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Author Topic: Noticed a lot of WGs in my area demanding deposits through bank transfer of late  (Read 2198 times)

Offline dthompson88

They say the reason for this is time wasters, that's bollocks, in their line of work they should expect cancellations.

A bunch of bullshitting scammers.

"Pay me half the money now before we even schedule a time or give you an address."

Aye, fuckin right I will.
« Last Edit: June 27, 2021, 05:33:26 pm by dthompson88 »

Online willie loman

i am in favour, if you dont want to do it, thats your choice.

Offline dthompson88

Why exactly? You're the one at risk of losing cash.

Plus, it's not like a normal deposit given to a business, like a hotel, or say a landlord. It's a person to person transaction with no legal protection.
« Last Edit: June 27, 2021, 05:48:47 pm by dthompson88 »

Online willie loman

Why exactly? You're the one at risk of losing cash.

Plus, it's not like a normal deposit given to a business, like a hotel, or say a landlord. It's a person to person transaction with no legal protection.

its in everyones interest wgs and customers, that time wasters are eradicated, the sooner punting is no longer seen as an act of furtive criminality, and becomes a regular commercial transaction like hair dressing, the better for the punter. prices  will come crashing down, i have observed before that most girls in a sauna, get 40£ per half hour meet, that is an acceptable price, paying 100 for half hour is almost entirely due to this being and off grid activity. i would quite happily buy into a punters register as well, proof of id, dna sample etc, dittoe for the girls.

Offline dthompson88

That's fair enough.

My reluctance is partly to do with the fact that Timewasing is a 2-way street. I've had a few appointments cancelled. while they might not be scammers, they've cancelled and you've paid a deposit and all you have is trust that the WG will be honest and reschedule or give your money back.

Online willie loman

That's fair enough.

My reluctance is partly to do with the fact that Timewasing is a 2-way street. I've had a few appointments cancelled. while they might not be scammers, they've cancelled and you've paid a deposit and all you have is trust that the WG will be honest and reschedule or give your money back.

i totally understand that, there would be problems initially, but for a start, saunas could if they wish, start asking for deposits, i imagine more wgs will start offering card payment options fairly soon. as i say, its the punters who are at present paying over the odds. what we want is an end to timewaster customers, and flakey wgs, and a fair price for a fair shag. there is no real doubt in my mind, that in the future, the cost of a sexual encounter is going to drop a lot, once it is seen as a banal activity, asking for a deposit is a useful step.

Offline S.X. MacHine

i totally understand that, there would be problems initially, but for a start, saunas could if they wish, start asking for deposits, i imagine more wgs will start offering card payment options fairly soon. as i say, its the punters who are at present paying over the odds. what we want is an end to timewaster customers, and flakey wgs, and a fair price for a fair shag. there is no real doubt in my mind, that in the future, the cost of a sexual encounter is going to drop a lot, once it is seen as a banal activity, asking for a deposit is a useful step.

Totally agree that ‘time wasting customers and flakey WGs’ are bad for the punting industry. Personally I only book if I have a high degree of confidence that I can go ahead with the meeting. That said, I do tend to use trusted regulars whom I find to be reliable, so there seems to be reciprocity at work. Hopefully, responsible punters will breed responsible Service Providers.

Online willie loman

Totally agree that ‘time wasting customers and flakey WGs’ are bad for the punting industry. Personally I only book if I have a high degree of confidence that I can go ahead with the meeting. That said, I do tend to use trusted regulars whom I find to be reliable, so there seems to be reciprocity at work. Hopefully, responsible punters will breed responsible Service Providers.

the problem is that its not an industry, if it was, prices would drop, we would all happily pay a deposit etc, and clowns who never answer texts or phone calls, or turn up for more than one shift a week would be sent packing.

Offline nike

I think that's a load of bollocks. Paying deposits, most likely to sergie, is  not going to regulate this or help evolve it, into a regulated industry, only legislation will.
By all means pay a deposit but do not be surprised, if and probably when, u get scammed.

Online willie loman

I think that's a load of bollocks. Paying deposits, most likely to sergie, is  not going to regulate this or help evolve it, into a regulated industry, only legislation will.
By all means pay a deposit but do not be surprised, if and probably when, u get scammed.

your usual drivel.

Offline Boinky

Overwhelming advice on here. Never pay a deposit. At a push, possibly to a well-established girl with a pile of decent reviews, but even still.

Never catch me doing it, anytime I've been asked it's been the end of comms.

Offline Clattypats

Overwhelming advice on here. Never pay a deposit. At a push, possibly to a well-established girl with a pile of decent reviews, but even still.

Never catch me doing it, anytime I've been asked it's been the end of comms.
Hear, hear!...  :thumbsup:

Offline alabama1


Offline Glasgow28

i am in favour, if you dont want to do it, thats your choice.

Not a chance I would pay a deposit and neither will the majority. Personally think it's naive at best, only setting yourself up to get scammed. Absolute madness. Please don't do it guys.

Offline bobbydaz69

The other part of this is misleading prices being advertised, such as £80 per hour and when you make contact it’s plus £20 deposit (baby) so the price becomes a hundred quid. I can understand why a legitimate SP would want to take a deposit but there are so many scammers on their side of the fence, that it ruins trust and for one I’d rather walk away.

