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I finally got premium membership. It's been 2 weeks. I have had convos with nothing but time wasters. I should have had one bang by now.

Many don't reply.

Can I please get some help.

One thing that's so retarded is that we are essentially chatting up pro minded girls

Not only do we have to pay them. We actually have to chat them up.

I can't even find women that don't want to be paid!

I am at a loss
« Last Edit: May 30, 2018, 11:31:33 am by Brolls »

Offline cash2spare

Hi, I'm not a member of said site and believe from reading other's experiences that they are just con merchants after your money.
You will get a working girl/prostitute from AW with no membership fees to pay and you can suss them out on this site for fellow punters comments/recommendations.
Anyway as you've paid I hope things get better and you get a few shags mate, all the best.

Offline datwabbit

I finally got premium membership. It's been 2 weeks. I have had convos with nothing but time wasters. I should have had one bang by now.

Many don't reply.

Can I please get some help.

One thing that's so retarded is that we are essentially chatting up pro minded girls

Not only do we have to pay them. We actually have to chat them up.

I can't even find women that don't want to be paid!

I am at a loss
There's a SA thread specifically for SA subscribers. PM admin about joining it.

There's no reason why you *should* have had a shag. Nothing is guaranteed with sugaring.
« Last Edit: May 30, 2018, 11:49:28 am by datwabbit »

Offline threechilliman

I finally got premium membership. It's been 2 weeks. I have had convos with nothing but time wasters. I should have had one bang by now.

Many don't reply.

Can I please get some help.

One thing that's so retarded is that we are essentially chatting up pro minded girls

Not only do we have to pay them. We actually have to chat them up.

I can't even find women that don't want to be paid!

I am at a loss

Punting is so much easier. Book, turn up, pay, fuck, leave. No idea why guys find SA so fascinating.

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I finally got premium membership. It's been 2 weeks. I have had convos with nothing but time wasters. I should have had one bang by now.

Many don't reply.

Can I please get some help.

One thing that's so retarded is that we are essentially chatting up pro minded girls

Not only do we have to pay them. We actually have to chat them up.

I can't even find women that don't want to be paid!

I am at a loss

I wouldn't PM Admin about joining the SA thread, that's not the way to do it.  Click here - https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=5.msg5#msg5  and follow the instructions to the letter.   :hi:

Offline datwabbit

I wouldn't PM Admin about joining the SA thread, that's not the way to do it.  Click here - https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=5.msg5#msg5  and follow the instructions to the letter.   :hi:

 :hi:

Yes, ignore my duff advice.

Thanks for putting him straight.

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:hi:

Yes, ignore my duff advice.

Thanks for putting him straight.

No probs.   :thumbsup:

Offline itk

Punting is so much easier. Book, turn up, pay, fuck, leave. No idea why guys find SA so fascinating.


Got to agree with the above. SA had its moments but became increasingly frustrating for me, to the extent where I’d had enough. Far easier to book a WG. Plus the owners of SA need to wear a mask the way they rob their members, £70 a month is a scandal

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s a is crap from both sides
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Offline MilleMiglia

s a is crap from both sides

Can't remember where I saw it, but from the women's' point of view SA was full of fantasists, whose finances failed to back up their rhetoric.

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I'm delighted to hear that - cancel your membership.  These websites just want your money mate.  Women are always going to be attracted to the same sorts of people.  A few private messages and the offer of a few quid doesn't automatically flick a magic button that turns all of them on.

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You can't cancel membership. They have a no refund policy last time I checked.

I did pay with PayPal. What excuse should I give paypal to get my money back?

Brolls

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Punting is so much easier. Book, turn up, pay, fuck, leave. No idea why guys find SA so fascinating.

We would rather bang a civilian then a hooker that has sex with 10 guys a day.

But sugaring is retarded cause we have to actually chat up prostitute minded girls.

So not only do you have to be somewhat decent looking. You have to pay them even if you meet their high standards.

I advise people. Do not get SA membership. It's too much work for little return on investment.

« Last Edit: May 31, 2018, 12:25:10 am by Brolls »

Offline datwabbit

You've paid for a month. You won't get it back so try a month then don't renew. Where I am, £70 is 30 minutes with some escorts so you've lost 30 minutes of your next month's punting time. On the other hand, it might lead to an encounter.

