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Author Topic: Do you care if the SP is in a serious relationship? If so how much?  (Read 1266 times)

Offline No None Sense

One of my new SP providers who has been reviewed here before told me you would be surprised how many of these girls have serious boy friends or husbands!
I was shagging one in every hole (she has been reviewed here as well) for a long time but then realised she had been living with the boyfriend and then I stopped seeing her as I felt sorry for the bastard guy!
What would you do?

Offline Jonestown

One of my new SP providers who has been reviewed here before told me you would be surprised how many of these girls have serious boy friends or husbands!
I was shagging one in every hole (she has been reviewed here as well) for a long time but then realised she had been living with the boyfriend and then I stopped seeing her as I felt sorry for the bastard guy!
What would you do?

If I was you I'd change my user name to Total Nosey Twat.

Offline Silver Birch

One of my new SP providers who has been reviewed here before told me you would be surprised how many of these girls have serious boy friends or husbands!
I was shagging one in every hole (she has been reviewed here as well) for a long time but then realised she had been living with the boyfriend and then I stopped seeing her as I felt sorry for the bastard guy!
What would you do?

What's this bollocks?  :bomb:

That bastard guy was enjoying a cut of your cash, and he couldn't give a fuck which hole you use and abuse  :dash: :dash:

Offline The Film Director

If I was you I'd change my user name to Total Nosey Twat.

+1   :dash:

Offline No None Sense

If I was you I'd change my user name to Total Nosey Twat.
Thanks for the advice! Not sure why u call me nosy as I can't care any less about anyone's (including yours!) private life but have enjoyed your views!
I didn't ask but I found out.
I am sure punters have different views
« Last Edit: August 19, 2019, 03:22:38 pm by No None Sense »

Offline Fuzzyduck

What (the fuck) is wrong with you? If you don't care, why do you care if other people care?

Offline NigelF

Not sure why u call me nosy as I can't care any less about anyone's (including yours!) private life but have enjoyed your views!

Obviously you do otherwise you wouldn't have stopped seeing her or posted this thread.

There is a small chance she was lying to you although it is unlikely (usually it would be the other round).

Anyway I couldn't care less. A WG's personal life is none of my business. I certainly wouldn't let it get in the way of my enjoyment and I don't see what good stopping see her would do. I also don't feel sorry for a guy who financially benefits (albeit indirectly) from the money I've given her.

Online finn5555


 I can't care any less about anyone's (including yours!) private life


you clearly do  :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy:

Johnny2050

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In general they say they have no boyfriend no husband, but they all lie.

I feel bad for the boyfriend, but I wonder what service he gets? Does he get the true PSE or does it get the mechanical HJ with a bad look?

Offline winkywanky

One of my new SP providers who has been reviewed here before told me you would be surprised how many of these girls have serious boy friends or husbands!
I was shagging one in every hole (she has been reviewed here as well) for a long time but then realised she had been living with the boyfriend and then I stopped seeing her as I felt sorry for the bastard guy!
What would you do?


It wouldn't bother me in the slightest. Why should it?

You broke the first rule of punting: apart from being decent to the girl in a booking you are merely there to pleasure yourself (and if your pleasure extends to giving her some too, then that too). It is a paid transaction. Nothing more, nothing less.

Unless you think she is being forced or coerced in some way, when you've paid your money, fucked her and left the premises your liability/interest ends there.

Worrying about whether a girl has a bf or husband is neither here no there, that's up to her (and hopefully her old man knows what she does). It's a matter for them, NOT for you. It might pay for their posh holidays, it might pay their mortgage, it might give her old man the right horn.

If something as negligible as this is putting you off then I think you're also at great risk of that great punting catastrophe: Emotional Attachment Syndrome.



« Last Edit: August 19, 2019, 03:47:05 pm by winkywanky »

Offline threechilliman

One of my new SP providers who has been reviewed here before told me you would be surprised how many of these girls have serious boy friends or husbands!
I was shagging one in every hole (she has been reviewed here as well) for a long time but then realised she had been living with the boyfriend and then I stopped seeing her as I felt sorry for the bastard guy!
What would you do?

Keep on fucking her. Not interested in a girls private life.

Offline No None Sense


It wouldn't bother me in the slightest. Why should it?

You broke the first rule of punting: apart from being decent to the girl in a booking you are merely there to pleasure yourself (and if your pleasure extends to giving her some too, then that too). It is a paid transaction. Nothing more, nothing less.

Unless you think she is being forced or coerced in some way, when you've paid your money, fucked her and left the premises your liability/interest ends there.

