Lasting longer

[Clarence Boddicker]

Hey guys, I find on a punt, I try my hardest to not have penetrative sex for as long as possible, when receiving oral, I'm fine, I relax, I really enjoy it and I can seemingly last forever, but once intercourse has commenced, I stiffen slightly as I know pretty much I'm coming to the end of my session.I wouldn't say so much that I'm suffering PE, but I would also say that I'd like to last longer if at all possible. So a) I was wondering if something similar applies to others and b) what advice and tips could you give to improve stamina etc?

[YorkshireLad]

Have you tried having 2 pops in a session? I’m a very quick cummer the first time but last much longer for the second time.

[Clarence Boddicker]

Have you tried having 2 pops in a session? I’m a very quick cummer the first time but last much longer for the second time.

I'm very much a one pop person, I think I've only ever come twice on one occasion, funnily enough is when watching porn, my recovery is much quicker than when doing the real thing, funnily enough that's totally another aspect that would enhance my session

[spiralnotebook]

Get a bicycle inner tube cut off a length and tie a knot in one end, that should do the job nicely.


 

[Georgedaviesok]

I recently started using cock rings, mainly for staying hard throughout but have found they make me last for ages so its a double bonus for me.

Yet to use one with an escort though, I might be embarrassed to ask although I doubt they would bat an eyelid.

[Stevelondon]

I recently started using cock rings, mainly for staying hard throughout but have found they make me last for ages so its a double bonus for me.

Yet to use one with an escort though, I might be embarrassed to ask although I doubt they would bat an eyelid.

Most have seen and heard it all before.  I would'nt worry.

[jimbobted]

Yeah more than once I've had escorts ask me if I want a cock ring. One early in my punting career even put one on me without asking, it had a little vibrator on it too, found it a bit distracting so I took it off.
The problem o have with cockrings is that they stop me from cumming, I dont mean I can't orgasm, I orgasm but the jizz can't get out, last time I ended up having to slip a finger under and yank it away from my balls. Thought I was going to rupture something!

[Thephoenix]

I recently started using cock rings, mainly for staying hard throughout but have found they make me last for ages so its a double bonus for me.

Yet to use one with an escort though, I might be embarrassed to ask although I doubt they would bat an eyelid.

I use a cock ring all the time.
The only time I had a negative reaction was when Dr was checking my prostate.

If you want to last longer..... grow old!

[mrfishyfoo]

I use a cock ring all the time.
The only time I had a negative reaction was when Dr was checking my prostate.

If you want to last longer..... grow old!

This ^^^ 

Being serious ask your doctor if you are suited to dapoxetine.

[Bonker]

Go through the worst escort postings and file some away in your memory. Then recall them at the opportune moment.

[Home Alone]

As a late, and elderly, arrival to the World of Punt, I go for as much help as I can get.

I'm slightly mis-using the word "fortunate" in the following sentence, but you'll see why when I write: "I'm fortunate enough to have been born with a medical complaint, which means that I automatically qualify for Viagra. (Sildenafil.)"

I've recounted on various threads on here over the years how I discovered that when I suffered erectile difficulties with a girl who worked 15+ years ago in a now-defunct "Massage Parlour" in Bury. She offered to source some Kamagra for me but I wanted my GP to check my heart, etc. And the GP - God bless her - told me that: i) there were no problems with my heart to make sex risky for the 59-y-o me ; and ii) that, because of my disability, I qualified for 4 Viagra a month on the NHS.   

So I probably had a decade of shagging SPs before the Viagra stopped working so well. Which was when I went back to my local Medical Centre to see if there was an alternative. Our Medical Centre often has trainee GPs on placement from the local University Medical School and it was a Muslim female Trainee GP to whom I took the problem probably 6 or 7 years ago. She reached for the Formulary and after perusing it, told me that there was a drug called Cialis (Tadalafil), which might be more effective than the Viagra had become.

And mostly it has been; but now that I'm nearer 80 than 70, I always have a cock ring in my sponge bag as a fall-back if the Cialis doesn't do the trick.

[Maak]

I got a similar issue, when I'm with civvies or escorts that getting me relaxed I last a long time.