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You can't cancel membership. They have a no refund policy last time I checked.

I did pay with PayPal. What excuse should I give paypal to get my money back?

I don't think you can - but you can make sure to cancel any recurring payments regarding this. It should be easy (a click of a button/link), but give them a call if not clear.

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I've been on S.A., on and off fir over 2 years now. Its a bit hit and miss sometimes, but in a months membership I've always managed at least one shag out of it, and normally wuite a few phone numbers as well.
I have paid for two monthly subscriptions so far this year and had 5 shags from that.
Its ok, not brilliant, certainly massively time consuming, if you dont like it, dont do it :hi:

Offline Tomi91

I wouldn't PM Admin about joining the SA thread, that's not the way to do it.  Click here - https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=5.msg5#msg5  and follow the instructions to the letter.   :hi:

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Offline Pennine Rover

If you have the time to work the system then it is good. I've bene on for three years and I join every three or four month get numbers on WA and work the list. There are scammers and photos sellers there but many genuine girls like students who want some cash, treated well and good sex. Also MILFs who want an uncomplicated relationship, or professional types who just need a good fuck now and again. Generally the quality of sex is far better than with WGs and the girls are enjoying it as much as you. A totally different type of experience.
You do have to work at it though but overall much better than using a WG for thirty minutes!

Offline Jumping Jack Flash

I’ve enjoyed myself so much on SA over the last couple of years that I rarely punt these days. I’m in my early fifties and have two regular fuck buddies that I met on there that don’t cost me a penny. One is 28 the other 31. SA is a numbers game, the more messages you send the better the return.

Whilst you need to keep your punting wits about you, it’s far removed from punting. If you approach it with a punting attitude you probably won’t be successful. The SB don’t see themselves as WG’s but we know different. It’s closer to civvie dating than punting and the sex is certainly better.

If you want a guaranteed shag then punt. If you’re prepared to put in the effort and sort the wheat from the chaff then it’s an absolute goldmine of young, fresh, sexy talent.

Offline Trenlover

The point of SA is it gives you access to girls that are not on AW, 

They are also not fucking 10 guys a day

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Read it again. The instructions are quite clear.

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I finally got premium membership. It's been 2 weeks. I have had convos with nothing but time wasters. I should have had one bang by now.

Many don't reply.

Can I please get some help.

One thing that's so retarded is that we are essentially chatting up pro minded girls

Not only do we have to pay them. We actually have to chat them up.

I can't even find women that don't want to be paid!

I am at a loss

SA does work and you get to fuck beautiful young civvie girls who are not prossies. If you want a quick 30 minutes punt then AW is definitely better.
If you are not having success then it's probably just your chat up technique needs revising. You don't need to be young, good looking or rich. My advice is join the SA thread on here - loads of good advice

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I agree with Rebecca. It's rubbish on both sides. I started off on SA and promptly switched to AW. For someone like me circa 18 months ago, SA in theory would have been ideal. Being mentored and looked after, an allowance, someone probably a bit older taking me out for dinner and a good time, good sex, the illusion of more exclusivity...but the reality was men wanting something for nothing and that power play where you are trying to get something out of it and they are wanting to give as little as they possibly can. Being an escort is more honest and easier to sort out the transactional nature of it all.

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The point of SA is it gives you access to girls that are not on AW, 

They are also not fucking 10 guys a day

Neither are most escorts, believe it or not.

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I don't think you can - but you can make sure to cancel any recurring payments regarding this. It should be easy (a click of a button/link), but give them a call if not clear.

I only paid for one months membership.

But I seriously need to give PayPal a good reason to get my money back. SA is a scam

Offline datwabbit

I agree with Rebecca. It's rubbish on both sides. I started off on SA and promptly switched to AW. For someone like me circa 18 months ago, SA in theory would have been ideal. Being mentored and looked after, an allowance, someone probably a bit older taking me out for dinner and a good time, good sex, the illusion of more exclusivity...but the reality was men wanting something for nothing and that power play where you are trying to get something out of it and they are wanting to give as little as they possibly can. Being an escort is more honest and easier to sort out the transactional nature of it all.

Is your allowance based on your escorting rates, taking into account how many hours you'd spend with the guy?

