How many visits before they tell you their real name ?

[joe diddley]

Err that's two girls you've mention on this thread who've retired after meetings with you.  Do you think they've told you the whole truth?

He he! Not immediately after meetings with me and I had been regulars for both for a little while before they hung up their thongs. I think retirements of my former WGs are getting relatively more common now simply because I've been punting a fairly long time now and because most girls, even the best of them, don't regard hooking as a career for life.

[Silver Birch]

One wg told me her real name at the end our first meeting. I think she was fairly new and the punt was in her home. She was careless with her mail and there were letters on the side with her name on. I was inexperienced myself otherwise I would have mentioned that she should be more discreet, but she told me her name anyway!

I wish she hadn't told me as next time I met her, I didn't actually know which name to use 

I have seen mail lying on a few doorsteps, and even been handed letters by the postman as I was leaving one punt.

Knowing real names is of absolutely no interest to me and I really don't get why some punters see this as some kind of trophy 

[cueball]

some punters see this as some kind of trophy 

That sums it up perfectly imo..... to some, it's a deluded trophy 

[Silver Birch]

Doesnt worry me, but I do tend to use my real first name as Im shit at pretence 

Do you introduce yourself, "Hi, I'm Hungry"? 

[bearcat69]

A lot of hostility on this thread, the truth is some girls are chatty and relaxed and others keep their distance. Obviously if you visit a new girl everytime, you will always  be strangers to each other, but some like me tend to see the same girl, or rather group of girls. I like hearing about peoples lives, whether I am shagging them or not, some folk of course have no curiosity about their fellow humans. You know, the sort of men who make their own sandwiches, and listen to the weather forecast.

I don't really see it as hostility. I think it's entirely understandable why many punters would want to keep a sense of boundaries with a WG. I'm very curiosity about any fellow human being I meet, but last thing I want is to get overly personal with a WG. I'm going there to pay a woman to allow me to have casual sex with her, and then I want to walk away without having to think about potential after-effects. I don't think there is anything necessarily wrong with being friendly with a WG, but who knows where it ends when you blur the boundaries between friendship and a professional agreement. Probably not anything bad will happen, but who knows? I don't see why risk things.

Each to there own is what I say, if nobodies being harmed, then it doesn't really matter. But myself, well, I couldn't do this pastime without keeping up boundaries. My missus makes me the sandwiches everyday before I go to work, not a WG, I'd like to keep it that way if possible.

[mikexxlong]

Criminals ?????    Really.

It's not illegal to be a prostitute.     

Never said prostitution is a criminal act or illegal, but whores act like criminals and do break the law!

Example;

Tax evasion
Illegal worker
Possession of illegal substances
Obtaining property by deception
Working in a brothel

These are just the very common ones, not including far more serious offences carried out by some whores,
 a few examples can be found on the Prostitute Blacklist

[vw]

I really don't get why some punters see this as some kind of trophy 

they want to be the special one, the priority punter and will go to great lengths to get info, speak on their behalf and even boost the girls likes on other forums.

Think that dick jean wiclef summed it up perfectly on uke as territorial pissing .

[mikexxlong]

You shouldn't assume that just because a WG tells you something, it's automatically a lie. I do like to know what their real names are, and the reason for me is that I actually enjoy the experience more because it feels more real and less of an act. Yes, I am aware that change only exists inside my head and shouldn't make a difference, but to me it does, and I would guess to the OP as well.
I have had several WGs tell me their names in the past, and I have actually been able to verify them. Only one might have been fibbing, although I simply had no way of checking with her.
I am incined to think they tell the truth reasonably often, as long as you ask them in the right way at the right time.

Really
And how were you able to verify they told you their real name

[Marmalade]

That sums it up perfectly imo..... to some, it's a deluded trophy 

+5000

Or should that be +4999?

Like paying tax -- ooooo! One prossie out of 5000 actually paid tax on one customer out of 5000 then bleats about it as if she is an honest law-abiding citizen with a respectable job.

Who gives a fuck???

"Oooo I'm so special, she told me her real name, and I saw it on an envelope."

