Just read this article highlighted by MSN News feed:
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External Link/Members OnlyFeminists trying to create outrage about the treatment of a wife divorced after 20 years of marriage. Trying to blame seekingarrangements for encouraging this "disgusting" behaviour.
To me it reads more like a deluded, lazy woman that shouldn't really have been shocked to find that her free ride decided to get an upgrade once the kids were raised and probably old enough to understand.
"I thought I had it all: three beautiful kids, a CEO husband who took care of those beautiful kids when I traveled to East Africa to run a nonprofit, a big house in an affluent suburb in Silicon Valley, a vacation house at the lake."
"My husband and I never followed what could be considered “traditional” roles in our marriage. He cooked, did laundry and mostly shared the kid-rearing responsibilities. But, like an old-fashioned wife, I left all of the financial matters to him."... "I didn’t even know how much our family spent on monthly bills."
"I was graying, had a sagging body, and had been a complete stranger to the traditional job market for more than two decades."... "Was my husband giving money — our money — to these women in exchange for sex? The possibility alone turned my stomach."
So he earned all the money, and by the sound of did most of the work to keep the house and raise the kids. But she has the right to outraged about what he did with "their" money?
To the husband I say well done mate, sounds like you are definitely much better off getting out of that one!