How hard do you you go at it with an sp?

[Malvolio]

I like to finish my punts by banging away as hard as I can - and not once has a WG asked me to slow down or stop.  This leads me to conclude that either these WGs take plenty of cock and are used to it, or my cock isn't very big...

[dubhcarr]

depends on the SP OP also mood geometry position etc. I always lead so it is for the SP to respond and put in a shift or lie there like a plank. One thing for me is not to force the situation and I am prepared to develop the situation over a few punts if the SP is worth a second and subsequent visit. There are no guarantees with this expensive hobby save that if you are a cunt then you may end up blocked and on ugly mugs etc.   

[daviemac]

That was my intended point. If a hard pounding is what the girl wants, who are we to judge a punter who pounds a girl hard?

I just don't subscribe to any implied narrative that a hard pounding is abusive no matter the context but mrfishyfoo has clarified that consent is the key thing. 

Nobody but you did. 

[JPin]

If hard fucking does occur it usually comes about as the natural tempo steps up. It's a joint thing.

Yeah, this is pretty much my standard, though I had a really intense, sweaty fuck session with an SP a few weeks ago where I was going hard for most of the second half of the punt. But it was just that kind of booking where we both lost ourselves in raw fuck mode.

Because of my size I'm always very conscious (maybe overly conscious) of not going too hard though. Usually ask them if they're ok upon entering, and will often check again. Generally prefer a slow, sensual build up before ramping it up as I cum. Can't help but get harder and faster as I'm getting closer to cumming.

[chadpitt]

It depends on the girl.

If a girl is thin and small; she's prime smashing material. But if a girl is a porker, then it's just the slow lane.

[guymids-72]

I’ll only do it if she requests it I’ve had a regular asking me to pound her arse a few times lol

Same here, I was banging my reg fairly hard in the arse (or so I thought), when in no uncertain terms she told me to fuck her arse harder...

[notcalledchris]

I appreciate reviewers mentionimg that sp was willing and able to take it hard and fast.  For well endowed punters it is a real problem that not all sps can take a pounding. Some can't even take it deep and slow.  As noone wants anyone to be in any physical discomfort this information is useful to have in reviews. I will continue to include it in mine and appreciate it if others do the same. If people think it is boastful that is their problem.  I regard it as useful intelligence which surely fits with this forums ethos.Thanks

[JustaPunter]

I don’t get anything from “pounding” any woman, including a SP.

What happens between two consenting adults is up to them, IMHO

[Doc Holliday]

I agree with Oaktree, if she's trying to get you to fuck her harder, odds are it's because she knows you will finish faster and feels comfortable that your size in combination with your ferocity will not injure her and leave her MIA from work. Even worse if she gets you to go into doggy first ASAP and then goads you to fuck her hard, she wants you to finish quick. However, if you have size and you are physically strong, odds are you will wreck the woman with such antics, her work day will be finished, she might be out of commision for days with lost income and you will get banned. Not much good will come out of it to be honest.

Yes in civvy life there is a spectrum of what any individual woman will like, which will then depend further on many other variables, such as degree of arousal, penis size, position/angle etc. Very few women like to be pounded for very long periods, but as part of a variable repertoire of sexual activity. Variety is key but also finding and in particular maintaining the correct rhythm for the correct amount of time rather than a good pounding. Then there is contact with the cervix to consider especially in doggy.

However with the sex worker there is the added dimension that the punters enjoyment is of paramount importance and not hers and also protecting her body and income source as you describe.

Many punters do like to pound away though, so it is useful to know in reviews if an SP will 'tolerate' it rather than 'love it' the latter being much less likely. Assuming as others have said reports are accurate which is a whole different topic?

[sensualencounter]

It depends on the girl.

If a girl is thin and small; she's prime smashing material. But if a girl is a porker, then it's just the slow lane.

And here we have the first open “smasher” abuser. Why would you think someone thin and small deserves a “smash” more than a larger woman? Clearly because you get off on asserting your so called masculinity on those less physically strong.

Scumbag.

[Dipper]

I do the same in every punt, I go with the service on offer and how it's offered and that differs from girl to girl.

I'm not into the 'I've paid so I can pound her as hard as I like' train of thought. If she isn't comfortable with something I don't do it.

Agreed. Doesn’t take a Casanova to know how to go with whatever fits the situation between two people.

[CMiller]

Nobody but you did. 

Really?

Pounding a lass senseless is IMHO abusive and not on.

This was an ambiguously written post where no context was established.

[mrfishyfoo]

Really?

This was an ambiguously written post where no context was established.

TICK !!! TOCK !!!

mrfishyfoo has clarified that consent is the key thing.

[daviemac]

Really?

This was an ambiguously written post where no context was established.

