how long do guys really last

[crazy8]

haha moola is a great word

[overhead]

Plus - it isn't just about progression - it's also about keeping yourself on the brink to the point where the release is much much more intense [There are a number of skilled WGs who can do the same to you with a handjob/blowjob]

Yes, I know what you mean, but there aren't that many girls who are proficient at it, and they do tend to come expensive. Not many expensive girls are proficient on the other hand. It's not just with hj/bj's either. But the girl has to be on top to get you to the brink and keep you there, and the percentage that can do it is very low. Most girls won't even go on top let alone be fit and skilled enough to do it. When you do find one though it can be amazing.

[overhead]

Are you sure she was an anthropologist? They study humans I thought, not the comparative sexual habits of various different animals, but I may be wrong. I am not sure how you would go about finding a "wild" human as was mentioned earlier.

Absolutely. Anthropology is a branch of archaeology that deals with human history and interaction with the environment and other species, in all it's guises. It was a fair while ago, when she was doing her doctorate and in fact she is now a notable figure in the field with many publications to her name.

Can't say any more than that.

[Clicktocollect]

 i had a romanian girl who rode me so fast ive never seen anyone like her, you have to tell them to slow down....dont be afraid of round two though, dont let them get dressed thinking its all over, make her work for the moola

I used to see a Hungarian girl in the Jewelry Quarter. She would get on top and just swivel her ass (no other movement) so fast I couldn't last more than a minute but it was so sweet watching that fine ass in the mirror, almost a circular pattern. I'm getting horny just remembering it now.

[Jason]

Overhead. You may keep making as many excuses as you wish and refer to anthropology as much as you like. Perhaps it escapes you that a woman does not need an orgasm to get pregnant. However here when we are discussing about a good duration-to-ejaculate via penetration we are not only considering whether it is naturally normal for human males to ejaculate quickly but we also consider the question of whether a woman can be brought into an orgasm with that short amount of penetration time (2mins). And the answer is simple: NO and regardless of how big your penis is. Yes, you may give her a clitoral orgasm if you have good oral technique and a g-spot orgasm if you have good fingering technique, but that is not the same as an orgasm from vaginal penetration. Bare in mind that for women oxytocin is released after at least 10mins of vaginal penetration and sexual pleasure is increased after oxytocin release. Also based on the pleasure model of sexual motivation, because of this it may encourage a woman’s motivation to engage in future sexual activities with the same man.
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In general if someone were to rank the importance of several factors between vaginal sex and orgasm the ranking would be: 1. Duration/Stamina, 2. Penis Size, 3. Sex Technique.

ALL 3 aspects are VERY important. Assuming your penis is at least average then lasting long and having good technique are things that you can teach yourself and have all 3 aspects of being considered very good in bed. If you ejaculate in 2 mins then you are extremely very far from the ideal sexual partner. Yes you may say that you don't care about pleasing a WG but the topic is not restricted only to sex with WGs.

[The President]

Depends - a relaxed evening outcall when away on a business trip after I have had a meal and couple of pints before going back to hotel, shower and wait for WG I can last quite a while and generally have 90min/2hr bookings

A quick incall I am starting to think an hour is a waste as normally done in 20mins - and time actual intercourse can vary a great deal, I have noticed girls clamping down or trying to get aggressive at hand jobs/bjs though and stop them and wont return "/

[potato]

As per some of Jason's comments regarding the time taken for women to reach orgasm is probably why some guys on here don't believe that some of us can make girls come? I know that my own regular takes 10 to 15 mins of penetration before she gets there for the first one but then after that one if you keep going the next one is only a few minutes away etc.,  So my experience with her, with me being a laster, would be totally different to someone that's in and out in 5 minutes.  I wish it was possible to switch between the two extremes as I slightly envy those that can get 2 or 3 pops in an hours session!  On the whole though, I would rather last longer because I get the chance to enjoy the view on doggy for instance without worrying it will be all over in a couple of minutes.  As for a second pop, well no chance of that with me - no problem after a 20 min break to get up and running again so I still get the fun but without the finish.

