Seeking - going rate in East Anglia

[jimbobted]

I've hooked up with a girl off seeking.
Just wondering what the going rate in our area is for an overnight with all expenses paid, dinner, drinks etc
Girl is early 20a and pretty fit.

[Natwest]

I've hooked up with a girl off seeking.
Just wondering what the going rate in our area is for an overnight with all expenses paid, dinner, drinks etc
Girl is early 20a and pretty fit.

I tend to offer £200 to £250 for overnight. Usually if they want any more I decline.

[norwichfunseeker]

I tend to offer £200 to £250 for overnight. Usually if they want any more I decline.

Question is though, whats the rough ratio  of acceptance at £200-£250 / declines ?

[muddy funxter]

I've hooked up with a girl off seeking.
Just wondering what the going rate in our area is for an overnight with all expenses paid, dinner, drinks etc
Girl is early 20a and pretty fit.

what is this website you speak of?

[mrsid]

Jimbo, I am not a full member there yet, as wondering if it is worth it in this desert called Norfolk. Did you get much engagement from the girls on there? (aside from the one you are putting your proposition too).

[AffAlchemist]

So I’m finding £300 to £400 is the going rate for girls I’ve actually met
I’m pitching £300 most of the time and that generally works
But I’ve had full weekends away for £400

This is the going rate I’ve found for pretty much any area
I also find it’s better to set your search to those who are currently online as you get moser engagement and it’s easier to set up a meet
There’s a lot of time wasters on both sides so if you actually commit to meeting and take them out for a nice evening you can meet some real stunners

There’s one girl in Cambridge that agreed £250 for an intimate meet but I have a feeling she’s an escort so I haven’t bothered with her

I’ve had a regular for sometime now who I really enjoy seeing

[Wyltk89]

I tend to offer £200 to £250 for overnight. Usually if they want any more I decline.

I left seeking in November as I was struggling to find woman who would take £350 for a day date/meet. Admittedly that is close to Christmas so it may have just been bad luck. I think I’ll have to have another look though it that’s the going figure!

[Natwest]

Question is though, whats the rough ratio  of acceptance at £200-£250 / declines ?

Well not quite having your sex drive Mr NFS, I don't always follow through. Actually the last person from Seeking to find her way into my bed was a MILF who settled for two bottles of wine and pie and chips at the pub and stayed the night. It was the wrong time off the month but she kindly gobbled my knob twice in the night. I think the last paid one was £200 for an evening and she drove to me. The one before that was £200 for an evening but I had to drive to Peterborough and pick her up and I knew the moment she got in the car it was a dreadful mistake. But I would say unless you go for University of Cambridge posh totty you are okay at that. I tend to go for the sort of girls my Mum would not have approved of.

[jimbobted]

Well not quite having your sex drive Mr NFS, I don't always follow through. Actually the last person from Seeking to find her way into my bed was a MILF who settled for two bottles of wine and pie and chips at the pub and stayed the night. It was the wrong time off the month but she kindly gobbled my knob twice in the night. I think the last paid one was £200 for an evening and she drove to me. The one before that was £200 for an evening but I had to drive to Peterborough and pick her up and I knew the moment she got in the car it was a dreadful mistake. But I would say unless you go for University of Cambridge posh totty you are okay at that. I tend to go for the sort of girls my Mum would not have approved of.

Ah. This one is university posh totty and mum would very much approve. She's asking will in excess of your threshold, but it appears there is fun to be had for a much more reasonable outlay.

[Natwest]

Ah. This one is university posh totty and mum would very much approve. She's asking will in excess of your threshold, but it appears there is fun to be had for a much more reasonable outlay.

I just work by putting £250 as my maximum and then it's a numbers game as it emphasises on the main threads. It may be old age but I have to strike the balance between thinking I am getting a reasonably priced shag or would I rather spend my money on a couple of hours with EJ in Norwich who will indulge in everything I'd enjoy without question. Living on my own and having my own house makes it a lot easier with Seeking. I send pics on WhatsApp and they can get an idea of where they are coming to.

[JazzyC]

Realise this is a "mileage may vary" question, but is the £100+ monthly fee worth it?  Or can you get by with a basic/free profile?

[jimbobted]

I just work by putting £250 as my maximum and then it's a numbers game as it emphasises on the main threads. It may be old age but I have to strike the balance between thinking I am getting a reasonably priced shag or would I rather spend my money on a couple of hours with EJ in Norwich who will indulge in everything I'd enjoy without question. Living on my own and having my own house makes it a lot easier with Seeking. I send pics on WhatsApp and they can get an idea of where they are coming to.

