]

I am a mature punter. Blue pill ensures keep firm but as others have said does make cumming ‘harder’. I like to try and tell the girl but that conversation does rather dampen the excitement. I find lots of water, blue berries, pumpkin seeds and water melon all seem to help. Also I guess pre sex booze does not help the performance. I try and keep fit and keep weight down. However, I am trying to teach myself not to worry about too much about cumming and just enjoy a long session. As earlier poster said get the girl to work harder!  Certainly having to wear a condom reduces my ability to cum inside a pussy. I guess in years to come an alternative to condoms will be developed- be too late for us mature punters.
 When I was younger I would cum too quickly and took a while to reload if been out on the booze. I guess our bodies changing is a fact of life. Still I am determined to have as much as sex as possible before get too old. 😊

[Happylad]

Well done for making it that far! How old are you now?

I'm curious to know if you still get the urge, even if you don't have the physical capability. And if not, is there any sense of relief in that? Kingsley Amis was famously grateful for his declining libido. At a much younger age than you (he died at 73), he said: "For 50 years it was like being chained to an idiot."

I`m now (just) 89, and YES! I most certainly still get the urge, and I discovered a few weeks ago that a bit of decent porn still produces the feeling of stiffness inside the Y Fronts, resulting in a `half mast` flagpole, but (Strangely?) it can still be wanked to produce a half-hearted orgasm and a dribble of cum as the prostate which was shelled 10 years ago slowly regenerates and comes back to life.

So I keep hoping that what they say about the `old dog` is going to apply in my case also.

[threechilliman]

I`m now (just) 89, and YES! I most certainly still get the urge, and I discovered a few weeks ago that a bit of decent porn still produces the feeling of stiffness inside the Y Fronts, resulting in a `half mast` flagpole, but (Strangely?) it can still be wanked to produce a half-hearted orgasm and a dribble of cum as the prostate which was shelled 10 years ago slowly regenerates and comes back to life.

So I keep hoping that what they say about the `old dog` is going to apply in my case also.

A legend!