Offline jkrieg

Not a chance I'm paying a deposit to someone I don't know is real. It just screams scam to me!  :scare:

Anyone could stick up a picture of a pretty girl and request a bunch of deposits before tearing it down and starting a new profile. As soon as that sort of thing gets encouraged by people actually paying it then it will explode with scammers trying to game it.

Offline andymars19

i would quite happily buy into a punters register as well, proof of id, dna sample etc

And who would run such a thing?

Offline DDDD2

I'll have to side with the majority on this one, having been stung twice by wg's asking for deposits it's eroded my faith in all of them that ask for this and there's no way in hell I'll be paying anything up front again no matter how genuine the girl is, lesson learned.

Offline nike

your usual drivel.
Better than ur usual pish. Stick to promoting  the saunas, ur experience and expertise seems to point only in one direction.

Offline Clattypats

Better than ur usual pish. Stick to promoting  the saunas, ur experience and expertise seems to point only in one direction.
He likes to try be controversial and make himself seem important, whereas at best he just howls at the moon, and at worst is a total moon unit!... :wacko: :D

Offline Matrix

Just a quick point to any newbies who use the internet to hire whores.

DO NOT under any circumstances ever pay a deposit.

Offline Clattypats


DO NOT under any circumstances ever pay a deposit. [/color]
Does this cover not giving proof of ID and DNA samples... FFs...  :crazy:  ;)
« Last Edit: June 28, 2021, 02:00:55 pm by Clattypats »

Offline Matrix

Does this cover not giving proof of ID and DNA samples... FFs...  :crazy:  ;)

To be fair, I always leave a dna sample.  ;) :D

Offline Clattypats


Online willie loman

Better than ur usual pish. Stick to promoting  the saunas, ur experience and expertise seems to point only in one direction.

actually with your use of seeking arrangements, you are doing your bit to normalise prostitution, and make it mainstream , which is my wish, incidentally sergei is the last man to ask for card payment, he wants to be untraceable. apologies for saying you were talking drivel.
« Last Edit: June 28, 2021, 04:20:39 pm by willie loman »

Online willie loman

And who would run such a thing?

its obviously not going to happen any day soon, but the admin problems are hardly insurmountable. back in the day prostitutes had to register, and be subject to medical checks, there are precedents for state intervention in the sex industry , historically at least in europe.

Offline Matrix

actually with your use of seeking arrangements, you are doing your bit to normalise prostitution, and make it mainstream , which is my wish, incidentally sergei is the last man to ask for card payment, he wants to be untraceable. apologies for saying you were talking drivel.

This highlights your naivety.


Offline andymars19

its obviously not going to happen any day soon, but the admin problems are hardly insurmountable. back in the day prostitutes had to register, and be subject to medical checks, there are precedents for state intervention in the sex industry , historically at least in europe.

And given the push from Governments on both sides of the border to squeeze the industry without outright banning it/making it illegal, do you think that state intervention for something like this will happen?   Not a chance

Online willie loman

And given the push from Governments on both sides of the border to squeeze the industry without outright banning it/making it illegal, do you think that state intervention for something like this will happen?   Not a chance

we are notoriously bad at anticipating the future, look at the complete u turn on drugs in many countries, not to mention gay marriage etc.

Online willie loman

This highlights your naivety.

i bow to your superior knowledge, but do escort agencies take deposits, or card payments?
« Last Edit: June 28, 2021, 04:50:57 pm by willie loman »

Offline daviebond

actually with your use of seeking arrangements, you are doing your bit to normalise prostitution, and make it mainstream , which is my wish, incidentally sergei is the last man to ask for card payment, he wants to be untraceable. apologies for saying you were talking drivel.
Try using Skokka then you will find out how they fuck you over with card payment, vouchers etc

Offline Matrix

i bow to your superior knowledge, but do escort agencies take deposits, or card payments?

Have you ever paid a deposit?  :lol:

Online willie loman

Have you ever paid a deposit?  :lol:


when i went on holiday, i paid the travel agency. was i being a naive fool? why didnt you answer my straightforward genuine question, do escort agencies ask for deposits?

Online willie loman

Try using Skokka then you will find out how they fuck you over with card payment, vouchers etc

thanks had never heard of them, but the general principle will be accepted by most reasonable adults, "those seeking to fly under the radar will deal in cash, rather than card or cheque.

Offline dthompson88

Thank Christ, the sensible folk have come out in force on this thread.

I was beginning to think I was losing my marbles by being anti-deposit/bank transfer.

That's why I love this site.  :hi:

Offline Matrix


when i went on holiday, i paid the travel agency. was i being a naive fool? why didnt you answer my straightforward genuine question, do escort agencies ask for deposits?

Have you ever paid a deposit for sex, and if not have you ever been asked for one?  :rolleyes:

I haven't used an agency for over a decade, and if they did ask then no punt.

