Have your demands got weirder?

[tightfoot69]

I have been punting on and off for about 20 years and I feel like the services I enjoy get more extreme.

At first I was wary of even going down on a WG because I thought I would automatically catch something nasty. Once I got past that I was usually happy with kissing and OWO plus CIM if it was on offer.

Over time I have grown to love rimming if she was clean and I found her really attractive. Then on my trip to Europe last year I asked a couple of girls to spit in my mouth because I was turned on so much and they were hot. They obliged and I enjoyed it.

Now I am beginning to be curious about being pissed on. I think the main reason is seeing these things in porn and wanting to try them out.

Is this normal or am I just a weirdo 🤣

[stevedave]

If anything my demands (well, requirements) have got less extreme over time.

I've got the anal, facial, "porn star" stuff ticked off and, more often than not, I just want a decent GFE nowadays.

Sadly a good GFE (at a sensible price) seems bloody hard to come by, especially round my way 

[MissWolf]

I have been punting on and off for about 20 years and I feel like the services I enjoy get more extreme.

At first I was wary of even going down on a WG because I thought I would automatically catch something nasty. Once I got past that I was usually happy with kissing and OWO plus CIM if it was on offer.

Over time I have grown to love rimming if she was clean and I found her really attractive. Then on my trip to Europe last year I asked a couple of girls to spit in my mouth because I was turned on so much and they were hot. They obliged and I enjoyed it.

Now I am beginning to be curious about being pissed on. I think the main reason is seeing these things in porn and wanting to try them out.

Is this normal or am I just a weirdo 🤣

OMG you weirdo 

That was too good an opportunity to pass by sorry 

Not weird at all you would be quite surprised at the things we get asked, water sports is a very common one and I've introduced a few to the joy of a golden shower.

[Punterperson1971]

Well in the last year or so I’ve tried anal,rimming  and pegging and enjoyed all 3 as they were something I wanted to try

[maxxblue]

OMG you weirdo 

 

[lamboman]

I think you've got things in the wrong order,I love a golden shower and rimming a girl but wouldn't have anyone spit on me I view that as emasculating.
Each to their own.

[Doormatt]

I'm not sure things become "weird". Just normalised.
The first time you saw a hooker you probably shook in ya boots, but now you probably walk in with confidence..
When you enter a relationship we build trust and confidence, from first kiss to something more savage , insert sex act.
You're just becoming confident and relaxed. Pissed on , rimmed , it's normal for some. If you are feeling that you are pushing your limits then try and enjoy.
You are not a weirdo, just someone exploring their fantasies and sexuality. Enjoy.

[Thephoenix]

Is this normal or am I just a weirdo 🤣

I think you're probably just a normal weirdo.

[Colston36]

I have been punting on and off for about 20 years and I feel like the services I enjoy get more extreme.

At first I was wary of even going down on a WG because I thought I would automatically catch something nasty. Once I got past that I was usually happy with kissing and OWO plus CIM if it was on offer.

Over time I have grown to love rimming if she was clean and I found her really attractive. Then on my trip to Europe last year I asked a couple of girls to spit in my mouth because I was turned on so much and they were hot. They obliged and I enjoyed it.

Now I am beginning to be curious about being pissed on. I think the main reason is seeing these things in porn and wanting to try them out.

Is this normal or am I just a weirdo 🤣

The older I get the more perverse, though obviously we all have our little quirks. I don't like being spat on, and once a girl threw up on me, which some love but others loathe as I did.

I go to a lot of trouble to find ladies into kinky stuff. Not that many are imaginative. I have long wanted to meet Miss Wolf who has commented in this thread but we haven't managed it yet. I am seriously considering a trek into darkest Wales to see her.

[Kamilondon]

All I know is the older I’m getting, the filthier I’m getting 😂
I don’t do FS punts but in civvie life I have been lucky enough to find some proper filthy fuckers lol.

[Kamilondon]

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[ulstersubbie]

I go to a lot of trouble to find ladies into kinky stuff. Not that many are imaginative.

True Colston and that includes some pro Dommes unfortunately. The kinkiest ladies are the filthiest though, just finding them as you say.

[SpaceRaiderDave]

If anything my demands (well, requirements) have got less extreme over time.