Well in my opinion only a numpty wouldn't realise that in the context of the whole thread it was only abusive where there was no consent from the SP, therefore the context established itself so not ambiguous at all.

Having said that I have noticed there are those who need things explained in words of one syllable and others who just like to be awkward.

[mrfishyfoo]

How many time do we have to "say" it ?? 

The pro$$ie agrees to it and consents or she doesn't.

For those that still don't get it I shall be even clearer.

Anything not agreed to by the pro$$ie is assualt and can in some cases be deemed to be rape.

Additionally even if the lass initially agrees she can still change her mind and request her punter to cease and desist.

Those that don't get this have no place on this forum IMHO.

[hendrix]

How many time do we have to "say" it ?? 

The pro$$ie agrees to it and consents or she doesn't.

For those that still don't get it I shall be even clearer.

Anything not agreed to by the pro$$ie is assualt and can in some cases be deemed to be rape.

Additionally even if the lass initially agrees she can still change her mind and request her punter to cease and desist.

Those that don't get this have no place on this forum IMHO.

 

[Hobbit]

I wouldn't believe everything you read in the reviews, sometimes they are slightly exaggerated. Most guys don't last more than a few minutes and the average is anything between 6 and 12 minutes.

I don't go into a session thinking that I'm going to pound away for ages, sex is meant to be pleasurable for both parties and not an egotistical exercise. However, I do remember a forum darling who once told me that she use to see one guy who used to go at it non-stop for 3 hours after taking viagra. So there are some crazy people out there.

[sensualencounter]

How many time do we have to "say" it ?? 

The pro$$ie agrees to it and consents or she doesn't.

For those that still don't get it I shall be even clearer.

Anything not agreed to by the pro$$ie is assualt and can in some cases be deemed to be rape.

Additionally even if the lass initially agrees she can still change her mind and request her punter to cease and desist.

Those that don't get this have no place on this forum IMHO.

Well said. It really doesn’t seem difficult but you only have to look at the news - constant rape, abuse, drugging, nasty shit from men. There are tonnes of men out there who have such little respect for women and think it’s their given right to get what they want from women, so it’s only logical sadly that there will be a significant proportion of these cunts on ukp.

[Hobbit]

Well said. It really doesn’t seem difficult but you only have to look at the news - constant rape, abuse, drugging, nasty shit from men. There are tonnes of men out there who have such little respect for women and think it’s their given right to get what they want from women, so it’s only logical sadly that there will be a significant proportion of these cunts on ukp.

Unfortunately, porn doesn't help the situation.

[sensualencounter]

Unfortunately, porn doesn't help the situation.

I think we’re too quick to look for excuses. A lot of us watch porn and it has no detrimental effect. Likewise, a lot of us watch horrors or gun violence but don’t go on a murder spree. The simple fact is that there are an awful lot of men with ingrained sexist, misogynistic views and they don’t want to change. It’s their self entitlement and complete lack of care about anyone but themselves that needs changing. Their rhetoric is downright nasty and they either don’t even know it (ignorance) or, much worse, know it and don’t care.
Society (men especially) need to call out this shit. But it’s a (quite literally) boys’ club and these arseholes protect eachother.

[Cum_again]

Unfortunately, porn doesn't help the situation.

Well that’s where it’s come from.  They’re like Jack hammers

I’ve never really been one to do that.  Only a couple of occasions that I can remember and those were at the request of the girl.  And one of those were anal and she had an accident so….

[Hobbit]

I think we’re too quick to look for excuses. A lot of us watch porn and it has no detrimental effect.

I have to disagree on that, unfortunately. The effects are not seen instantly and a lot of the time it affects people on a subconscious level. It may even make them behave differently throughout the day. Porn, films et cetera have a desensitising effect on people and you only notice it once you have quit it for a while.

[Hobbit]

Well that’s where it’s come from.  They’re like Jack hammers

I’ve never really been one to do that.  Only a couple of occasions that I can remember and those were at the request of the girl.  And one of those were anal and she had an accident so….

Yes, this jackhammer mentality is a huge problem. For some reason, men think women love it but in reality, they don't, well most don't and ones that do only enjoy it for a few seconds at a time.

[sensualencounter]

I have to disagree on that, unfortunately. The effects are not seen instantly and a lot of the time it affects people on a subconscious level. It may even make them behave differently throughout the day. Porn, films et cetera have a desensitising effect on people and you only notice it once you have quit it for a while.

Disagree. Not entirely as it does affect some people but they are generally the stupid and easily swayed and have that disposition anyway. To just blame porn is a cop out. There are all different types of porn out there anyway and it’s not all “jack hammer” and abuse. There’s clearly a market for it, else it wouldn’t be produced, so it makes me believe that some men are pre-disposed to the nasty shit. And it’s those cunts who abuse women / escorts.

It’s a much bigger picture than just blaming porn. A lot of these men are brough up being shown that women are lesser than men, constant misogyny from their Dads and other male peers. It’s rife, from the stupid cunt currently leading the country all the way down. Men are in a hugely privileged and advantageous position and it’s that which needs to be tackled.

If it was men being abducted, raped, drug spiked and constantly abused then the male hierarchy would have sorted it out immediately. Yet there will be more Sarah Everards out there, more women getting their drinks spiked or now themselves being spiked (fucking nasty - take a look at Nottingham and the Midlands right now) and so on.

It’s an uncomfortable truth for us men to accept, especially those of us who are genuine and think “but it’s not me”. But we need to educate our sons, lead by example and call this shit out.

[Hobbit]

Disagree. Not entirely as it does affect some people but they are generally the stupid and easily swayed and have that disposition anyway. To just blame porn is a cop out. There are all different types of porn out there anyway and it’s not all “jack hammer” and abuse. There’s clearly a market for it, else it wouldn’t be produced, so it makes me believe that some men are pre-disposed to the nasty shit. And it’s those cunts who abuse women / escorts.

It’s a much bigger picture than just blaming porn. A lot of these men are brough up being shown that women are lesser than men, constant misogyny from their Dads and other male peers. It’s rife, from the stupid cunt currently leading the country all the way down. Men are in a hugely privileged and advantageous position and it’s that which needs to be tackled.

If it was men being abducted, raped, drug spiked and constantly abused then the male hierarchy would have sorted it out immediately. Yet there will be more Sarah Everards out there, more women getting their drinks spiked or now themselves being spiked (fucking nasty - take a look at Nottingham and the Midlands right now) and so on.

It’s an uncomfortable truth for us men to accept, especially those of us who are genuine and think “but it’s not me”. But we need to educate our sons, lead by example and call this shit out.

First of all, I should have been more clear when I said porn. As I didn't mean all porn. There is plenty of porn out there that is less violent or aggressive and now there are even some female porn directors who are making porn that is more acceptable to women.

Obviously, just watching aggressive porn doesn't turn someone into a rapist or a bad person and as you said, their upbringing and male peers play a big part in it also. However, if you watch something constantly it does have a subconscious effect on you and if there are other variables at play than that subconscious effect starts becoming more conscious.

[Comicman]

I always go slow  or medium pace when I'm  fucking girls civilians and escorts due to the fact that my dick is hard long and thick and with a condom it takes me a long time to cum and i always worry about the girl getting worn out by me which always happens

[Thephoenix]

I always go slow  or medium pace when I'm  fucking girls civilians and escorts due to the fact that my dick is hard long and thick and with a condom it takes me a long time to cum and i always worry about the girl getting worn out by me which always happens

Ooh!....Hello Big Boy!

[Malvolio]

I wouldn't believe everything you read in the reviews, sometimes they are slightly exaggerated. Most guys don't last more than a few minutes and the average is anything between 6 and 12 minutes.

I don't go into a session thinking that I'm going to pound away for ages, sex is meant to be pleasurable for both parties and not an egotistical exercise. However, I do remember a forum darling who once told me that she use to see one guy who used to go at it non-stop for 3 hours after taking viagra. So there are some crazy people out there.

I certainly don't think the WGs I see find sex with me (or most punters) pleasurable; merely tolerable and worth doing for what I pay them.  Also, as I'm paying I get to decide what happens in the punt.

[sensualencounter]

I certainly don't think the WGs I see find sex with me (or most punters) pleasurable; merely tolerable and worth doing for what I pay them.  Also, as I'm paying I get to decide what happens in the punt.

Well, not exactly. If she doesn’t want to do it, then it’s her choice.

[FiveKnuckles]

I certainly don't think the WGs I see find sex with me (or most punters) pleasurable; merely tolerable and worth doing for what I pay them.  Also, as I'm paying I get to decide what happens in the punt.

The SP always decides what she wants to do or not do.  If she says no Mish, doggy or CG, I just accept and do what she allows.  None consent is rape and  perhaps a beat down from Sergei.

[Link7]

Remember we are all men here talking about our sexual encounters and performances, most likely 90% of it is bullshit.

People would do well to remember this. Believe half of what you see and none of what you hear. The many threads about making prossies cum are the best example of this...

This is a daft question really, but the fact people even ask things like this goes to show how influential the forum really is. Makes it all the more important to take what you read with a pinch of salt.

[notcalledchris]

I am not sure why people are equating going at it hard with lack of consent.  They are two different things.  In my experience it can be the gentle intimate stuff like dfk that wgs can be reluctant to provide far more  than being fucked hard.  Gentle shaggers need to be just as respectful to consent issues.