Wank over an envelope? 

[Marmalade]

I've known several prossies in the past as mates outside of punting. They all had back stories and "real" names to divulge to selected gullible customers who were nosey fuckers. They weren't that stupid. Some prossies are completely brain dead stupid and use their home as a workplace and don't allow for devious Sherlock weirdo punters. Sad.

[Honolulu]

I feel your pain mate.  You get taken for a ride a few too many times.

 

[Sattob]

I've known several prossies in the past as mates outside of punting. They all had back stories and "real" names to divulge to selected gullible customers who were nosey fuckers. They weren't that stupid. Some prossies are completely brain dead stupid and use their home as a workplace and don't allow for devious Sherlock weirdo punters. Sad.

I've known a few girls who have gone on the game. At least did the whole second story thing too.

[Marmalade]

I've known a few girls who have gone on the game. At least did the whole second story thing too.

Hehe. Humorous moment with one of the girls who I knew before and after she escorted. When we were chatting normally she was telling me about her alter ego. Her expression and voice changed to bimbo, a bit stupid and very agreeable, voice went up a bit, then assumed a 'heartfelt' expression as she recounted her (fake) 'real' life, in great detail. Quite hilarious.

Another one who I met while she was prossying but kept in touch with after agreed to see me after she'd 'stopped'. Previously a great fuck she had apparently forgotten her prossie persona and was pretty boring. Could see why her boyfriend has dumped her. 

[Rocket Scientist]

I still continue to use their work name regardless   

[two20]

My regular let it slip very early on but I'd never dream of using it. She's also on her third stage name but I call her after the one she first told me.

[mrfishyfoo]

Fuck me this string is full of some real creepy EAS stalker shite. 

I pay to walk out the door at the end of my time without any strings. I don't give a flying fuck who the lass that's just swallowed my baby batter really is. Why should I ?? 

Punters that "need to know" real life info on their pro$$ies really are the lowest of the low IMHO. 

Fair enough sometimes a lass will drop her guard. 

[Jonestown]

Punters that "need to know" real life info on their pro$$ies really are the lowest of the low IMHO. 

What lower than the lowest of the low scumbag barebacker crew ?

[glasscentre2]

Really
And how were you able to verify they told you their real name

Let's just say in my professional capacity I had access to data. 

[JAYZ]

Met a lady at HOD London who had a pendant around her neck depicting a letter. She voluntarily then told me her real name. I did see her a couple of times more after that.

[glasscentre2]

Fuck me this string is full of some real creepy EAS stalker shite. 

I pay to walk out the door at the end of my time without any strings. I don't give a flying fuck who the lass that's just swallowed my baby batter really is. Why should I ?? 

Punters that "need to know" real life info on their pro$$ies really are the lowest of the low IMHO. 

Fair enough sometimes a lass will drop her guard. 

Just because it's of no interest to you doesn't mean nobody else should ever want to know, does it? I have no interest in anal sex, but I don't make angry posts slagging off the guys who enjoy it. This is really no different.
The general forum attitude of "treating WGs like objects is right, treating them like people is wrong" is starting to get a bit old, don't you think?

[Marmalade]

The general forum attitude of "treating WGs like objects is right, treating them like people is wrong" is starting to get a bit old, don't you think?

No, I don't think it is when you look closely at it. They are service providers, like plumbers, delivery boys and rubbish collectors. No-one is denying they are also people but their 'people' life is of no concern to us, it's none of our business, and too much harping on about it just encourages fluffies, in the same way that an immigrant plumber going on about his wife and children starving in kebabelandia or ragheadville preys on old women who know no better.

They are required to perform a function. The 'person' aspect is simply one of face-to-face politeness owed to any human being. It is the service that is objectified, and quite correctly IMO. 

[mrfishyfoo]

The general forum attitude of "treating WGs like objects is right, treating them like people is wrong" is starting to get a bit old, don't you think?

Speak for yourself as you clearly do not get the ethos of this forum if that's what you think it stands for.  This is a punters forum not a discussion group for prossie lovers and stalkers. If you feel that what's discussed is not for you then why don't you fuck off to mumsnet ?? 