I've got the anal, facial, "porn star" stuff ticked off and, more often than not, I just want a decent GFE nowadays.

Sadly a good GFE (at a sensible price) seems bloody hard to come by, especially round my way 

+1
In the last 5 or 6 years SA has been a revalation for me. Though I still have massages and go to parties most of my punting budget is spent on ladies who I meet off SA

[signy]

Very much so. I dread to think what I will be up to in another ten years (although I am also excited to find out!).

True Colston and that includes some pro Dommes unfortunately. The kinkiest ladies are the filthiest though, just finding them as you say.

This is so true. I spend a lot of time reading between the lines of profiles decoding the euphemisms and trying to decide what experiences SPs are really willing to provide.

[Hobbit]

It's the same for me. Over the past 25 years of punting, at the beginning I was happy with a GFE but now much more enjoy the passionate PSE and S&M encounters.

[Colston36]

True Colston and that includes some pro Dommes unfortunately. The kinkiest ladies are the filthiest though, just finding them as you say.

You're more into extreme pain than me. One you saw, Julia Taylor, I was really keen on, but she was just plain rude in initial exchanges. Somewhere I have a video of Morgan joyfully ripping clothes pegs off my testes .. vicious creature.

[Trotter671]

I've ticked off the bukkake/gangbang parties a couple of times (a few years ago). These days just really into dirty GFE. If the lass is up for CIM/swallow/facial then happy days but not a deal breaker. Just love kissing and fucking with good looking women.

[Band1t]

I love a bit of watersports especially while giving RO

[The0neAnd0nly]

Similar to what OP has said I've found the more attractive girl the more kinkier requests I'm likely to request.

I've had girls spit in my mouth before, both when kissing and during blowjobs. I also throat fucked a civvie who threw up and normally that would be the end but I found her that attractive I carried on no issue.

I've also been considering golden showers recently both giving and receiving and snowballing after CIM.... but we'll see!

Oh and I absolutely love rimming a nice bumhole. Again with more attractive girls and civives. If it's a pump and dump not going anywhere near it lol.

[Payyourwaymate]

This is why Porn is potentially dangerous. You got all those ideas from Porn clips right? A fine example of social conditioning.

[kingmg]

This is why Porn is potentially dangerous. You got all those ideas from Porn clips right? A fine example of social conditioning.

civvy birds need to be more willing

[Payyourwaymate]

civvy birds need to be more willing

To get pissed on etc? The stuff in porn is not standard sex. Civvy women not indoctrinated by porn would be horrified  .

[Thephoenix]

This is why Porn is potentially dangerous. You got all those ideas from Porn clips right? A fine example of social conditioning.

I think there's a lot of truth in that.

I led a comparatively porn free life untl my 40's as it generally wasn't available.
Sex was generally very vanilla and along with others of my generation we were pretty naive.
My introduction to porn and later on paid sex opened up a whole new world.
I'm not sure I would have wanted it any other way.

Whilst porn provides great wanking material, I don't think it's helped young people forming early relationships with the lad's expectations of kinky hard sex, and the girls feeling pressurised into providing it as the norm.
I watched a programme a few months ago where a high percentage of female students had felt under pressure to engage in choking etc and didn't feel comfortable.

[BRBRBR]

Definitely. Thanks to Pornhub its Bi MMF for me in 2022

[Kamilondon]

Porn def plays a role in this… I didn’t know fuck all about deep trough gagging and spitting on cocks lol… but personally now love those sloppy spit blowjobs, and surprised at how many civvies are into it, in my opinion women are just as filthy as us fuckers. 

[The0neAnd0nly]

I'm agree some of the more out there practises have come from porn sure. But I'm sure people were cumming in mouths and putting it up the arse before the invention of the television 

I think it's just over time people have become more willing to try different things and peoples attitudes to sex has become different. But yes I'm a filthy bugger and watch huge amounts of porn... so maybe im just trying to rationalise it lol

[B4bcock]

It is human nature and instinct to push boundaries and venture into unknown territory - we know there is more out there so we seek it out, hoping for exciting new experiences and highs.  Just as early explorers set sail in rickety boats not knowing what they would find or even if they would return, so we punters boldly go into new frontiers on missions to seek out strange new perve . . , um, I mean experiences.  You don't want to die not knowing now, do you? 

