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Offline Nic Fit

Did you guys ever do this ?

I mean if you did it was it a genuine girl like from an ad, or you were just being scammed?

It is a very unusual request for me, I saw one super hot young girl, and she is asking for £50 deposit.

most profiles now asking for deposits, me personally no, I will never pay a deposit

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Usually try to avoid girls that charge deposit.

Was asked by Skyler McKay to pay a deposit for PSE, never had to do this before in previous bookings with the same girl. Maybe because she has to prepare for anal? I don't know. Anyway, the booking was fantastic and she said she wouldn't make me pay a deposit next time, it was just because she hadn't saved my number from before.

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most profiles now asking for deposits, me personally no, I will never pay a deposit

Most? I don't agree with this.

Offline JontyR

Judging by the technological difficulties displayed in the donation thread most wouldn’t be able how to pay one anyway!

Offline Home Alone

Some profiles now asking for deposits, me personally no, I will never pay a deposit

Corrected for you. :hi:

Offline Jerk Chicken

I am not against deposits per se. My view on deposits is this.

If you’re going to do one because in your view she is so hot and your desperate to get in her knickers limit it to £50 max.

Accept it may not happen and don’t start crying on here if you never hear from her again. Think of it as a bad horse selection down at your local bookie :D

I am a tight VFM cunt when it comes to my hard earned.

If my online credentials ain’t good enough to secure access to your paid pussy when booking I simply move on.

Have never paid a deposit and never will.

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Offline Atlas1957

I don't want to encourage deposits because I don't like them, but many of us have very recently had some experience using "A vouchers" to anonymously pass money on to UKP.  You could in theory do the same with an SP to keep your bank details nice and safe.

Offline Hobbit

Any girl asking for a deposit I would tell to fuck off. No need for a deposit.

Offline Rochelle

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I mention it on my profile. My deposit requests have varied from £20 to almost £300. It just depends on the circumstances.

Offline Bangers and Gash

Never. It may be legit but there are too many tales of punters being ripped off to take the risk.

I'm dead set against paying deposits as they reek of a scam. Many moons ago I tested the water (for research purposes and to prove I'm always right)  and guess what...  :lol:

Slightly surprising because she had over 1000 positive feedbacks on AW.  :rolleyes:

Moral of the story: Trust no-one where money is concerned - it brings out the worst in people.  :thumbsup:

Offline JontyR

I paid a deposit once. £20 via an adultwork purchase. She was an escort who also did cam work. It was late, options were limited,  and she was up for an outcall....if there was a deposit made as she would have missed out on cam income.

The amount (her idea) proved I was genuine, allowed for neg feedback if I was going to mess her about (and vice versa). She turned up and we had a nice time. And a few more nice times over a few years.

It's strange looking back, I wouldn't do it today, or indeed have an outcall but that shows how situations and considerations change.

Offline JayEZ2K

I paid a deposit once. £20...It was late, options were limited,  and she was up for an outcall...
A small deposit to cover cab fare for an outcall is fine. But DEPOSITS FOR INCALLS MAKE ZERO LOGICAL SENSE. I hope everyone will realize this, because there are many, many reports of deposit scams on here with each person kicking themselves every time for their own stupidity.

Offline Brokenshed

My experience, doesn't matter how well you know an escort, even if you've been to her house, know where she lives, met the dogs and the husband,  know her real name and seen her for years. Don't pay in advance.
Some of these girls lead complicated lives, paying up front is too risky. The complications take over.This happened before I joined this group and the woman has no long disappeared.
Listen to others , Dont do it.

Offline MrBeano

nope never done this and never will, its easiest way to lose it, also as soon as they ask for a deposit i would move away and not waste anymore time with them.

Offline Jimmyredcab

The bottom line is that if you want to see some providers, especially in the domination scene you will have to pay a deposit, it’s not negotiable.
The reason is very simple, they get too many no shows and may end up turning down bookings because of time wasters.

Offline FlatEarther

Have been scammed twice on deposits for outcalls.  Fool me once...
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Offline Jimmyredcab

Have been scammed twice on deposits for outcalls.  Fool me once...

I refer the honourable member to my previous comment.  :hi: :hi: :hi:

Offline FlatEarther

I refer the honourable member to my previous comment.  :hi: :hi: :hi:

Yes was more having a go at myself about it. I can see it from the other side too. But how do u know? One of the SPs that scammed me was a relatively new adultwork account but the other was a longstanding aw with plenty of feedback and was on a fairly well known agency. I might see if she has any feedback here if I can remember what name(s) she went under. I've had a few adultwork logins and it's not on my current one. I guess if they have a few decent feedbacks on here it's safeish. But like I say after being scammed twice (the only times I ever paid a deposit) I personally wouldn't.
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Offline spiralnotebook

It’ll all be academic when the government eventually get their way with cashless payments.

How much for a blow job? Two cucumbers a dozen eggs and mow the lawn hon?

Offline FlatEarther

It’ll all be academic when the government eventually get their way with cashless payments.