Escorts that make me anxious or want me out quickly, I cum very quickly, under a min

[sparkus]

The problem is, if the WG is relaxed and into it I don't last very long at all, especially if she's fit.

It's when they're rushing you or disengaged then I last forever.

[Bonker]

...female Trainee GP to whom I took the problem...

Did you ask her for clinical evidence?
And where's the review?

[webpunter]

Have a tactical
May require some practice to determine the optimum period prior to punt

[jimbobted]

I got a similar issue, when I'm with civvies or escorts that getting me relaxed I last a long time.

Escorts that make me anxious or want me out quickly, I cum very quickly, under a min

This is exactly how it is for me. If I'm relaxed and she's relaxed (we "click")in that way you sometimes do) I can last for a long time, even with a very fit girl. The longest shags I've had have been with the best looking girls actually. I think I get nervous about not being able to fuck if they're not totally my type (I'm very fussy) and that just makes me cum early.
If I'm flustered, and/or getting disinterested vibes from the girl it's all over very quickly.

[Punterperson1971]

I had an issue yesterday went to see this one who I’ve seen a few times,booked for 30 minutes didn’t shag her as I was that turned on I didn’t last long and cum in her mouth (what do I expect when I’m sitting in chair and her tongue is all over it before my cock was even down her throat)and all over her massive tits and then to top it off couldn’t even manage another pop not for the want of trying mind you.

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No review as she’s well reviewed and I’ve reviewed her twice in the past

My regular I can last a lot longer in a 30 minute booking not sure why I was trigger happy last night but I also saw another one who i see often and she was sucking me off at the top of her stairs by her bedroom when bam !!! That was it cum everywhere 😂😂😂😂.
Any other time I’m ok must be if I’m thinking about it if I’ve got nothing else to do and I’m bored it’s on my mind until it’s time to meet.

[timmy1]

Not taken it myself but ive read Dapoxetine works a treat at premature ejaculation

[webpunter]

Presented with a blondie barbie with a mahoosive rack & being noshed i'm not convinced i would do any better

I had an issue yesterday went to see this one who I’ve seen a few times,booked for 30 minutes didn’t shag her as I was that turned on I didn’t last long and cum in her mouth (what do I expect when I’m sitting in chair and her tongue is all over it before my cock was even down her throat)and all over her massive tits and then to top it off couldn’t even manage another pop not for the want of trying mind you.

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No review as she’s well reviewed and I’ve reviewed her twice in the past

[Punterperson1971]

Presented with a blondie barbie with a mahoosive rack & being noshed i'm not convinced i would do any better

I know I’m usually ok when I’ve fucked her and have managed 2 pops in the past maybe getting to much at my age now for 2 pops in 30 minutes

[MLawro93]

I find that I last longer in certain positions, but I just try to pace myself. I try not to focus on it too much, as it ends up ruining the experience. If I cum quickly, I'll just go for another round if I can. If I am being rushed though, I can't finish for the life of me, it genuinely becomes a struggle then. 

[Punterperson1971]

I wasn’t even rushed she did say it was a shame but it happens

[Mig I]

There is some Chinese stuff called pau yuen or Tong balm that is very hard to use (you have to get the timing just right) but can be amazing. The only down side is you may find it impossible to reach orgasm at a certain point. As I say it is very difficult to get its use just right. But when you do - extraordinary staying power. If that is what you want. Look it up on eg reddit

[Iloveoral]

There is some Chinese stuff called pau yuen or Tong balm that is very hard to use (you have to get the timing just right) but can be amazing. The only down side is you may find it impossible to reach orgasm at a certain point. As I say it is very difficult to get its use just right. But when you do - extraordinary staying power. If that is what you want. Look it up on eg reddit

Must be good stuff, a single review in 6 years, don’t rub so much on next time matey, we need you back here 

[banshee121]

Must be good stuff, a single review in 6 years, don’t rub so much on next time matey, we need you back here 

 

[HailWood]

Try to take you mind off the sensation. Tactic that I have used on occasion is to recite ( in my head, of course) -
Banks, Cohen, Wilson, Styles, Charlton, Moore, Ball, Charlton, Hurst, Peter’s, Hunt.