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Is your allowance based on your escorting rates, taking into account how many hours you'd spend with the guy?

It wasn't at the time, no. But we are talking before I started escorting and was a little more naive. I have quite a lifestyle sub mentality and at the time I thought SA was used for people who wanted a transactional relationship, but still with the connective element. But very quickly caught on that it was used by most people as a way to get a cheap shag with girls who were only dipping their toes into sex work, and the guys had no interest in the "taking care of" element. If the marketing hype had been real, I would have been happily being more the "mistress" type than the "escort" type. But no harm done, I was doing phone chat at the time on AW as well and got asked to escort and the rest is history. X

Offline hungrypunt

s a is crap from both sides

Not from my side, Ive loved it. And gotta say, most of the girls Ive met are far better equipped to be in your game than a lot of you.
In terms of being fit, looks,  reliabilty, cost and attitude.
« Last Edit: May 31, 2018, 04:23:45 pm by hungrypunt »

Offline scoobyboy72

SA offers a far better experience than AW. If you can’t get a meet from girls on SA then you seriously need to consider your strategy.
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Offline datwabbit

SA offers a far better experience than AW. If you can’t get a meet from girls on SA then you seriously need to consider your strategy.

To be fair, it requires a different financial strategy from the punter.

Offline hungrypunt

I agree with Rebecca. It's rubbish on both sides. I started off on SA and promptly switched to AW. For someone like me circa 18 months ago, SA in theory would have been ideal. Being mentored and looked after, an allowance, someone probably a bit older taking me out for dinner and a good time, good sex, the illusion of more exclusivity...but the reality was men wanting something for nothing and that power play where you are trying to get something out of it and they are wanting to give as little as they possibly can. Being an escort is more honest and easier to sort out the transactional nature of it all.

How you perform in any business depends what market your in. You wouldn't get many people in a Ferrari garage looking to buy an old banger ford escort now would you  :sarcastic:  (pun intended)

or let me put it another way, if you stuck and old worn out Ford Escort in a Ferrari dealership, Id expect very little interest in it  :hi:
« Last Edit: May 31, 2018, 04:47:30 pm by hungrypunt »

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You've answered your own question, read what you've posted again.

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* Again self explanatory, you need to be a regular contributor to access certain areas of the site.

If you ever reach the required criteria you'll see the instructions on the SA thread.

Offline scoobyboy72

To be fair, it requires a different financial strategy from the punter.

It also requires common sense. It’s still a far better experience than a full time prossie.
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Offline hungrypunt

It also requires common sense. It’s still a far better experience than a full time prossie.
Horses for Courses i.e. Haydock or Cheltenham  :music:

Offline hacdba

My advice if you want to meet someone from SA is have plan A and B,C and D as there are lots of flakes.

Offline datwabbit

It also requires common sense. It’s still a far better experience than a full time prossie.
Yes

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It wasn't at the time, no. But we are talking before I started escorting and was a little more naive. I have quite a lifestyle sub mentality and at the time I thought SA was used for people who wanted a transactional relationship, but still with the connective element. But very quickly caught on that it was used by most people as a way to get a cheap shag with girls who were only dipping their toes into sex work, and the guys had no interest in the "taking care of" element. If the marketing hype had been real, I would have been happily being more the "mistress" type than the "escort" type. But no harm done, I was doing phone chat at the time on AW as well and got asked to escort and the rest is history. X

You were on there a month ago, maybe two. You appeared under north east/north Yorkshire. No doubting your pictures.

Were you looking for a sugar daddy or a client?

Offline manc36

Get a pic of yourself when 20 years younger, times your income by 10 , find the 1 genuine girl out of an 100, sweet talk her( poetry works a treat ) and SA really can be a piece of piss.

Oh and get yourself a damned fine shed like HP profile pic for added pussy.
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Having used AW for years and SA for two months now, SA is a hunner times better  :thumbsup:

The only way you fail on SA is if you’re dog ugly with no patter and the social skills of a feckin moron. Blunt, but true.

So if the OP and others on here are having nae luck on SA, then you need to up your game. And if not, do the rest of us a favour and go back to buying your fanny. Leaves more poontang for us with the necessary skills to be a raging sex god on SA, like me  :yahoo:

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Oh and get yourself a damned fine shed like HP profile pic for added pussy.