[mr man]

This has all made for some interesting reading. Just to let you all know tho, you can get medication that makes you last longer. look up "priligy" (pretty sure thats how to spell it) should be prescription only but it's possible to get it online. expensive but it does work. I've used it a few times and go from only lasting 3 or 4 mins to lasting as long as I want.
start with 30mg and take 90 mins.before action

[joe diddley]

When I was younger I would pop very quickly (though in those days it was only civilian sex). Now I'm older holding out for 30 minutes isn't very difficult. The problem is more round two. Although I can sustain a second erection quite easily, I often find it hard to come a second time over the course of an hour. If I book for an hour, I like round one to finish in about 30 minutes and then try for round two. If I don't succeed on the second time, I don't mind so long as I've had fun trying. Sometimes though I'll book half hour punts instead if I doubt the WG's degree of application in the second half hour or if she's new to me. I could probably manage round two in the context of a 90 minute punt, but then of course that's more expensive and I reckon the money is better spent on three half hour punts at different times (and possibly with different girls!). The holy grail for me is to find a girl who can routinely make me come more than once in an hour, rather than only sometimes achieving this.

To the OP I would say, don't worry too much if after ejaculating you find you can get it up again quickly. Relax and enjoy quick ejaculation while you can get it and, when you make bookings, make absolutely sure that the WG in question allows multiple pops as some seem to think that you've paid for one pop and not for the hour. I remember Laura MacKenzie, much missed Scottish lassie from Baron's Court, saying how she'd got 6 pops on one occasion out of one lucky young fella. Remembering her fantastic attitude and exemplary technique with some fondness I don't doubt it.

[mr man]

There was a scientific study (can't find the site tho) where they timed couples having sex. They then asked both people how long they thought the sex lasted.
The man said "5 mins" the woman said "20 mins" They had in fact been at it for 10 mins.
So men under estimate and women over estimate. Maybe that's why some escorts kick you out early coz they think you've been there longer lol

[fredpunter]

There was a scientific study (can't find the site tho) where they timed couples having sex. They then asked both people how long they thought the sex lasted.
The man said "5 mins" the woman said "20 mins" They had in fact been at it for 10 mins.
So men under estimate and women over estimate. Maybe that's why some escorts kick you out early coz they think you've been there longer lol

On that basis I must be able to shag for about a fortnight

[overhead]

Overhead. You may keep making as many excuses as you wish and refer to anthropology as much as you like. Perhaps it escapes you that a woman does not need an orgasm to get pregnant.

.... Off topic crap snipped ....

What the fuck are you on about?

I'm not making excuses, just passing on information, and I'm happy how I am thank you very much! Read the title of the thread. It's not called how to last longer, it's called how long do guys really last. I think a lot of the posts on the subject are made up - much like a lot of other stuff that's written about sex, especially by guys. The OP wanted to exchange a bit of info, not attract lots of empty boasts.

And what has pregnancy got to do with how long the guy lasts?   Irrelevant nonsense

[smiths]

There was a scientific study (can't find the site tho) where they timed couples having sex. They then asked both people how long they thought the sex lasted.
The man said "5 mins" the woman said "20 mins" They had in fact been at it for 10 mins.
So men under estimate and women over estimate. Maybe that's why some escorts kick you out early coz they think you've been there longer lol

Assuming this were to be true even more reason for a punter to take his own watch to punts and ensure the WG sees him look at it at the start as i have suggested before and which i do when punting and especially with newbie WGs to me. I also ensure the WG sees me look at it in the breaks i need, i rarely get short changed on time, if i pay for an hour its an hour i expect of the WGs time and attention.

[Ramin]

This really interesting subject. I have actually little bit different issue. I can last up to 1 hour. But I want know how to do two session in hour. I need more time after the first session. How can I do two short sessions.

Thanks, any tips will very appreciated. How to start the session.

cheers

Ramin

[Ramin]

HMD,
For me it is easier to last longer when i am lying underneath or doggy with mish fastest but this will vary depending on the situation - Your mileage may vary.
Why don't you tell her how fast and hard to go? i don't have any problem in asking someone or listening when they say ....