I treat all the pro$$ies I see with the utmost courtesy and respect. It would take a really deluded twat to believe otherwise.

[mrfishyfoo]

No, I don't think it is when you look closely at it. They are service providers, like plumbers, delivery boys and rubbish collectors. No-one is denying they are also people but their 'people' life is of no concern to us, it's none of our business, and too much harping on about it just encourages fluffies, in the same way that an immigrant plumber going on about his wife and children starving in kebabelandia or ragheadville preys on old women who know no better.

They are required to perform a function. The 'person' aspect is simply one of face-to-face politeness owed to any human being. It is the service that is objectified, and quite correctly IMO. 

Well said. 

[mrfishyfoo]

Let's just say in my professional capacity I had access to data. 

So you used a position of trust and priviledge to access information that you shouldn't have.

Hmmm define "stalker".

[Spunky34]

I have no interest in anal sex, but I don't make angry posts slagging off the guys who enjoy it. This is really no different.

It's totally different.  You pay for a service, you don't pay to find out a girl's real name.  Everyone is entitled to anonymity. 

[pdq]

I dont always review all i see and some ask not to be cause of stalkers etc
Damm even if you go on fabswinger and you can see on profiles that they get pissed off with guys trying to hunt them down on social media.
so rarely give out names

But i have wg say they are crap at keeping up pretences so give me a first name.

But it cuts both ways i once mistakenly used a mob phone for social media and punting  used skype with a long term email addy  i was suddenly getting links to wg.
even extended to work based media sites - ( i used to be into being filmed and had the files transferred - that email add linked us)

Must admit i dont tend to have much use for a  name etc eg its more likely "get your mouth open and take - uhmm thats good" 

[mrfishyfoo]

......Everyone is entitled to anonymity.

Exactly. 

In this game discretion by all parties is paramount.

[mikexxlong]

Let's just say in my professional capacity I had access to data. 

Does it now
 
Suppose, for the sake of argument

 You are in a job/ position to be able to check people’s identity
 and if they are being truthful in the names they give (assuming they give/ you obtain enough info to be checkable)

What are the odds you’re the kind that would try and find out punters identities as well?

I think you’re a no good sneaky sneering  creep that should be sacked for abuse of position /misconduct ,
 breach of the data protection act and I’m sure a number of other reasons

You’re a fucking threat to the public at large as well as punters and pro$$ie’s aren’t you

[SophieScott]

Exactly. 

In this game discretion by all parties is paramount.

Totally.   

[mrfishyfoo]

What lower than the lowest of the low scumbag barebacker crew ?

Ok I'll give you that. 

[mrfishyfoo]

Totally.   

Yeah well some of these twats would just love to turn up on a SP's doorstep.....declare to her their undying love....as her husband/partner and kids look on. 

Some of us punters get that pro$$ies too have real lives that MUST be separated from their working lives.

[Brazilian Martian]

Yeah well some of these twats would just love to turn up on a SP's doorstep.....declare to her their undying love....as her husband/partner and kids look on. 

Some of us punters get that pro$$ies too have real lives that MUST be separated from their working lives.

Mrfishyfoo for prime minister 

[mrfishyfoo]

Mrfishyfoo for prime minister 

Oooh I am on my soapbox aren't I. 

[Marmalade]

Mrfishyfoo for prime minister 

Nah -- he'd have to tell us his real name. 

[Brazilian Martian]

Yeah well some of these twats would just love to turn up on a SP's doorstep.....declare to her their undying love....as her husband/partner and kids look on. 

Some of us punters get that pro$$ies too have real lives that MUST be separated from their working lives.

The other odd thing is when these losers get slapped with a restraining order or they are in a police cell, they probably think they have done nothing wrong and crossed no boundaries 

[Marmalade]

Oooh I am on my soapbox aren't I. 

It's all the dirty secrets hidden under the soapbox that we really want to know. 

[mrfishyfoo]

Nah -- he'd have to tell us his real name. 

Then I'd be on the front page of the "Daily Fun" for shagging pro$$ies  as they all cashed in coz they'd sucked my cock. 

[mrfishyfoo]

It's all the dirty secrets hidden under the soapbox that we really want to know. 

Read my reviews. 

[webpunter]

Thats what occurred to me.  Admin can probably get a good steer from his t'internet access location
Referring to the bad uns banned from here, whats happening with Sir Frank ?

Is he related to Yorkshire123?

[Marmalade]

Read my reviews. 

Sorry mate. Too long and all in Englandland. 

[mrfishyfoo]

Sorry mate. Too long and all in Englandland. 

Ha !! Ha !! There's always the summary. 

[webpunter]

Not much - I'm surprised that Admin hasn't issued a warning - taking up too much hard drive space

Sorry mate. Too long and all in Englandland. 

MrM - how was the rugby for you ?  Wheels still on the chariot 

[hantshagger]

As above I always feel a sense of ease when I finally find out their real name and  when convinced it's for real! I'm managed this with most of my faves ...in fact I think all ofthem

What are your experiences. ..I hate the silly working names

Usually, they tell me on my first visit, without me even asking, just my magnetic personality. and  sometimes say, before i even visit!

they are so keen to tell me, they get their passports out, prior to me handing over any money, to be entirely clear about it.  .  I know hundreds now.

Would i tell others on here  their personal details - not likely!   Be Discreet!   That's up to them to tell others, if they want (but i think its just me they tell!    )

Oh, what a chap I am!   



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[Thecunninglinguist]

Let's just say in my professional capacity I had access to data. 

You do realise that it is a criminal offence to do that and if you accessed an electronic database it will be recorded? You have to have a valid work related reason to view personal data these days.

[southampton.guy]

I.ve had girls say that their name is xxx when their profile name doesn.t have a name in it (eg say their name is sue when their profile name is something like "beautiful girl"........nothing unusual in that and sue may or may not be their real first name, it doesn.t matter to me either way.

Also had (a few) who have obviously worked from their real home and who have left post on the floor - a few have even asked me to bring the post in. dispite not wanting to, it was difficult not to have a quick look at the name. And i have got to know a couple of long term regulars real names - but as said above.......  "discretion by all parties is paramount"........ and of course I would never disclose this or any other personal information i might have gained over time.

I must agree that Yorkshiremans way of looking at this is a bit strange, and luckily different to most guys who perhaps want something/a name to call her but don.t give a toss if its real or not.

[Jimmyredcab]

I must agree that Yorkshiremans way of looking at this is a bit strange, and luckily different to most guys who perhaps want something/a name to call her but don.t give a toss if its real or not.

He is not alone, if a girls' name is Clare then I would prefer to use that name rather that bigtitsbella, explain to me how I could find out her personal information by knowing her first name---- just as she could not Google me by knowing my name is Jim.
Far too much paranoia in this game, always has been.   

[purple_t]

I really couldn't give a fuck what their real names are. Punting isn't dating. Sometimes after the sex we will chat a bit about our hobbies / lives etc but I have no desire to know their real name, where they live or anything else of the sort

[chrishornx]

I really couldn't give a fuck what their real names are. Punting isn't dating. Sometimes after the sex we will chat a bit about our hobbies / lives etc but I have no desire to know their real name, where they live or anything else of the sort

well said

[Marmalade]

Have you noticed how few of them actually ask the punter's name? They will have forgotten it usually by the time of the booking. Maybe it is because I prefer half hour shots, but even if I volunteer a name or give a name at the start of the meeting when they ask, so many will then continue to use 'babe' for the rest of the punt. If I have the decency to call them Jasmin, Crystal or any other daft name they like, could they not have the decency to use the name I offer??
(only one syllable -- not as if I expect 'em to get their tongue round "Sir BenjaminBigBalls" every time they ask if I want to cum again...).

[Jimm007]

Well.. you'll never read any more patronising bullshit from a human being. And that takes some doing.

How many thick of fuck people can you squeeze into a telephone box! lmao