 :lol:

Offline hungrypunt

Leaves more poontang for us with the necessary skills to be a raging sex god on SA, like me  :yahoo:

So that avatar really isnt you RLF ?

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So that avatar really isnt you RLF ?

My inner self HP, I am a conflicted soul  :diablo:

Offline cob35

Having used AW for years and SA for two months now, SA is a hunner times better  :thumbsup:

The only way you fail on SA is if you’re dog ugly with no patter and the social skills of a feckin moron. Blunt, but true.

So if the OP and others on here are having nae luck on SA, then you need to up your game. And if not, do the rest of us a favour and go back to buying your fanny. Leaves more poontang for us with the necessary skills to be a raging sex god on SA, like me  :yahoo:

Been on and off SA for a few years and had plenty of luck and I am dog ugly with no patter and the social skills of a feckin moron so there's hope for anyone !!!


Just takes extra time,effort and a bit more money and any one should find a decent shag on SA i reckon

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Been on and off SA for a few years and had plenty of luck and I am dog ugly with no patter and the social skills of a feckin moron so there's hope for anyone !!!


Just takes extra time,effort and a bit more money and any one should find a decent shag on SA i reckon

Ah, you belittle yourself dude, I bet you’re gorg  :lol:

Me? I’m 53yo, bald as a coot, slight paunch, not even tall st 5’8", but filled with the patter and baws the size of church bells when it comes to being up front with the burds. That's what SA needs, plus some dosh, of course  :lol:

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Everyone is different in what they are looking for on SA. I like girls I can see regularly, so don’t see loads of different ones. Well apart from when your trying to find the one  :D

My usual girl is someone openminded who likes to experiment and experience new things.

There really is something for everyone on there

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I signed up to SA in October. It takes a bit experience, intuition and common sense but after two weeks I had my first and so far only get to know meet.
- I avoided girls in their early twenties and below as it takes some maturity to establish a mutual arrangement that this age group may be lacking.
- I avoided girls that were to explicit, had drug faces or stated things like 'I wanna be showered with gifts"...or "I have some friend who would like to join the meet" (is the later girl going to be discreet? hardly!) .

It took a bit of courtship (which I enjoyed) but in the end I found a girl who was quite selective and the get-to-know meet felt like a  real date.
Her profile just stood out. I trusted her instantly. She was very beautiful, natural, genuine, authentic, trustworthy, highly intelligent and gifted and I did enjoy the conversations with her as much if not even more than the intemacy. I met her about 10 times. The problem was that the lines between an arrangement and a real relationship got blurred. For me of course, not the girl. She was very private and discreet, she knew everything about me but I did not know much about her life, not her real name, not even real first name (in that sense the experience was alsmost as one-sided as seeing an escort).
We met about once a month for 2-4 hours. The hours with her  felt really great, genuine, familiar - like a real relationship but once she had gone she left a void behind. For some people looking for simply a shag once in a while this may just be the ideal arrangement. But I could not deal with it.

I also realised that she did this more or less for a living to have time for her real passion in life while still leading a comfortable life. The thought of sharing her with other SDs made me slightly jealous. I realised it was time to stop.
I am no longer seeing her and the separation felt like a real relationship break up. I am now looking for new SBs but I doubt I will find a better match.

Well, here we go, the last thing I expected when joining SA was that emotions would get into my way.
The issues I had with escorting (typically very cold, impersonal experiences) turned into their opposite when using SA.
BTW, such beauty comes at a price which is much higher than a typical escort meet.


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Having used AW for years and SA for two months now, SA is a hunner times better  :thumbsup:

The only way you fail on SA is if you’re dog ugly with no patter and the social skills of a feckin moron. Blunt, but true.

So if the OP and others on here are having nae luck on SA, then you need to up your game. And if not, do the rest of us a favour and go back to buying your fanny. Leaves more poontang for us with the necessary skills to be a raging sex god on SA, like me  :yahoo:

Nah don't encourage them. Less competition is better for the rest of us!  :D

Offline NightKid

Nah don't encourage them. Less competition is better for the rest of us!  :D

Yeah, it's the absolute worst!  :lol:

Offline Space Invader

TBH - I was going to comment - but lost the will to live half way through !!