[Simon1977]

Try the Jamaican stone from amazon. Used it for years and works every time!!

[righthandman]

I tend to find 50-75mg Tramadol works wonders, so long as you have a legit prescription of course! Doctors will prescribe it 'off-label'. I'd do it at least 2hrs in advance, even 4. I've also used numbing creams, put it on 20-30mins beforehand and make sure its thoroughly washed off.

As with anything like this, try it at home before you use it on an SP! If you get the amount of either wrong then you'll be left trying to thumb in a softy...

[Atrueyorkie]

There’s so many variables for “lasting longer” and it’s quite subjective.

Things that I “think” work especially for me:

Fitness - sex is a physically intensive thing, so cardio is good to do etc
No masturbation - it’s a different sensation, don’t get used to it
No porn - desensitises you etc
Just more sex - kinda like riding a bike (exaggeration), the more you do it the better you become and feels more relaxed etc
Diet - healthy body

Also don’t let porn or “stories” distort or alter your perception of sex.

In porn they do a load of stop and starts. Everyone doesn’t fuck for an hour straight.

Just learn to enjoy it, especially if it’s not your OH, nut when you want 

I’ve had punts were I felt like superman, going strong and continually for the whole punt, but  it’s tiring 

Again the above is subjective and my own personal opinion

[IAmNotFamous]

There’s so many variables for “lasting longer” and it’s quite subjective.

Things that I “think” work especially for me:

Fitness - sex is a physically intensive thing, so cardio is good to do etc
No masturbation - it’s a different sensation, don’t get used to it
No porn - desensitises you etc
Just more sex - kinda like riding a bike (exaggeration), the more you do it the better you become and feels more relaxed etc
Diet - healthy body

Also don’t let porn or “stories” distort or alter your perception of sex.

In porn they do a load of stop and starts. Everyone doesn’t fuck for an hour straight.

Just learn to enjoy it, especially if it’s not your OH, nut when you want 

I’ve had punts were I felt like superman, going strong and continually for the whole punt, but  it’s tiring 

Again the above is subjective and my own personal opinion

👆🏼This

Though I’d substitute cardio with weight lifting…resistance stimulates testosterone growth.

And he’s right about porn, watch the behind the scenes takes. They stop for refreshment  breaks regularly.

On the plus side 45 minutes sessions.

On the downside 45 minute wanks lol

[Dylanbob]

Do shorter sessions, punt more, same cost would be my mindset at times.

I think learning what positions and techniques do it for you most and least is a good idea

[webpunter]

Three things, find a talented massage burd & then edging, edging + edging
Practise makes perfect
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& did i mention edging ?

[the_exile]

Just more sex - kinda like riding a bike (exaggeration), the more you do it the better you become and feels more relaxed etc

A very good point. Becoming more relaxed about the sex instead of building it up beforehand definitely helps. You might find that once you've lasted longer in one punt its easier to do that on others, success builds on success and all that.

[shyleo]

Now in my late sixties I have found that staying erect is the main problem.
I Will get an erection to begin, but as the foreplay goes on, softness tends to jump in, and no amount of more foreplay will help.This is having taken Viagra or Cialis.
Is Priligy worth a try or is it just for PE.
 

[righthandman]

Is Priligy worth a try or is it just for PE.

Priligy is only designed to make you last longer. In my experience, it made me light headed and queasy with zero apetite for sex. I've heard that others tolerate it really well though, so it may just be that I don't get on with it... I think the side effects are most likely heightened if you take it with Viagra or Cialis.

[SoapyTW]

Priligy is only designed to make you last longer. In my experience, it made me light headed and queasy with zero apetite for sex. I've heard that others tolerate it really well though, so it may just be that I don't get on with it... I think the side effects are most likely heightened if you take it with Viagra or Cialis.

I've not taken Priligy, but have seen warnings on here about combining Priligy and ED meds like Viagra / Cialis. Quick google confirms is also. Both lower blood pressure and if mixed together you're on the road to fainting... or worse.

[the_exile]

This probably goes along with the "more practice" suggestion but it sounds like you're maybe tensing trying to hold back, OP? Some really good advice a WG gave me was don't do what lots of guys do and hold their breath trying not to cum, you end up tightening the muscles and bring on the ejaculation more quickly. Try to relax, breathe steadily, slow things down and you should be back in control.