As to how long, well my dick seems to have a mind of its own sometimes, the fastest probably around 30 secs and the longest two hours despite being on the edge and wanting to cum!
Mostly i like to have some oral, few positions then cum, same again for round two within an hour booking.

I am the same I can last very long. But how can I do two session within one hour. I am last till up to hour is great. But I want to try two shorter sessions. Just need some longer time between session. How do I do that?

cheers

[Ramin]

When I was younger I would pop very quickly (though in those days it was only civilian sex). Now I'm older holding out for 30 minutes isn't very difficult. The problem is more round two. Although I can sustain a second erection quite easily, I often find it hard to come a second time over the course of an hour. If I book for an hour, I like round one to finish in about 30 minutes and then try for round two. If I don't succeed on the second time, I don't mind so long as I've had fun trying. Sometimes though I'll book half hour punts instead if I doubt the WG's degree of application in the second half hour or if she's new to me. I could probably manage round two in the context of a 90 minute punt, but then of course that's more expensive and I reckon the money is better spent on three half hour punts at different times (and possibly with different girls!). The holy grail for me is to find a girl who can routinely make me come more than once in an hour, rather than only sometimes achieving this.

To the OP I would say, don't worry too much if after ejaculating you find you can get it up again quickly. Relax and enjoy quick ejaculation while you can get it and, when you make bookings, make absolutely sure that the WG in question allows multiple pops as some seem to think that you've paid for one pop and not for the hour. I remember Laura MacKenzie, much missed Scottish lassie from Baron's Court, saying how she'd got 6 pops on one occasion out of one lucky young fella. Remembering her fantastic attitude and exemplary technique with some fondness I don't doubt it.

I love having long session. But also want to learn how to have two short session in one hour. Usually need more time. Any tips will be welcome

[Jason]

What the fuck are you on about?

I'm not making excuses, just passing on information, and I'm happy how I am thank you very much! Read the title of the thread. It's not called how to last longer, it's called how long do guys really last. I think a lot of the posts on the subject are made up - much like a lot of other stuff that's written about sex, especially by guys. The OP wanted to exchange a bit of info, not attract lots of empty boasts.

And what has pregnancy got to do with how long the guy lasts?   Irrelevant nonsense

Perhaps your brain is really over your head. 

You are the one who gives irrelevant bullshit about archaeology and anthropology and how humans evolved to finish early during sex and about your friend who has a PhD and is now an established academic in the field. In nature all animals have sex for reproduction, not necessarily for pleasure and if that is all that the OP is worried about then your post about anthropology is relevant. Yes, he will manage to make a woman pregnant and perpetuate the species. This is as far as anthropology is concerned. It is neuroscience that deals with the orgasms etc and what women expect/want.

Clearly the OP asked this question hoping to get a confirmation of the type: “Look everyone else here lasts very short, so women will not generally expect me to last long so I don't need to consider the fact that I last only 2mins as a problem so I don't need to do anything about it”. What I am telling him is that it is possible to train himself to last as long as he wants and that this is what women really want/expect during sex. At least I try to help the OP instead of assuring him that he is OK and call liars all the others who say the opposite.

[rockharders]

What the fuck are you on about?

I'm not making excuses, just passing on information, and I'm happy how I am thank you very much! Read the title of the thread. It's not called how to last longer, it's called how long do guys really last. I think a lot of the posts on the subject are made up - much like a lot of other stuff that's written about sex, especially by guys. The OP wanted to exchange a bit of info, not attract lots of empty boasts.

And what has pregnancy got to do with how long the guy lasts?   Irrelevant nonsense

OP asked a legit question, you got a range of legit replies here from 2 minute shooters to lasting for hours. Fact is, some of us can last as long as we want. Live with it. Some guys have got a bigger dick than me, I don't care, but I'm not going to fucking rant and cry sour grapes because of it. Just because our replies are not what you expect or what you want to hear, does not mean we are lying or bragging.