Online willie loman

Have you ever paid a deposit for sex, and if not have you ever been asked for one?  :rolleyes:

I haven't used an agency for over a decade, and if they did ask then no punt.

i havent been asked, but if a sauna asked as a condition of booking, i would have no problem in doing so. its no different than booking a table in a restaurant, i didnt ask if you used agencies, i asked if they took a deposit. What do you think, they would send a girl across town with no guarantee ? just asking a man of the world like you. as the sex industry is presently organised i wouldnt pay a deposit,to a free lancer, though i am perfectly happy that girls ask, what i want is a mature industry, and card payments and deposits will be part of that.
« Last Edit: June 28, 2021, 05:24:07 pm by willie loman »

Offline Matrix

i havent been asked, but if a sauna asked as a condition of booking, i would have no problem in doing so. its no different than booking a table in a restaurant, i didnt ask if you used agencies, i asked if they took a deposit. What do you think, they would send a girl across town with no guarantee ? just asking a man of the world like you. as the sex industry is presently organised i wouldnt pay a deposit,to a free lancer, though i am perfectly happy that girls ask, what i want is a mature industry, and card payments and deposits will be part of that.

They certainly used to.  :rolleyes:

It might help your outlook, if you were to book and see a few independent girls and read through a few threads here. There are several where someone has been "urged" to make card payments on the spot by "Sergey" and card scams are part and parcel of everyday life, these days.   Perhaps it'll take you out of the 70's, if only briefly.
« Last Edit: June 28, 2021, 05:31:13 pm by Matrix »

Online willie loman

They certainly used to.  :rolleyes:

i personally have no idea how agencies take payment, but given that a lot of posters on this forum use agencies, i assume someone knows.


Offline smiths

They say the reason for this is time wasters, that's bollocks, in their line of work they should expect cancellations.

A bunch of bullshitting scammers.

"Pay me half the money now before we even schedule a time or give you an address."

Aye, fuckin right I will.

Its simple basic logic to me, I NEVER EVER pay a WG a deposit and avoid those who ask for one. Punting is unregulated and it may prove hard to get your money back if the WG fucks you over.


Offline Boinky

Fat chance of me ever paying for sex with a Credit Card or Bank Transfer. Cash, in person, only, ever.

As well as give them my real, full name from my CC/Bank, why not just give them my address and social media profiles as well. Hell, give them my logins and PIN numbers while I'm at it.

We all know Sergei is completely trustworthy and your friend, it's not as if he could be involved or have connections to any form of organised crime here or abroad.
« Last Edit: June 28, 2021, 05:39:45 pm by Boinky »


Offline Clattypats

Its simple basic logic to me, I NEVER EVER pay a WG a deposit and avoid those who ask for one. Punting is unregulated and it may prove hard to get your money back if the WG fucks you over.
:thumbsup:

Online willie loman

They certainly used to.  :rolleyes:

It might help your outlook, if you were to book and see a few independent girls and read through a few threads here. There are several where someone has been "urged" to make card payments on the spot by "Sergey" and card scams are part and parcel of everyday life, these days.   Perhaps it'll take you out of the 70's, if only briefly.

i can assure you that ive seen quite a few independent girls, and unlike your bookings, most of them could speak english and werent teenagers,and knew what country they were in, if anyone needs pushing towards the future its you. why would i pay card if i was there in person? and why would an independent girl have a sergie.

Offline Banquo

Gentlemen, the bottom line is that you should never pay a deposit in an unregulated industry. Anyone doing so is potentially/probably kissing that money goodbye and, respectfully, probably a fool. Saying that, something similar worked for me once, about 7-8 years ago when I gave a girl £1000 to clear her money lender debts we continued to see each other almost every week for 2 years. I only stopped when she got married and my moral compass finally kicked in.

Never pay a deposit unless you enjoy FinDom.

Offline tantric talents

Just a quick point to any newbies who use the internet to hire whores.

DO NOT under any circumstances ever pay a deposit.

Happened to me the other day in the Chelmsford area.
En route she texts me asking for a deposit initially even suggesting Bitcoin as a way to do it.
I told her in no uncertain terms “first rule of punting.
Never pay a deposit.
Second rule of punting
Never pay a deposit
Third rule of punting.. yes I guess you’ve figured that one out by now...  :lol:
Plus she had already seen my exemplary AW feedback so clearly yet another scammer.
Plan B was a lot of fun. Lots of fish. Always remember that!

Offline Clattypats

Happened to me the other day in the Chelmsford area.
En route she texts me asking for a deposit initially even suggesting Bitcoin as a way to do it.
I told her in no uncertain terms “first rule of punting.
Never pay a deposit.
Second rule of punting
Never pay a deposit
Third rule of punting.. yes I guess you’ve figured that one out by now...  :lol:
Plus she had already seen my exemplary AW feedback so clearly yet another scammer.
Plan B was a lot of fun. Lots of fish. Always remember that!
True.. Willie wants to change the world though, because he is Mr punting (deluded as he is) and he's also Mr Embra...  :lol:

Offline Matrix

I've had a few ask me for a deposit.  Always refuse and the genuine girls back down and let you book.  The one's who won't are scammers.  Had one bird tell me she was staying in Danube street that required a deposit!!! She showed up down south, 20 minutes after I called "her" out. :lol: