thanks Sam. ive been trying to get an appointment with jasmine for ages. im glad i didnt now. there are too many decent ladies out there who are happy enough to go with the flow a bit to bother with the ones who dont.
i'll stick to maureen in university, Tee on shore road, tricia in armagh, emma the visitor and if i feel like a downright seeing to theres Meghan joanne or pam. all solid homegrown girls. (except Tee) so no language problems, no weird foreign cultures/rituals/barriers etc to have to negotiate. Tee is african i know, but has been here a long time and integrated perfectly.
any of these ladies will make your day