[cjkanye02]

OP asked a legit question, you got a range of legit replies here from 2 minute shooters to lasting for hours. Fact is, some of us can last as long as we want. Live with it. Some guys have got a bigger dick than me, I don't care, but I'm not going to fucking rant and cry sour grapes because of it. Just because our replies are not what you expect or what you want to hear, does not mean we are lying or bragging.

+1. It's like doing a poll on cock size or salary and telling yourself that everyone who reports less than you is telling the truth, and everyone who reports more is lying.

I went to LMP last week and had a nice threesome and lasted a good twenty minutes with two girls all over me.

Felt pretty good, but then some 60 year old dude came up and shagged some poor girl for ages like his life depended on it, giving her a massive orgasm. He then moved onto the next and did the same with her. I didn't feel like the big man after that!

We are all different so chill out and enjoy your shagging (all 2 minutes of it! )

[joe diddley]

Felt pretty good, but then some 60 year old dude came up and shagged some poor girl for ages like his life depended on it, giving her a massive orgasm. He then moved onto the next and did the same with her. I didn't feel like the big man after that!

Yeah, sorry about that. 

[cjkanye02]

Yeah, sorry about that. 

Haha. I have to say I was quite envious. This girl had been fucking and having guys go down on her for 3 hours, then this ordinary looking old guy walks up, rogered her senseless and she was screaming with genuine pleasure. Made me want to up my game!!

[rubric]

Yes, I know what you mean, but there aren't that many girls who are proficient at it, and they do tend to come expensive. Not many expensive girls are proficient on the other hand. It's not just with hj/bj's either. But the girl has to be on top to get you to the brink and keep you there, and the percentage that can do it is very low. Most girls won't even go on top let alone be fit and skilled enough to do it. When you do find one though it can be amazing.

Yeah - so imagine you could do exactly the same thing via controlling yourself.

[GeeWiz]

I love having long session. But also want to learn how to have two short session in one hour. Usually need more time. Any tips will be welcome

My modus operandi in an hour booking is to get the formalities out of the way toute suite and get straight down to round one of whatever gives you a quick jizz.  Clean up, then massage and relaxed chat before you're ready for round two.  Depending on your refractory period you should have plenty of time for positions.  So perhaps best not to view it as two short sessions, but rather one quicky and one regular.

Incidentally, one extremely fit escort - but with prices to reflect - I managed to do this with in a half hour session.  The shower was on her time, not mine though.

[Whitebeer]

I must admit that I take far too long. I just don't what it is. I've had complaints from girls. (WGs) that it takes the piss. Average I would sai half hour constant drilling. Although I've done an overnight where I didn't manage to finish. 

[Roth]

The quicker you pop, the quicker you move to Round2, Round3, Round4.  More bangs for the buck as they say!!

[elihd]

Most men in the UK are not circumcised i.e. they tend to pop quicker. I unfortunately is circumcised and regretting it done + i watch porn often. Having protected sex can be a nightmare sometimes. I only ever once cum inside the wg (with condom) the rest is either owo or hand reliefs. 

[HarryRoss]

The first time is really easy to cum, thus you need to be slowly at first until you can fully control yourself, don't focus on the girl and think something else will help you to pass the most sensitive period, then you can do it as you wish.

For me, the first time I normally cum in 10-15 mins, but recently I found I can last longer if I wanna fully control. Btw I'm an extremely guy and I do not prefer being slowly, I mean do with my fastest speed for 10-15 mins without having a break, that really make lots of fun.

The second time I can go last up to 30 mins, fastest speed too. And usually the second time people tend to maintain longer (normally 5-15 mins), as I mentioned above, do some mind discretion, think about others like news, stock price, markets etc. which will boots your performance.

Btw, maintain your physical exercise, running is highly recommended. I run 5 miles every day, which significantly improved my body. And do not masturbate often, that will make you soft and weak, cum quicker and get a erection problem.

Good Luck

 

[rudolph hucker]

1st time is always quick (5 mins tops) as the anticipation usually is too much, 2nd time within the hour is a far more relaxed and pleasurable affair.