Worrying about whether a girl has a bf or husband is neither here no there, that's up to her (and hopefully her old man knows what she does). It's a matter for them, NOT for you. It might pay for their posh holidays, it might pay their mortgage, it might give her old man the right horn.

If something as negligible as this is putting you off then I think you're also at great risk of that great punting catastrophe: Emotional Attachment Syndrome.
Thank you Sir.   :hi:
I think some (if not most of us) got attached to SPs to some degree early in our punting lives and dealing with that made us stronger and gave us more confidence and clearer view of what to expect and not to expect.
I remember there was a post that the poor guy thought the SP loved her as she didn't charge her as much as others and he didn't know what to do and someone told him" Review her here and see others' view of her to get over her!"
Thanks for your view.

Offline BillGoldberg

Don't care at all, makes zero difference to me  :unknown:

Offline Colston36

One of my new SP providers who has been reviewed here before told me you would be surprised how many of these girls have serious boy friends or husbands!
I was shagging one in every hole (she has been reviewed here as well) for a long time but then realised she had been living with the boyfriend and then I stopped seeing her as I felt sorry for the bastard guy!
What would you do?

Almost every girl I see has a partner/husband. I have been in threesomes with four and their partners, been driven to and from their place by partners pf two others. Your attitude is utterly illogical. Are you also shocked to know that you're not the only one they see? Seek psychiatric help before it is too late.
« Last Edit: August 19, 2019, 06:29:58 pm by Colston36 »

Offline Hobbit

 These questions are getting worse and worse. Seriously dude, why would anyone care?
 If you worry about these things then you need to take up another hobby. Leave this to the big boys.  :lol:

Offline manorf

We have to see these things as commercial transactions - particularly so from the girl's point of view.
I recently saw a well reviewed SP who told me that she is retiring soon as she wants to settle down and have kids with her current boyfriend. He has no idea about her 'other life'. She knows that her income will reduce when that happens and is preparing for the day.
In a way - repeat visits will help her to her goal.

Offline webpunter

You should change your nic
Delete 'None'

One of my new SP providers who has been reviewed here before told me you would be surprised how many of these girls have serious boy friends or husbands!
I was shagging one in every hole (she has been reviewed here as well) for a long time but then realised she had been living with the boyfriend and then I stopped seeing her as I felt sorry for the bastard guy!
What would you do?

Offline Jonestown

We have to see these things as commercial transactions - particularly so from the girl's point of view.
I recently saw a well reviewed SP who told me that she is retiring soon as she wants to settle down and have kids with her current boyfriend. He has no idea about her 'other life'. She knows that her income will reduce when that happens and is preparing for the day.
In a way - repeat visits will help her to her goal.

Do you think you will have time to get in a review before she retires ?

Offline manorf

Do you think you will have time to get in a review before she retires ?

My review would concur with the opinion of many others - a well reviewed girl - so adds nothing to guide potential clients. In view of my previous comments - I won't be naming her, for the sake of discretion.

Offline manorf

Do you think you will have time to get in a review before she retires ?
I look forward to contributing via reviews when appropriate and when it would be beneficial to the community. Reviews of since retired girls are pointless - unless they re-appear, of course.
Sure, I could have left a review of Soho Roxy - but it absolutely concurs with the consensus view and adds nothing. Regrettably, I cannot review my 2 regular girls as one works at The Axe and the other at The Griffin! Remember what happened to Jai (James) when she was outed and still worked at Brown's.

Offline No None Sense

I should have mentioned, the SP is a massage therapist and not an escort and she does the standard B2B and so on

Online finn5555

I should have mentioned, the SP is a massage therapist and not an escort and she does the standard B2B and so on

She is still a prostitute  :thumbsup:

Offline Jonestown

I should have mentioned, the SP is a massage therapist and not an escort and she does the standard B2B and so on

A massage therapist you shagged in every hole, well you just have to tell us who that is now, a lot of us will want some of that  :thumbsup:

Offline No None Sense

She is still a prostitute  :thumbsup:
I agree with you.
What would you do? Still shag her and laugh with her to the boyfriend?

Offline No None Sense

I agree with you.
What would you do? Still shag her and laugh with her to the boyfriend?
She doesn't deserve the publicity!

Offline No None Sense

A massage therapist you shagged in every hole, well you just have to tell us who that is now, a lot of us will want some of that  :thumbsup:
She doesn't deserve the publicity!

Online finn5555

I agree with you.
What would you do? Still shag her and laugh with her to the boyfriend?