How much for a blow job? Two cucumbers a dozen eggs and mow the lawn hon?
yeh surprised more sps not accepting crypto, especially with current boom
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Offline Straightsix

The Nigerians are now picking up on escort deposit scams. Asking for amazon vouchers and bank transfers to 'metro' bank. Ad platform 'Locanto'....stay clear.
« Last Edit: January 01, 2021, 12:18:57 pm by Straightsix »
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Offline Jimmyredcab

Yes was more having a go at myself about it. I can see it from the other side too. But how do u know? One of the SPs that scammed me was a relatively new adultwork account but the other was a longstanding aw with plenty of feedback and was on a fairly well known agency. I might see if she has any feedback here if I can remember what name(s) she went under. I've had a few adultwork logins and it's not on my current one. I guess if they have a few decent feedbacks on here it's safeish. But like I say after being scammed twice (the only times I ever paid a deposit) I personally wouldn't.

I have only paid deposits with well established women in the domination scene who have their own website, it’s not worth their while to steal a £50 deposit because they would soon get exposed on forums like this.
I would not pay a deposit to someone who just advertises on Adultwork.

Offline Horizontal pleasures

I have only paid deposits with well established women in the domination scene who have their own website, it’s not worth their while to steal a £50 deposit because they would soon get exposed on forums like this.
I would not pay a deposit to someone who just advertises on Adultwork.

nor will you leave a deposit, as your last reviews were 2015 and 2018 unless you change your tactics?

Offline Jimmyredcab

nor will you leave a deposit, as your last reviews were 2015 and 2018 unless you change your tactics?

The last time I read one of your reviews I was unable to eat for 24 hours, never again.     :hi: :hi:

Offline Lou2019

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nor will you leave a deposit, as your last reviews were 2015 and 2018 unless you change your tactics?

perhaps he was in a relationship from 2018 up until now? Or even suffering ill health

Offline smiths

Very simple for me, I would NEVER pay a deposit in punting and don't book WGs who ask for one as they wouldn't get it so it would be a waste of my time.

IF a WG who you paid a deposit to fucks you over you may well have a hard job getting the money back. IMO its utter madness to pay a deposit in punting but that's for others to decide of course, its strictly pay the WG in person when I meet her for me.

Offline adindas

most profiles now asking for deposits, me personally no, I will never pay a deposit

Like other members have said the statement that "most profiles now asking for deposit" is defenitely not true.

Unless you know her from the previous visit, you are more likely to get scam doing this. You might be ok; nothing happens but why take the chance if you could easily avoid it. Advance fee, is one of the oldest ways of scamming people.
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Advance fee, payment is justifiable only if is there is an actual cost incur. The things like builders need to buy materials in advanced, as otherwise they might not be able to effort it using his own money.

In ounting world, apart from their time what cost will incur here. Some punters might not turn up but it is also the other way with punter. You might go there and she just not there, takes another person or just do not let you in. In the case the damage is even more to punter as you have been wasting your time for traveling.
« Last Edit: January 01, 2021, 04:44:28 pm by adindas »

Offline Jimmyredcab



Advance fee, payment is justifiable only if is there is an actual cost incur.

OK, my final attempt to explain.   :hi:

Suppose a dominatrix has expensive premises in Kensington, because of the Covid situation she is only taking two bookings every day, she takes her two bookings and they turn out to be no shows, that day she has taken nothing.

I am talking about well established providers not the fly by nights you get on Adultwork.

Offline smiths

Like other members have said the statement that "most profiles now asking for deposit" is defenitely not true.

Unless you know her from the previous visit, you are more likely to get scam doing this. You might be ok; nothing happens but why take the chance if you could easily avoid it. Advance fee, is one of the oldest ways of scamming people.
External Link/Members Only

Advance fee, payment is justifiable only if is there is an actual cost incur. The things like builders need to buy materials in advanced, as otherwise they might not be able to effort it using his own money.

In ounting world, apart from their time what cost will incur here. Some punters might not turn up but it is also the other way with punter. You might go there and she just not there, takes another person or just do not let you in. In the case the damage is even more to punter as you have been wasting your time for traveling.

Indeed, if I booked a WG based in Glasgow to come and see me in London I imagine she would want me to pay her train fare at least, the thing is I wouldn't book such a WG in the first place to get into that scenario. The risk of getting fucked over however high or low that risk is isn't worth it to me.

Offline Horizontal pleasures

The last time I read one of your reviews I was unable to eat for 24 hours, never again.     :hi: :hi:

ooh that must have been a report about an exciting occasion. Maybe you can use it as an excuse to lose weight? I like to get down and dirty when I punt and write realistic reports.

Offline Bhamguy

Ist post so bear with me
Was asked to pay £30 deposit  with a couple I was going to meet for a 3 sum said think about it then had a message of her saying if I paid in full  with a bank transfer I'd get an extra hour free  as she cud buy some hugs on line if I paid before  1pm thought about it and thought no way

Offline s0whatsnew?

Asking for Rainforest vouchers and bank transfers to 'metro' bank. 

Whats wrong with Metro Bank?   At least they're open late !

Offline Straightsix

Whats wrong with Metro Bank?   At least they're open late !

