Virgin needs advice!!

[Joeystark92]

Alright lads so Im a 22 year old virgin  very self conscious and non confident with women hence being a virgin for so long.

Im looking for an escort who is preferable older and has experience with the inexperienced and how to deal with someone like me.

does anyone know or recommend someone like this help much appreciated

[xsw21]

Mate, there’s no hurry, go online, sign up to a dating site and find yourself a nice girl to be your first. You will always remember the first girl you have sex with and I don’t think it should be an escort…

[Roland D Hay]

Alright lads so Im a 22 year old virgin  very self conscious and non confident with women hence being a virgin for so long.

Im looking for an escort who is preferable older and has experience with the inexperienced and how to deal with someone like me.

does anyone know or recommend someone like this help much appreciated

Young inexperienced lads always gravitate towards older women but my advice would be to see a younger working girl. Someone like this girl, she'll have enough experience to relax you and guide you through the process and possibly give you the confidence to start and deal with girls your own age. By all means try a milf type at a later date but  not yet.
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[password02]

Where are looking to punt? Central London or North or south? best to look at the reviews and select a AW girl between 21-25 that has had positive reviews here on UKP

[vorian]

Where are looking to punt? Central London or North or south? best to look at the reviews and select a AW girl between 21-25 that has had positive reviews here on UKP

Good advice have a look around the review section get an idea of the sort of WG you are looking for you can always come back and ask for help.

[titanph]

I am in complete agreement with Roland, go for Audrey. The service is by no means amazing and she is quite distant, but as it was my first time I found that useful, like she wasn't judging me and was just doing her job (not as a first time, but for a first punt it was exactly what was needed).

Also what a body and pair of tits Audrey has, worth it for that alone. Alos maybe try half an hour first so you can get a feel for it.

[titanph]

Also Joeystark, try this Sindy External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

If you're looking for a milf and one to help you through it, she has to be your first choice. Great service.

[Kingb3000]

Ahh  I was there once    

Best advice

1.    Set a budget
2    Browse the recommended profiles in your area on here
3.   Make a short list
4.    Think about what you would like from the erm....meeting
5.   Speak to the girls in question (or email first if you prefer - then speak), let them know that you might be a bit nervous etc.  Go for friendly over looks.  You dont necessarily need a MILF but someone over 25/28ish may be about right for you in terms of mix of looks and service.

To be honest I dont think any of the girls would be judging you, you are the paying customer etc.

If really not confident with ladies then a sessions with different girls may help you get started (start saving)     

There you go !

[cjkanye02]

I disagree with all of this 'take your time' or get a girlfriend.
If I was a virgin at 22 I would hit adultwork and be inside a girls knickers by 10am, and I'm writing this at 9.57.
Get it over and done with sex is amazing!

[sir_david]

There are masses of ‘newbie’ guidance posts here –  do research!
I’ve never used a dating site but it’s likely to be time consuming, unfulfilling and, Come the Day, will require Confidence - sex is unlikely to be a successful outcome from a first Date – Plan “C”.

Don’t muck around with (0) Rating, cheap, non-UKP-Reviewed “beauties”.
AW Ratings can be notoriously unreliable! But use them intelligently, back-to-back.
I agree, nearer to your age.
GFE, not PSE.
Distance is irrelevant.
Definitely not 30 minutes (too rushed and stressful), 2 hours if you can afford it (It’s going to be “Memory of a Lifetime”!) but 1 hour probably best.
You will naturally be nervous as a rabbit in the headlights – try and savour that excitement because I remember it and wish I could still feel it!
Get to know the girl first - try and establish email/text/(phone if you’re confident) communication with her so that the actual Meeting may feel like a “continuation of previous chat ” and be less stressful.
Let her know that you’re a punting first-timer!

I was going to say Michelle or Katalina but both of them are hopeless with emails.
Try them, anyway!
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 or External Link/Members Only perhaps?
Also, if the girl’s site has not been ‘confirmed’, you could end up wasting your amourous approaches on her maid/manager/pimp!
So what – the girl may be great!
Girls with their OWN Web Site are likely to be Independent (not guaranteed) therefore better 1-2-1 emails.
So, don’t use an Agency. (Never say Never).
Good Luck, PICK UP the phone, Relax and let us know!

[password02]

Some goos useful points there Sir D = I would add just 1 more to say do your reserch here on UKP and pick a girl that you will know will be 99.9% perfect

[DJ Fruit Polo]

If I had my time over again then I'd book someone for half an hour to start with, just to make sure we got on, and then arrange a longer booking afterwards.

Oh, and don't get fixated about having to come through penetration - you can have loads of fun just exploring each other's bodies and if you do end up having sex then it's a nice bonus!

Good luck   

[Kingb3000]

Another point.   Not sure how much you are willing to spend.  BUT as a first timer it may be worth splashing out on a date followed by the "afters" or at least a longer session.

Would suggest at least an hour if your on a tighter budget.  Can get quite a lot done in an hour !

[latecomer]

If I had my time over again then I'd book someone for half an hour to start with, just to make sure we got on, and then arrange a longer booking afterwards.

Oh, and don't get fixated about having to come through penetration - you can have loads of fun just exploring each other's bodies and if you do end up having sex then it's a nice bonus!

Good luck   

Good advice - and also advice above about carefully researching local WGs profiles.  Some of them will state that they understand inexperienced punters and will guide them through etc.  I find that if a WG lists disabled clients on their likes they are also likely to be more sensitive to any punter.  Nothing like talking to the girl on the phone before you decide too.  Listen to what your gut instinct is telling you - if it feels right go for it, otherwise move on to the next one.  Good luck!

[brightperv]

One thing I would add for advise on a 1st punt (not necessarily first shag) is to get the business side over and done with straight away. When you turn up say "can I give you this" and hand pre agreed money over at the start. Don't sit there like a like a twat as I did exchanging pleasantries for 10 minutes. Always best to get what I think can be the most awkward bit out the way.