I signed up to SA in October. It takes a bit experience, intuition and common sense but after two weeks I had my first and so far only get to know meet.
- I avoided girls in their early twenties and below as it takes some maturity to establish a mutual arrangement that this age group may be lacking.
- I avoided girls that were to explicit, had drug faces or stated things like 'I wanna be showered with gifts"...or "I have some friend who would like to join the meet" (is the later girl going to be discreet? hardly!) .
It took a bit of courtship (which I enjoyed) but in the end I found a girl who was quite selective and the get-to-know meet felt like a real date.
Her profile just stood out. I trusted her instantly. She was very beautiful, natural, genuine, authentic, trustworthy, highly intelligent and gifted and I did enjoy the conversations with her as much if not even more than the intemacy. I met her about 10 times. The problem was that the lines between an arrangement and a real relationship got blurred. For me of course, not the girl. She was very private and discreet, she knew everything about me but I did not know much about her life, not her real name, not even real first name (in that sense the experience was alsmost as one-sided as seeing an escort).
We met about once a month for 2-4 hours. The hours with her felt really great, genuine, familiar - like a real relationship but once she had gone she left a void behind. For some people looking for simply a shag once in a while this may just be the ideal arrangement. But I could not deal with it.
I also realised that she did this more or less for a living to have time for her real passion in life while still leading a comfortable life. The thought of sharing her with other SDs made me slightly jealous. I realised it was time to stop.
I am no longer seeing her and the separation felt like a real relationship break up. I am now looking for new SBs but I doubt I will find a better match.
Well, here we go, the last thing I expected when joining SA was that emotions would get into my way.
The issues I had with escorting (typically very cold, impersonal experiences) turned into their opposite when using SA.
BTW, such beauty comes at a price which is much higher than a typical escort meet.