[GeeWiz]

Most men in the UK are not circumcised i.e. they tend to pop quicker. I unfortunately is circumcised and regretting it done + i watch porn often. Having protected sex can be a nightmare sometimes. I only ever once cum inside the wg (with condom) the rest is either owo or hand reliefs. 

I've experienced intercourse with and without a foreskin.  The only time being circumcised has held me back is during HR if a girl yanks at it sans lube.  I always mention this to a new partner as many lack this experience.

[Jackjones]

And do not masturbate often, that will make you soft and weak, cum quicker and get a erection problem.

Good Luck

.... ummm that would be new to me, could have for the life of me sworn masturbation incressed your performance time as you got used to the feeling. After all i've been with some tight girls in my time but pam's still the tightest.

in regards to how long i last, most WG's hate me! Its normally 50/50 if i will cum once on an hour punt and never have i cum twice yet even if i do cum my little man will still stay soldier on, braging? no its bloody annoying -_-

[GrumpyoldGit]

Usually I only last a couple of minutes at the longest.
Its probably the turn on of being with someone new or that they are tight.
However if I am relaxed with the girl then I have been known to last about 10 mins.

[HarryRoss]

.... ummm that would be new to me, could have for the life of me sworn masturbation incressed your performance time as you got used to the feeling. After all i've been with some tight girls in my time but pam's still the tightest.

in regards to how long i last, most WG's hate me! Its normally 50/50 if i will cum once on an hour punt and never have i cum twice yet even if i do cum my little man will still stay soldier on, braging? no its bloody annoying -_-

The series problems that I mentioned above mainly happen on those office workers without doing physical exercises, and those college students who're doing hardcore masturbate every day.

For me, before I met my first wg, I've not run for a while, but usually masturbated at least 2-3 times a week. After I met the wg, I realized my penis was much more sensitive than before and my performance was below my anticipation, that's kinda embarrassing. Thus I resumed my running and stop masturbating. Then only 7 days later, I booked a Czech girl and fucked her to the climax. That's the different.

I mean if you keep doing exercise to maintain healthy, that will normally not a problem, or you can both masturbate and sex during your life. However, only masturbate will tend to cause some healthy and mental problems.

[vt]

It takes all sorts! 

Reading about you guys with hair triggers, I have the opposite problem, I'm pretty slow, esp with a rubber on. I was at a party today and guys were cumming left, right & centre in the room, but I was on my 3rd girl over an hour in before I came. A second pop is often elusive too, but after a 10 min rest, I can normally get hard again and last to the end of a 2 hr party with enough of an erection to be useful.

Age and condoms are definitely conspiring against me...or maybe it's good to have long-lasting stamina! 

[Nimrod]

I had a PE problem which has been solved, unintentionally, by medication. The treatment for another "condition" involves a prescription one of the side effects of which can be anorgasmia (the inability to orgasm) or, at least, considerably more difficulty in doing so. When the doctor informed me of this and asked if I remained willing to go ahead with the treatment, I had to work quite hard not to show my delight as I have suffered from PE all my life.

The before and after: Generally (historically), it takes me 30 seconds to 2 minutes to reach orgasm. With real effort, short breaks, and if I don't feel too horny, I could add another minute to that. But the average is probably two minutes -- and less if I've had no sex for a long time and/or I am really excited.

Post the above treatment, I now comfortably last between 5 and 10 minutes. 5 minutes is no problem and would be average unrestrained. With some pacing and moderate attention to detail, I can easily double that and a bit more. I would say average of recent punts is probably about 8 minutes post penetration.

This has made a massive difference for me. I have no wish to become a 30 minute-a-go stud but 30 seconds was problematic. Now, at around 8 minutes, I feel I am lasting long enough to enjoy myself more, to give the girl some pleasure and generally to feel good. Sex is a "passage" rather than "in-come-out".  I actually, a couple of weeks ago, gave a girl what to the best of my knowledge was the first penetrative (as opposed to oral) orgasm I've ever managed. I couldn't believe it.

Anyway, my point is that there are clearly treatments out there, and sorting out PE problems really does make a massive difference both your self esteem and to your ability to enjoy punting.