Lucky you! EJ cancelled on me in November and I've been unable to rebook since.

[jimbobted]

Realise this is a "mileage may vary" question, but is the £100+ monthly fee worth it?  Or can you get by with a basic/free profile?

You can't contact any of the girls or read any messages they send you without paying.

[jimbobted]

Well I met my posh university totty and got rinsed for £600 + a shed load of expenses for very little intimacy and a very quick fuck at 2am in the morning, and another couple of minutes grudgingly allowed in the morning.
Lesson learned. I had multiple chances to tell her to fuck off without the cash but allowed little brain to rule even when I knew she wasn't going to come anywhere near fulfilling my expectations  .

[mrsid]

Sorry to hear that mate, was the £600 the agreed fee? Can you share her seeking link so anyone else on there can avoid?

Thanks

[Chandler12]

Well I met my posh university totty and got rinsed for £600 + a shed load of expenses for very little intimacy and a very quick fuck at 2am in the morning, and another couple of minutes grudgingly allowed in the morning.
Lesson learned. I had multiple chances to tell her to fuck off without the cash but allowed little brain to rule even when I knew she wasn't going to come anywhere near fulfilling my expectations  .

My rule is no intimacy no money. It’s not mutually beneficial if she’s pocketing £600 and you are left wanting.

[jimbobted]

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TBF she told.me she was very money motivated.
I thought that meant cash for sex. Just meant cash.
She played a good game, I tell for it hook line and sinker and let little brain rule even when big brain was shouting red flags. Multiple opportunities to tell her to fuck right off which I ignored, took the gamble and lost.

Banging (and I mean absolutely banging) body, pretty in a quirky way but will not deliver the goods. I'm down 600 to her and another £1k on expenses on 1 platonic non paid "date" and 1 promised but not delivered paid for "intimate" date.if you've got deep pockets and don't mind being used as a mobile cash register for a while you might get a good fuck (she was a good cock sucker TBF) eventually. But she ditched her last arrangement as soon as the showering her with gifts and meals stopped.
Wannabe hooker who can't hook.

[norwichfunseeker]

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TBF she told.me she was very money motivated.
I thought that meant cash for sex. Just meant cash.
She played a good game, I tell for it hook line and sinker and let little brain rule even when big brain was shouting red flags. Multiple opportunities to tell her to fuck right off which I ignored, took the gamble and lost.

Banging (and I mean absolutely banging) body, pretty in a quirky way but will not deliver the goods. I'm down 600 to her and another £1k on expenses on 1 platonic non paid "date" and 1 promised but not delivered paid for "intimate" date.if you've got deep pockets and don't mind being used as a mobile cash register for a while you might get a good fuck (she was a good cock sucker TBF) eventually. But she ditched her last arrangement as soon as the showering her with gifts and meals stopped.
Wannabe hooker who can't hook.

Fuck me JBT, that's not good.
Banging bodies are one thing, but not using it to it's full advantage is criminal too.

Better luck next time, we live and learn.
I'm not on seeking but I'm sure other users will appreciate the sharing of the profile.

[funfungoodguy]

Aside from JBT's  abortive expenditure, the worst part of this is that the little tart is learning to rinse people and lead a life of leading people along to make money. Yes JBT was missing chances to dump her, but as he says 'she played a good game', well to me her game is ripping people off . She will have known perfectly well he expected the full works but managed to trouser the cash and cost him a lot paying for her 'good time girl' amusement without delivering. Seems to be every justification for adopting a harder line or be ready to pay an awful lot to spend time with a nice looking bird and very limited treats.

[norwichfunseeker]

Aside from JBT's  abortive expenditure, the worst part of this is that the little tart is learning to rinse people and lead a life of leading people along to make money. Yes JBT was missing chances to dump her, but as he says 'she played a good game', well to me her game is ripping people off . She will have known perfectly well he expected the full works but managed to trouser the cash and cost him a lot paying for her 'good time girl' amusement without delivering. Seems to be every justification for adopting a harder line or be ready to pay an awful lot to spend time with a nice looking bird and very limited treats.

Hopefully karma will be at play here, and she will get caught out.
JBT comes across as a decent and measured bloke, I'm not sure others would take the same approach post poor meeting as he has.
I'd be steaming, although not sure what, if any, redress you have. That's how poor girls get away with a shite service.

[mrsid]

Thanks for sharing the profile JBT, I have seen her profile, but not talked to on seeking.

She looks really innocent! And at only 21 has learned to play people, hopefully karma will play its part.

[jimbobted]

I would say she wasn't that sophisticated. I let little brain rule and ignored many obvious red flags.

I told her after that there was far less intimacy than I was expecting, she suggested expectations should be left at home on a date - well yes, a real date not a paid one where I'd specifically confirmed with her that we would be physicalIy intimate. I suggested to her that she needs to think about what she's doing because one day she'll pull this trick on someone who doesn't take kindly to it. No response.
Later I suggested it would be good karma to refund half of her fee. This brought the response that I'm a "psycho", childish, "how do you expect me to engage with your little game" and the predictable block. All just deflection from the real point that she conned me. My fault I fell for it mind.

I'd suggest steering well clear of this one.

[jimbobted]

Aside from JBT's  abortive expenditure, the worst part of this is that the little tart is learning to rinse people and lead a life of leading people along to make money. Yes JBT was missing chances to dump her, but as he says 'she played a good game', well to me her game is ripping people off . She will have known perfectly well he expected the full works but managed to trouser the cash and cost him a lot paying for her 'good time girl' amusement without delivering. Seems to be every justification for adopting a harder line or be ready to pay an awful lot to spend time with a nice looking bird and very limited treats.

Yep, confirmed physical intimacy with her before the overnight meet. There was almost none. She actually recoiled when I went for a kiss in the car. Should have turned around and driven her home right then.

[norwichfunseeker]

I'm not on seeking, for fear that all my meetings would be like this.
Seems like hard work for very little return.

I'm sure there are some gems to be had but for me wgs are a better route, and even that's not guaranteed. 
I was pissed off at wasting 250 sheets on an out call last week,, I can't imagine wasting as much as that jbt on 5his occasion.
You have my sympathy.
Don't beat yourself up mate, live and learn. She sounds like she's picked up some good tricks at a young age. Yo would never have "won" with her.

[jimbobted]

I'm not on seeking, for fear that all my meetings would be like this.
Seems like hard work for very little return.

I'm sure there are some gems to be had but for me wgs are a better route, and even that's not guaranteed. 
I was pissed off at wasting 250 sheets on an out call last week,, I can't imagine wasting as much as that jbt on 5his occasion.
You have my sympathy.
Don't beat yourself up mate, live and learn. She sounds like she's picked up some good tricks at a young age. Yo would never have "won" with her.

Indeed. I suspect a lucky escape on some ways as had she delivered this time is have undoubtedly seen her again and again and spent more and more.
She said she ended her previous arrangement when the gifts etc stopped and it just became cash for sex, should have paid more heed to that.

[norwichfunseeker]

Indeed. I suspect a lucky escape on some ways as had she delivered this time is have undoubtedly seen her again and again and spent more and more.
She said she ended her previous arrangement when the gifts etc stopped and it just became cash for sex, should have paid more heed to that.

Did she tell you she wasn't a hooker? Shes better than that!

[jimbobted]

Did she tell you she wasn't a hooker? Shes better than that!

She's definitely not a hooker, hookers usually provide some fun in return for the cash! 

[MajorPayne]

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I'm down 600 to her and another £1k on expenses on 1 platonic non paid "date"

What were your expenses if you don't mind my asking?

[norwichfunseeker]

What were your expenses if you don't mind my asking?

I'd guess at accommodation,  food,  drinks and possibly some entertainment.

[jimbobted]

What were your expenses if you don't mind my asking?

Accommodation, food, drinks etc. First meeting was in London and it's easy to blow money very quickly on not much there.

[Wyltk89]

Accommodation, food, drinks etc. First meeting was in London and it's easy to blow money very quickly on not much there.

Honestly Jim I feel for you, I have been in a similar situation and understand how easy it is to get sucked in. Was it her suggestion to go to London by any chance? I signed back up to seeking (as in made an account, not purchased membership) and frankly it doesn’t look like there’s a great selection there. AW looks like a better option. Definitely a few to many photos with filters for my liking.

Should we petition for a seeking section on the fourm? Might help filter out the 

[norwichfunseeker]

Is that not what this is? I've not looked in detail as I'm not a user of seeking. Apologies if I'm incorrect.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=244630.0

[Nickp]

I have one lined up for next week. Brentwood. Hotel, £65, her request £250 overnight 19:00 - 07:00(obviously depending on traffic). Wants to be romanced so I think , £50 on pre dinner, £100 on dinner so I guess I’m around £500 all in for the night.

Not sure how this would stack up against a AW RB but factoring the fact I’m getting to eat, drink, etc I think it’s not bad

[Natwest]

I also have one lined up for Saturday/Sunday but I am able to host. Of course it could all go wrong by next weekend by we agreed £250.