[Colston36]

I'm agree some of the more out there practises have come from porn sure. But I'm sure people were cumming in mouths and putting it up the arse before the invention of the television 

I think it's just over time people have become more willing to try different things and peoples attitudes to sex has become different. But yes I'm a filthy bugger and watch huge amounts of porn... so maybe im just trying to rationalise it lol

I doubt if TV has anything to do with it. Thousands of years ago people were up to all kinds of antics.

[southcoastpunter]

I doubt if TV has anything to do with it. Thousands of years ago people were up to all kinds of antics.

you only have to go and see the drawing at Herculaneum and Pompeii to confirm that!

[Thephoenix]

you only have to go and see the drawing at Herculaneum and Pompeii to confirm that!

I took lots of photos of the brothel murals in Pompeii.
They're all pretty vanilla, and mainly used as a pictorial menu of the various sex positions available, and also to overcome the language barrier of different nationalities.

[l4at]

My demands are pretty vanilla, not sure I’d enjoy rimming (giving/receiving) or getting pissed on.

To be honest,  that probably makes me the weirdo 

[3Chabuddygee]

I think porn has kind of opened a Pandora’s box of sexual acts that I would never of known, much less tried. Rimming both ways, WS both ways, face slapping, extreme spit and slobber. I’m contemplating mouth spitting both ways and a service provider puking up on my cock. I don’t feel ashamed of any of these things, which is the strange thing because earlier in my punting life I’d have massive guilt just getting a blow job.

[Stevelondon]

I really began to feel like a complete weirdo because my particular taste was an increasing interest in younger and younger girls.

I felt dirty and ashamed.

Then I fuckin realised it was not the girls getting younger. IT WAS FUCKIN ME GETTING OLDER. 

[Murray Mint]

I doubt if TV has anything to do with it. Thousands of years ago people were up to all kinds of antics.

you only have to go and see the drawing at Herculaneum and Pompeii to confirm that!

You're quite right. I remember visiting the temples at Khajuraho in India some years ago and being quite shocked by the depictions in some of the carvings. They even had elephants getting in on the act as I recall!!....

[Murray Mint]

I have been punting on and off for about 20 years and I feel like the services I enjoy get more extreme.

At first I was wary of even going down on a WG because I thought I would automatically catch something nasty. Once I got past that I was usually happy with kissing and OWO plus CIM if it was on offer.

Over time I have grown to love rimming if she was clean and I found her really attractive. Then on my trip to Europe last year I asked a couple of girls to spit in my mouth because I was turned on so much and they were hot. They obliged and I enjoyed it.

Now I am beginning to be curious about being pissed on. I think the main reason is seeing these things in porn and wanting to try them out.

Is this normal or am I just a weirdo 🤣

No, what is weird is that after 20 years you haven’t pretty much tried everything. In my 20 years, I have!

As for being pissed on, for me the fantasy was my submission to the act – particularly as I fundamentally prefer the dominant role – and the idea of doing it in the shower or the bath didn’t excite me. One hot summer’s day a couple of years ago I forewarned the lady concerned of my requirement so that she could prepare herself. On arrival I was stripped, led into the garden and told to lie down whereupon she knelt astride me and worked her way up from groin to mouth. It was warm, flavourless, and incredibly erotic!

[nbarnes]

Yep, my shit has defo got weirder and I have sought out more and more extreme practices.
If I don't like it, i know not to do it again

I believe you have to push boundaries and fufill your fantasies, and WGs have made that possible for me - almost anything is possible if you have the coin.

There is a girl out there who will do it, no matter how weird your fetish.
(civvys too, female perverts are the best thing in the world)

[Colston36]

I think porn has kind of opened a Pandora’s box of sexual acts that I would never of known, much less tried. Rimming both ways, WS both ways, face slapping, extreme spit and slobber. I’m contemplating mouth spitting both ways and a service provider puking up on my cock. I don’t feel ashamed of any of these things, which is the strange thing because earlier in my punting life I’d have massive guilt just getting a blow job.

I have done some fairly extreme things with girls over 60 years younger than me. Some of them seem utterly and delightfully open-minded. One puked all over me without warning. Did nothing whatsoever for me sexually.

[Thephoenix]

I really began to feel like a complete weirdo because my particular taste was an increasing interest in younger and younger girls.