[SoapyTW]

This probably goes along with the "more practice" suggestion but it sounds like you're maybe tensing trying to hold back, OP? Some really good advice a WG gave me was don't do what lots of guys do and hold their breath trying not to cum, you end up tightening the muscles and bring on the ejaculation more quickly. Try to relax, breathe steadily, slow things down and you should be back in control.

Ah - that reminds me. There was an Andrew Huberman video about this. He talks about cumming being a stress response (as odd as that sounds) and about breathing exercises to counteract it by calming you. Maybe go for a massage and a HJ and practice your breathing. For science

[charlesdickens999]

I’ll be plain transparent here - It’s my first time punting and unfortunately I’m usually come fast. I’m asking for tips on how to deal with these when punting. Should I tell the SP? Should I book more than one hour to ensure plenty of recovery time? Should I wank myself before? Is more than 2 pops allowed generally? Should I seek for experienced/well/multiple times reviewed SP?

Thanks in advance punters!

[oddson1970]

l pop fairly quick too but l can always  manage 2 or 3 in an hr long booking.l tend to spend a bit of time on RO to prolong the first pop and changing positions mid shag helps to string it out a bit more.
    Most SP's will allow 2 or more pops in an hrs booking but check with them first in your comms.Do your homework on here before booking and you shouldn't go far wrong.

[daviemac]

The best suggestion I have is to use the search function, you'll find you'll get on a lot better if you do a little bit of research before asking questions.

There loads of threads on the subject dating back to 2014, the latest, from November this year, was last posted on 4 days ago.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=361712.msg3720935#msg3720935

[mrkandmrsk]

book and ugly one and that should slow you down 

[spiralnotebook]

Take up crown green bowling.

[Doc Holliday]

Take up crown green bowling.

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[shed]

book and ugly one and that should slow you down 

Absolutely agree. This is my regular and I last for hours on end 


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[Thephoenix]

Absolutely agree. This is my regular and I last for hours on end 


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Is that her taking it up the arse?

[Bonker]

Absolutely agree. This is my regular and I last for hours on end 


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I'm so disappointed with this post.
No link.
No review.
Tut.

[cunningman]

It’s my first time punting and unfortunately I’m usually come fast.

15 minutes is there for a reason.  Maybe 30 if you want foreplay/RO etc.  Its your time.  Helps if you don't regard penetration as the one and only thing.  Don't feel pressured to go twice just because others can.

I know an Irish milf that's (still!) 40/15 and 60/30 and I pay 60 knowing that probably I'll be done in 15 or 20 minutes of intense fun.  I'm not good at longing it out once I'm into it.  It doesn't bother me - I like feeling I'm not hurried and she earns it and is fun, and a nice lady too - before and after.

[jimbobted]

Don't know what's happened to me recently but I seek to be able to fuck for as long as I like.
Last week I was in an MMF and only came once in 2 hours (found the girl and bit meh though). And yesterday I spent 4 hours with the cutest little slut being begged to fuck her harder which I duly obliged. Usually that would have me erupting almost straight away but an hour later we were still going and it was a conscious decision for me to fill her mouth.
I think being relaxed is the key to it. I don't rush the early part of the punt and everything just seems to flow easier from there.

[sim0256]

I was talking to my main reg about this, if anything i take to long with her!  i said I was with a visitor to town , had a great time and came within 30 mins . Very unusual for me.
My reg said it was the ' new girl / first time ' syndrome.  The novelty of a new girl makes you come quicker than with some one you have been with a number of times.
I'm not sure how relevant this is to the thread , but it is how it is with me .
 I had a great session with a local girl , great variations , great oral etc and a tremendous finish in doggy  all in faster time than usual. I mentioned this to my reg and it turned out the two girls were good friends and of course they compares notes on my visits and couldn't believe they were talking about the same guy.
Conclusion,if you want to last longer get a reg who knows your likes and is prepared  to work with you and accept that a new fit girl will make you come quicker.
If the new girl speaks reasonable English tell her to take it easy and why , a decent Sp will have heard it all before anyway.