Some salient points but lots of supposing clouding the crux of what a review site is about.
1) We are here to share our experiences of services rendered for not inconsequential sums of money.
- Some women trade on their looks whilst many more perhaps would like to be appreciated for them too, no matter how "imperfect" they know themselves to be and considering how much they are asking for their sexual indulgence and what men are trying to avoid by paying for sex.
- Some/many/most SPs mislead about their looks and attitude to men and sex.
- Some SPs are "managed" or coerced and the duplicity is perhaps more upon the pimps but still the clients are reflecting on the resultant service whether offered as a consequence of exploitation, cooperation or individual.
Further:
- No punter is the sum of their reviews. So many don't review, many don't review many of the SPs they see, some only review the SPs they don't care to see again whether pos, neut or neg, very few review all the SPs they see. No reader can know, they can only take each review for what it is and then choose to prejudice their take on it by how much they agree or disagree with their perception of the author's previous writings.
- Those who review aren't always consistent with how or what they review about an encounter because despite being condemned as "C*nts who pay for c*nt" they are emotional human beings, to greater or lesser degree, in possibly different frames of mind in different punts to satisfy their momentary needs, be they intimacy, fucking, emotional, social, etc.
- Each punter may have differing sensitivities to the price he pays for his SP type of the moment. Some punters are rigid in the type they want, others try all sorts that they may "judge" differently. Gentle or harsh, for this site to be credible, we have to presume the comments are still born of a truth that may need some context. Whether it's an SS or an SP reading the review, first and foremost one has to temper your response to the words used with some acknowledgment of what the author was seeking and how that was influenced by the expectation and experience created by the interaction with the SP concerned.
- Users of review sites are of a mindset that they want better insight into what they can expect for their money, to wit you pays the demanded price in expectation of a car with performance and characteristics specified that you have deemed desirable and necessary, you don't pay money expecting said car and settle for an actual fridge (this is not to say that any SP looks like a fridge). In this more invested commitment we are perhaps an unrepresentative minority of the wider punting unwashed.
- SPs have to deal with all sorts of a-holes acting on impulse or measured menace being abusive, offensive, disrespectful and violent whether in comms or during the meet. Then add the UKPers, both silent and vocal, who span the spectrum of intent and then the more genteel non-UKPer. That is not to excuse lying within the offer made in the first place. Think about that dynamic, woman lies to man, man is still compelled to pay by his foolishness, man has all manner of emotions once his wallet is emptier and perhaps his needs not sufficiently met. Many punters are trying to escape that kind of thing in their civvy lives of failed relationships, partners not interested in sex, impatience with or inability to date because of who they are, how they're perceived, how they're judged, what they want from sex, how socially awkward they are, what anxiety they suffer from, etc.
Too much as it may be, set aside the pimps, the scammers, the nutcase SSs - all those who would abuse the oldest service industry.
Once you try to consider and appreciate the multiplicity of (sad) factors affecting both SSs and SPs there are too many psychological factors at play for any one participant to be always sunny and happy with any particular outcum [sic], but much like couple's therapy both sides need to appreciate and respect the needs and wants of the other party. Few SPs can coolly assess what service they are willing to provide and own how they honestly sell it. When their customers are disappointed it is most likely that the marketing and delivery is the cause. Few punters punt just so they can be disappointed by what happens.