I felt dirty and ashamed.

Then I fuckin realised it was not the girls getting younger. IT WAS FUCKIN ME GETTING OLDER. 

Very true....but getting older also has the advantage of fancying a much wider age range of women.
When you're young it might be considered a bit kinky to shag old grannies, but that's not the case when you're the same age.

[Slow grinder]

I wouldn't say that any sexual practice is weird... "one mans weird is another mans normal"... there are the obvious Taboo practices (animal and child), but most others if they are between 2 consenting adults are OK,
I've become more specific in my wants and do not want GFE,DFK or that stuff.. so I have to be more specific and the majority of SP's put all sorts of 'likes' on there lists and DON't actually do them, and most just do GFE,DFK etc.
I'm actually looking for an SP in the Coventry area that truly does Depilation.

[tightfoot69]

Thanks for the informed replies.

Maybe I am not that weird after all then🤣. I don’t think I will ever be interested in anything involving puke or shit. At the moment I don’t really have any interest in a gangbang either. Possibly a MMF threesome. I have had two MFF threesomes. One was good and the other was rubbish.

I think my next new experience will be the golden shower. I will have to find her really attractive though I think. One thing that has always put me off is the taste and smell. Do people who have received it take it on the face or just the body?

[signy]

I think my next new experience will be the golden shower. I will have to find her really attractive though I think. One thing that has always put me off is the taste and smell. Do people who have received it take it on the face or just the body?

I am not a great fan of pissing fun, but have tried it enough to know that it is not really my thing. My tips would be as follow. Find an SP who specialises in the activity; not just someone who just adds it to a likes list (this is true of so many "kinks"). They will be properly hydrated and have a good flow, so the taste/smell will be minimal; unless you specify otherwise, which probably isn't a good place to start. Be absolutely clear what you want to experience: giving/receiving, body/face/mouth/sharing, etc. I found it best done at the start of a meeting, but others prefer it later or at the end.

I am not sure what region you are in, but if you state where you are people will probably have some suggestions.

[tightfoot69]

I am not a great fan of pissing fun, but have tried it enough to know that it is not really my thing. My tips would be as follow. Find an SP who specialises in the activity; not just someone who just adds it to a likes list (this is true of so many "kinks"). They will be properly hydrated and have a good flow, so the taste/smell will be minimal; unless you specify otherwise, which probably isn't a good place to start. Be absolutely clear what you want to experience: giving/receiving, body/face/mouth/sharing, etc. I found it best done at the start of a meeting, but others prefer it later or at the end.

I am not sure what region you are in, but if you state where you are people will probably have some suggestions.

Singhy, thanks.

I am in the midlands area but I only really punt now when I am abroad. I have not punted in this country for about 4 or 5 years.

I was in Berlin in October and saw a woman who said she did it. I probably would have gone through with it but she seemed hesitant for one reason or another. She was Portuguese and her English was not great. The rest of the punt was great with lots of Rimming(giving) and she had a great ass so was not too bothered.

I am planning a trip to Barcelona in April so will look for something there. Seems a great city with lots of choice. Especially Latinas which I love(Brazilian, Colombian especially). I have seen a few sites with girls that offer it but will make sure they understand this time beforehand.

[Macduff303]

I would say my experience has 100% got weirder over time - my last meets included watersports, both ways, anal, deep face fucking, dom & sub play and all of these were later additions to the booking. Certainly wasn't something I was ready to explore at the start of my punting, but years later it's a feature that I look for. I enjoy spitting, or having my cock spat on, but not in my mouth

I think it's just the ability to explore when you are making a booking, I tend to look for a sub, a real sub not the ones that say they are but don't really seem to enjoy it. This is the fun of a punt, trying things you wouldn't normally do

[pantywetter]

I haven’t really changed that much over the decades.  For the first few years I only did OW as I thought I might catch something, but soon found the delights of OWO and didn’t look back and never caught anything either. 

I’ve tried quite a lot of things but a good GFE is still the main thing I seek.

[Murray Mint]

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I think my next new experience will be the golden shower. I will have to find her really attractive though I think. One thing that has always put me off is the taste and smell. Do people who have received it take it on the face or just the body?

Didn't you read my post at #34? I should add that it's odourless as well.