[Nickp]

Nice work NatWest. Mine is a size 6 with 32c. Naturally protected sex, no A or pain but apart from that she’s good. She’s agreed to bring her vibratory, high heels, cocktail dress etc.

However as you say a few days before it could go wrong.

[Natwest]

We can report back after it has or hasn't happened!

[jimbobted]

Nice work NatWest. Mine is a size 6 with 32c. Naturally protected sex, no A or pain but apart from that she’s good. She’s agreed to bring her vibratory, high heels, cocktail dress etc.

However as you say a few days before it could go wrong.

Sounds like a recipe for a fun evening  . Wish I'd stumbled across one like that instead of the scamming bitch!

[funfungoodguy]

We can report back

? after it has or hasn't happened!

Did this go ahead and how did it go

[Nickp]

They are happening this week. (Hopefully). I’m not texting mine much so she knows I’m not some idiot. Off her accord she’s sent me some bikini pics. I’ll message her tomorrow just to confirm.

Don’t play it too keen and start asking for videos, pictures, conversations etc. keep it basic, but obviously attractive for her. Nice restaurant, ask her to put on a dress and heels so she knows she’s going to be wined and dined (69’d) and not Nando’s.

I’ll report back whether it happens or not.

[Nickp]

Reporting in as promised.

It happened, she is a size 6, the boat race I'd give her a generous 8.

She actually drove 2.5 hours and has just left. Arrived at 22:20, £250, , no anal or pain. Pre dinner oral and sex.  It was pissing down and the restaurant was a 15 min walk, no primma Donna about wanting a taxi etc, she encouraged me to walk!!

Flirty over dinner and a few DFk when no one was around but she didn't mind, same as the walk there and back. Stopping for a quick grope and snog like a teenager.

She wore a shirt skirt and matching top (I requested a dress), she carried herself as though we were a genuine couple.

In the bedroom, really sub and enjoyed being played with. Bondage tage whilst I made her cum etc, came on her face, back, and she swallowed.

She wants to see me again and is happy to drive the 2.5 hours.

The damage £250 to her, £80 meal (she has work today and didn't want to go to a bar or get loaded), £70 room. £15 condoms.

I'll be seeing her over the next bank holiday.

[Nickp]

Sorry 20:20

[Nickp]

Oh shit, no mention of the money. Whilst she was in the shower this morning I put it in her back and told her after she was ready. Asked her to check but she said she believed me but I did get her to look.

[Naughtyboyuk]

Oh shit, no mention of the money. Whilst she was in the shower this morning I put it in her back and told her after she was ready. Asked her to check but she said she believed me but I did get her to look.

She sounds a good one well done…any chance of posting her Seeking link ?

[mrsid]

Reporting in as promised.

It happened, she is a size 6, the boat race I'd give her a generous 8.

She actually drove 2.5 hours and has just left. Arrived at 22:20, £250, , no anal or pain. Pre dinner oral and sex.  It was pissing down and the restaurant was a 15 min walk, no primma Donna about wanting a taxi etc, she encouraged me to walk!!

Flirty over dinner and a few DFk when no one was around but she didn't mind, same as the walk there and back. Stopping for a quick grope and snog like a teenager.

She wore a shirt skirt and matching top (I requested a dress), she carried herself as though we were a genuine couple.

In the bedroom, really sub and enjoyed being played with. Bondage tage whilst I made her cum etc, came on her face, back, and she swallowed.

She wants to see me again and is happy to drive the 2.5 hours.

The damage £250 to her, £80 meal (she has work today and didn't want to go to a bar or get loaded), £70 room. £15 condoms.

I'll be seeing her over the next bank holiday.

She sounds superb - great find. A unicorn in the sea of scammers!

[jimbobted]

Sounds awesome 👍.
I had 3 irons in the fire when my subscription expires. I e I met for a coffee but instantly obvious we weren't at all attracted to each other. The other 2 have transitioned to WhatsApp but gone silent on me 

[mrsid]

I have SB irons in the fire, but this is a seeking thread!

[Nickp]

She sounds a good one well done…any chance of posting her Seeking link ?

I’ll ask if she wants to share. It’s a seeking date not advertised like AW.

[Nickp]

She's the unicorn. Were meeting up bank holiday.

She is in her 30,s but the bang tidy 6. Never demanded champagne etc, was really quite humble. She's been on many SA dares.

[Naughtyboyuk]

I’ll ask if she wants to share. It’s a seeking date not advertised like AW.

By asking her aren’t you risking telling her you’ve reviewed her performance on here !!!  Might just be simplier and safer to post her SA link…after all you say she’s been on several SA dates so she’s clearly used to the attention, messages etc