What I would do is academic but you sound a wrongen  :hi:

Offline smiths

One of my new SP providers who has been reviewed here before told me you would be surprised how many of these girls have serious boy friends or husbands!
I was shagging one in every hole (she has been reviewed here as well) for a long time but then realised she had been living with the boyfriend and then I stopped seeing her as I felt sorry for the bastard guy!
What would you do?

I wouldn't know unless a WG tells me she is married/has a boyfriend which I have no interest in and it makes no odds to me at all. Why on earth would I care, I have no idea who a WG might be fucking when not with me which is most of her time obviously. And I am not in the slightest surprised to hear some WGs have partners as its not something AT ALL surprising. The fact you find it fascinating is up to you. :rolleyes: And I most certainly wouldn't stop punting with a WG because I felt sorry for her partner, very strange thinking, I would advise you taking up knitting but be warned it can be cut throat. :rolleyes:

Offline smiths

I look forward to contributing via reviews when appropriate and when it would be beneficial to the community. Reviews of since retired girls are pointless - unless they re-appear, of course.
Sure, I could have left a review of Soho Roxy - but it absolutely concurs with the consensus view and adds nothing. Regrettably, I cannot review my 2 regular girls as one works at The Axe and the other at The Griffin! Remember what happened to Jai (James) when she was outed and still worked at Brown's.

Been looking forward to it for the 3 years you have been a member of UKP I assume. :rolleyes: As to your rubbish reason for not reviewing its a good job for UKP that we don't all think like you, UKP would of folded years ago using your logic. :rolleyes: Plus 6 posts in over 3 years, thanks for the effort you have made. :rolleyes:

Offline Silver Birch

I was shagging one in every hole (she has been reviewed here as well) for a long time

I should have mentioned, the SP is a massage therapist and not an escort and she does the standard B2B and so on

Now you have proved you are talking bollocks, making it up as you go along  :bomb: :bomb:

Offline mattylondon

Now you have proved you are talking bollocks, making it up as you go along  :bomb: :bomb:
A punter, who's fucking some whore in all available holes, then suddenly develops a heart of gold... it's the stuff of Mills and Boon.

Brings tears to my eyes, truly..

I doubt any of it is genuine... more like he couldn't handle not being the centre of attention and got jealous. Sounds more like one of those clingy, fluffy, nosey cunts to me.
« Last Edit: August 19, 2019, 11:57:28 pm by mattylondon »

Offline Kev40ish

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She doesn't deserve the publicity!

I think that shows your just a fantasist!!

Offline Fuzzyduck

You should change your nic
Delete 'None'

... or "one"

I got suspicious as soon as I read "SP provider".

Ron da Cuba

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I was a regular some years ago with a now retired SP. We used to chat a lot after sex. She told me that she got lonely with no bf. So she went onto Tinder. Found a really nice guy and started dating. Then she had to tell him what she really did for a living. Fortunately for her he lived at home with Mum and Dad and was a student. So he was in a weak position from the start.He moved in rent free. I asked her if they had sex much and she said " After up to 9 guys in one day do you really think I'm up for it in the evening with the bf?"!! So those people who think it must be great to have a whore for a gf are sadly mistaken.

Offline Whatthehellynot

Nope, don't care if the WG is attached in any way.  Her private life is hers, same as my private life is none of her business. 

Though, now I think about it, if they are attached it would probably be better. Less chance they're looking for a husband, and if their in a lesbian relationship..... possibilities abound  :wacko:

Offline manorf

Been looking forward to it for the 3 years you have been a member of UKP I assume. :rolleyes: As to your rubbish reason for not reviewing its a good job for UKP that we don't all think like you, UKP would of folded years ago using your logic. :rolleyes: Plus 6 posts in over 3 years, thanks for the effort you have made. :rolleyes:
smiths, you sarcasm hasn't changed!! I remember you from the old Maxes Angels parties!!

NicoleNibbles

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I wonder if the partner annoyance stems from jealousy. The thought that some guy has it all for free. Plus the thought of your cash going to the partner in some way such as bills etc.
Shouldn't be an issue, not like we only fuck one ss. But that never really seems to be a problem, well apart from the emotionally attached punters.

Offline smiths

smiths, you sarcasm hasn't changed!! I remember you from the old Maxes Angels parties!!

Strange that as I have NEVER been to a Maxes Angels party, :rolleyes: and I clashed a lot with Max Angel on another punting forum years ago, he was a total arsehole and I most certainly wouldn't punt through him and never did.