I'd never heard of them until he mentioned it!
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Offline Trotter671

Never have and never will - thankfully not been asked, if I was asked it would be a polite No and book another lass.

Offline Blind Git

Never have and never will - thankfully not been asked, if I was asked it would be a polite No and book another lass.

yeah, same for me, i've filtered a few to my AW blacklist when they state they want a deposit, just so i don't see them in search results
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Offline Jimmyredcab

I'd never heard of them until he mentioned it!

Metro bank was established in 2010, it’s quoted on the stock exchange and covered by the compensation scheme should it ever get into trouble.  :hi:

Offline adindas

I'd never heard of them until he mentioned it!

If you are punting frequently in Eurozone areas such as going to FKK or Partytreffs in Germany or traveling to Spain, getting Metro Bank Current A/C with Metro Bank debit card is one of the best ways to get Euro currency as it is zero fee and you get the Mastercard exchange rate.
« Last Edit: January 02, 2021, 10:59:45 pm by adindas »

Offline dario

I did it and it worked out very well.

Saw a girl on adultwork who lives in sutton. Paid 50 percent upfront and the rest at the hotel. Shes discreet so cant name her but in the group on AW london saphires.

Guess I was lucky.
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Offline daviemac

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I did it and it worked out very well.

Saw a girl on adultwork who lives in sutton. Paid 50 percent upfront and the rest at the hotel. Shes discreet so cant name her but in the group on AW london saphires.

Guess I was lucky.
Why are you posting about someone you aren't prepared to name, this is not the way the site works, we share information for the benefit of others.

Someone else could find her but say fuck that when she asks for a deposit then miss out on a good punt just because you've kept info to yourself.

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Why are you posting about someone you aren't prepared to name, this is not the way the site works, we share information for the benefit of others.

Someone else could find her but say fuck that when she asks for a deposit then miss out on a good punt just because you've kept info to yourself.

He’s obviously a troll looking at his posts... really adds no value

Offline mrgluon

For a straight forward incall I wouldn't consider it. But I have paid a small deposit (~£20) in the past for outcalls. Just need to do your research, if it's a new profile then no chance but if they are established and been going for a while it's unlikely they'd try and scam you out of a small deposit vs their reputation.

Offline daviemac

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I did it and it worked out very well.

Saw a girl on adultwork who lives in sutton. Paid 50 percent upfront and the rest at the hotel. Shes discreet so cant name her but in the group on AW london saphires.

Guess I was lucky.
You need to name this escort. She's on AW so she openly advertises. If you won't name her I can only assume you are a bullshitting fantasist.

Offline Steve2

If you are punting frequently in Eurozone areas such as going to FKK or Partytreffs in Germany or traveling to Spain, getting Metro Bank Current A/C with Metro Bank debit card is one of the best ways to get Euro currency as it is zero fee and you get the Mastercard exchange rate.

Starling bank offers the same zero fees. Both excellent banks. Starling is online only but AFAIK cheques can be paid in by post

Offline FlatEarther

Starling bank offers the same zero fees. Both excellent banks. Starling is online only but AFAIK cheques can be paid in by post

Monzo is similar and app based
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Offline Yoda316

most profiles now asking for deposits, me personally no, I will never pay a deposit

Ive never been asked for deposit once off 10+meets

Do you have feedback as some wg ask for deposit off new profiles or no feedback
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Offline Blind Git

I did it and it worked out very well.

Saw a girl on adultwork who lives in sutton. Paid 50 percent upfront and the rest at the hotel. Shes discreet so cant name her but in the group on AW london saphires.

Guess I was lucky.

Someone on AW doesn't like them, probably a pissed off ex-member of the group, these comments were posted in the shout-out box on the AW forums back in the summer....

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justsomeoneonadultwork: FAYE who owns london sapphires and london gems us an outright bully!  25 Jun 15:24

justsomeoneonadultwork: I you try to leave London Sapphires not only do they take all of the content off your profile, wipe your credits and pocket them, they then also try to charge you for "training" (if that what they call it) MY ADVICE TO ANYONE IS TO AVOID LONDON GEMS AND LONDON SAPPHIRES AT ALL COSTS!!!  25 Jun 15:23

justsomeoneonadultwork: BE WARNED LONDON SAPPHIRES AND LONDON GEMS ARE ACTUALLY OWNED BY A COUPLE!!!! they are run both as poorly as the other!!!!!  25 Jun 15:22


as for the deposit thing, yeah you need to name the model, it's a public escort profile not like you're supplying anything private, this may be a single girls policy or it maybe the whole group.... but, it should be posted.
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Offline Tomcat

Never ever pay a deposit to an WG ad.

Offline smiths

Ive never been asked for deposit once off 10+meets

Do you have feedback as some wg ask for deposit off new profiles or no feedback

In hundreds of punts I have very rarely been asked for a deposit but I do avoid any WG who states she wants one on her profile though.

To me its simple basic common sense, I don't pay deposits in punting, its a no brainer.

Offline CMiller

I don't pay a deposit. No exceptions.

If refusing to pay a deposit means I don't get the booking, so be it. I can find someone else who won't ask for one.