[LLPunting]

People would do well to remember this. Believe half of what you see and none of what you hear. The many threads about making prossies cum are the best example of this...

This is a daft question really, but the fact people even ask things like this goes to show how influential the forum really is. Makes it all the more important to take what you read with a pinch of salt.

And why would so many "men" collect here and collectively lie about their experiences with SPs?  Only fantasists with a number of other issues would do this. 
I've seen enough SPs that have been reviewed by others to note that they have been pretty truthful about looks, behaviour and services and even if my disappointments have not matched their joys I've had no particular reason to suspect they're lying.
I'd hope that those who may've followed in my footsteps would have found the SPs at least looking as I've described and of similar attitude and perhaps obliging of service. 

[alabama1]

Remember we are all men here talking about our sexual encounters and performances, most likely 90% of it is bullshit.

Please do not judge every punter who reviews on here by your own standards.

[Punterperson1971]

If I went ‘hard’at it I wouldn’t last more than 30 seconds

[JamesKW]

Guys, strange one but will put it out there, how hard do you fuck an sp?

Have felt i have been too soft recently and realised recently that i had been fucking an sp too lightly, in fact she said she needed it harder to cum. Also read reviews on here where the op says “pounded”, “fucked her hard” etc

How hard to you go at it without risking an sp complaining or not enjoying seeing you again?

 

I must admit I am quite light compared to most at parties,I found this to be my advantage with party girls,because when they have been heavy pounded by a number of guys they are looking for some light relief,particularly in the second part of the party,so I used to get longer sessions.

[The0neAnd0nly]

I am not sure why people are equating going at it hard with lack of consent.  They are two different things.  In my experience it can be the gentle intimate stuff like dfk that wgs can be reluctant to provide far more  than being fucked hard.  Gentle shaggers need to be just as respectful to consent issues.

I'm sorry but I don't agree with this at all. DFK is not the same thing as "hard" sex or "gentle" sex. The reason you shouldn't blast away as hard as possible without agreement from a WG first is due to the fact you could hurt her before she has a chance to tell you to slow down.

If you're being gentle or slow you can ease yourself and dictate the pace together making it less likely you'd hurt a WG.

DFK or other intimate services is completely different.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

I'm sorry but I don't agree with this at all. DFK is not the same thing as "hard" sex or "gentle" sex. The reason you shouldn't blast away as hard as possible without agreement from a WG first is due to the fact you could hurt her before she has a chance to tell you to slow down.

If you're being gentle or slow you can ease yourself and dictate the pace together making it less likely you'd hurt a WG.

DFK or other intimate services is completely different.

Yes they are, thats why so few girls offer DFK!, well the proper version of that!...

[marc_hotsteppa]

If I went ‘hard’at it I wouldn’t last more than 30 seconds

I'd have 2 pops in 30 seconds 

[Ozy84]

People would do well to remember this. Believe half of what you see and none of what you hear. The many threads about making prossies cum are the best example of this...

This is a daft question really, but the fact people even ask things like this goes to show how influential the forum really is. Makes it all the more important to take what you read with a pinch of salt.

If its a daft question, then only an idiot would comment, read/or not read and jog on 

[Ozy84]

Cheers for the reply guys, it come across my mind during a punt when a wg asked to be fucked harder so she could cum.

I haven’t contributed much in recent times so thought i would chuck it out there to get some views.

I will continue as i am 

[notcalledchris]

I'm sorry but I don't agree with this at all. DFK is not the same thing as "hard" sex or "gentle" sex. The reason you shouldn't blast away as hard as possible without agreement from a WG first is due to the fact you could hurt her before she has a chance to tell you to slow down.

If you're being gentle or slow you can ease yourself and dictate the pace together making it less likely you'd hurt a WG.

DFK or other intimate services is completely different.

. Going at it hard doesn't mean doing so without permission.  It is exactly like dfk in that what matters is consent.  My comment was that I've encountered more reluctance to consent to dfk than I have to being fucked hard. 

I repeat consent is everything

[sub_marine]

It depends on the girl.

If a girl is thin and small; she's prime smashing material. But if a girl is a porker, then it's just the slow lane.

I've found the complete opposite, and mainly stick to BBW for that reason, I need the extra cushion.  I have a weak spot which hasnt herniated yet, but probably will some day, if I bang a normal arsed SP then its painful for me for the next few days, but some big round BBW butt is perfect.  I'm not that big so never had a girl complain, I've never been able to cum through intercourse, so I'll easily bang hard for 5-10 mins without popping, one benefit of being a life long cyclist, perfect muscle groups for shagging doggy and plenty of lung capacity.