Offline smiths

I wonder if the partner annoyance stems from jealousy. The thought that some guy has it all for free. Plus the thought of your cash going to the partner in some way such as bills etc.
Shouldn't be an issue, not like we only fuck one ss. But that never really seems to be a problem, well apart from the emotionally attached punters.

Its also a case of a punter not knowing what a WG does in her private life unless she tells him, and that could be made up just as I make it up if asked about my private. So whoever you are fucking makes no odds to me as that's your business.

As to getting it for free, its often not really free in a relationship as women in my experience do like to moan and groan and it ends up costing more in cash terms than punting sometimes. However, you cant be a price on real love, but that can wear off as I well know, that's called life.

Offline No None Sense

I repeat I am talking about a MASSAGE THERAPIST working in a massage place and NOT a normal ESCORT.
I also agree the less you know and the less they know the better. But if you enjoy their company and the sex is great and you spend a couple of hours a week with them for a couple of years you are bound to have something more than a pump and dump.

Offline Fuzzyduck

I repeat I am talking about a MASSAGE THERAPIST working in a massage place and NOT a normal ESCORT.
I also agree the less you know and the less they know the better. But if you enjoy their company and the sex is great and you spend a couple of hours a week with them for a couple of years you are bound to have something more than a pump and dump.

Why is this important? Do you think you're special by receiving services from a massage therapist?

Offline winkywanky

I repeat I am talking about a MASSAGE THERAPIST working in a massage place and NOT a normal ESCORT.
I also agree the less you know and the less they know the better. But if you enjoy their company and the sex is great and you spend a couple of hours a week with them for a couple of years you are bound to have something more than a pump and dump.


If you think she 'only does massage' but she's fucking you because you have some kind of 'special understanding' with her, you are sadly deluded. She'll be doing it with other guys too.

Add to that you being concerned about her other half, and I think you're possibly a little naive in these matters.

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If you think she 'only does massage' but she's fucking you because you have some kind of 'special understanding' with her, you are sadly deluded. She'll be doing it with other guys too.

Add to that you being concerned about her other half, and I think you're possibly a little naive in these matters.

Also if the OP supplied a link I bet there is a number of people on here, who has been there before

Offline No None Sense

Why is this important? Do you think you're special by receiving services from a massage therapist?
I appreciate that people are different. Someone pays the advertised price and get the listed services (like a big Mac Meal) , Others get the buzz when they get what was not agreed but expected. Try it you might like it!

Offline No None Sense


If you think she 'only does massage' but she's fucking you because you have some kind of 'special understanding' with her, you are sadly deluded. She'll be doing it with other guys too.

Add to that you being concerned about her other half, and I think you're possibly a little naive in these matters.
You are one of my heros  :hi: and have a lot of respect for you. But not everyone is as experienced as you and so many others here.
I just get the buzz when I do them without prior arrangement and I have no doubt they fuck others.
People are different and that's the beauty of it.

Offline No None Sense

I appreciate that people are different. Someone pays the advertised price and get the listed services (like a big Mac Meal) , Others get the buzz when they get what was not agreed but expected. Try it you might like it!
I know the bitch is a member here so sorry I can't  :dash:

Offline Fuzzyduck

I appreciate that people are different. Someone pays the advertised price and get the listed services (like a big Mac Meal) , Others get the buzz when they get what was not agreed but expected. Try it you might like it!

Well since (a) she's already reviewed on here and (b) you've stopped seeing her anyway, you will have no problems in telling us who she is.

I'm also flabberghasted that, since you claim to have seen her for a couple of hours a week for a couple of years (let's call that 200 hours of close contact time) that you didn't know some basic details, e.g. she was living with her boyfriend. Fucking troll.

Offline winkywanky

You are one of my heros  :hi: and have a lot of respect for you. But not everyone is as experienced as you and so many others here.
I just get the buzz when I do them without prior arrangement and I have no doubt they fuck others.
People are different and that's the beauty of it.


Yes, it's nice when the unexpected happens and occasionally it does.

[Don't call me a hero, I'd be a letdown in real life  :blush:  :D]

Offline Crackanut

What a load of bollocks. You delusional attention seeking moron.

Offline No None Sense

Well since (a) she's already reviewed on here and (b) you've stopped seeing her anyway, you will have no problems in telling us who she is.

I'm also flabberghasted that, since you claim to have seen her for a couple of hours a week for a couple of years (let's call that 200 hours of close contact time) that you didn't know some basic details, e.g. she was living with her boyfriend. Fucking troll.
When someone googles a number on adult work and finds out about this great site accidentally and joins doesn't mean they become active members instantly. I suppose you have forgotten your early days here.